TeeHee “JUST JOIN CLUBS, BRO!” “JUST TALK TO PEOPLE, BRO!”

[Mango]

I tried doing this in university but, lo and behold, everyone there is in their own group of friends where they’ve known each other forever and have their own inside jokes and customs.

I could probably get a short conversation at best if I approached but they quickly get disinterested and just go back to their friend group so they continue talking amongst themselves. Like what is even the point of the club if everyone just breaks off into their own small groups and doesn’t talk amongst one another.

You also just come across as desperate or intrusive, like you’re some panhandler begging for companionship, so you can’t keep approaching people forever.

Anyone else went through this?

 

[basedbaumi]

I tried doing this in university but, lo and behold, everyone there is in their own group of friends where they’ve known each other forever and have their own inside jokes and customs.

I could probably get a short conversation at best if I approached but they quickly get disinterested and just go back to their friend group so they continue talking amongst themselves. Like what is even the point of the club if everyone just breaks off into their own small groups and doesn’t talk amongst one another.

You also just comes across as desperate or intrusive, like you’re some panhandler begging for companionship, so you can’t keep approaching people forever.

Anyone else went through this?

The "just talk to people" thing is the most annoying thing anyone could say.

its at NR.1 next to "youll find love someday"

 

[SupremeSaint]

It’s ovER if you never made/had any connections

 

[anon65]

I tried this and the club was full of fucking weirdos so I never showed up after the first meeting

 

[Roastie Crusher]

I'd say most incels lack the ability to give a shit about normie customs. Even some ND men can be into cultural movements. But increasingly post modernism has created divergent identities and value systems.

I could teach you how to brainwash foids but you'd had have to care about the problems of a dumb bitch. I think subconsciously we fear impregnating such filth.

 

[Animecel2D]

Yup, no reason at all for them to let me into their group. It’s like they just wanted me to piss off as soon as possible. Downright humiliating experience overall. This is just what you get for trying when you’re a sub5 man

 

[doomedschizocel]

Tried joining a club for mentally ill people, no luck connecting.

 

[outerdarkness]

There aren’t even any clubs or meetups or anything where I live.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Yes, I've tried many meetups/groups/etc...

Here's my experiences in a nutshell:

Outdoors/Hiking/Tennis/Sports Meetups - Good for meeting other men, but the women involved generally want nothing to do with men in general and especially not with you, and will sometimes sabotage the group to get rid of the ugly men there. The problem with the guys you make "friends" with, they fizzle out immediately since that's not what we're really there for. Especially if it's with older guys, which is what you'll usually find.

Nerdy Stuff like Tech workers/Gamers/PC building - Take the prior and apply it x10. Filled with lonely dudes willing to talk your head off autistically. If you're desperate to connect with anyone, go ahead. I made the mistake of joining a PC building one ran by a thin 4-5 "engaged" female. DON'T DO IT. Simp central, every guy there feeding her attention and acting like drooling dogs. I just walked out of that one after 10 minutes.

Speed date like stuff/Those Bar Games - Chad only. Don't bother unless you want suifuel or enjoy being a betabux cux deluxe burning money on females who don't care about you.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

We aren't socially isolated because we don't put ourselves out there and join clubs. We are socially isolated because nobody gives a shit about us. Most of us have tried joining clubs, churches and social groups. It never works because nobody is receptive to our social advances. We just get bullied and ignored.

 

[Wrath]

just get excluded over and over bro

 

[killedmycel]

The way to make friends is by already having friends

 

[Wolfstorm]

just get excluded over and over bro

 

[ItsOverMan]

I tried doing this in university but, lo and behold, everyone there is in their own group of friends where they’ve known each other forever and have their own inside jokes and customs.

I could probably get a short conversation at best if I approached but they quickly get disinterested and just go back to their friend group so they continue talking amongst themselves. Like what is even the point of the club if everyone just breaks off into their own small groups and doesn’t talk amongst one another.

You also just come across as desperate or intrusive, like you’re some panhandler begging for companionship, so you can’t keep approaching people forever.

Anyone else went through this?

Yeah I feel like after freshman year of college people have basically formed their "friend groups" and aren't very interested in making new friends unless you're extremely appealing or something.

I was way too high inhib, socially anxious, and intimidated to join clubs in college. The only extracurricular I did was I briefly joined this "club" to tutor local kids for the SAT, but one day while I was there I was having trouble helping a kid with a math problem and one of the college members looked at me like I was stupid for not knowing how to do the math problem, so I didn't go back after that.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I tried so hard
Didn't got far
In the end
Incel lives matter