Serious How does one become streetwise/self-sufficient/socially competent?

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The question is: How can a man in his early 20s get these essential life skills? How can somebody avoid being scammed/robbed/beaten/etc.? How can a man become self-sufficient and street-smart? How can a man start to read others and understand them? How can somebody prevent getting into shitty situations or becoming a victim of crime? How can somebody toughen up? How can somebody evaluate a situation better? Are there any people here who started out as autistic, high-inhib failures and managed to get at least that aspect in order, if so I would be interested in how you did it.

I am incompetent in almost everything social. I was easily scammed by others and cannot tell when others are genuine or not, I automatically assume the worst of others now. I was never a self-sufficient person and always relied on others for decision making, I followed my parents and my only friend around as a child and as an adult I do the same thing with authority figures. I was also never a person with social competence, I never attended social meetings/gatherings because I always got into trouble with others, people treat me as an annoyance and have never invited me to any parties/gatherings, I cannot even use public transport or something like that because I was almost never in the city.
I know nothing about the place where I live, I unironically became a misanthropic recluse. Doesn't help that everywhere I go I am reminded of shit that was done to me in my town (bullying/destruction of my property/physical insults/harassment of me and my family). I was also never anywhere without parental guidance - except on my job. I fear/despise others/the outside in general and avoid interacting with it, the few times I tried I was scammed or worse stuff happened to me.
I withdrew deliberately from society after many bad experiences and realising that I am not on the same wavelength as others. With lockdown and home-office this grew to new extremes, it will probably result in 1,5 years of no (real) social interaction with others (considering when it will likely end) - the few skills I had are now completely eroded. For the entire timespan I didn't talk to anyone except my parents or people over the Internet. Even on a professional basis I am only barely functional and most of my coworkers trashtalk about me behind my back and see me as a milestone on their neck that is barely tolerated.
The thing is: I want to do travelmaxxing. Always wanted to see the world, the problem is the fact that I know it entirely from the Internet, articles and books. If I traveled alone I would probably end up being murdered considering the fact that I am a high-risk victim due to being physically disabled/small and autistic, traveling with these prerequisites is suicide under a different name. I am definetely not street-smart or something like that. Have tried gymmaxxing to physically toughen up at least (although the results are minimal due to having a physical disability). I am one of the people who is only alive because it's illegal to kill them, a complete magnet for everything shitty in life - and my response was complete avoidance and escape from humanity.

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

observation

 

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observation

Where can you make these observations? Would be interested in more details if you have time/interest.

 

[imsorry]

How can a man in his early 20s get these essential life skills?

it starts with parents they need to realize that their sons are living, breathing humans.

parents need to start being honest with themselves that their little kids are going to grow up one day and have to fend for themselves.

for boys parents have to:

1. looksmaxx their kids as early as possible
2. sign them up to play team sports or train martial arts (additionally they could sign you up to an extracurricular activities that involves girls i.e. dancing, so they would feel comfortable around girls and not look at them like they are some kind of mythical creatures of god)

I was easily scammed by others and cannot tell when others are genuine or not

i think it was you that commented: "autistic people learn when they get punished/the pain is inflicted on them" i don't remember, but this applies.

you need to be more vigilant when interact with random people.

trusting other people feels good, but that doesn't work. people are self interested predators they see you as an object and a tool that can be used and abused.

conclusion:

you parents could've tried more to fit you into the NT category.

you probably make the mistake of sharing your hobbies/interests irl people might find them weird especially if you don't look good. to protect yourself you better shut your mouth i've learned the hard way.

i'm way too friendly with others. now i pretend to be an NPC irl

i remember my highschool classmate that was autistic: he was absolutely obsessed with geography and people found that funny that he was an expert in that field yet he was absolutely blind when it came to socializing.

