Serious Is based meme right? Should users be permabanned who’ve gone on dates?

[Fat Link]

Well is he?

Even during Serge’s reign it was in our rules to punish posters who share any successful romantic experiences they may have had with women but only mild punishment, such as a warning I believe, for things such as dates, cuddling, kissing, hand holding and the like but I don’t believe it’s ever been punished here before via permanent banning but the issue we are addressing here today buddy boyos is…

Should it be?

Live or die make your choice!

 

[Sandniggercel]

just lol @ users going on dates with females then claiming to be incel

 

[ramoscel]

how is this even debatable

 

[Chudpreet]

how is this even debatable

I mean on another platform I had a mutual who was a fat aspie blackcel. He got dates with two diff obese white women but couldn’t get anything beyond that, he remains a khhv

 

[Luzifer]

Only post about roblox are trucel enough and racediscussing thats the only thing allowed than

 

[Fat Link]

Are you an incel.if you get laid?

No.

However dates don’t always mean someone has gotten laid.

 

[ramoscel]

I mean on another platform I had a mutual who was a fat aspie blackcel. He got dates with two diff obese white women but couldn’t get anything beyond that, he remains a khhv

still female attention in the end, even if he didn’t get laid or go anywhere he still had interaction with a foid. actual incels can’t even get within 3 feet of one without getting tasered

 

[weaselbomber]

Yes but mostly because if someone were to make a thread about going on a date, it'd be a bragging cunt. Keep it to yourself until you ascend, then make a goodbye thread. It's simple

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Are you an incel.if you get laid?

if you pay for a sex-escort (legal where I'm from) then yes you're still incel
if you get laid without having to pay then you're not an incel

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Incel does not mean can’t get dates, it means can’t get sex

inceldom incorporates not being able to get romantic relationships, that's why KKHV is often used.

 

[Epedaphic]

No. Bragging is different but having gone on a “date” doesn’t automatically mean bragging.

A “date” doesn’t look the same for everyone or across time. For example, for a guy who’s an 8, a date is probably hanging out at her place or the guys place then fucking, then the woman being added to his rotation or falling in love with him. For a guy who’s a 3? A date is the woman staying as far from him as possible, not even touching him, trying to get a free dinner and ordering something extra to-go for tomorrow’s lunch, then never seeing or speaking to him again.

Regarding “dates” across time: someone who’s a 40 year old incel today, who went on a “date” 22 years ago, had a very different experience getting a date than an 18 year old would have today. 20 years ago smartphones were science fiction, dating sites were heavily stigmatized. Women had options, but not hundreds like they have today. It wouldn’t have been crazy for a woman to accept a date with a man who was unattractive, or at least there would have been some shame or guilt from her parents or peers for turning him down. Whereas today, feminism has made it so that it’s socially acceptable for women to act as if unattractive men are not human, or don’t even exist. They can be rude to us or totally ignore us, and to call them a bitch is le heckin misogyny.

I suspect that the idea that someone is a fakecel for having gone on a date is something harbored mostly by younger users here (understandably). On the other hand, I can see this isn’t just a discussion of what makes a “fakecel,” but of forum rules on bragging.

 

[SocialzERo]

still female attention in the end, even if he didn’t get laid or go anywhere he still had interaction with a foid. actual incels can’t even get within 3 feet of one without getting tasered

 

[Mortis]

how is this even debatable

 

[Mortis]

This wasn't the case already? Holy fuck...

 

[MillionBashStream97]

If you are able to get dates at all, you are a fakecel, and for your own good, shouldn't be here.

Period.

 

[Mortis]

Incel does not mean can’t get dates, it means can’t get sex

If you can get dates you can get sex.

 

[kay']

No dates can be free car ride, free meals, free jester literally some men have stories of being saved as free food on some girls devices

A friend of mine kept going on dates with a girl for 2 years and paying everytime before he got the courage to finally ask her to be his gf and when he did on whatsapp (jfl) she replied with ":s"

 

[Caesercel]

I don't think hitting first base is a guarantee for further success. But discussing that on forum does fall under brag. So it can be warned.

 

[Mortis]

and for your own good

Exactly. If you are able to get dates, I'd NEVER advise being active on a forum like this one.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I guess as that’s the statement of the site then yes maybe they should be banned. But a date does not necessarily mean a relationship either

Many of us don't even have a chance to get a date, I'm 26 and tried for 12 years, never even came close to getting one

If you are able to get dates at all, you are a fakecel, and for your own good, shouldn't be here.

Period.

It's weird and surprising so many think the opposite

 

[Mortis]

I don't think hitting first base is a guarantee for further success.

It definitely indicates that there's something that can be built on. We should ban the for their own good.

 

[Mortis]

This is simply not true

Just because a date didn't lead to sex doesn't mean you can't get it. You just screwed up.

