Serious Parents who cook their incel son's food (but refuse to talk with them about blackpilled subjects) are using that as psychological warfare

[Personalityinkwell]

I will get roasted, but i'm gonna say it

if a parent is "doing things" for you, they are trying to manipulate your mind that they are "good people" because they are doing basic tasks so if you bring up serious topics they can shut you down. when you call them out on shutting them down, they will say "i cooked you some eggs" to downplay the psychological abuse they played on you.

never ever ever ever forget

YOUR PARENTS HATE YOU. YOU PUSSIES CAN'T ACCEPT THIS FACT

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I will get roasted, but i'm gonna say it

if a parent is "doing things" for you, they are trying to manipulate your mind that they are "good people" because they are doing basic tasks so if you bring up serious topics they can shut you down. when you call them out on shutting them down, they will say "i cooked you some eggs" to downplay the psychological abuse they played on you.

never ever ever ever forget

YOUR PARENTS HATE YOU. YOU PUSSIES CAN'T ACCEPT THIS FACT

Nah, many parents will die for their kids, even if they had down syndrome. The thing is that if you have better looking siblings, they would like them more though.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Nah, many parents will die for their kids, even if they had down syndrome. The thing is that if you have better looking siblings, they would like them more though.

cope as fuck by a GrAYcel

parents hate their ugly incel sons

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

I cook food for myself. eggs, pancakes, sandwiches, smoothies etc are all really simple to make. there's also stuff that requires no preparation at all like fruits, celery & peanut butter, etc

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I cook food for myself. eggs, pancakes, sandwiches, smoothies etc are all really simple to make. there's also stuff that requires no preparation at all like fruits, celery & peanut butter, etc

good

your parents hate you btw

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Most parents still love their kids but would love them more if they looked better. That’s why they don’t outright hate you and just act bluepilled towards you to feel better

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Most parents still love their kids but would love them more if they looked better. That’s why they don’t outright hate you and just act bluepilled towards you to feel better

well my dad has specifically said he "hates me"

"muh i didn't mean it"

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

They're just trying to get through their day, man. They can't help you anymore at this point even if they wanted to.

The time to help you was when you were around puberty, by investing more in you and giving you more social freedom. If they didn't do that then the two of you should just minimize interactions and avoid confrontation over it because the deed is done and you have nothing to gain.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

well my dad has specifically said he "hates me"

"muh i didn't mean it"

That’s pretty brutal. But I think my parents care more about how much money I would make instead. If I had no job and remained a NEET into my 30s my parents would hate me and consider me a failure

 

[Deleted member 20987]

Nah seen too many Chad slayers, come from broken homes, go onto slay pussy and raise a family cause of looks alone.

Upbringing is a cope.

 

[GoffSystemQB]

My mom doesn't even cook JFL for half a decade though she buys me frozen meals and stuff.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

They're just trying to get through their day, man. They can't help you anymore at this point even if they wanted to.

The time to help you was when you were around puberty, by investing more in you and giving you more social freedom. If they didn't do that then the two of you should just minimize interactions and avoid confrontation over it because the deed is done and you have nothing to gain.

the social freedom existed

its just my acne was downplayed "you're handsome" don't worry about it" "just study"

That’s pretty brutal. But I think my parents care more about how much money I would make instead. If I had no job and remained a NEET into my 30s my parents would hate me and consider me a failure

good for you. maybe you are indeed blessed

My mom doesn't even cook JFL for almost a decade though she buys me frozen meals and stuff.

brutal ngl

 

[Genetic Dead End]

Ultra high IQ observation. Shitty parents love this tactic.

 

[Deleted member 26140]

YOUR PARENTS HATE YOU. YOU PUSSIES CAN'T ACCEPT THIS FACT

Cope, your parents are the only people who love you. They are biologically harwired to.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Cope, your parents are the only people who love you. They are biologically harwired to.

how is it a cope

my dad has literally said he hates me. literally

why would i "cope" that they hate me?

 

[Genetic Dead End]

Cope, your parents are the only people who love you. They are biologically harwired to.

@Personalityinkwell Get a load of this retard

 

[azathoth1919]

your parents hate you btw

Obviously but no need to rub it in asshole. My relations with my parents consist in (increasingly fake) shared interest in a bunch of inane things (sportzball mostly). If I ever bring up anything actually serious they get super pissed and shut it down. I hate NFL season when that starts. Fucking sick of my fat fuck dad worshipping those dumbass jocks.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

@Personalityinkwell Get a load of this retard

he has no idea

i'm beginning to think acne scar cels are the biggest truecels of them all

 

[Genetic Dead End]

he has no idea

i'm beginning to think acne scar cels are the biggest truecels of them all

Probably the only non-larpers on this whole forum.