 

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it starts with parents they need to realize that their sons are living, breathing humans.

parents need to start being honest with themselves that their little kids are going to grow up one day and have to fend for themselves.

for boys parents have to:

1. looksmaxx their kids as early as possible
2. sign them up to play team sports or train martial arts (additionally they could sign you up to an extracurricular activities that involves girls i.e. dancing, so they would feel comfortable around girls and not look at them like they are some kind of mythical creatures of god)


i think it was you that commented: "autistic people learn when they get punished/the pain is inflicted on them" i don't remember, but this applies.

you need to be more vigilant when interact with random people.

trusting other people feels good, but that doesn't work. people are self interested predators they see you as an object and a tool that can be used and abused.

conclusion:

you parents could've tried more to fit you into the NT category.

you probably make the mistake of sharing your hobbies/interests irl people might find them weird especially if you don't look good. to protect yourself you better shut your mouth i've learned the hard way.

i'm way too friendly with others. now i pretend to be an NPC irl

i remember my highschool classmate that was autistic: he was absolutely obsessed with geography and people found that funny that he was an expert in that field yet he was absolutely blind when it came to socializing.

Thank you for the detailled answer, especially the Gray Rock Method is perfect. And yes, in the past I often made the mistake of being too open about everything. Am also very often too nice, which led to many people exploiting me. And brutal story with the classmate.

 

[dirtykombatcel]

travelling is overrated bullshit, it's changing the scenery to see the same shitty story

 

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Thank you for the detailled answer, especially the Gray Rock Method is perfect. And yes, in the past I often made the mistake of being too open about everything. Am also very often too nice, which led to many people exploiting me. And brutal story with the classmate.

gray cock method seems good

but I could never do this, for some reason my settings are set high on socialising joking around talking about anything and everything, everytime i try and turn this off or mute it i become depressed.

This however gives me no value in the eyes of normans no matter how "entertaining" I am, they purely use to pass time entertainment at my expense

The world is an absolute hell

 

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The world is an absolute hell

True tbh.

 

[Izayacel]

brauchst geld für travelmax mein bruder

ich bin nicht gerade different von dir , nur etwas low inhib , und bewusst , wie man als non aggresor ( zu ruhig , kind etc ) behandelt wird

hab früher eingesteckt , jetzt geb ich halt weniger attention zu dem ganzen . wer nicht genetisch bevormundet ist , hat hier einen nachteil .

und oder man ist betabux wenn man sOcIaL ist . ( den meisten scheint hypergamy nicht bewusst zu sein )


Wo wohnst? propability ist low , aber hey besser als nicht zu fragen lol.

 

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brauchst geld für travelmax mein bruder

ich bin nicht gerade different von dir , nur etwas low inhib , und bewusst , wie man als non aggresor ( zu ruhig , kind etc ) behandelt wird

hab früher eingesteckt , jetzt geb ich halt weniger attention zu dem ganzen . wer nicht genetisch bevormundet ist , hat hier einen nachteil .

und oder man ist betabux wenn man sOcIal ist . ( den meisten scheint hypergamy nicht bewusst zu sein )


Wo wohnst? propability ist low , aber hey besser als nicht zu fraghen lol.

Eher südlich, wo du? Näheres kann ich leider rr nicht leaken. Und völlig recht hast du.

 

[Izayacel]

Eher südlich, wo du? Näheres kann ich leider rr nicht leaken. Und völlig recht hast du.

sAcHsEn

 

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sAcHsEn

Brutal. Aus dem Osten ziehen die Frauen weg und im Westen sind es degenerierte, hypergame Drecksgören mit Anspruchsdenken, die eher verenden würden, als sich mit einem durchschnittlich aussehenden Kerl einzulassen, weswegen man die Dreckslöcher im Westen oftmals dann als Singleburgen bezeichnet. Jfl, man kann es drehen und wenden, aber in Deutschland ist es einfach aus für Subchads.

Da muss auf eine Slavin/Asiatin hoffen und einfach dafür beten, nur Locationcel zu sein. Mit verwestlichten Frauen aus diesen Ländern ist es auf jeden Fall so, dass man da auch erst als High-tier-Normie landen kann (jfl, sagt Vieles über Standards autochthoner Weibsbilder aus, wenn das noch als vergleichsweise geringer Anspruch durchgeht). Einfach brutalst over für alle Deutschcels.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

The question is: How can a man in his early 20s get these essential life skills? How can somebody avoid being scammed/robbed/beaten/etc.? How can a man become self-sufficient and street-smart? How can a man start to read others and understand them? How can somebody prevent getting into shitty situations or becoming a victim of crime? How can somebody toughen up? How can somebody evaluate a situation better? Are there any people here who started out as autistic, high-inhib failures and managed to get at least that aspect in order, if so I would be interested in how you did it.

