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It's Over OLDCELS GTFIH: even if you were to possibly ascend after your 20s ended, it wouldn't be true ascension

I agree, there is no ascension after 30. I'm 38 and if it can be called a silver lining, you at least don't have motivation to really try anymore. Obviously at this age getting some hot 23 year old is out of the question as that wasn't even a possibility in my 20's. But you look around at the age appropriate women in the dating market and well most of them aren't dateable either, they should be incels themselves. Why do I even want to try meeting up with some ugly 35+ year old woman for a date? It's not like in your 20's when you're seeing beautiful women all around that are in your age range and you can't get them. By this age you at least can see and realize you really missed the boat.
 
I agree, there is no ascension after 30. I'm 38 and if it can be called a silver lining, you at least don't have motivation to really try anymore. Obviously at this age getting some hot 23 year old is out of the question as that wasn't even a possibility in my 20's. But you look around at the age appropriate women in the dating market and well most of them aren't dateable either, they should be incels themselves. Why do I even want to try meeting up with some ugly 35+ year old woman for a date? It's not like in your 20's when you're seeing beautiful women all around that are in your age range and you can't get them. By this age you at least can see and realize you really missed the boat.
if you dated a 23 year old everyone who harass you for it. age gap cops are the worst
 
33 KV, aspie (not even one of those normalised career maxxed ones, parents were abnormal lol); no chance man.
 
We are less and less alive each year, our ability to experience and feel reality diminishes every year due to the fact that our vehicle(your body) through which we experience reality deteriorate every year. Even if I found a unicorn and got into a LTR, I would not feel anything anymore its legit too late for me to have any hope of having a "normal" life, I am both physically and mentally DESTROYED, there is no ascension for someone in my position.
Truthmaxx. I'm so jaded and cynical at this point, I'm not even sure I could have a normal relationship. Life just saps all of the innocence out of you at a certain point. For someone to really "fall in love" and all that stuff, they have to do it with a degree of naïveté, otherwise, it doesn't work. That's so long gone at this point it isn't even funny. Add in the fact all the women at this age are way past expiration dated roasties, and it's not even worth trying.

I'm not a big JBP fan, but the one video of his that haunts me to this day is one I saw where he was talking about in order to be a psychologically healthy male, you need to have a wife and stable job by 30, a family shortly thereafter. I wanted to deny it at the time, but with each passing year, the truth of it becomes more and more real to me. In my experience (speaking only for myself) going without these things was sort of tolerable through college and part of my 20's because most of the people you are comparing yourself to don't have these things either. They may have a gf and may be getting laid all the time (massive plus in their column), but their lives aren't overly successful in other areas yet either. They are working similar entry level jobs as you, broke like you, occasionally break up (providing you with schauden freude) etc.

But as one gets deeper into their 20's and starts to close in on 30, you start to feel hands gripping and tightening around your neck. You feel yourself suffocating as those people all get married, have kids, get jobs making six figures, buy property, etc. The gap becomes so wide, so fast, and you realize you can never, ever make it up. The words, "it's over" take on a whole new meaning. When you have nothing to devote yourself to (a gf, work you are passionate about, a family if you choose), you literally start to crumble mentally. Besides never experiencing what love feels like, that's perhaps the next worst part of inceldom.
 
I'm turning 30 in 8 months, I'm a khhv.

You need to remember that every year we age and lose our nerve cells, our hormone levels drop, our skin wrinkles. We are less and less alive each year, our ability to experience and feel reality diminishes every year due to the fact that our vehicle(your body) through which we experience reality deteriorate every year. Even if I found a unicorn and got into a LTR, I would not feel anything anymore its legit too late for me to have any hope of having a "normal" life, I am both physically and mentally DESTROYED, there is no ascension for someone in my position.
 
Maybe that man is lucky. If he revealed his girlfriend’s age on twitter he’d be crucified
Who will be stupid enough to lose friendship over this and to be marked as a jealous loser? And she is his wife, not a gf.
 
