watcher said:
Yeah I get obsessed and can't ignore any slightly attractive girl around. When I see a really hot girl in the market, cafe, etc. I think about them for the rest of the day.
That's normal if you haven't had a lot of conversations with women and have never orbited a woman tbh
Right now looking at hot girls and their quirks especially when music is playing might give you an earworm and a lingering idea of them in your head and you think constantly about them for hours after that. But after you go through a situation where you get lead on and dropped by a woman it is easier to ignore them because being used by a woman makes you more wary of them unless they are more overt toward you like talking to you.
But at what cost? You get an idea of what you are missing when you orbit a woman and it's harder to live knowing a bit of what you're missing out on.
But the more you try to ignore attractive women IRL the more obvious it looks tbh and the more conscious of them you become.
I would just always assume they have a boyfriend or multiple orbiters already and keep it moving ngl
When they talk to others and you hear it just ignore it like it's background noise because it is.
