First off, people vastly overestimate how wonderful it is to be Chad. This does not even need to be proven. It is built into the structure of our group. None of us is Chad. We see chads portrayed as blissful all the time. And we hang out together (echo chamber). The result is inevitable.
Second, although people generally deny it, a majority of Incels still somehow dream that a miracle could turn them into Chads. This is the root of the old PUAmaxxing cope and all its derivatives, heightmaxxing, surgerymaxxing, gymmaxxing, etc. The usual denial strategy about all this is that we do not do it to be Chad but just to be accepted into society better. Yeah right.
Third, we transform our Chad-aspiration that does not want to die into a "I am superior to all normalfags" cope. At this point, it generally becomes unconscious. We still burn with the desire to be Chad and yet we are absolutely convinced that we are totally divorced from the normie mindset in our splendid isolation and self-sufficiency.
This third level of cope appears in sentences like "It is unfair that Chad gets all the pussy for free, while I have to pay for a hooker". No, it is not unfair. It is just nature. For all mammals it is like that. The alpha gets all the pussy while others get nothing. One may object that nature is "unfair". But if you push the meaning of this word that far, it stops making sense. Against whom are you rebelling? God? Most of us do not believe anyway ...
The absurdity of our rebellion against a non-existing God reveals that we are stuck. We can't let go of our desire to be Chad and yet we have fully realized that it will never happen. Result: never-ending misery.
This misery then manifests in two possible ways:
- Suffer-in-silence type: LDAR, make a few threads on .is, then disappear or rope, like the late GeneticTrashLoser
- Turn your anger towards other Incels and become an obnoxious Ersatz Chad on this forum or elsewhere.
This last cope is the most ridiculous type that our subhuman-kind has come up with. We are truly in Hell when we reach that stage. We are at the bottom of the pile and yet we are still finding a way to prey on each other. For more on this see this thread:
We have all been bullied, generally by Chad Now, on this forum and elsewhere, we have to endure being bullied by Ersatz Chads. Some of us, who cannot be Chads irl any more than the rest of us, still crave to be Chads. They take advantage of the vulnerable state most of us are in to play Chads...
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It is particularly interesting in the responses. A number of Ersatz Chads had taken the bait and revealed themselves in all their pathetic glory.
The question now is: how do we move past all this? How do we truly lay our Chadness desire to rest for good? How do we emerge on the other side?
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