That’s what they told me! “Just get off your ass and TALK TO WOMEN!”
Well over a hundred approaches later, all I have are humiliating memories that keep me up at night!
“What are you scared of? A little rejection?”
If you’re not an incel, you have no idea. Yeah, some of the rejections were nice, sure. But some of them were brutal. Women were rude to me. They humiliated me. They made me feel like a pathetic idiot. They mocked me. Sometimes they responded with abject hostility, basically called me a creep just for talking to them. Sometimes it got even worse. I’ve had the police called on me (yeah, literally, although thankfully they let me off with a warning), I’ve had women threaten to “report” me to the university, I’ve even gotten in fights.
Approach women on your university campus in the daytime, and you can expect many of them to be standoffish, rude, uptight, make you feel like a bumbling idiot, or a creep doing something wrong, and maybe they’ll even shame you online for the trouble (although thankfully that hasn’t happened yet). “Excuse me do I know you why are you talking to me?”
Approach women in bars, in nightclubs, or outside bars, or at college dorm parties, and they’ll be openly hostile and angry and extremely rude (“you’re too ugly to talk to me,” “fuck off,” literally, just for politely introducing myself). They’re drunk and nasty and rude and mean. Sometimes you’ll get a drink thrown in your face. Sometimes you’ll get in an actual fight. If you’re an incel, be prepared.
“What about meeting women in college classes or clubs?”
My STEM classes were male-dominated. I did ask out a handful women from those classes and got rejected (thankfully those rejections weren’t as humiliating as the others). I joined a couple of clubs, but the problem is that if you ask out another woman from the club every week, you’ll quickly become “the creep who joined the club just to hit on women.” So it’s only socially acceptable to ask out a small number of women every semester at any one club. Because I’m rejected like 99.9999%+ of the time, being part of a social club just doesn’t give you enough opportunities to ask out women. That’s why I gravitated towards cold approach on my campus, because it seemed like the best way to maximize my chances of finding a girl, because I could ask out multiple women a week or even A DAY instead of a handful a semester. That was my naive thinking, and maybe it would’ve worked for a 5/10 normie. But after 100+ (like over 150-200) approaches at this point, trying all kinds of different openers or even no opener at all, it just doesn’t work. Because I’m an incel. It’s never going to work.
“Just talk to women, bro!”
And get drinks thrown in your face, get in fights with people, be humiliated, be shamed online, have countless humiliating moments stuck in your memory forever that keep you up at night, hate women even more…and still have not a single date or phone number to show for it.
Well over a hundred approaches later, all I have are humiliating memories that keep me up at night!
“What are you scared of? A little rejection?”
If you’re not an incel, you have no idea. Yeah, some of the rejections were nice, sure. But some of them were brutal. Women were rude to me. They humiliated me. They made me feel like a pathetic idiot. They mocked me. Sometimes they responded with abject hostility, basically called me a creep just for talking to them. Sometimes it got even worse. I’ve had the police called on me (yeah, literally, although thankfully they let me off with a warning), I’ve had women threaten to “report” me to the university, I’ve even gotten in fights.
Approach women on your university campus in the daytime, and you can expect many of them to be standoffish, rude, uptight, make you feel like a bumbling idiot, or a creep doing something wrong, and maybe they’ll even shame you online for the trouble (although thankfully that hasn’t happened yet). “Excuse me do I know you why are you talking to me?”
Approach women in bars, in nightclubs, or outside bars, or at college dorm parties, and they’ll be openly hostile and angry and extremely rude (“you’re too ugly to talk to me,” “fuck off,” literally, just for politely introducing myself). They’re drunk and nasty and rude and mean. Sometimes you’ll get a drink thrown in your face. Sometimes you’ll get in an actual fight. If you’re an incel, be prepared.
“What about meeting women in college classes or clubs?”
My STEM classes were male-dominated. I did ask out a handful women from those classes and got rejected (thankfully those rejections weren’t as humiliating as the others). I joined a couple of clubs, but the problem is that if you ask out another woman from the club every week, you’ll quickly become “the creep who joined the club just to hit on women.” So it’s only socially acceptable to ask out a small number of women every semester at any one club. Because I’m rejected like 99.9999%+ of the time, being part of a social club just doesn’t give you enough opportunities to ask out women. That’s why I gravitated towards cold approach on my campus, because it seemed like the best way to maximize my chances of finding a girl, because I could ask out multiple women a week or even A DAY instead of a handful a semester. That was my naive thinking, and maybe it would’ve worked for a 5/10 normie. But after 100+ (like over 150-200) approaches at this point, trying all kinds of different openers or even no opener at all, it just doesn’t work. Because I’m an incel. It’s never going to work.
“Just talk to women, bro!”
And get drinks thrown in your face, get in fights with people, be humiliated, be shamed online, have countless humiliating moments stuck in your memory forever that keep you up at night, hate women even more…and still have not a single date or phone number to show for it.
