If you approach 10 women and all of them think you are physically unattractive then you could literally approach 50,000 more and get the same identical result nomatter what you say/do.
Just because the first 10 females you approach don't find you physically attractive says precisely nothing about what the 11th is going to think... let alone the remaining 49,989.
Unless you are universally attractive to every woman (maybe 1% of males), then attraction is relative to the individual person. They may be into black guys, or not; They may be into the tattooed biker look, or not; They may have a thing for abs, or they may prefer a dad bod. People don't choose what they find attractive, it is psychologically instantiated throughout their life experience. Notwithstanding certain physical features that 'all' members of a given sex seem to find universally attractive, like boobs for men and height for females. But having 'all' of those features is not a hard requisite to being attractive to at least 'some' percentage of the population.
Also, despite what many refuse to acknowledge for reasons that I can only imagine are severe cope, social skills actually really really reeeeeally matter. But don't take my word for it, there are literally entire sections of the bookstore dedicated to scientifically backed psychological literature on the subjects of social charisma how it interrelates to attraction.
And before you even go there, the 80/20 rule only applies to Tinder studies with regards to pure physical attractiveness precisely BECAUSE it takes all other variables out of the equation virtually by definition.
You need to be atleast 4-7 points above the woman, tall and white to have a shot with her from cold approach.
Yeah, so this is just flat out false. Hypergamy describes the phenomenon of females dating across and up the social hierarchy. ACROSS.
This literally means that a female WILL date and mate with a male that she perceives as being of at least EQUAL sexual market value as herself. And there are FAR more factors that affect a female's assessment of a male's smv than merely looks.
What's more, these factors are weighted with different degrees of importance depending on a variety of factors as well. Things such as age, relationship goals (hookup vs ltr), upbringing, cultural expectations, and even ovulation cycle ALL affect which variables in a males smv are most salient, or even relevant.
For example, a 7/10, 5'4 28 year old Asian female who was raised by more traditional parents might completely ignore Tyrone when he cold approaches her, but jump at the opportunity to go out with a 6/10 faced, 5'6 asian man with a stable career than earns even slightly more than her.
This is because she's in her epiphany phase looking for a reliable partner to start a family with. And while she would certainly have jumped Tyrone's bones when she was 23 and not interested in long term prospects, because looks were the only relevant factor at that time and Tyrone's parental qualities and social stigma mattered precisely zero, now that she is looking for a man to start a family with, the asian man's social stigma and career stability increase his smv to the point where he is at the same level, or even above our hypothetical Asian foid.
Now I know y'all are gonna cry betabux and cuck until the cows come home, but frankly this is cope to the nth degree.
A.) Regarding betabux, No.. cuz in this case he only needs to be earning 'slightly' more to compensate for his 1 point lower face. If he was a 7/10 like her, he could be earning the same as her or even slightly less and she would still go for him. That's called an even trade.
B.) If you call this cuck because you think she can't 'really' lust after him the way she lusted after Chad in the early 20's, you're both wrong AND being a choosy beggar. Firstly, she actually CAN lust after him, it's just that the priorities for what ignites her passions have shifted (there are studies that prove this), and secondly your basically saying 'I refuse to accept a relationship with a female unless she is as sexually attracted to me as she is to the top 5% of attractive males.. even though I'm actually in the bottom 50%.' That's unreasonable and actually impossible. Just imagine a 3/10 landwhale expecting you to desire her as if she was a Victoria secret model.. If that's not delusional autistic as fuck thinking, then I don't know what is.