 

[Deleted member 26140]

how is it a cope

my dad has literally said he hates me. literally

why would i "cope" that they hate me?

That sucks but generalizing that all parents hate their incel sons is not correct.

@Personalityinkwell Get a load of this retard

I will find you and literally force you to brush your teeth with your own shit faggot

 

[Unsaveable]

My mom loves me and my siblings more than anyone tbh, she's ill and yet she does everything for us.

I can never repay her in fact I've been nothing but a nuisance to her but she still does all that I ask of her.

 

[HappilySingle]

Nah seen too many Chad slayers, come from broken homes, go onto slay pussy and raise a family cause of looks alone.

Upbringing is a cope.

Except their parents react to cool son by being cool themselves and letting him fuck stacys and drink beer provided by them. Same parents but with an incel you are grounded for not getting A+ since that is the only chance you will move out.

 

[guaucel]

I will get roasted, but i'm gonna say it

if a parent is "doing things" for you, they are trying to manipulate your mind that they are "good people" because they are doing basic tasks so if you bring up serious topics they can shut you down. when you call them out on shutting them down, they will say "i cooked you some eggs" to downplay the psychological abuse they played on you.

never ever ever ever forget

YOUR PARENTS HATE YOU. YOU PUSSIES CAN'T ACCEPT THIS FACT

Legit, only infiltrated users or bluepiller lurkers will deny this

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Most parents still love their kids but would love them more if they looked better. That’s why they don’t outright hate you and just act bluepilled towards you to feel better

When I said the same thing, I got called a coping greycel, when you said it, he starts giving anecdotes. It's over for greycels.

cope as fuck by a GrAYcel

parents hate their ugly incel sons

well my dad has specifically said he "hates me"

"muh i didn't mean it"

Sounds like cope from you, you admit your own parents hate you and are now projecting it onto everyone else.

 

[Ropemaxx]

Cope, your parents are the only people who love you. They are biologically harwired to.

tbh

how is it a cope

my dad has literally said he hates me. literally

why would i "cope" that they hate me?

damn thats fucked up man. is you relationship better now? did he say why he hated you?
thats not normal tbh

he has no idea

i'm beginning to think acne scar cels are the biggest truecels of them all

brutal as fuck. yet people call a 25 year old rotting virgin(without escort) a fakecel..

 

[Vakiadia]

I will get roasted, but i'm gonna say it

if a parent is "doing things" for you, they are trying to manipulate your mind that they are "good people" because they are doing basic tasks so if you bring up serious topics they can shut you down. when you call them out on shutting them down, they will say "i cooked you some eggs" to downplay the psychological abuse they played on you.

never ever ever ever forget

YOUR PARENTS HATE YOU. YOU PUSSIES CAN'T ACCEPT THIS FACT

Cope. Be normal.

 

[Golden Blue]

 

[WarriorSkull]

Nah seen too many Chad slayers, come from broken homes, go onto slay pussy and raise a family cause of looks alone.

Upbringing is a cope.

I don't think a better upbringing would have any effect on anyone's dating prospects, but I often wish I had asian tiger parents so if I was destined to be incel, at least I could play Mozart on the piano, have a degree from Harvard and have plenty of money for copes.

 

[HostileWaters]

Most parents still love their kids but would love them more if they looked better. That’s why they don’t outright hate you and just act bluepilled towards you to feel better

 

[slavcel11]

My mom is an old woman that just wants to retire. Sure she knows I'm ugly and short and lonely and doesn't nudge me about future grandchildren but I'm not going to overwhelm her with my misery, I want to see her happy while she's still with me.

 

[LooksAreLife]

I don't think my dad hates me tbh, he's a nice dude.

My mom on the other hand probably doesn't love me, but she's incapable of love anyway because she has actual narcissism

 

[Uglymuggly]

cope as fuck by a GrAYcel

parents hate their ugly incel sons

 

[mänline]

Legit, only infiltrated users or bluepiller lurkers will deny this

What? That all parents hate ugly sons?
1. I think for a man it is still more a shame to his parents when he is NEET than virgin. 2. That parents shut down "serious topics" is no general rule. 3. That parents are feeling personally attacked, when you blame them for bad genetics is understandable.
4. Are your other relatives of you more open to back pill? Why do you expect your parents to be different?

