[Whitepill] On incels having friends

[Last2025cel]

Introduction
It is not uncommon for users on here to claim that you are a fakecel if you have friends. I understand where this mindset comes from - inceldom doesn't just affect your ability to attract females, it carries on to all aspects of your life. After all, making friends as an ugly man is considerably harder than for a woman or a Chad.

Despite that, making friends as an incel is still possible if you know how and I dislike the black-and-white "if you have even one friend you're a fakecel" mentality that some users on here have.

A while ago I saw the following post from fatass30000 that inspired me to make this thread:

being incel doesn’t mean necessarily that you’re a social outcast. That’s a result of bad social skills. You can have a social life and still be incel because youre ugly. I legitimately saw a dude that was 5’3, EXTREMELY autistic, face full of acne and he looked like he had down syndrome and he still had a social circle. A lot of you blame your looks for being outcasts without taking a look with how you interact with others irl. What you say would only be true for people who are sub 3 which is a very small number. There are some users who are extremely unconventionally attractive to the point it would impact their social relationships but this doesn’t apply to 90% of the forum.

if you decide to rot your life away because you’re incel then that’s a you problem… Idk why you’re acting like everyone is gonna react the same way to their circumstances. If you don’t wanna do anything with your life then that’s YOU.

While his post might seem like bluepilled cherrypicking at first ( BUT BRO I KNOW A GUY WHO'S 4'11" AND GETS ALL THE PUSSY BRO), there is some truth to it: a lot of people here on .is have never even tried to make friends or are simply unpleasant to be around. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, many incels are very kind people who have tried over and over again to make friends and yet were never accepted by the people they tried to befriend solely because of their looks. I have had to deal with that a lot too and many of the people I tried to be friends with didn't want to have anything to do with me, but I also managed to find some friends that I know I can trust, mostly fellow incels who are at least partially blackpilled + a few nearcels. I also understand that some incels may have severe anxiety or Asperger's syndrome that affects their ability to communicate socially so obviously in those cases it's not your fault either, however you might still be able to find other autists who are willing to be friends with you.
How (not) to make friends as an incel
Do not try to be friends with normies, for reasons outlined in the Fake friends (normie friends) section below. It's not worth being the jester in some normies' friend group. Instead, try to talk to other incels or nearcels . If you are in the USA, and plan on going to college, try going to a community college (at least for the first two or three years and then transfer to a 4-year university). Community colleges tend to have less Chads, rich kids, fraternities, and other bullshit. If you are in college or in high school see if your school has any clubs centered around hobbies popular with incels like Chess, board games, computer science, etc. and try joining them. If you get lucky you can meet some like-minded individuals and if you don't like them you can always leave.

Online "friends" (i.e. feds and normies)
Some might think that making friends on the Internet would be easier than in real life since they can't see your face and while that is true, the reality is that the "friends" you make aren't really your friends; they're just strangers on the Internet who could be living thousands of miles away and online "friendships" lack any meaningful connection. Most mainstream (and even semi-mainstream) sites and chatrooms on the Internet these days are infested with normies who will betray you when you least expect it. Even worse, it is not that uncommon to encounter feds who pretend to be your friend in order to build a case on you.

Fake friends (normie friends)
I often see people here complaining about their "friends" making fun of them or berating them for being incel. This is where the most important part of trying to make friends as an incel comes in: Don't ever try to pander to normies or compromise with them. If your friends are not fine with you being short, ugly, or non-white, with you being on .is, being non-NT, or any other aspect of your looks or personality then they're not really your friends, they are just trying to use you for their own personal gain.

Being friends with foids
Women tend to only want to be friends with men whom they are at least somewhat attracted to, and therefore if you are incel you will most likely have a much harder time making female friends than male friends (TBH "much harder" is an understatement, it will be near impossible for you). I, for example, have never had a single female friend. Most women are repulsed by me and every female I tried to befriend didn't want to have anything to do with me. The same goes for all my sub5 friends.