If you can get dates you have a basis you can build on.

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

They went on a date. A woman thought that they were good looking enough to be seen in public with them

this

 

[idgaf]

We shouldn't ban anybody till they reach 5th base tbh

 

[MillionBashStream97]

Many of us don't even have a chance to get a date, I'm 26 and tried for 12 years, never even came close to getting one

It's not even a issue of "they got it, I don't"
It's as simple as, in 2023, if you are able to get dates, you are one of the lucky ones.

And there are communities for a person like that, just not here.
We are Hyenas and we are invisible. This hypothetical person, is not. And they should be glad they aren't in our position.

Just keep grinding at it, and they will run into a person that connects with them.

It's weird and surprising so many think the opposite

 

[Epedaphic]

in 2023

This part is key. I mentioned this in my post above, but it’s absurd just how much things have changed in the past 5 years, let alone the past 15 or 20.

 

[Epedaphic]

If absolutely nothing amounted from the dates then nah

Orbiters take women on "dates" just so the women can get free food

No dates can be free car ride, free meals, free jester literally some men have stories of being saved as free food on some girls devices

A friend of mine kept going on dates with a girl for 2 years and paying everytime before he got the courage to finally ask her to be his gf and when he did on whatsapp (jfl) she replied with ":s"

 

[MillionBashStream97]

This part is key. I mentioned this in my post above, but it’s absurd just how much things have changed in the past 5 years, let alone the past 15 or 20.

Totally. And it will continue to change.

For the worse, I imagine, but who knows.

 

[kay']

It's not even a issue of "they got it, I don't"
It's as simple as, in 2023, if you are able to get dates, you are one of the lucky ones.

And there are communities for a person like that, just not here.
We are Hyenas and we are invisible. This hypothetical person, is not. And they should be glad they aren't in our position.

Just keep grinding at it, and they will run into a person that connects with them.

Getting a date means absolutely nothing in 2023 stop coping.

You can go on a date shes playing on her phone all the date. Barely looks at you. Sits in the car far from you as if u gona eat her.

Gets a free meal a free time kill before u drop her back at her home then she starts replying with one words or blocks you.

And now you are worse than before. Some women are pure evil ive seen them do this many many times.

One time a girl i know was going on a date with a poor guy he came to get her with an old car that has a bad paint and i think has a hit on it. She texted him to leave and the date is over because she cant be seen in that car.

I have so many stories im not gona share every one.

 

[incelmadara]

Imagine a short asian male getting a date but drumsroll: the woman is just using him for free food just to see him come back sad but rejected by the incel community.

Yes, permaban the ricecels that dates, they do not belong in the incel community nor inside a womans vajainah.

 

[weaselbomber]

On the other hand, I can see this isn’t just a discussion of what makes a “fakecel,” but of forum rules on bragging.

This tbh

 

[MillionBashStream97]

Getting a date means absolutely nothing in 2023 stop coping

Lets say you are, for the sake of argument.

I have attempted dating, have attempted approaching (cold and warm), have attempted it all, and never got a  single date, or even a consideration for it. Plus I have been completely touch starved and loveless, but that goes without saying.

You, on the other hand, get dates.

Can you tell me how my situation is not objectively worse then yours?

You can go on a date shes playing on her phone all the date. Barely looks at you. Sits in the car far from you as if u gona eat her.

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

Gets a free meal a free time kill before u drop her back at her home then she starts replying with one words or blocks you.

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

And now you are worse than before. Some women are pure evil ive seen them do this many many times.

Indeed.  Some are indeed. A lot of them I would say. But everything you said above implies that you think these are all a man can get.

One time a girl i know was going on a date with a poor guy he came to get her with an old car that has a bad paint and i think has a hit on it. She texted him to leave and the date is over because she cant be seen in that car.

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

I have so many stories im not gona share every one.

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

 

[MillionBashStream97]

Imagine a short asian male getting a date but drumsroll: the woman is just using him for free food just to see him come back sad but rejected by the incel community.

 

[kay']

Lets say you are, for the sake of argument.

I have attempted dating, have attempted approaching (cold and warm), have attempted it all, and never got a  single date, or even a consideration for it. Plus I have been completely touch starved and loveless, but that goes without saying.

You, on the other hand, get dates.

Can you tell me how my situation is not objectively worse then yours?

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

Indeed.  Some are indeed. A lot of them I would say. But everything you said above implies that you think these are all a man can get.

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

Yeah, every woman is like this, 100% of them. There are no genuine dates to be had with women. Is just this one group that are participating in that.

Im not saying i am worse than you or you are worse than me but we are equally failing at the dating game.

If a woman looks at me and be like "ow yiss that guy looks like a free meal for a month or two hes so gullible" or "eww hes so ugly i cant be seen next to him" is equally bad for me.