I am incompetent in almost everything social. I was easily scammed by others and cannot tell when others are genuine or not, I automatically assume the worst of others now. I was never a self-sufficient person and always relied on others for decision making, I followed my parents and my only friend around as a child and as an adult I do the same thing with authority figures. I was also never a person with social competence, I never attended social meetings/gatherings because I always got into trouble with others, people treat me as an annoyance and have never invited me to any parties/gatherings, I cannot even use public transport or something like that because I was almost never in the city.
I know nothing about the place where I live, I unironically became a misanthropic recluse. Doesn't help that everywhere I go I am reminded of shit that was done to me in my town (bullying/destruction of my property/physical insults/harassment of me and my family). I was also never anywhere without parental guidance - except on my job. I fear/despise others/the outside in general and avoid interacting with it, the few times I tried I was scammed or worse stuff happened to me.
I withdrew deliberately from society after many bad experiences and realising that I am not on the same wavelength as others. With lockdown and home-office this grew to new extremes, it will probably result in 1,5 years of no (real) social interaction with others (considering when it will likely end) - the few skills I had are now completely eroded. For the entire timespan I didn't talk to anyone except my parents or people over the Internet. Even on a professional basis I am only barely functional and most of my coworkers trashtalk about me behind my back and see me as a milestone on their neck that is barely tolerated.
The thing is: I want to do travelmaxxing. Always wanted to see the world, the problem is the fact that I know it entirely from the Internet, articles and books. If I traveled alone I would probably end up being murdered considering the fact that I am a high-risk victim due to being physically disabled/small and autistic, traveling with these prerequisites is suicide under a different name. I am definetely not street-smart or something like that. Have tried gymmaxxing to physically toughen up at least (although the results are minimal due to having a physical disability). I am one of the people who is only alive because it's illegal to kill them, a complete magnet for everything shitty in life - and my response was complete avoidance and escape from humanity.

far as i can tell there's nothing you can do besides taking it slowly one step at a time to build a network of friends, easier said than done, i know
part of the reason that normies are so slow to make friends now, is that trying to make friends too quickly, and exposing your true self will attract psychopaths and others that want to take advantage of you
filtering the right people takes time, so normgroids are very comfy having just a few dependable friends and telling everyone else to fuck off
not many things will give you a shot at making new friends, usually it's something like a new school or a new job, and nobody wants to juggle those just to make more friends, it's brutal

i can't think of another way to become normal, because social norms and "tricks" change with every generation, and arguably in the modern era they change faster than ever, and you won't be able to learn them without actually having real friends, who are connected to the rest of the hivemind and keep up with it

 

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Just being from the hood I know how to move around I guess if ur autistic then it’s gonna be hard cuz just like anything else u gotta pick up on certain social cues
Like if someone asks U what shoe size are you, you don’t fucking tell Them u get ready to fight if anything

 

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far as i can tell there's nothing you can do besides taking it slowly one step at a time to build a network of friends, easier said than done, i know
part of the reason that normies are so slow to make friends now, is that trying to make friends too quickly, and exposing your true self will attract psychopaths and others that want to take advantage of you
filtering the right people takes time, so normgroids are very comfy having just a few dependable friends and telling everyone else to fuck off
not many things will give you a shot at making new friends, usually it's something like a new school or a new job, and nobody wants to juggle those just to make more friends, it's brutal

i can't think of another way to become normal, because social norms and "tricks" change with every generation, and arguably in the modern era they change faster than ever, and you won't be able to learn them without actually having real friends, who are connected to the rest of the hivemind and keep up with it

Thank you. Very detailled answer. Brutal how shit is nowadays. Not that it has been significantly better a few years ago, but this new world is truly a hellhole.

 

[Deleted member 32725]

brauchst geld für travelmax mein bruder

ich bin nicht gerade different von dir , nur etwas low inhib , und bewusst , wie man als non aggresor ( zu ruhig , kind etc ) behandelt wird

hab früher eingesteckt , jetzt geb ich halt weniger attention zu dem ganzen . wer nicht genetisch bevormundet ist , hat hier einen nachteil .

und oder man ist betabux wenn man sOcIaL ist . ( den meisten scheint hypergamy nicht bewusst zu sein )


Wo wohnst? propability ist low , aber hey besser als nicht zu fragen lol.

