Venting I've been socially replaced

[Lo3e]

This is brutal for me to even write because it's just acknowledging that my friends don't care about me anymore

inb4 muh you have friends you moga me, trust me it's not that great they treat me like an outcast

I met them in college and I've been friends with them ever since. They were good but I don't know. I think I was just always autistic and ugly for them to even resonate with me. I used to be really close especially with one of the guys was like a brother. I met him and through other people I met others, which I'm still grateful for but yeah

Me and this guy basically met in college and we wouldn't spend a minute apart from each other we would always be at church together or we would be around each other's houses
Once I left college and once this guy left our church, he basically just forgot about me. The only reason why I'm still in a group chat, which is a new group chat, is because he found a new friend. I'm still in this new group chat just because my other friend wanted me in here but even just right now

They make plans in the group chat without including me

And it's brutal because even a few minutes ago they called the group chat and I just sat there smiling and laughing because we never really do that and my friend was on the bus
And he only called the group chat to call the other two people to ask about the church event whilst I was there
and he even said himself ''why is Lo3e here''

Which was brutal because it's like he didn't even acknowledge that I was in the group chat. I mean I stopped typing and chatting there and that's the main reason why I stopped going to that church, along with just hating the people there because they're way too normie and nt for me

But he's ditched me before. I remember once I was just trying to do a nice thing, holding the door for everyone going out and of course no one thanked me. They were just happy that I was some sort of slave so I could open the door for them. I was just doing a kind act and they saw me and they just went off home. It was brutal seeing that because it's like wow these guys didn't even flipping care

It was only my other friend that invited me out but they were already meeting up and it's a last-minute invite. I'm not going to take a last-minute invite as a reason to hang out. They were saying, "Lo3e, do you want to come?" and I was like, "To what?" There was no reply. They didn't even answer. It was just like a void invite.

There was no reply to what I was invited to they were just automatically assuming I would say no

I was invited again and I asked them, "What am I getting invited to?" because I know they have some other social events that I just stopped replying to the group chat because I never feel like they really want to hang out with

But yeah they were meeting up with their other new friend that they met last year, which is basically my replacement unfortunately and I said if you're meeting him I don't really want to go and it was a last-minute invite. They didn't really consider inviting me when

they first originally decided to

It's just proof when one of them decided to call the group chat. They didn't even consider I would pick up the phone call. They were just asking why I joined the phone and it's just brutal because it's like you're not even wanted in the group chat that you're in
And now they're all going to meet up without me! It's pretty brutal ​

 

[Takuji Mamiya]

core incel experience. Core autist experience in general tbh. I was never in any group chat, I wasn’t even invited in the first place. Just ditch them and accept isolation imho.

 

[cursed]

they act like girls.
find another group.

I was never in any group chat, I wasn’t even invited in the first place. Just ditch them and accept isolation imho.

 

[Lo3e]

they act like girls.
find another group.

I still interact with them and I'm still social since I don't really have anyone else.

And I still do get invited and I still do see them at church but it's like you just know you're not wanted

core incel experience. Core autist experience in general tbh. I was never in any group chat, I wasn’t even invited in the first place. Just ditch them and accept isolation imho.

same tbh this is why I am I'm grateful for the people I have right now

even if they suck

 

[Vinícius truecel]

core incel experience. Core autist experience in general tbh. I was never in any group chat, I wasn’t even invited in the first place. Just ditch them and accept isolation imho.

It's not worth having friends; they'll find out about your autism and quickly exclude and humiliate you.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

I still interact with them and I'm still social since I don't really have anyone else.

And I still do get invited and I still do see them at church but it's like you just know you're not wanted

same tbh this is why I am I'm grateful for the people I have right now

even if they suck

I have no friends, none of that matters, I'm completely alone.

 

[Lo3e]

I have no friends, none of that matters, I'm completely alone.

brutal

It's not worth having friends; they'll find out about your autism and quickly exclude and humiliate you.