For this reason I am very suspicious of all self-proclaimed incels who have female friends, however there is some nuance to it too and being friends with a foid as an incel is not impossible, albeit very uncommon. If you are incel but non-threatening-looking and turbo-NT or very good at pretending to be, some foids might want to be your "friend" but they will see you as a simp they can milk for money or in the best case someone to vent to when none of their other friends are around, while also not wanting you to vent to them. So if you have a female friend that doesn't neccessarily make you a fakecel as long as she's not attracted to you. Most female "friends" that an incel can have can be classified as normie friends (fake friends) as described in the paragraph above, so I suggest you excercise extreme caution when a foid is nice to you because most of the time she is just trying to use you.


@Sir Silentium @XtremeMax @GloomyGhoul @fatass30000 @FoidsEnshittifyAll @Yunoo Thoughts?

 

[grimlockcel]

Friendship isnt real

 

[Animecel2D]

I will use the power of friendship to defeat my inceldom

 

[INVERTER]

How does anyone have friends past age 21 or so? Everything past that point is just transactional and there is no use for ugly ND males as friends

 

[Homegrownman326]

Friendship isnt real

Friendship between males is essentially a mutual alliance to help each other secure mates. It's also inherently hierarchical. Male friendship is utterly superficial.

 

[Last2025cel]

How does anyone have friends past age 21 or so? Everything past that point is just transactional and there is no use for ugly ND males as friends

If your friends are also ugly ND males who don't have wives then it doesn't really change when you get older.

 

[INVERTER]

If your friends are also ugly ND males who don't have wives then it doesn't really change when you get older.

I sort of have an old friend from college who lives hundreds of miles away now. He is nothing like me though and has no problem meeting women. I think he just pities me

 

[Last2025cel]

I sort of have an old friend from college who lives hundreds of miles away now. He is nothing like me though and has no problem meeting women. I think he just pities me

Is he good-looking?

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I don't give a fuck
Treated like shit by everyone

 

[INVERTER]

Is he good-looking?

Yeah sorta I guess. He's tall. He talks to people easily since he grew up skateboarding with all sorts of people. I'd say he is at least average probably

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

I made friends with the other social outcasts in school and were able to keep the contact. Thats all the magic

 

[Last2025cel]

I made friends with the other social outcasts in school and were able to keep the contact. Thats all the magic

Pretty much what I did too.

 

[Doomed4ever]

Female friend??? No female wants to be near me unless I pay them for sex

 

[Last2025cel]

Yeah sorta I guess. He's tall. He talks to people easily since he grew up skateboarding with all sorts of people. I'd say he is at least average probably

Oh, I see. Makes sense why treats you the way he does. That's why I'm way of normies and people more attractive than me, they usually fall into the "fake friend" category.

 

[Last2025cel]

Female friend??? No female wants to be near me unless I pay them for sex

Did you read my post? I'm not denying that.

Women tend to only want to be friends with men whom they are at least somewhat attracted to, and therefore if you are incel you will most likely have a much harder time making female friends than male friends (TBH "much harder" is an understatement, it will be near impossible for you). I, for example, have never had a single female friend. Most women are repulsed by me and every female I tried to befriend didn't want to have anything to do with me. The same goes for all my sub5 friends.

 

[Doomed4ever]

Did you read my post? I'm not denying that.

You tried to befriend women? That's hilarious, what's the worst reaction you got out of them?

 

[Last2025cel]

You tried to befriend women? That's hilarious, what's the worst reaction you got out of them?

When I was younger, yes. Most of the time I could tell from the tone of their voice and their demeneaor that they didn't wanna talk and wanted me to go away. As to the worst reaction, I would say it was when a foid I tried to talk to in class started telling other people I "look & act like a rapist".

 

[anotherwastedlife]

I never had any genuine friends except for probably 1 guy but he's long gone into life now

 

[Sir Silentium]

Introduction
It is not uncommon for users on here to claim that you are a fakecel if you have friends. I understand where this mindset comes from - inceldom doesn't just affect your ability to attract females, it carries on to all aspects of your life. After all, making friends as an ugly man is considerably harder than for a woman or a Chad.

Despite that, making friends as an incel is still possible if you know how and I dislike the black-and-white "if you have even one friend you're a fakecel" mentality that some users on here have.

