Just get off your ass and TALK TO WOMEN

[Rapistcel]

That’s what they told me! “Just get off your ass and TALK TO WOMEN!”

Well over a hundred approaches later, all I have are humiliating memories that keep me up at night!

“What are you scared of? A little rejection?”

If you’re not an incel, you have no idea. Yeah, some of the rejections were nice, sure. But some of them were brutal. Women were rude to me. They humiliated me. They made me feel like a pathetic idiot. They mocked me. Sometimes they responded with abject hostility, basically called me a creep just for talking to them. Sometimes it got even worse. I’ve had the police called on me (yeah, literally, although thankfully they let me off with a warning), I’ve had women threaten to “report” me to the university, I’ve even gotten in fights.

Approach women on your university campus in the daytime, and you can expect many of them to be standoffish, rude, uptight, make you feel like a bumbling idiot, or a creep doing something wrong, and maybe they’ll even shame you online for the trouble (although thankfully that hasn’t happened yet). “Excuse me do I know you why are you talking to me?”

Approach women in bars, in nightclubs, or outside bars, or at college dorm parties, and they’ll be openly hostile and angry and extremely rude (“you’re too ugly to talk to me,” “fuck off,” literally, just for politely introducing myself). They’re drunk and nasty and rude and mean. Sometimes you’ll get a drink thrown in your face. Sometimes you’ll get in an actual fight. If you’re an incel, be prepared.

“What about meeting women in college classes or clubs?”

My STEM classes were male-dominated. I did ask out a handful women from those classes and got rejected (thankfully those rejections weren’t as humiliating as the others). I joined a couple of clubs, but the problem is that if you ask out another woman from the club every week, you’ll quickly become “the creep who joined the club just to hit on women.” So it’s only socially acceptable to ask out a small number of women every semester at any one club. Because I’m rejected like 99.9999%+ of the time, being part of a social club just doesn’t give you enough opportunities to ask out women. That’s why I gravitated towards cold approach on my campus, because it seemed like the best way to maximize my chances of finding a girl, because I could ask out multiple women a week or even A DAY instead of a handful a semester. That was my naive thinking, and maybe it would’ve worked for a 5/10 normie. But after 100+ (like over 150-200) approaches at this point, trying all kinds of different openers or even no opener at all, it just doesn’t work. Because I’m an incel. It’s never going to work.

“Just talk to women, bro!”

And get drinks thrown in your face, get in fights with people, be humiliated, be shamed online, have countless humiliating moments stuck in your memory forever that keep you up at night, hate women even more…and still have not a single date or phone number to show for it.

"Just talk to women so they laugh at you or even put you in jail bro"

 

[mathgod]

Cold approaching leads to ignominious humiliation at best—criminal charges and social ostracization at worst; for any man who does not meet the absurd standards of physical appearance, it is nothing but a losing game, meant to destroy your mental health, and keep you chasing a dangling carrot. If you receive no IOIs, there is simply no point.

Exactly

 

[mathgod]

The truth is you have to have a functioning life to be able to achieve this.

But I’m in university pursuing a STEM degree

That is a functioning life

 

[flute_snoop]

Nope! I just would approach someone sitting in a student cafe or the cafeteria, ask “hey, you mind if I join you?” and then if they said okay, I’d sit down across from them, and then I’d do some opening (eg, “so let me guess, you’re studying [blank major]” or “so what’re you reading” etc)

One girl freaked out at me and called her boyfriend over to fight me just because I asked “so let me guess, you’re majoring in…[BLANK],” she then said “what the fuck, why are you talking to me? I said you could sit here to WORK, not to TALK to me,” left the table, and then texted her boyfriend to come intimidate me, and he came and grabbed me and pulled me out of the chair, and when I defended myself by pushing him away cops were called

Tbh, it doesn't make sense that you would be treated so poorly. If something doesn't make sense, there is usually details that are left out, maybe you're just not aware of it.

