It takes real masculine courage and strength of mind to look into the abyss, accept hell, and then still keep striving forward. Chad doesn't have that. All Chad has is his feminine lookist mindset which he uses to capitalize with his narcissism. Their socializing, their narcissism, and their superficiality all confirm their feminized mind and soul. They are indeed de-facto women seeking to play by the rules of a gynocentric society whereas we incels stands outside it, resolute in their ideals, their masculine autism prevents them from giving into conformity, validation seeking, approval seeking, and hedonism.