A while ago I saw the following post from fatass30000 that inspired me to make this thread:

While his post might seem like bluepilled cherrypicking at first ( BUT BRO I KNOW A GUY WHO'S 4'11" AND GETS ALL THE PUSSY BRO), there is some truth to it: a lot of people here on .is have never even tried to make friends or are simply unpleasant to be around. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, many incels are very kind people who have tried over and over again to make friends and yet were never accepted by the people they tried to befriend solely because of their looks.

For making friendships, I would say neurodivergence has a far greater weighting than attractiveness to other men.

How (not) to make friends as an incel
Do not try to be friends with normies, for reasons outlined in the Fake friends (normie friends) section below. It's not worth being the jester in some normies' friend group. Instead, try to talk to other incels or nearcels . If you are in the USA, and plan on going to college, try going to a community college (at least for the first two or three years and then transfer to a 4-year university). Community colleges tend to have less Chads, rich kids, fraternities, and other bullshit. If you are in college or in high school see if your school has any clubs centered around hobbies popular with incels like Chess, board games, computer science, etc. and try joining them. If you get lucky you can meet some like-minded individuals and if you don't like them you can always leave.

This chad (top 1% looks, 6ft 3) tried as best as a could to befriend me in grade 12 after all his friends jumped and robbed him. He chose me because he knew I was a low IQ spergcel that was to afraid to speak up on his bs.

Whenever I saw him, he would only talk to me about how he has sex with new girls multiple times per day, and takes drugs whenever I was with him. He would also constantly belittle me for being an incel and said I just have to meditate and sleep on the floor and I could get every girl I ever wanted. He also promised me that if I didn't jerk off for a month then girls will start texting me out of the blue.

At the end of last year he went mental from overdoses and drew on himself saying the nature gods told him to or some crap like that. I saw him not long after that and far out I never want to see him again. He's homeless now and his parents kicked him out, and I'm glad they did. In fact they waited too long. Whenever I would be at his house he would scream and abuse his mum, it was so awkward for me.

Now he makes about 500K annually, having sex with transgenders and gay men all of the world.

Online "friends" (i.e. feds and normies)
Some might think that making friends on the Internet would be easier than in real life since they can't see your face and while that is true, the reality is that the "friends" you make aren't really your friends; they're just strangers on the Internet who could be living thousands of miles away and online "friendships" lack any meaningful connection. Most mainstream (and even semi-mainstream) sites and chatrooms on the Internet these days are infested with normies who will betray you when you least expect it. Even worse, it is not that uncommon to encounter feds who pretend to be your friend in order to build a case on you.

My only irl friend at the moment is an active user on this forum, and I met here. Great guy.

I don't believe feds are on the site with accounts looking to get people. They fined Izayacel and got Subhuman Niceguy into trouble without needing any of that.

Feds can find me, I've got nothing to hide. In fact the average user could probably find my university or suburb just from looking at my past threads.

Fake friends (normie friends)
I often see people here complaining about their "friends" making fun of them or berating them for being incel. This is where the most important part of trying to make friends as an incel comes in: Don't ever try to pander to normies or compromise with them. If your friends are not fine with you being short, ugly, or non-white, with you being on .is, being non-NT, or any other aspect of your looks or personality then they're not really your friends, they are just trying to use you for their own personal gain.

That's what happened with the chad I mentioned earlier. He was very well known amongst red pill sub reddits, to the point where he had to hide his name from me. But I wouldn't even bring up incels.is, he would bring it up and constantly call me a loser and such for having an account on there. He said the site also isn't inclusive for women and that I should only be on spaces were I can make women feel welcome, and that is also inclusive for the large spectrum of genders. I had to hold my tongue on his every comment.

Being friends with foids
Women tend to only want to be friends with men whom they are at least somewhat attracted to, and therefore if you are incel you will most likely have a much harder time making female friends than male friends (TBH "much harder" is an understatement, it will be near impossible for you). I, for example, have never had a single female friend. Most women are repulsed by me and every female I tried to befriend didn't want to have anything to do with me. The same goes for all my sub5 friends.

But then there gets to a point, when you fall under the clearly deformed (bottom 1% attractiveness), where women flock to you and give you pity. Not even cherry picking, I see this happen daily. It's the same kind of attention they give a gay man.

And having said that, I would never be 'friends' with a female in this generation.

 

[Last2025cel]

Now he makes about 500K annually, having sex with transgenders and gay men all of the world.

