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What's the point of being nice if it doesn’t get you friends or a gf?

Dr. Autismo

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A common shaming tactic that foids, boomers and normies like to use on us is telling us that "your not entitled to friends or a gf just for being nice", despite them telling us to be nice in order to get friends and a gf.

Being nice also requires actual effort and consideration of others and their thoughts, feelings and emotions.
So surely, that effort and consideration should be rewarded, right?

I used to be genuinely nice, polite and friendly with people in the past, and that got me fuck all.
Whenever I tell "professionals" my problems with loneliness and inceldom, they tell me I've not tried and expect me to be some kinda social butterfly gigachad.

They expect me to be something I'm not, and even taking me to court tomorrow to legally ban me from this site, fucking seriously.

It's like how the old saying goes: you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

Actually, this is more like: you get get an incel outside, but you can't turn him into a Chad.
 
How else will they justify their dying devotion to Abrahamic religions that reinforce their just world fallacy?
 
there is no point
 
They expect me to be something I'm not, and even taking me to court tomorrow to legally ban me from this site, fucking seriously.
wtf
 
I just be nice, so I wouldn't need to go into conflict situations.
I feel conflicting and all is exhausting, I don't have energy for that and I'm already a wizard. 🧙‍♂️
 
True.
I have really tried to be nice to people.

Have a wild guess how much pussy that's got me.
 
A common shaming tactic that foids, boomers and normies like to use on us is telling us that "your not entitled to friends or a gf just for being nice", despite them telling us to be nice in order to get friends and a gf.

Being nice also requires actual effort and consideration of others and their thoughts, feelings and emotions.
So surely, that effort and consideration should be rewarded, right?

I used to be genuinely nice, polite and friendly with people in the past, and that got me fuck all.
Whenever I tell "professionals" my problems with loneliness and inceldom, they tell me I've not tried and expect me to be some kinda social butterfly gigachad.

They expect me to be something I'm not, and even taking me to court tomorrow to legally ban me from this site, fucking seriously.

It's like how the old saying goes: you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

Actually, this is more like: you get get an incel outside, but you can't turn him into a Chad.
i like being polite and helpful cause it makes me feel good about myself , when i help a guy out in my heart i genuinely feel good as hell idk why i feel like that but its a great feeling regardless
 
A common shaming tactic that foids, boomers and normies like to use on us is telling us that "your not entitled to friends or a gf just for being nice", despite them telling us to be nice in order to get friends and a gf.

Being nice also requires actual effort and consideration of others and their thoughts, feelings and emotions.
So surely, that effort and consideration should be rewarded, right?

I used to be genuinely nice, polite and friendly with people in the past, and that got me fuck all.
Whenever I tell "professionals" my problems with loneliness and inceldom, they tell me I've not tried and expect me to be some kinda social butterfly gigachad.

They expect me to be something I'm not, and even taking me to court tomorrow to legally ban me from this site, fucking seriously.

It's like how the old saying goes: you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

Actually, this is more like: you get get an incel outside, but you can't turn him into a Chad.
No point. Normies just always use my kindness and treated me like shit
 
Making friends is bare hard

Being nice has nothing to do with it
 

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