I would personally disagree since there are people that you connect and click with

Maybe I'm just optimistic but people have treated me well in the past. It's just that they don't stick around

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

No one ever cared about me, parents included.

 

[cursed]

I'm grateful for the people I have right now

so stick with them. just know that you are not wanted. maybe be the one to invite the others first the guy that sets up stuff?
try to revert your situation.

 

[Takuji Mamiya]

same tbh this is why I am I'm grateful for the people I have right now

even if they suck

It will not always be like this. Savour it.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

brutal

I would personally disagree since there are people that you connect and click with

Maybe I'm just optimistic but people have treated me well in the past. It's just that they don't stick around

I don't connect with anyone, to be honest, nobody ever wanted to be my friend, you humiliate me.

 

[Takuji Mamiya]

It's not worth having friends; they'll find out about your autism and quickly exclude and humiliate you.

Yep. As soon as they find out it’s over.

 

[Sir Silentium]

Brutal read my friend, I can relate to all the scenarios.

I've tried to make friends with the people in my church that I have known since birth, but they want nothing to do with me as I have always been viewed as the outsider that sits by himself after the meeting ends or stares at the wall in the tea room. They all have group chats that I have asked to join but said no. I know now they talk about me behind their back being negative even though i've never done anything to them. So I have given up on making friends in the fellowship.

This lead to isolation for years until I stumbled across Masters forums.

All my friends are on .is, but unfortunately, they've eventually stop logging in or get banned. It's pretty brutal to know that everyone is moving forwards in their life too yet you are still in the same position as any other year.

 

[nico]

we are treated like the cucks of groupchat.
just sitting there and watching without any participation whatsoever.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

Sim. Assim que eles descobrirem que acabou.

we are treated like the cucks of groupchat.
just sitting there and watching without any participation whatsoever.

exactly

 

[Vinícius truecel]

Brutal read my friend, I can relate to all the scenarios.

I've tried to make friends with the people in my church that I have known since birth, but they want nothing to do with me as I have always been viewed as the outsider that sits by himself after the meeting ends or stares at the wall in the tea room. They all have group chats that I have asked to join but said no. I know now they talk about me behind their back being negative even though i've never done anything to them. So I have given up on making friends in the fellowship.

This lead to isolation for years until I stumbled across Masters forums.

All my friends are on .is, but unfortunately, they've eventually stop logging in or get banned. It's pretty brutal to know that everyone is moving forwards in their life too yet you are still in the same position as any other year.

This will change, but it's temporary. My church is also difficult; I can't fit in. Most of the people are single mothers who already have families, and not many young women go to church.

 

[wereq]

The actual situation is far worse. Subhumans have been cleansed, like ethnic cleansing. We've been wiped out from public spaces like bars, restaurants, and clubs were people socialize. We've been systematically erased through bullying, ostracization, and marginalization, and forced into self-imposed confinement in our homes because the outer world has become too lookist, gentrified, glamorous, elitist, and eugenicist for us and we are no longer tolerated or welcomed.

 

[Lo3e]

Brutal read my friend, I can relate to all the scenarios.

I've tried to make friends with the people in my church that I have known since birth, but they want nothing to do with me as I have always been viewed as the outsider that sits by himself after the meeting ends or stares at the wall in the tea room. They all have group chats that I have asked to join but said no. I know now they talk about me behind their back being negative even though i've never done anything to them. So I have given up on making friends in the fellowship.

This lead to isolation for years until I stumbled across Masters forums.

All my friends are on .is, but unfortunately, they've eventually stop logging in or get banned. It's pretty brutal to know that everyone is moving forwards in their life too yet you are still in the same position as any other year.

trvth I can also relate to this experience, to be honest

 

[Lo3e]

The actual situation is far worse. Subhumans have been cleansed, like ethnic cleansing. We've been wiped out from public spaces like bars, restaurants, and clubs were people socialize. We've been systematically erased through bullying, ostracization, and marginalization, and forced into self-imposed confinement in our homes because the outer world has become too gentrified, glamorous, and eugenicist for us and we are no longer tolerated or welcomed.