Brutal

My only irl friend at the moment is an active user on this forum, and I met here. Great guy.

I don't believe feds are on the site with accounts looking to get people. They fined Izayacel and got Subhuman Niceguy into trouble without needing any of that.

Oh, how did you two find out you live close to each other? I would be too paranoid to tell anyone on here where I live or any identifiable information about myself.

As to the part of my original post about feds, I was mostly talking about other sites like Instagram, TikTok, Discord, etc. Those are known to have feds messaging vulnerable users and trying to get them to admit to crimes or having violent thoughts.

That's what happened with the chad I mentioned earlier. He was very well known amongst red pill sub reddits, to the point where he had to hide his name from me. But I wouldn't even bring up incels.is, he would bring it up and constantly call me a loser and such for having an account on there. He said the site also isn't inclusive for women and that I should only be on spaces were I can make women feel welcome, and that is also inclusive for the large spectrum of genders. I had to hold my tongue on his every comment.

Holy shit, what a simp. Luckily all of my friends are fine with me being on .is and some of them even lurk on here but don't have accounts because they feel like they have nothing to contribute or simply don't want to as they have better copes.

But then there gets to a point, when you fall under the clearly deformed (bottom 1% attractiveness), where women flock to you and give you pity. Not even cherry picking, I see this happen daily. It's the same kind of attention they give a gay man.

And having said that, I would never be 'friends' with a female in this generation.

"Flock to you" is a bit of an exxageration. Sure, they might talk to you occasionally out of pity and use you as a personal therapist - basically they vent to you expecting you to agree with everything, but they don't really like you and once Chad comes around they all flock to him like moths to a flame.

Related:

6'4" Tyrone makes out with disabled ricecel's female "friends" in front of him

Three days ago there was some event at my college where they were giving out donuts and there was this ricecel in a wheelchair there who I think was part of student government and he was talking to 4 blond white MTBs who were also in student government and helped organize the event. The foids...

incels.is

 

[Sir Silentium]

Brutal

Oh, how did you two find out you live close to each other? I would be too paranoid to tell anyone on here where I live or any identifiable information about myself.

I think I posted my uni under a thread and he DM'd me asking about it, or saying he goes there too. Can't really remember now but something like that. But yea we see each other whenever we are both free, catch up, play some pool, go to the beach, use .is together, all the fun stuff.

As to the part of my original post about feds, I was mostly talking about other sites like Instagram, TikTok, Discord, etc. Those are known to have feds messaging vulnerable users and trying to get them to admit to crimes or having violent thoughts.

Holy shit, what a simp. Luckily all of my friends are fine with me being on .is and some of them even lurk on here but don't have accounts because they feel like they have nothing to contribute or simply don't want to as they have better copes.

And the worse part is, he tries to get me into liking all of these transgenders because they are the "perfect women" or whatever. Like actually sub 1s if that is even possible.

But this all started because of the black culture being pushed into white society. Young people are heavily influenced by the wrong thing. He ended up getting obsessed with rap music, marijuana, all of that nonsense. Like he makes a living from male prostitution and rap music.

"Flock to you" is a bit of an exxageration. Sure, they might talk to you occasionally out of pity and use you as a personal therapist - basically they vent to you expecting you to agree with everything, but they don't really like you and once Chad comes around they all flock to him like moths to a flame.

Not even a few months ago I approached this actual truecel at my uni who clearly was deformed since birth, he stopped talking to him after a few seconds because he clearly didn't like me. As I was leaving actually attractive girls went over to him and used lots of emotion, hand gestures, etc talking to him. I filmed it but my camera is shaky.

Related:

6'4" Tyrone makes out with disabled ricecel's female "friends" in front of him

Three days ago there was some event at my college where they were giving out donuts and there was this ricecel in a wheelchair there who I think was part of student government and he was talking to 4 blond white MTBs who were also in student government and helped organize the event. The foids...

incels.is

I will read

 

[GloomyGhoul]

I’ve never had a genuine friend who loved me as a human being. To your question though, I do have quite a few foid acquaintances. None of them have or ever will express any romantic feelings towards me. Most likely they feel pitty or see me as unthreatening because I’m pretty passive. In general, I’d say im pretty decent at talking to other people. Charisma doesn’t do anything when you’re sub5 though is a what I’m saying. Hope this doesn’t make me seem like a fakecel

 

[FoidsEnshittifyAll]

Agreed, its just an exploitation scheme by the foids. toilets dont have male friends, only orbiters. plus its 95% accurately predicting you are more of a failed low tier normie than sub5. true sub5s foids want nothing to do with... .