My parents care even more than I often want. If it is out of duty or love I don't know. How can you even separate these things clearly? Do you think it is fun to care for their crying baby at night? It is maybe more toleratable than for a person, who is not first-grade-biological relevant, but it is not fun, but a duty.
I agree, that this behavior OP described is hard to experience. But for a possible change of perspective: Maybe they don't know how to handle this better and it's their coping strategy.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

I will get roasted, but i'm gonna say it

if a parent is "doing things" for you, they are trying to manipulate your mind that they are "good people" because they are doing basic tasks so if you bring up serious topics they can shut you down. when you call them out on shutting them down, they will say "i cooked you some eggs" to downplay the psychological abuse they played on you.

never ever ever ever forget

YOUR PARENTS HATE YOU. YOU PUSSIES CAN'T ACCEPT THIS FACT

 

[Deleted member 19079]

depends on the parent tbh

a single mom niggress living on welfare who got pumped and dumped by tyrone isnt gonna feel the same way towards her kids as a mom who was raised in a functional trad family

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Sounds like cope from you, you admit your own parents hate you and are now projecting it onto everyone else.

why would it be "cope" you idiot?

expected from you. the fakecel who says he's 2/10 but has a nice jaw

What? That all parents hate ugly sons?
1. I think for a man it is still more a shame to his parents when he is NEET than virgin. 2. That parents shut down "serious topics" is no general rule. 3. That parents are feeling personally attacked, when you blame them for bad genetics is understandable.
4. Are your other relatives of you more open to back pill? Why do you expect your parents to be different?

My parents care even more than I often want. If it is out of duty or love I don't know. How can you even separate these things clearly? Do you think it is fun to care for their crying baby at night? It is maybe more toleratable than for a person, who is not first-grade-biological relevant, but it is not fun, but a duty.
I agree, that this behavior OP described is hard to experience. But for a possible change of perspective: Maybe they don't know how to handle this better and it's their coping strategy.

I'm not even "NEET" per say, but i am virgin (excluding escorts). the reason is because i'm ugly mainly. and "understandable" is no excuse. they should be willing to talk the truth

jfl

Cope. Be normal.

i can't be because i am ugly

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

expected from you. the fakecel who says he's 2/10 but has a nice jaw

I don't have a nice jaw, lol. It's very small. If it was broad, I would have agreed with you.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

I accepted it for a long time

 

[Linesnap99]

I can totally relate.This is insanity.

 

[PPEcel]

Am not often with my parents but we cook for each other.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

They're just trying to get through their day, man. They can't help you anymore at this point even if they wanted to.

The time to help you was when you were around puberty, by investing more in you and giving you more social freedom. If they didn't do that then the two of you should just minimize interactions and avoid confrontation over it because the deed is done and you have nothing to gain.

bullshit. they could help you but it's "too hard"

they are too afraid to face reality and admit their faults

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

bullshit. they could help you but it's "too hard"

they are too afraid to face reality and admit their faults

can they?

mine stopped talking to their friends decades ago, and even when they knew people they knew maybe one other couple that had a daughter.

they can't even help themselves when it comes to stuff like this.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

can they?

mine stopped talking to their friends decades ago, and even when they knew people they knew maybe one other couple that had a daughter.

they can't even help themselves when it comes to stuff like this.

they can at least help pay for surgeries and shit.

as for the social logistics yeah they can't help

 

[GoffSystemQB]

I don't have a nice jaw, lol. It's very small. If it was broad, I would have agreed with you.

What matters most is that you have a good jawline lol and you do.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

why would it be "cope" you idiot?

Cause not every incel's parents dislike them, most of their parents love them. You giving your story is an anecdote. I think the responses in the thread kind of back that up.

 

[Smitty]

If they hated you they would just kick you out and not talk to you until they are old and frail wanting to take advantage of you, just as happens to hundreds of people daily.
Stupid child.

 

[Caesercel]

If you are in your 20s become independent as fast you can. Otherwise its constant gaslighting from parents.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Cause not every incel's parents dislike them, most of their parents love them. You giving your story is an anecdote. I think the responses in the thread kind of back that up.

If they hated you they would just kick you out and not talk to you until they are old and frail wanting to take advantage of you, just as happens to hundreds of people daily.
Stupid child.

gigacope. science says otherwise

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

gigacope. science says otherwise

Science just says parents give more attention to more attractive kids, just because they would have loved you more if you were more attractive, doesn't mean parents don't love ugly kids lol. If personality ever meant anything to any woman, it would be your own family members. You are just extrapolating beyond what the study was about.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Science just says parents give more attention to more attractive kids, just because they would have loved you more if you were more attractive, doesn't mean parents don't love ugly kids lol. If personality ever meant anything to any woman, it would be your own family members. You are just extrapolating beyond what the study was about.

put two and two together

most parents with ugly kids resent them