We are invisible, and then when they actually see us, they hate us.

 

[Lo3e]

This will change, but it's temporary. My church is also difficult; I can't fit in. Most of the people are single mothers who already have families, and not many young women go to church.

this is why I changed Church's go where you feel welcomed. don't try to fit in

 

[wereq]

We are invisible, and then when they actually see us, they hate us.

They despise us. They want us erased from existence. They want us to be genocided.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

this is why I changed Church's go where you feel welcomed. don't try to fit in

Yes, it's true, my situation is difficult. I don't feel welcome anywhere at all. Maybe my life will be spent isolated at home and then found dead because of a bad smell.

 

[Lo3e]

They despise us. They want us erased from existence. They want us to be genocided.

 

[Lo3e]

Yes, it's true, my situation is difficult. I don't feel welcome anywhere at all. Maybe my life will be spent isolated at home and then found dead because of a bad smell.

you won't but at least going to a church with older people they are kinder imo

 

[Lo3e]

we are treated like the cucks of groupchat.
just sitting there and watching without any participation whatsoever.

cucks of the social group

how you going to make plans right Infront of me

quite literally invisible

 

[Vinícius truecel]

you won't but at least going to a church with older people they are kinder imo

Yes, there are many nice old men and women. Unfortunately, it's been a while since I've been to church; I need to start going again.

 

[Sir Silentium]

trvth I can also relate to this experience, to be honest

I'm happy you have real life friends Lo3e, from places other than .is, especially in your church fellowship - although I don't think time would be best spent with them. They seem in vain if that makes sense. One sided in their already pre-formed group. You may as well ignore them.

But church hopping does seem good, pentecostal churches?

 

[Lo3e]

It will not always be like this. Savour it.

 

[Sir Silentium]

This will change, but it's temporary. My church is also difficult; I can't fit in. Most of the people are single mothers who already have families, and not many young women go to church.

I sure hope it changes.

Are you also looking for a female in your church?

 

[Lo3e]

I'm happy you have real life friends Lo3e, from places other than .is, especially in your church fellowship - although I don't think time would be best spent with them. They seem in vain if that makes sense. One sided in their already pre-formed group. You may as well ignore them.

But church hopping does seem good, pentecostal churches?

I've been to all sorts of denominations and traditional churches.

but thanks brocel

 

[Sir Silentium]

I've been to all sorts of denominations and traditional churches.

but thanks brocel

Are you still actively trying to make the new friends? Or given up on the matter

 

[cursed]

Throwing my idea out there: create a church related Minecraft server?
or bible study group?
I'm not a churchgoer but i was once invited by a guy i used to work with to a men only club of his church. they made food and organized a little celebration, they told stories and laughed together sharing their struggles and the reason why they come around to the word of big JC.

this men only activity used to happen every other week.

You could just try and get involved at your church more maybe?

the above are just throwing shit at the wall, maybe its something you could perhaps find useful.
anyways don't forcefully isolate yourself if you didn't go down all the avenues yet.

 

[Lo3e]

Are you still actively trying to make the new friends? Or given up on the matter

ofc I do still have other friends which are kind

 

[Lo3e]

Throwing my idea out there: create a church related Minecraft server?
or bible study group?
I'm not a churchgoer but i was once invited by a guy i used to work with to a men only club of his church. they made food and organized a little celebration, they told stories and laughed together sharing their struggles and the reason why they come around to the word of big JC.

this men only activity used to happen every other week.

You could just try and get involved at your church more maybe?

the above are just throwing shit at the wall, maybe its something you could perhaps find useful.
anyways don't forcefully isolate yourself if you didn't go down all the avenues yet.