 

[fatass30000]

My thoughts are that you’re correct, make friends with people who are on the same social status as you or that are also neurodivergent. I have autism and i have always hit it with other people who have autism or adhd. I believe that we can subconsciously spot other neurodivergent people and we are drawn to them.
And in general the “losers” and “nerds” in my school all hanged out with each other.
You wouldn’t see a nerd with a popular kid.
I remember once in school that one of the nerd classmates tried to befriend me but i screwed it up by being turbo autistic That was a result of bad social skills, i ain’t gonna blame my looks.

And in general i think the biggest reason why a lot of users didn’t make friends is because of how neurotic they’re. Look at subhuman nice guy for example, he went on a tantrum and accused the mods of being cops because he got a 1 day ban And i have noticed this on a fair amount of users (not on subhumans nice guys level tho). At the slightest disagreement with them, they will fly off the handle and start accusing you and insulting you. It was way worse in 2024 too but most of them ended up getting banned.

But let me repeat that this applies to most of the forum NOT ALL. They’re some users here that are super unattractive to the point it would impact their social relationships.

 

[Yunoo]

Introduction
It is not uncommon for users on here to claim that you are a fakecel if you have friends. I understand where this mindset comes from - inceldom doesn't just affect your ability to attract females, it carries on to all aspects of your life. After all, making friends as an ugly man is considerably harder than for a woman or a Chad.

Despite that, making friends as an incel is still possible if you know how and I dislike the black-and-white "if you have even one friend you're a fakecel" mentality that some users on here have.

A while ago I saw the following post from fatass30000 that inspired me to make this thread:

While his post might seem like bluepilled cherrypicking at first ( BUT BRO I KNOW A GUY WHO'S 4'11" AND GETS ALL THE PUSSY BRO), there is some truth to it: a lot of people here on .is have never even tried to make friends or are simply unpleasant to be around. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, many incels are very kind people who have tried over and over again to make friends and yet were never accepted by the people they tried to befriend solely because of their looks. I have had to deal with that a lot too and many of the people I tried to be friends with didn't want to have anything to do with me, but I also managed to find some friends that I know I can trust, mostly fellow incels who are at least partially blackpilled + a few nearcels. I also understand that some incels may have severe anxiety or Asperger's syndrome that affects their ability to communicate socially so obviously in those cases it's not your fault either, however you might still be able to find other autists who are willing to be friends with you.
How (not) to make friends as an incel
Do not try to be friends with normies, for reasons outlined in the Fake friends (normie friends) section below. It's not worth being the jester in some normies' friend group. Instead, try to talk to other incels or nearcels . If you are in the USA, and plan on going to college, try going to a community college (at least for the first two or three years and then transfer to a 4-year university). Community colleges tend to have less Chads, rich kids, fraternities, and other bullshit. If you are in college or in high school see if your school has any clubs centered around hobbies popular with incels like Chess, board games, computer science, etc. and try joining them. If you get lucky you can meet some like-minded individuals and if you don't like them you can always leave.

Online "friends" (i.e. feds and normies)
Some might think that making friends on the Internet would be easier than in real life since they can't see your face and while that is true, the reality is that the "friends" you make aren't really your friends; they're just strangers on the Internet who could be living thousands of miles away and online "friendships" lack any meaningful connection. Most mainstream (and even semi-mainstream) sites and chatrooms on the Internet these days are infested with normies who will betray you when you least expect it. Even worse, it is not that uncommon to encounter feds who pretend to be your friend in order to build a case on you.

Fake friends (normie friends)
I often see people here complaining about their "friends" making fun of them or berating them for being incel. This is where the most important part of trying to make friends as an incel comes in: Don't ever try to pander to normies or compromise with them. If your friends are not fine with you being short, ugly, or non-white, with you being on .is, being non-NT, or any other aspect of your looks or personality then they're not really your friends, they are just trying to use you for their own personal gain.