What does "bevormundet" mean in English, again?

 

[Meus]

The question is: How can a man in his early 20s get these essential life skills? How can somebody avoid being scammed/robbed/beaten/etc.? How can a man become self-sufficient and street-smart? How can a man start to read others and understand them? How can somebody prevent getting into shitty situations or becoming a victim of crime? How can somebody toughen up? How can somebody evaluate a situation better? Are there any people here who started out as autistic, high-inhib failures and managed to get at least that aspect in order, if so I would be interested in how you did it.

I am incompetent in almost everything social. I was easily scammed by others and cannot tell when others are genuine or not, I automatically assume the worst of others now. I was never a self-sufficient person and always relied on others for decision making, I followed my parents and my only friend around as a child and as an adult I do the same thing with authority figures. I was also never a person with social competence, I never attended social meetings/gatherings because I always got into trouble with others, people treat me as an annoyance and have never invited me to any parties/gatherings, I cannot even use public transport or something like that because I was almost never in the city.
I know nothing about the place where I live, I unironically became a misanthropic recluse. Doesn't help that everywhere I go I am reminded of shit that was done to me in my town (bullying/destruction of my property/physical insults/harassment of me and my family). I was also never anywhere without parental guidance - except on my job. I fear/despise others/the outside in general and avoid interacting with it, the few times I tried I was scammed or worse stuff happened to me.
I withdrew deliberately from society after many bad experiences and realising that I am not on the same wavelength as others. With lockdown and home-office this grew to new extremes, it will probably result in 1,5 years of no (real) social interaction with others (considering when it will likely end) - the few skills I had are now completely eroded. For the entire timespan I didn't talk to anyone except my parents or people over the Internet. Even on a professional basis I am only barely functional and most of my coworkers trashtalk about me behind my back and see me as a milestone on their neck that is barely tolerated.
The thing is: I want to do travelmaxxing. Always wanted to see the world, the problem is the fact that I know it entirely from the Internet, articles and books. If I traveled alone I would probably end up being murdered considering the fact that I am a high-risk victim due to being physically disabled/small and autistic, traveling with these prerequisites is suicide under a different name. I am definetely not street-smart or something like that. Have tried gymmaxxing to physically toughen up at least (although the results are minimal due to having a physical disability). I am one of the people who is only alive because it's illegal to kill them, a complete magnet for everything shitty in life - and my response was complete avoidance and escape from humanity.

You answered your own question: Being in the streets constantly since the earliest age. There is literally no fucking other way.

Most incels have 1 thing in common: Most stopped being outside at a certain point in childhood. Probably when something negative happened.

While we were fapping to anime girls, streetchads were flirting with and even fucking real foids, simply because they learned the ways of the streets. You can't learn this, it's too late. You would stick out like a sore thumb.

 

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What does "bevormundet" mean in English, again?

patronized/infantilized

You answered your own question: Being in the streets constantly since the earliest age. There is literally no fucking other way.

Most incels have 1 thing in common: Most stopped being outside at a certain point in childhood. Probably when something negative happened.

While we were fapping to anime girls, streetchads were flirting with and even fucking real foids, simply because they learned the ways of the streets. You can't learn this, it's too late. You would stick out like a sore thumb.

Completely over. You are completely right, even if you improve as much as you can it still won't be enough. If you have to improve at all, it didn't even begin.

 

[Deleted member 32725]

patronized/infantilized

Completely over. You are completely right, even if you improve as much as you can it still won't be enough. If you have to improve at all, it didn't even begin.

Cool, thanks! I like trying to read these posts but to lazy to translate.

 

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The question is: How can a man in his early 20s get these essential life skills? How can somebody avoid being scammed/robbed/beaten/etc.? How can a man become self-sufficient and street-smart? How can a man start to read others and understand them? How can somebody prevent getting into shitty situations or becoming a victim of crime? How can somebody toughen up? How can somebody evaluate a situation better? Are there any people here who started out as autistic, high-inhib failures and managed to get at least that aspect in order, if so I would be interested in how you did it.