I am part of a men group alr but thanks brocel

 

[Lo3e]

Yes, there are many nice old men and women. Unfortunately, it's been a while since I've been to church; I need to start going again.

yes bro it's super important that you attend church

 

[Vinícius truecel]

I sure hope it changes.

Are you also looking for a female in your church?

I had hope but I've completely given up. I'll never get a wife, and I don't go to church looking for women or to worship God.

 

[Lo3e]

No one ever cared about me, parents included.

brutal

 

[Lo3e]

I had hope but I've completely given up. I'll never get a wife, and I don't go to church looking for women or to worship God.

same I think originally I was a spiritual gypsy to find woman but that ship has sailed

Looking for a place where I can worship God and be welcomed in

 

[Vinícius truecel]

yes bro it's super important that you attend church

Yes, I am weak and tired in faith. I am having a problem with pornography; it is making my mind and spirit sick.

 

[Lo3e]

to worship God.

I think, though, every man should prioritize going to church no matter what state or where you are. You should always prioritize going to church no matter the circumstances. We are going there to meet the creator of the universe and worship him.

 

[Lo3e]

Yes, I am weak and tired in faith. I am having a problem with pornography; it is making my mind and spirit sick.

pray brother I'll pray for you

 

[Sir Silentium]

ofc I do still have other friends which are kind

Ah that's good to hear, are they in real life? From church fellowship? Or the college?

 

[Vinícius truecel]

I think, though, every man should prioritize going to church no matter what state or where you are. You should always prioritize going to church no matter the circumstances. We are going there to meet the creator of the universe and worship him.

You don't understand, I don't go to church because I don't want to. I don't have the strength to go. I failed as a Christian and I failed Jesus. I'm a failure, man, it really hurts my heart.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

I'm going to prioritize prayer and reading the Bible; if nothing else works, I'll break my cell phone.

pray brother I'll pray for you

 

[Lo3e]

Ah that's good to hear, are they in real life? From church fellowship? Or the college?

yes met them from church

I wasn't quite descriptive in my post since it was quite fresh and I just wanted to get it off my chest

But the friend I mentioned in the thread was a blackcel who I met in college it's funny how he wants nothing to do with me when he's the one that baptized me and brought me to faith but now he just acts as if I'm invisible and almost forgets about me

It's almost heartless but I could never be bitter at him, even from a Biblical standpoint. I've made my bed with that; I've made my peace with it. I truly have forgiven him and I truly forgave everyone, no matter what the cause is. Biblically speaking it's the correct thing to do but also I've made my peace with that

I could never even be bitter at him because if it wasn't for Christ and him, I wouldn't have the social life I have and I wouldn't have met the people I have

I would probs LDAR on forums all day 24/7 at least I have an active Christian community in my life which I thank God for every day. I'm so grateful. It's a real blessing

 

[Sir Silentium]

I had hope but I've completely given up. I'll never get a wife, and I don't go to church looking for women or to worship God.

Do you mean you go to church to worship God? Amen

 

[Lo3e]

I'm going to prioritize prayer and reading the Bible; if nothing else works, I'll break my cell phone.

don't do that but Focus on Christ yes amen

If you're really struggling with technology then get a Nokia brick/dumb phone

 

[Lo3e]

You don't understand, I don't go to church because I don't want to. I don't have the strength to go. I failed as a Christian and I failed Jesus. I'm a failure, man, it really hurts my heart.

You might be a failure to soyciety but you're not a failure to Christ.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

Do you mean you go to church to worship God? Amen

Do you mean you go to church to worship God? Amen

Yes, obviously. I didn't understand. You're not going for the same purpose? And the duty of every Christian.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

Do you mean you go to church to worship God? Amen

don't do that but Focus on Christ yes amen

If you're really struggling with technology then get a Nokia brick/dumb phone

I am a failure at everything. Christ is ashamed and disgusted by me for always masturbating and watching pornography. I pray, and then I fail again. It's no use. Paul says that we should not sin in any way.