Who will be stupid enough to lose friendship over this and to be marked as a jealous loser? And she is his wife, not a gf.
People who are strict about age gaps piss me off
 
I'm 45 soon and still waiting for a post wall roastie to give me a chance! Online dating is even more brutal now also, I haven't the energy to try any longer. Escortcelling or my hand until I die.
 
I'm 45 soon and still waiting for a post wall roastie to give me a chance! Online dating is even more brutal now also, I haven't the energy to try any longer. Escortcelling or my hand until I die.
Wouldn’t you rather bang a hot young foid?
 
Sure, I've tried and are open to ages say late teens to my age but none want me so what difference does it make?
Good point
 
Post wall roasties would be hard to climax with
 
Isn’t he redpill?

He's a self-aware boomer, basically.

Also, this is the only true ascension:

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@FrustratedWhiteMale
 
I'm turning 30 in 8 months, I'm a khhv.

You need to remember that every year we age and lose our nerve cells, our hormone levels drop, our skin wrinkles. We are less and less alive each year, our ability to experience and feel reality diminishes every year due to the fact that our vehicle(your body) through which we experience reality deteriorate every year. Even if I found a unicorn and got into a LTR, I would not feel anything anymore its legit too late for me to have any hope of having a "normal" life, I am both physically and mentally DESTROYED, there is no ascension for someone in my position.
What if she was 17, normal weight, virgin/1-2 body count and was genuinely attracted to you

You wouldn't feel inspired?
 
What if she was 17, normal weight, virgin/1-2 body count and was genuinely attracted to you

You wouldn't feel inspired?
If he dates a 17 year old he’ll be lynched
 
If he dates a 17 year old he’ll be lynched
Dude what an irrelevant response to a post that doesn't even address you.

Here where Im at, the age of consent is 17. Even lower and more lenient in other countries.
 
Dude what an irrelevant response to a post that doesn't even address you.

Here where Im at, the age of consent is 17. Even lower and more lenient in other countries.
In America even it’s legal but you’ll get bullied or beaten up for it
 
How do you know? Is it something you read off reddit or is it something you've seen first hand?
Try dating a 17 year old and see what happens
 
Wouldn’t you rather bang a hot young foid?

I can't speak for all oldcels, but in my case I'd rather bang a roastie at this point than a hot young foid.

With a roastie, at least there's a chance our SMVs aren't too far off. With a hot young foid, however, she'll literally be 6 points higher than me and so it would feel like pure escortceling.
 
I can't speak for all oldcels, but in my case I'd rather bang a roastie at this point than a hot young foid.

With a roastie, at least there's a chance our SMVs aren't too far off. With a hot young foid, however, she'll literally be 6 points higher than me and so it feels like pure escortceling.
So? Sex with young women is more fun
 
Won’t do it if you’re a chad

If I was Chad young foids would be preferable.

I guess what I'm getting at is that at this point in my life, it's not realistic to expect sex with anything other than a roastie. And even that is obviously a long-shot.
 
If I was Chad young foids would be preferable.

I guess what I'm getting at is that at this point in my life, it's not realistic to expect sex with anything other than a roastie. And even that is obviously a long-shot.
Sucks being oldcel
 
Youngcels don't realize how good they have it:

-Still time to make money
-Still time to increase status
-Still not norwooding yet (most of you)
Isn’t that redpill?
 
Isn’t that redpill?

If you're under the impression that these things will make you sexually attractive, then yes.

If you just think these things will modestly improve your life, then no.
 
If you're under the impression that these things will make you sexually attractive, then yes.

If you just think these things will modestly improve your life, then no.
But we’re blackpill
 
But we’re blackpill

Yes. And so I put no effort into increasing my money or status, because I don't think the marginal benefits are worth it (I know it won't make me any more sexually attractive than I am now).

But if a magical genie offered to increase my money and status right now if I just said the magic words, I'd happily accept that offer (still knowing it wouldn't make me more sexually attractive) because it would allow for better copes.

Does that make sense?
 

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