This is wet water post for anyone who is blackpilled but I still see some bluepillers here who talk about approaching. I collected some information that's already posted here many times.
So why doesn't approaching work? Can self improvement save you?
The thing bluepillers, certain hate group on CuckIT and PUAcels get wrong is who is actually the one choosing. Even if you approach a w*man it's the w*man who picks (or doesn't pick) you. W*men pick men, not the other way around. They hold all the power in the markets. Men are more generous with their distribution of romantic and sexual interest than women. Far more generous. Women have far more options and they are far pickier than men. There are far more women who men would reject than are men who women would accept.
Women find tall men attractive. This is an undeniable fact. I doubt anyone denies this. Short men have abysmal chances to find romantic opportunities.
www.psychologytoday.com
So if you don't make it in height and facial attractiveness then you should try to have more of that infamous "pewsonalitee
" right?
Your attractiveness is personality. There is a strong correlation with your physical attractiveness and your personality.
The reason PUA and approaching doesn't work and there is no such thing as game or personality is because it takes some milliseconds to decide whether someone is attractive or not.
Attraction is predetermined. They have already decided whether you are attractive or not before you can make your move and play your "game" or show off your "personality."
When women see you for half a second they have already made up their mind. You are not tall enough. You are not attractive enough. Nothing that comes out of your mouth will change their opinion. If w*men see an attractive tall man it doesn't matter what comes out of their mouth. They can be nice, rude, arrogant, confident, timid, shy, sociable, tense, whatever. They can run whatever "game" they want because their attraction was predetermined before they opened their mouth.
You can't self improve yourself out of this. You are preselected attractive man or you are not. There is no inbetweeners. The amount of plates you lift doesn't matter. The clothes you wear don't matter. The education you have doesn't matter. The classique literature you have read doesn't matter.
There are men who play vidya and smoke weed all day but they have no trouble getting women. There are men who go to prison once a year and they run harems. There are men who beat up their girlfriends frequently but they are always in a relationship and never struggle to date. And everyone blames the incel who is never given a chance to go on a date while Chad is smashing his girlfriend's skull.
And then there's some men who go to universities and acquire fancy certificates and go through demanding education programs yet remain incel.
en.wikipedia.org
Did this guy have a good personality, did he work on himself, did he improve his attitude and support progressive feminist views to get a wife?
tldr; Attraction is predetermined and your values, morale, personality, attitude, progressive feminist views don't help you. There is no self improvement to become attractive. We are superficial animals and our brains preselect who we like and who we don't like. If women don't find you attractive then there is nothing you can do. You are preselected or you are not. It's over.
So why doesn't approaching work? Can self improvement save you?
The thing bluepillers, certain hate group on CuckIT and PUAcels get wrong is who is actually the one choosing. Even if you approach a w*man it's the w*man who picks (or doesn't pick) you. W*men pick men, not the other way around. They hold all the power in the markets. Men are more generous with their distribution of romantic and sexual interest than women. Far more generous. Women have far more options and they are far pickier than men. There are far more women who men would reject than are men who women would accept.
Women find tall men attractive. This is an undeniable fact. I doubt anyone denies this. Short men have abysmal chances to find romantic opportunities.
Why Many Women Want to Be With Tall Men
When it comes to finding a romantic partner, what’s a short man to do?
So if you don't make it in height and facial attractiveness then you should try to have more of that infamous "pewsonalitee
" right?Your attractiveness is personality. There is a strong correlation with your physical attractiveness and your personality.
The reason PUA and approaching doesn't work and there is no such thing as game or personality is because it takes some milliseconds to decide whether someone is attractive or not.
Attraction is predetermined. They have already decided whether you are attractive or not before you can make your move and play your "game" or show off your "personality."
When women see you for half a second they have already made up their mind. You are not tall enough. You are not attractive enough. Nothing that comes out of your mouth will change their opinion. If w*men see an attractive tall man it doesn't matter what comes out of their mouth. They can be nice, rude, arrogant, confident, timid, shy, sociable, tense, whatever. They can run whatever "game" they want because their attraction was predetermined before they opened their mouth.
You can't self improve yourself out of this. You are preselected attractive man or you are not. There is no inbetweeners. The amount of plates you lift doesn't matter. The clothes you wear don't matter. The education you have doesn't matter. The classique literature you have read doesn't matter.
There are men who play vidya and smoke weed all day but they have no trouble getting women. There are men who go to prison once a year and they run harems. There are men who beat up their girlfriends frequently but they are always in a relationship and never struggle to date. And everyone blames the incel who is never given a chance to go on a date while Chad is smashing his girlfriend's skull.
And then there's some men who go to universities and acquire fancy certificates and go through demanding education programs yet remain incel.
Fertility and intelligence - Wikipedia
Did this guy have a good personality, did he work on himself, did he improve his attitude and support progressive feminist views to get a wife?
tldr; Attraction is predetermined and your values, morale, personality, attitude, progressive feminist views don't help you. There is no self improvement to become attractive. We are superficial animals and our brains preselect who we like and who we don't like. If women don't find you attractive then there is nothing you can do. You are preselected or you are not. It's over.
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