When women and bluepillers make this statement, they are implying that SEX isn't most important in long-term relationships. Don't let them obfuscate this.
They are NOT saying that things other than looks create SEXUAL ATTRACTION. Obviously they don't. If they did, those things would be just as important for hookups as they are for long-term relationships.
The very reason they specify long-term relationships is they have this simple-minded belief that a "happy" relationship is about more than just sex, and therefore even if there isn't much sex going on, you can still be in a "happy relationship."
You can't.
If there's no sex, the long-term relationship is not good.
A lack of sex is what causes all of the other problems. It's the reason for the arguments. It's the reason the other partner isn't doing whatever chores they're allegedly supposed to be doing.
After all, if you were sexually attracted to a person, would you demand that they EARN sex by doing other crap? You would only be punishing yourself.
Even if you would, wouldn't the other person, who is sexually attracted to you, be motivated in that case?
Imagine if Stacy walked up to you and said she'll have sex with you if you take out the trash. Can you imagine going, "nah?"
Furthermore, these women and bluepillers are fantasizing about some idyllic "friendship" where when you're not having sex, you're doing all kinds of fun things together and having these interesting, rewarding conversations.
That's not what the non-sexual parts of long-term relationships are.
In reality, for most people, they don't see each other most of the weekdays because they're busy working. They also spend several hours sleeping. That doesn't leave a lot of time. What do they do in their waking hours when they're not working or sleeping?
It sure as shit isn't a lot of fun things.
It's coordinating the grudge work for maintaining your boring normie life. Did we receive our 1099 form for our income taxes yet? When are we going to call someone to repair the garbage disposal? Who is driving our kid to soccer practice?
There's nothing "happy" or "rewarding" about that.
At this point, most people stay together for the kids, assuming they have them. They attempt to find something rewarding in that, since their marriage is not rewarding.
Women and bluepillers simply live in a fantasy land.
They are NOT saying that things other than looks create SEXUAL ATTRACTION. Obviously they don't. If they did, those things would be just as important for hookups as they are for long-term relationships.
The very reason they specify long-term relationships is they have this simple-minded belief that a "happy" relationship is about more than just sex, and therefore even if there isn't much sex going on, you can still be in a "happy relationship."
You can't.
If there's no sex, the long-term relationship is not good.
A lack of sex is what causes all of the other problems. It's the reason for the arguments. It's the reason the other partner isn't doing whatever chores they're allegedly supposed to be doing.
After all, if you were sexually attracted to a person, would you demand that they EARN sex by doing other crap? You would only be punishing yourself.
Even if you would, wouldn't the other person, who is sexually attracted to you, be motivated in that case?
Imagine if Stacy walked up to you and said she'll have sex with you if you take out the trash. Can you imagine going, "nah?"
Furthermore, these women and bluepillers are fantasizing about some idyllic "friendship" where when you're not having sex, you're doing all kinds of fun things together and having these interesting, rewarding conversations.
That's not what the non-sexual parts of long-term relationships are.
In reality, for most people, they don't see each other most of the weekdays because they're busy working. They also spend several hours sleeping. That doesn't leave a lot of time. What do they do in their waking hours when they're not working or sleeping?
It sure as shit isn't a lot of fun things.
It's coordinating the grudge work for maintaining your boring normie life. Did we receive our 1099 form for our income taxes yet? When are we going to call someone to repair the garbage disposal? Who is driving our kid to soccer practice?
There's nothing "happy" or "rewarding" about that.
At this point, most people stay together for the kids, assuming they have them. They attempt to find something rewarding in that, since their marriage is not rewarding.
Women and bluepillers simply live in a fantasy land.