I am incompetent in almost everything social. I was easily scammed by others and cannot tell when others are genuine or not, I automatically assume the worst of others now. I was never a self-sufficient person and always relied on others for decision making, I followed my parents and my only friend around as a child and as an adult I do the same thing with authority figures. I was also never a person with social competence, I never attended social meetings/gatherings because I always got into trouble with others, people treat me as an annoyance and have never invited me to any parties/gatherings, I cannot even use public transport or something like that because I was almost never in the city.
I know nothing about the place where I live, I unironically became a misanthropic recluse. Doesn't help that everywhere I go I am reminded of shit that was done to me in my town (bullying/destruction of my property/physical insults/harassment of me and my family). I was also never anywhere without parental guidance - except on my job. I fear/despise others/the outside in general and avoid interacting with it, the few times I tried I was scammed or worse stuff happened to me.
I withdrew deliberately from society after many bad experiences and realising that I am not on the same wavelength as others. With lockdown and home-office this grew to new extremes, it will probably result in 1,5 years of no (real) social interaction with others (considering when it will likely end) - the few skills I had are now completely eroded. For the entire timespan I didn't talk to anyone except my parents or people over the Internet. Even on a professional basis I am only barely functional and most of my coworkers trashtalk about me behind my back and see me as a milestone on their neck that is barely tolerated.
The thing is: I want to do travelmaxxing. Always wanted to see the world, the problem is the fact that I know it entirely from the Internet, articles and books. If I traveled alone I would probably end up being murdered considering the fact that I am a high-risk victim due to being physically disabled/small and autistic, traveling with these prerequisites is suicide under a different name. I am definetely not street-smart or something like that. Have tried gymmaxxing to physically toughen up at least (although the results are minimal due to having a physical disability). I am one of the people who is only alive because it's illegal to kill them, a complete magnet for everything shitty in life - and my response was complete avoidance and escape from humanity.

Man fuck that gay shit I ain't got time to fit around this normies. If they don't like me they can go fuck themselves I'm past that point I recommend you do the same instead of wasting time on their bullshit.

If you are truecel normies ain't gonna like you no matter how much you clown yourself out I already been down that road. Just gtfo from the West is what I recommend like I'm planning to.

 

[Deleted member 16390]

The world is a dangerous place.
Dont go outside and dont talk to strangers

 

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Cool, thanks! I like trying to read these posts but to lazy to translate.

He probably means "bevorzugt", which means "preferred"/"standing out". My post has some anachronistic vocabulary "Drecksgören" means "fucking brats" and I basically say that the only hope is a slavish/asian woman due to locationmaxxing.

Man fuck that gay shit I ain't got time to fit around this normies. If they don't like me they can go fuck themselves I'm past that point I recommend you do the same instead of wasting time on their bullshit.

If you are truecel normies ain't gonna like you no matter how much you clown yourself out I already been down that road. Just gtfo from the West is what I recommend like I'm planning to.

Is understandable when its just looks holding you down, but how can somebody plan to gtfo the West when he has no social skills? In the West the worst thing that can realistically happen is a scam which leads to a loss of money which is enormously enfuriating, but nothing that cannot be compensated for, in the other parts of the world a wrong decision can mean the difference between life/death. I don't get it how people travel alone, I have read stuff about Milat/Sobrahj/John Martin Scripps/the missing girls of Panama and other stuff and don't get it how people can still travel alone - and these were even all NT/able-bodied people who should be able to read people and defend themselves.

The world is a dangerous place.
Dont go outside and dont talk to strangers

Yes, basically what I am doing. But how do normalfags travel/meet people? The entire concept seems surreal.

 

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He probably means "bevorzugt", which means "preferred"/"standing out". My post has some anachronistic vocabulary "Drecksgören" means "fucking brats" and I basically say that the only hope is a slavish/asian woman due to locationmaxxing.

Is understandable when its just looks holding you down, but how can somebody plan to gtfo the West when he has no social skills? In the West the worst thing that can realistically happen is a scam which leads to a loss of money which is enormously enfuriating, but nothing that cannot be compensated for, in the other parts of the world a wrong decision can mean the difference between life/death. I don't get it how people travel alone, I have read stuff about Milat/Sobrahj/John Martin Scripps/the missing girls of Panama and other stuff and don't get it how people can still travel alone - and these were even all NT/able-bodied people who should be able to read people and defend themselves.

