Wiz32BlackJiggaboo
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I made a note about this scene because of how casually Tom places his hand on Alex's shoulder to comfort her, even though they barely know each other (their moms just work together, she's not his childhood friend like Jun is)
However dialing back a few seconds i notice she basically sets the precedent of body contact by first holding his forearm when he is speaking.
Subtle shit like this is just completely alien to me - girls do not subtly express a desire to be held (ie comforting shoulder pat from a trusted friend) by first establishing contact with me by holding my forearm.
I wonder how you make yourself approachable so girls will initiate contact with you like this as a way of establishing non-verbally that they are comfortable with such skinship?
However dialing back a few seconds i notice she basically sets the precedent of body contact by first holding his forearm when he is speaking.
Subtle shit like this is just completely alien to me - girls do not subtly express a desire to be held (ie comforting shoulder pat from a trusted friend) by first establishing contact with me by holding my forearm.
I wonder how you make yourself approachable so girls will initiate contact with you like this as a way of establishing non-verbally that they are comfortable with such skinship?