Being friends with foids
Women tend to only want to be friends with men whom they are at least somewhat attracted to, and therefore if you are incel you will most likely have a much harder time making female friends than male friends (TBH "much harder" is an understatement, it will be near impossible for you). I, for example, have never had a single female friend. Most women are repulsed by me and every female I tried to befriend didn't want to have anything to do with me. The same goes for all my sub5 friends.

For this reason I am very suspicious of all self-proclaimed incels who have female friends, however there is some nuance to it too and being friends with a foid as an incel is not impossible, albeit very uncommon. If you are incel but non-threatening-looking and turbo-NT or very good at pretending to be, some foids might want to be your "friend" but they will see you as a simp they can milk for money or in the best case someone to vent to when none of their other friends are around, while also not wanting you to vent to them. So if you have a female friend that doesn't neccessarily make you a fakecel as long as she's not attracted to you. Most female "friends" that an incel can have can be classified as normie friends (fake friends) as described in the paragraph above, so I suggest you excercise extreme caution when a foid is nice to you because most of the time she is just trying to use you.


@Sir Silentium @XtremeMax @GloomyGhoul @fatass30000 @FoidsEnshittifyAll @Yunoo Thoughts?

You have to be socially skilled and NT to make friends which a lot of incels aren’t. It doesn’t necessarily mean these incels are insufferable to be around.

I guess being friendless makes you more of an incel than incels with friends

 

[Yunoo]

i stopped trying to make friends like a year ago. It’s a waste of time and energy and it never leads to anything. You can substitute friendships with ai nowadays so it doesn’t matter that much. AI has more value conversationally than the average guy

 

[Last2025cel]

I do have quite a few foid acquaintances. None of them have or ever will express any romantic feelings towards me. Most likely they feel pitty or see me as unthreatening because I’m pretty passive. In general, I’d say im pretty decent at talking to other people.

How did you meet them, if you don't mind me asking? Do they ever talk to you about their boyfriends/dates?

Charisma doesn’t do anything when you’re sub5 though is a what I’m saying.

I mean unless you're very ugly (as in sub2) then it can make a difference when it comes to making friends with other men, however that also largely depends on the people you're around. For example my middle school was full of bullies who made fun of me for my looks regardless of how I acted and so I had very few friends there, but at my high school almost everyone was sub5, and while there were some bullies (mostly foids), I had considerably more friends there than in middle school.

Hope this doesn’t make me seem like a fakecel

Oh no, as long as you're not receiving any romantic advancements from them then you're not.

 

[Morbilius]

Friendship isnt real

 

[Lunaticcurrycel]

Introduction
It is not uncommon for users on here to claim that you are a fakecel if you have friends. I understand where this mindset comes from - inceldom doesn't just affect your ability to attract females, it carries on to all aspects of your life. After all, making friends as an ugly man is considerably harder than for a woman or a Chad.

Despite that, making friends as an incel is still possible if you know how and I dislike the black-and-white "if you have even one friend you're a fakecel" mentality that some users on here have.

A while ago I saw the following post from fatass30000 that inspired me to make this thread:

While his post might seem like bluepilled cherrypicking at first ( BUT BRO I KNOW A GUY WHO'S 4'11" AND GETS ALL THE PUSSY BRO), there is some truth to it: a lot of people here on .is have never even tried to make friends or are simply unpleasant to be around. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, many incels are very kind people who have tried over and over again to make friends and yet were never accepted by the people they tried to befriend solely because of their looks. I have had to deal with that a lot too and many of the people I tried to be friends with didn't want to have anything to do with me, but I also managed to find some friends that I know I can trust, mostly fellow incels who are at least partially blackpilled + a few nearcels. I also understand that some incels may have severe anxiety or Asperger's syndrome that affects their ability to communicate socially so obviously in those cases it's not your fault either, however you might still be able to find other autists who are willing to be friends with you.
How (not) to make friends as an incel
Do not try to be friends with normies, for reasons outlined in the Fake friends (normie friends) section below. It's not worth being the jester in some normies' friend group. Instead, try to talk to other incels or nearcels . If you are in the USA, and plan on going to college, try going to a community college (at least for the first two or three years and then transfer to a 4-year university). Community colleges tend to have less Chads, rich kids, fraternities, and other bullshit. If you are in college or in high school see if your school has any clubs centered around hobbies popular with incels like Chess, board games, computer science, etc. and try joining them. If you get lucky you can meet some like-minded individuals and if you don't like them you can always leave.

