Venting "You're not putting yourself out there"

[electricSon90]

I always hated hearing this. On the contrary, I've been to a lot of places, even the ones where supposedly you can meet nerdy women, like bookstores and whatnot. I think you're doing all you can by going to places, but because you're an uggo, nothing happens. I've tried to initiate conversations way back then but always got the same reaction: coldness and indifference. Nowadays, I don't even bother anymore.

 

[Animecel2D]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

 

[Paizuricel]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

 

[Xul]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

 

[good]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I don't even bother anymore.

 

[tedkwasasaint]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

 

[anotherwastedlife]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

 

[SewerGoat]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

 

[Uninvited]

It is literaaly pointless, women will approach attractive men and ignore the rest.
"Approaching" is just vmbeing a Jester

 

[Dr. Brug]

Jester behavior. If youre good looking you just have to exist

 

[Neurotic]

You shouldn’t have to put yourself out there. You either got it or you don’t

 

[RandomGuy]

You either got it or you don’t

 

[HATSVNEMIKV]

it's total boomer advice though, is it not? people used to be socially receptive up until kind of recently.
what i find so raped about it is that you never see anyone else putting themselves out there. nobody approaches you, nobody wants to be your friend, nobody wants to get to know you, and when you do finally put yourself out there, you realize nobody really wants you to get to know them.

 

[Neurotic]

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[Jeffery Epstein]

When all you get is negativity and rejection every time you do it, it makes it hard to do it again. People don't touch a hot stove after being burnt for a reason.

 

[SSuzumiya]

YES. I fucking that hate that stupid piece of advice! Fucking everyone tells me that bullshit. Meanwhile any one else doesn't have to "put themselves out there" but I DO. YOU have to do, YOU have to do that. I'm fucking sick of it.

 

[TooSomething]

I always hated hearing this. On the contrary, I've been to a lot of places, even the ones where supposedly you can meet nerdy women, like bookstores and whatnot. I think you're doing all you can by going to places, but because you're an uggo, nothing happens. I've tried to initiate conversations way back then but always got the same reaction: coldness and indifference. Nowadays, I don't even bother anymore.

It is very simple. Go to any place where young people go to look for dates / partners and carefully observe how foids react to the different types of men who approach them.

Even if men won't approach them, you will see how foids will always geavitate towards the good looking tall guys.

Yes, I said that.

BUT, you have to be good looking. Also, the worse you are dressed, the better you have to look to counter that.

You can especially see a lot of that shit in big malls. All the moggers go there.

What has surprised me in the big shopping centers for clothing is that most people there look at least above average.

It's like the sub5's don't even bother anymore because they know that no matter how well they dress, it won't make them magically grow a few inches and or get a Chad face.

 

[electricSon90]

It is very simple. Go to any place where young people go to look for dates / partners and carefully observe how foids react to the different types of men who approach them.

Even if men won't approach them, you will see how foids will always geavitate towards the good looking tall guys.

Yes, I said that.

BUT, you have to be good looking. Also, the worse you are dressed, the better you have to look to counter that.

You can especially see a lot of that shit in big malls. All the moggers go there.

What has surprised me in the big shopping centers for clothing is that most people there look at least above average.

It's like the sub5's don't even bother anymore because they know that no matter how well they dress, it won't make them magically grow a few inches and or get a Chad face.

You're not wrong about this. Its why I've given up. You don't need to do any approaching if women find you attractive. My face doesn't do me any favors, and yet I'm constantly told to just approach by people who look better than me. They tell me it's easy but they didn't get their girlfriends by approaching. In the end, sub 5s will just continue to realize it's over for them and just dropout of society.

 

[Caichan]

Putting yourself out there=exposing yourself for ridicule and harm. I haven’t asked out a foid in years and never will unless I think I’m looking better

 

[ogercel]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless

Jester behavior. If youre good looking you just have to exist

You shouldn’t have to put yourself out there. You either got it or you don’t

I fucking that hate that stupid piece of advice!

Its why I've given up.

 

[The Judge]

"Putting yourself out there" only matters if women actually want to interact with you in the first place.

 

[Zionist]

initiate conversations way back then but always got the same reaction: coldness and indifference. Nowadays, I don't even bother anymore.

That's the way things go, if ur ugly u better not show up to any events

 

[Mr Producer]

Jester behavior. If youre good looking you just have to exist

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I did that at some point, it actually reinforced my blackpill convictions

 

[Morbilius]

Putting yourself out there for what? More rejection and humiliation? It’s so pointless