 

[CosmicSerialKiller]

There’s a million rules—“don’t be the weirdo hitting on all the women at your social club or in your classes,” “don’t approach women you don’t know on campus,” etc etc, but it really boils down to “you’re a piece of shit and we don’t like you because you’re an incel who dared talk to women”

Some catch 22 bullshit man. If you can't approach women you don't know, how are you meant to get to know women?

 

[mathgod]

Tbh, it doesn't make sense that you would be treated so poorly. If something doesn't make sense, there is usually details that are left out, maybe you're just not aware of it.

No details left out man. Some women were nice to me, but others were cruel JUST because I talked to them. Check out my previous comment on this thread for more details

 

[mathgod]

Some catch 22 bullshit man. If you can't approach women you don't know, how are you meant to get to know women?

“JUST TALK TO WOMEN IN YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE / SOCIAL CLUBS”

 

[The Wolf]

 

[CosmicSerialKiller]

“JUST TALK TO WOMEN IN YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE / SOCIAL CLUBS”

The old "must have experience" job paradox. This planet is dumb as fuck, I swear.

 

[mathgod]

Some catch 22 bullshit man. If you can't approach women you don't know, how are you meant to get to know women?

It’s so fucking brutal

 

[flute_snoop]

But I’m in university pursuing a STEM degree

That is a functioning life

Well then at least you have that. Mogs me, tbh

 

[ColderManTruce]

If you have to go out of your way to talk to women, you've already lost.

 

[Puppeter]

fuck foids and this clown society

 

[naturalselector2003]

Brutal experience. Not that it was unexpected for a very unattractive guy to get that reaction from
From here there are three options:

1) Be the man, legendary, rich and famous (nightmare hardcore one life = delete difficulty)

Although it's harder, being ugly doesn't prevent you from becoming super high status.
Learn, organise and hire other people, invest. Preferably in areas where looks don't matter much (tech, web, research, finance, trades, science). For fame it's very different for everyone, but still possible.
If you're a billionaire or a world class celebrity it doesn't matter if you're ugly. Even just being a millionaire almost automatically gains you access (1 in 15 people in us is a millionaire) if you're ugly. Like imagine your average loser ltb fat slobs in their 25s discovering you on a lamborgini. Who cares if you're ugly? Even not being that rich, just having a fancy car and designer clothes (you can get rent them) will make increase your ability.
Definitely not for everyone though

2) Lower your standart (medium-hard difficulty)
There are plenty of ugly, old, morbidly obese, deformed, physically disabled, drug addicted, alchoholic, smoked, homeless, tatooed, single moms, mentally retarded / challenged, ill, unfortunate, poor, third world, black, low iq, developmentally challenged freak weirdo crazy women.

As horrible as it is, if you're somewhere 1-3/10 it should be very possible. The problem is that you are way below 3-6/10 young college women in value on the scale, that's why they are appalled. For a woman so appalling that she hasn't been approached in 10 years your experience would be different. Like try dressing up and approaching at the psych ward or at the nearest bum hangout.

Desperation is a spectrum. Some will get away with more and some with less. Will it be worth it? I don't know. It's up to your virility and ability to love

3) Rot (easy)
This is where most incels are, and me so far.
Escortmaxxing is still available at this level, but I've never done it. I think it's immoral, nasty, not worth it in the end and you shouldn't do it.

Everyone at this level is too lazy and retarded to be the man supervillain you were born to be or too entitled, pretentious, narcisistic and impotent to marry a homeless drug addicted schizo single mom negress landwhale.

I am here. You are here. Yes, foids and chads get it 10000x easier and better. What little value you have decreases quickly past 20-27, evaporates past 35.
Next move?

 

[naturalselector2003]

Fakecel unless and born mentally retarded and without arms and legs and without a dick in the 3rd world

 

[Sonicfancel]

What are you scared of? A little rejection?”

You should say yes to this. Normies expect us to simply not be fased with rejections when is one of the worst experiences mentally for a men. Failures hurt.

Also in kdramas the chad never cold approach the main foid like that.

 

[IWWorkER]

if a foid throws a drink my face she is getting iryna zarutska'd

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

When you look good women are orbiting around you. Just your mere presence will attract them and give you IOIs