Yes, basically what I am doing. But how do normalfags travel/meet people? The entire concept seems surreal.

You will be thrown into a new culture your social skills will no longer be a problem it will easily be explained by a language barrier or the like. I'm not going to some fucking third world shithole where I'll get killed for my organs or something JFL I was thinking of Taiwan or China etc.

 

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You will be thrown into a new culture your social skills will no longer be a problem it will easily be explained by a language barrier or the like. I'm not going to some fucking third world shithole where I'll get killed for my organs or something JFL I was thinking of Taiwan or China etc.

Was thinking about the same, thought of Thailand/the Philippines personally. But I am still worried about it all. Due to having never had any experience in that regard, would travel there with some other individuals.

I always wanted to see Thailand because of the animals (kraits/cobras/blue coral snakes/etc.) that live there and the crocodile/snake farms. Also wanted to go to Costa Rica due to the bridge with the crocodilians and the mountains with the fog and the amphibians (especially plethodontids) - but after listening about crimes in Middle/South America I stopped to pursue that. A friend of mine locationmaxxed in Japan, also thought about going there due to aquariums and because it is famous for the beetles, but too big cities.

Why do you like Taiwan/China? What are you looking forward to? You can go into any detail you like, am just interested.

 

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Was thinking about the same, thought of Thailand/the Philippines personally. But I am still worried about it all. Due to having never had any experience in that regard, would travel there with some other individuals.

I always wanted to see Thailand because of the animals (kraits/cobras/blue coral snakes/etc.) that live there and the crocodile/snake farms. Also wanted to go to Costa Rica due to the bridge with the crocodilians and the mountains with the fog and the amphibians (especially plethodontids) - but after listening about crimes in Middle/South America I stopped to pursue that. A friend of mine locationmaxxed in Japan, also thought about going there due to aquariums and because it is famous for the beetles, but too big cities.

Why do you like Taiwan/China? What are you looking forward to? You can go into any detail you like, am just interested.

I don't mean travel I mean I want to live there permanently. I love living in major metropolitan areas and China is pretty famous for that. Chinese people are easily impressed by foreign culture all you have to do is larp a little bit. Also Chinese foids like to date foreigners it's like a show off type of thing and Chinese are materialistic as fuck. It's pretty unique to be a foreigner in China you are either a 'good' foreigner or a 'bad' foreigner but if you choose to live in China you will always be regarded as a 'foreigner' anyway, forget about getting a citizenship there is like a handful of people that get them yearly and they live there for 30+ years. All the locals will always treat you as an outsider, you will never be one of them. But if you are a 'good' foreigner then it's not that bad since you will be admired and welcomed all you gotta do is larp a little bit make some blog posts about how great China is review some dogshit chinese food and give your seal of approval, you know the normie stuff, on whatever their social networks are all I know of is wechat as of now. You do that, get yourself some Chinese<->English exchange lessons (make sure foids only) and I reckon it will be pretty easy to fuck some foids there that way. Probably fuck your chinese teachers jfl ngl some of them probably only call u to fuck you from what I heard jfl tbh tbh but some of them are old 30+ who are looking for a foreign husband because they are 'leftover woman' and chinese men don't wanna marry them but tbh most of them are rich as fuck so if that's your thing you can reverse-betabuxx over there.

It's not a difficult country to live in, all you gotta do is respect the system and be a good foreigner that's all, the gooks will love you for that I kid you not they are fucking nuts about how great their country is CCP does its job flawlessly and I won't pretend to be any smarter than they are I just don't give a fuck, if all it takes is praise their country and shit to have a chill life over there then idc I'll fucking do that no problem.

First I need to learn their fucking gook language though jfl. That shit is hard as fuck ngl ngl ded srs. I'm doing the HSK 1 exam in few months that shit is supposed to be the first level there is like 5. In a year or two I'm planning to get a scholarship and get my ass over there for a year to learn their gook language faster. Not to mention learning this gook language will probably be very beneficial looking at the current world trajectory.

