Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

How would I get over being scared to post

Eastwest404

Eastwest404

The Underground Man
Joined
Jul 29, 2025
Posts
526
Online time
2h 48m
It's always the same, as before.
Any time I'm on social media, that are very few, I'm mostly read only. Because there's many times people get shitted on for just saying things firstly or replying in a wrong timing. There's always a fear of being wrong publicly and being pointed out by someone, or getting dragged into a purposeless debate.
I love imageboards for their anonymity, you don't feel like every word you're saying is critiqued and it's easier to move on if you embarrass yourself in the conversation. But if I was on social media and got argument wrong, I would feel an urge to delete my comments and never write anything from the account.
 
You picked the right place.
 
Idk

Im still scared to post stuff here too
 
Strong first post.

Here's what I have to say: As long as you don't act like an infiltrator, you're going to be relatively respected. If you're non-NT you'll be right at home, many of us are also non-NT.
 
relatable asf
 
It's always the same, as before.
Any time I'm on social media, that are very few, I'm mostly read only. Because there's many times people get shitted on for just saying things firstly or replying in a wrong timing. There's always a fear of being wrong publicly and being pointed out by someone, or getting dragged into a purposeless debate.
I love imageboards for their anonymity, you don't feel like every word you're saying is critiqued and it's easier to move on if you embarrass yourself in the conversation. But if I was on social media and got argument wrong, I would feel an urge to delete my comments and never write anything from the account.
Dnr
 
I felt like this for the first month I was on here
 
Welcome!

F

Fantastic Osaka enjoyer.

It's normal to be afraid when you are new in a fairly closed community. Just enjoy being a graycel. Many faggots will insult you, just don't pay attention to them.
 
Go fuck yourself loser dont ever make a post ever again
 
this fucking guy man YOU THINK YOU ARE BETTER THEN ME BECAUSE YOU ARE BRAVE AND CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO MAKE POSTS I HATE YOU I HATE YOU
 
If you believe other places you tried were hostile, you will be disappointed with this forum.

How to not get bullied as a gray: abstain from making threads until you get 500 posts, simply reply to other users instead. Don't pay attention to rape talking etc, don't say pro-lgtb stuff, don't make jokes on homosexual topics, don't engage with politics etc etc. You don't need to mention you don't hate women etc.

Honestly, don't have high expectations for this place and don't take anyone seriously and don't hope to make genuine friends here.

Observe how others behave here. Good luck.
 
ask @Truest truecel
 
this fucking guy man YOU THINK YOU ARE BETTER THEN ME BECAUSE YOU ARE BRAVE AND CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO MAKE POSTS I HATE YOU I HATE YOU
Previous usernames
(っ◔◡◔)っ
 
Please remove the tape from you're webcam before posting bro
 
don't write too good posts, oldfags are insecure about GrAYs mogging them
 
Moga me. I made my first thread an year after joining the forum. I made like 8 post after joining and then refrained from posting anything for like 9-10 months. I lurked for 2.5 years before joining the forum.
 
Nobody cares at the end of the day - do what makes you happy, people don't care about you like you don't care about them
 
It's always the same, as before.
Any time I'm on social media, that are very few, I'm mostly read only. Because there's many times people get shitted on for just saying things firstly or replying in a wrong timing. There's always a fear of being wrong publicly and being pointed out by someone, or getting dragged into a purposeless debate.
I love imageboards for their anonymity, you don't feel like every word you're saying is critiqued and it's easier to move on if you embarrass yourself in the conversation. But if I was on social media and got argument wrong, I would feel an urge to delete my comments and never write anything from the account.
Relax, GrAYnigga. The feeling will go away with time.
I had similar fears to you back then, but after a few years of being a drunk, I stopped caring. That doesn't mean you should start drinking, but at some point you realize that everyone's just like the rest of us. Jeder kocht letztlich nur mit Wasser. ;)
 
@|R12| @Justanotherbloke @Acorn @KHHVcel hi, people
And thanks for the advices itt, I'll make sure to follow!
 
Welcome

Idk tbh I’ve made plenty of “controversial” comments on Reddit that has gotten me banned

And well with TikTok it was just spamming slurs on TikTok live streams
 
Don't be scared to post GrAY
 
It's always the same, as before.
Any time I'm on social media, that are very few, I'm mostly read only. Because there's many times people get shitted on for just saying things firstly or replying in a wrong timing. There's always a fear of being wrong publicly and being pointed out by someone, or getting dragged into a purposeless debate.
I love imageboards for their anonymity, you don't feel like every word you're saying is critiqued and it's easier to move on if you embarrass yourself in the conversation. But if I was on social media and got argument wrong, I would feel an urge to delete my comments and never write anything from the account.
just post, dont worry; there's nothing wrong with being wrong so long as you don't persist in falsehood

if you don't want to debate just stop replying
 
Здесь у нас практически нет нормиуёбищ, всё норм, можешь быть собой
 
It's always the same, as before.
Any time I'm on social media, that are very few, I'm mostly read only. Because there's many times people get shitted on for just saying things firstly or replying in a wrong timing. There's always a fear of being wrong publicly and being pointed out by someone, or getting dragged into a purposeless debate.
I love imageboards for their anonymity, you don't feel like every word you're saying is critiqued and it's easier to move on if you embarrass yourself in the conversation. But if I was on social media and got argument wrong, I would feel an urge to delete my comments and never write anything from the account.
Super relatable. This is what inceldom does to us. It's over.
 
once accessing subforums not visible to IT troonscum you can try going back and forth from sewers to the main discussions to ease your posting anxiety
 
once accessing subforums not visible to IT troonscum you can try going back and forth from sewers to the main discussions to ease your posting anxiety
When do we graycels get permission to post in the sewers?
 

Similar threads

Dr. Autismo
Replies
11
Views
976
SubhumanOldcel
SubhumanOldcel
never_began0911
Replies
40
Views
942
Tetsuya
Tetsuya
Doomed4ever
Replies
7
Views
589
nihilum
nihilum
copecopter
Replies
6
Views
920
tricho_maniac
tricho_maniac

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top