 

[EngelCallDell19]

dates = warnings

serious girlfriend = ban

yeah didnt think of that, but if someone has gone on a date it obviously means that person loved them

 

[MillionBashStream97]

Im not saying i am worse than you or you are worse than me but we are equally failing at the dating game.

I can't argue against someone this braindead, sorry.

Someone getting dates, and someone not getting dates are both falling, got it

If a woman looks at me and be like "ow yiss that guy looks like a free meal for a month or two hes so gullible"

Again, every women is like this indeed. Literally all of them. That is not a sub group of women at all. They are all like this. Literally every single one of them.

"eww hes so ugly i cant be seen next to him" is equally bad for me.

Okay

 

[kay']

I can't argue against someone this braindead, sorry.

Someone getting dates, and someone not getting dates are both falling, got it

Again, every women is like this indeed. Literally all of them. That is not a sub group of women at all. They are all like this. Literally every single one of them.

Okay

Dude if we both take an exam i got 40/100 and u got 10/100 we both failed and have to retake the exam.

Try to understand what im saying

 

[screwthefbi]

Well is he?

Even during Serge’s reign it was in our rules to punish posters who share any successful romantic experiences they may have had with women but only mild punishment, such as a warning I believe, for things such as dates, cuddling, kissing, hand holding and the like but I don’t believe it’s ever been punished here before via permanent banning but the issue we are addressing here today buddy boyos is…

Should it be?

Live or die make your choice!

With exception of incels who had long distance relationship though unless they met.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

We shall not rest until not a single user remains unbanned and this site is finally purged of the fakecel menace

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Yes they should be banned and anyone who says otherwise is an IT cuck infiltrator

 

[SlayerSlayer]

it depends if the date was purely a setup to be humiliated-- this is the only excuse

 

[Darth_Aurelius]

This may have already been said above but I'm too intellectually lazy to read the entirety of the thread so I will just go ahead and weight in on this extremely important question.

1. If you are sufficiently appealing, either by virtue of your aesthetics or personality or some combination thereof to earn the trust and confidence of a foid to the extent that she will accompany you on a date then it seems to me that by a parity of reasoning, you would also have the basic prerequsite qualities to ascend, were you sufficiently desirous of doing so.

2. While inceldon is technically defined as not having any intercourse with women or perhaps, more generally, not having any sexual experience with women, we could agree that sexual experiences ought to be arrayed along a vast continuum with full vaginal penetration at one end and light touching on the other end. If a date experience is permissive of any such conduct, then it must be deemed to be an a priori violation of the rules since it could conceivably result in sexual gratification and the transcendence of incel status.

3. If we permit users who have successfully gone on dates to continue to partake of this community it will breed resentment, disgust and contempt amongst those of us who are less fortunate and this will prove to be a divisive force that will do a disservice to us all.

 

[Mecoja]

I cant even get "hi" from females. They should either keep quiet or get banned.

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

If you look into the meaning of the words

Involuntary
Celibate

The answer should be reasonably clear.

Want sex, but can't get sex, is the standard. It is the only possible coherent standard that there is. And it should always be the standard.

@Fat Link proposes that people who've managed to arrange dates and yet still failed to get sex, are fakecels who don't belong here.

I might propose that neets who've chosen poverty and have never taken any steps to put themselves in front of women, are lazy volcels blaming toilets for their own weakness who don't belong here alongside people who fail with women despite trying and trying and trying.

But the reality is that ALL opinions like that are just personal asshole opinions. Wanting sex and not being able to get sex, is real, it is the litmus test and it should continue to be the only standard for what an incel is.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

Only post about roblox are trucel enough and racediscussing thats the only thing allowed than

 

[Sheldor]

16 Fakecels in here. Pls ban

 

[just another incel]

this

Fakecel trait: Contact with women that women could avoid

-Anyone who has a girlfriend is a fakecel. -Anyone who has a girl's cell phone number which was handed out by the girl is a fakecel -Anyone who has regular communication with her through this number is a giga-fakecel. -Anyone who goes to parties and has women in circle of friends is a fakecel...

incels.is

 

[lifeisfucked215]

A “date” doesn’t look the same for everyone or across time. For example, for a guy who’s an 8, a date is probably hanging out at her place or the guys place then fucking, then the woman being added to his rotation or falling in love with him. For a guy who’s a 3? A date is the woman staying as far from him as possible, not even touching him, trying to get a free dinner and ordering something extra to-go for tomorrow’s lunch, then never seeing or speaking to him again.

Couldn't have said it better

 

[IronsideCel]

Should be water tbh but Chads.is

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

Depends. Foids date men who they see as nothing but potential betabuxxers all the time. If the "incel" got a date without leading with his money, then yeah he's a fakecel.