Online "friends" (i.e. feds and normies)
Some might think that making friends on the Internet would be easier than in real life since they can't see your face and while that is true, the reality is that the "friends" you make aren't really your friends; they're just strangers on the Internet who could be living thousands of miles away and online "friendships" lack any meaningful connection. Most mainstream (and even semi-mainstream) sites and chatrooms on the Internet these days are infested with normies who will betray you when you least expect it. Even worse, it is not that uncommon to encounter feds who pretend to be your friend in order to build a case on you.

Fake friends (normie friends)
I often see people here complaining about their "friends" making fun of them or berating them for being incel. This is where the most important part of trying to make friends as an incel comes in: Don't ever try to pander to normies or compromise with them. If your friends are not fine with you being short, ugly, or non-white, with you being on .is, being non-NT, or any other aspect of your looks or personality then they're not really your friends, they are just trying to use you for their own personal gain.

Being friends with foids
Women tend to only want to be friends with men whom they are at least somewhat attracted to, and therefore if you are incel you will most likely have a much harder time making female friends than male friends (TBH "much harder" is an understatement, it will be near impossible for you). I, for example, have never had a single female friend. Most women are repulsed by me and every female I tried to befriend didn't want to have anything to do with me. The same goes for all my sub5 friends.

For this reason I am very suspicious of all self-proclaimed incels who have female friends, however there is some nuance to it too and being friends with a foid as an incel is not impossible, albeit very uncommon. If you are incel but non-threatening-looking and turbo-NT or very good at pretending to be, some foids might want to be your "friend" but they will see you as a simp they can milk for money or in the best case someone to vent to when none of their other friends are around, while also not wanting you to vent to them. So if you have a female friend that doesn't neccessarily make you a fakecel as long as she's not attracted to you. Most female "friends" that an incel can have can be classified as normie friends (fake friends) as described in the paragraph above, so I suggest you excercise extreme caution when a foid is nice to you because most of the time she is just trying to use you.


@Sir Silentium @XtremeMax @GloomyGhoul @fatass30000 @FoidsEnshittifyAll @Yunoo Thoughts?

All my friends , gfs , money, mansions, power, physique, experiences exists in my head. My brain is literally coping with fantasy. Its so sad mang. I am friendless loner irl. How to cope with this lack of human connection? Its driving me paranoid and crazy. After days when I used to go out to school and stuff I had trouble holding eye contact with peers and people outside in general but not anymore. It still returns if I don't go out for more than one week

 

[Last2025cel]

All my friends , gfs , money, mansions, power, physique, experiences exists in my head. My brain is literally coping with fantasy. Its so sad mang. I am friendless loner irl. How to cope with this lack of human connection? Its driving me paranoid and crazy. After days when I used to go out to school and stuff I had trouble holding eye contact with peers and people outside in general but not anymore. It still returns if I don't go out for more than one week

How old are you?

 

[Lunaticcurrycel]

How old are you?

Turned 18 a few months ago

 

[TheGuitar]

How do I handle my low-self esteem tho?

 

[Last2025cel]

How do I handle my low-self esteem tho?

Some might say being incel is a curse but I think that in a way it's a blessing. As a blackpilled incel you are much more aware of how society functions than the average normie and you can use that knowledge to your advantage. I would say stop caring what others think of you because you're better than them. I know someone's gonna say it's cope, but I really believe that. If I could press a button to become a normie, I'd rather stay an incel and keep the awareness that I have.

 

[TheGuitar]

Some might say being incel is a curse but I think that in a way it's a blessing. As a blackpilled incel you are much more aware of how society functions than the average normie and you can use that knowledge to your advantage. I would say stop caring what others think of you because you're better than them. I know someone's gonna say it's cope, but I really believe that. If I could press a button to become a normie, I'd rather stay an incel and keep the awareness that I have.

Hmm maybe thats a good mindset

 

[nihilum]

dont have friends.

 

[ROCKZ D. XEBEC]

We are friends