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If you are ugly then your friends won't even care for you.
I learnt it hard way.
My only friends are childhood friends and they are quite comfortable with my inceldom
You're very annoying, man.
for me it would be like brother we still ''invited'' you out with the ''you can come IF YOU WANT''
so aka we don't want you there but we feel bad talking about meeting up last min so we need to invite hoping you say no kek
aka last minute and when I joined the group phone call they ask me why I joined like we're not in the same gc
@Leon98 you are a bully, you don't belong here. Absolute filth of a user
it's brutal that it has to be this way unfortunately
for real, similar experience with me, they invite you out afterwards dumb you
I was in the gc while they were making plans which they excluded me out of and than talking about meeting up called and asked me why I was on the video call
and than sent videos of them having fun to gc knowing I am there I'm quite literally invisible. They wouldn't care if I left or roped
both wtv works for you
it's best to start one by one in my experience and than hopefully they'll introduce you to others
But if not Churchmax approach people shake their hand ask them for their name etc have a convo with them and move on
You can do groups but I wouldn't necessarily recommend if you are alr ugly they will probably be offended and think that you're interrupting their conversations but typically they won't be that angry and that's usually social anxiety but you have to be aware of that
so imo start one by one but if you can do groups that's also great
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You don’t know anything about me you fucking rude faggot kys. I hope you get shot.
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Two newfags think they can lecture me absolutely hilarious. Both of you kys
keep bumping my thread good boy
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Also it’s hilarious how you’re taking shots at me while hiding behind the ignore button you absolute cowardly retard
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You're nothing but a fool, kill yourself, you disgusting black man.
I've tried to do similar in the past, I had planned out my method of how I was going to assimilate into the group but it didn't end up being effective.
Long story short I would try and get close as possible with this guy there my age and talk with him via messages, then go to the youth group and stay next to him, and eventually make my way into groups and conversations but with him there so I technically wouldn't be an outsider.
But yea it didn't go to plan, as at the youth group, he kind of just left me sitting there by myself the whole time talking to the pastor. Then whenever I tried to move into their circles they just wouldn't let me. There wasn't even enough room or they would intentionally ignore me.
So what I've learnt from that is everyone is so closed off after they have formed their own group, in which they have sealed it for years. I have known all of them since birth yet I am treated poorly. Since we were younger they would always shun me due to my ND behaviour and mannerisms, and that is how they still view me too.
So making the friends in this exact church group now is near impossible, and would probably be best if I were to give up on that. Unless at christmas time I go to the christmas camps and try to assimilate into groups with new people.
But I am not only doing this for friends, it's also for finding a future wife too - as she would be in these circles. It just sucks how everyone is so closed off.
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Amazing that you think I’m a nig Moron
yeah it sucks I can relate this is what happened to me when I went to an Evangelical Church, which is basically just a social group of a concert and a TED talk
I've tried to do similar in the past, I had planned out my method of how I was going to assimilate into the group but it didn't end up being effective.
Long story short I would try and get close as possible with this guy there my age and talk with him via messages, then go to the youth group and stay next to him, and eventually make my way into groups and conversations but with him there so I technically wouldn't be an outsider.
But yea it didn't go to plan, as at the youth group, he kind of just left me sitting there by myself the whole time talking to the pastor. Then whenever I tried to move into their circles they just wouldn't let me. There wasn't even enough room or they would intentionally ignore me.
So what I've learnt from that is everyone is so closed off after they have formed their own group, in which they have sealed it for years. I have known all of them since birth yet I am treated poorly. Since we were younger they would always shun me due to my ND behaviour and mannerisms, and that is how they still view me too.
So making the friends in this exact church group now is near impossible, and would probably be best if I were to give up on that. Unless at christmas time I go to the christmas camps and try to assimilate into groups with new people.
But I am not only doing this for friends, it's also for finding a future wife too - as she would be in these circles. It just sucks how everyone is so closed off.
At least I feel wanted at my Pentecostal church and I really love my pastor. He says I'm not really part of the church because I haven't been going there in the past six months and I kind of just stopped attending. I still attend regularly but in and out
But at least I'm wanted there and the people like me there but my pastor is a little bit butthurt because I left the church
But this is why you need to go and check out other churches, brother. You need to check out a bit of traditional churches
I've really fallen in love with the Orthodox faith and the people there and their teachings and how they truly have the fruits of the Spirit and how they just treat me like a brother. It's just so welcoming
I am still faith over works at the current moment but you notice when a church does preach works, like the Catholic Church or the Orthodox Church. It's funny because they are better people not because they're trying to be but they generally are. They reflect the love of Christ, actually treating you as decent human beings.
I've tried to do similar in the past, I had planned out my method of how I was going to assimilate into the group but it didn't end up being effective.
Long story short I would try and get close as possible with this guy there my age and talk with him via messages, then go to the youth group and stay next to him, and eventually make my way into groups and conversations but with him there so I technically wouldn't be an outsider.