I consider Taiwan too because it's basically China 2.0 but with a hard-on for the west. Then there is Japan but honestly I don't think I would fit in very well in there maybe I'll go to visit but to live there? Dunno, seems kinda normie thing to do. Philippines is great too but they are just too fucking poor ngl ngl ded srs I don't think I would live there but I'm considering it.

I hope to help other cels in the future when I'm past my 30s and hopefully living in Asia to come over and do what I am planning to do. I'm already nearing 26 jfl it's over.

 

[Deleted member 8884]

I'm not the best person to answer, but I'd imagine just through experience and exposure to certain situations. Without exposure, or even worse with active avoidance of these things, you don't really learn anything.

 

[Lebensmüder]

I don't mean travel I mean I want to live there permanently. I love living in major metropolitan areas and China is pretty famous for that. Chinese people are easily impressed by foreign culture all you have to do is larp a little bit. Also Chinese foids like to date foreigners it's like a show off type of thing and Chinese are materialistic as fuck. It's pretty unique to be a foreigner in China you are either a 'good' foreigner or a 'bad' foreigner but if you choose to live in China you will always be regarded as a 'foreigner' anyway, forget about getting a citizenship there is like a handful of people that get them yearly and they live there for 30+ years. All the locals will always treat you as an outsider, you will never be one of them. But if you are a 'good' foreigner then it's not that bad since you will be admired and welcomed all you gotta do is larp a little bit make some blog posts about how great China is review some dogshit chinese food and give your seal of approval, you know the normie stuff, on whatever their social networks are all I know of is wechat as of now. You do that, get yourself some Chinese<->English exchange lessons (make sure foids only) and I reckon it will be pretty easy to fuck some foids there that way. Probably fuck your chinese teachers jfl ngl some of them probably only call u to fuck you from what I heard jfl tbh tbh but some of them are old 30+ who are looking for a foreign husband because they are 'leftover woman' and chinese men don't wanna marry them but tbh most of them are rich as fuck so if that's your thing you can reverse-betabuxx over there.

It's not a difficult country to live in, all you gotta do is respect the system and be a good foreigner that's all, the gooks will love you for that I kid you not they are fucking nuts about how great their country is CCP does its job flawlessly and I won't pretend to be any smarter than they are I just don't give a fuck, if all it takes is praise their country and shit to have a chill life over there then idc I'll fucking do that no problem.

First I need to learn their fucking gook language though jfl. That shit is hard as fuck ngl ngl ded srs. I'm doing the HSK 1 exam in few months that shit is supposed to be the first level there is like 5. In a year or two I'm planning to get a scholarship and get my ass over there for a year to learn their gook language faster. Not to mention learning this gook language will probably be very beneficial looking at the current world trajectory.

I consider Taiwan too because it's basically China 2.0 but with a hard-on for the west. Then there is Japan but honestly I don't think I would fit in very well in there maybe I'll go to visit but to live there? Dunno, seems kinda normie thing to do. Philippines is great too but they are just too fucking poor ngl ngl ded srs I don't think I would live there but I'm considering it.

I hope to help other cels in the future when I'm past my 30s and hopefully living in Asia to come over and do what I am planning to do. I'm already nearing 26 jfl it's over.

Interesting, hope you manage to do it. Wish you good luck.

I'm not the best person to answer, but I'd imagine just through experience and exposure to certain situations. Without exposure, or even worse with active avoidance of these things, you don't really learn anything.

Brutal. Will try when I am done with studymaxxing. In the moment neither time nor nerves sadly to expose myself to others.

 

[erenyeager]

for boys parents have to:

1. looksmaxx their kids as early as possible
2. sign them up to play team sports or train martial arts (additionally they could sign you up to an extracurricular activities that involves girls i.e. dancing, so they would feel comfortable around girls and not look at them like they are some kind of mythical creatures of god)

And for the love of god if they are fucking short in their kid years give them fucking HGH ITS HELL ON EARTH IF YOURE 5'2 HELL AT LEAST MAKE ME 5'8 lIKE MY DAD

 

[based_meme]

I automatically assume the worst of others now.

This is precisely where you start to improve on all of the things you've mentioned.

The naive assume the best in people. The street smart assume the worst in them.