But yea it didn't go to plan, as at the youth group, he kind of just left me sitting there by myself the whole time talking to the pastor. Then whenever I tried to move into their circles they just wouldn't let me. There wasn't even enough room or they would intentionally ignore me.
So what I've learnt from that is everyone is so closed off after they have formed their own group, in which they have sealed it for years. I have known all of them since birth yet I am treated poorly. Since we were younger they would always shun me due to my ND behaviour and mannerisms, and that is how they still view me too.
So making the friends in this exact church group now is near impossible, and would probably be best if I were to give up on that. Unless at christmas time I go to the christmas camps and try to assimilate into groups with new people.
But I am not only doing this for friends, it's also for finding a future wife too - as she would be in these circles. It just sucks how everyone is so closed off.
And that's because they have Christ's repentance. You see, the Protestants, because we don't have confession, we don't have symbolism around repentance. When you go to a Ted talk on a Sunday, it's all about you and it's all about how God can do work in your life. It should be the complete opposite. We should be surrendering and living our life for Christ but you don't get that in the Protestant church
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I am a Pentecostal Assembly of God member; works don't save anyone, works complement what saves us.
Already made a thread on this.
Chad doesn't understand the Gospel
So I came across this video by Chad the other day And this is my problem with works based salvation. They don't understand that once you're saved. You're always saved. But furthermore than that, even the scriptures that they use they're not knowledgeable on what it means So people like this...
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that being said at this current moment I'm more of a spiritual gypsy and I've just really been falling in love with the traditional churches and the church history
What bothers me is that the praise songs only exalt the human ego; there's a lack of worship of Christ. The theology is also weak. I'm thinking of going to a Reformed church.Already made a thread on this.
both me and @Sir Silentium are both Pentecostal Christians and have Pentecostal theologyChad doesn't understand the Gospel
So I came across this video by Chad the other day And this is my problem with works based salvation. They don't understand that once you're saved. You're always saved. But furthermore than that, even the scriptures that they use they're not knowledgeable on what it means So people like this...
that being said at this current moment I'm more of a spiritual gypsy and I've just really been falling in love with the traditional churches and the church history
yeah I've been checking out other church's
Myself I'm not quite interested in the statistics of looking them up so correct me if I'm wrong.
I believe the statistics on Pentecostal churches are that they have the highest number of converts but also the highest number of people leaving, I feel like Pentecostalism is an entry-level theology church where, yes, when you get saved you are more likely to be a Pentecostal but it's also the church with more leavers because it's a very charismatic church
With that being said I think spiritually stronger people are at more traditional churches
What bothers me is that the praise songs only exalt the human ego; there's a lack of worship of Christ. The theology is also weak. I'm thinking of going to a Reformed church.Already made a thread on this.
both me and @Sir Silentium are both Pentecostal Christians and have Pentecostal theologyChad doesn't understand the Gospel
So I came across this video by Chad the other day And this is my problem with works based salvation. They don't understand that once you're saved. You're always saved. But furthermore than that, even the scriptures that they use they're not knowledgeable on what it means So people like this...
that being said at this current moment I'm more of a spiritual gypsy and I've just really been falling in love with the traditional churches and the church history
Yes, exactly. I really like the Baptist and Presbyterian churches; they explain the biblical text better. The assembly doesn't do that, and the worship songs are different.
I would go to a Baptist church and be interested in going to a Baptist church. The problem is that one of the friends I reached out to hang out with didn't message me back. I don't wanna go there because it might feel like I'm stalking him or harassing him. It's awkward because I messaged him to hang out but he never replied back to me so if I visit his church it's gonna be awkward.
Yes, it looks incredibly strange. You can change the temple, just don't give up on Christ. I'm going through a difficult period in the church; I don't have the strength to attend communion. Sin is the worst misfortune in a Christian's life; we must fight against Satan and sin.
You should be attending communion every single week if you can. That's what I love about the Orthodox faith because I don't feel truly redeemed if I don't even have the blessed bread and the wine.
Sin has destroyed my heart and mind. I will ask God for strength to return home. Like the prodigal son, I cannot partake in Holy Communion.
that's false bro take part in the body and blood of Christ
Are you crazy? I can't partake in communion; it will bring condemnation upon me. The Bible says that we must examine ourselves.
Good you should be in a constant state of repentance
The life of a true Christian is to carry their cross and deny themselves every day, and it is quite difficult, but Christ will strengthen me and all of us Christians who love His glorious coming.
What are churches like in your country? I've always wanted to go to the United States, but I don't know how, and even if I went, I wouldn't understand anything. I don't speak English. In South Korea, there's the largest church in the world, it seems to have 800,000 members. Correct me if I'm wrong.
I am in the uk and they good yeah
Unfortunately, my country is very promiscuous and disgusting. The city doesn't have the bare minimum for Brazilians to survive; it's a hellish place with a lack of education, noise, fights, crimes, and adultery. I hate my country; organized crime has taken over everything.
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