Venting I wish the differences in the nature of the preferences for a partner between men and women weren't so unjust

[Sex-Starved Beast]

How can girls have insecurities?
Half of men like big tits, the other half like small tits or flat chests.
Many men like shorter women. Many men have a preference for tall women.
If you are obese, you know for sure that there exist men who only go for that. In this very forum there was a guy who was only attracted to extremely obese women. If you are skinny, it's the same.
Whoever you are, there is a man for whom you are the ideal woman for the combination of all of your traits. This goes for personality traits too. How can girls have insecurities?

Meanwhile, the number of women worldwide who are specifically attracted to short men: 0. "A short man can only ever be attractive despite his height, never because of it."
Number of women who like small dicks, or autism: 0. Women's preferences are universal and set in stone.

Really, us men are too good for these hellish creatures. We like them regardless; we like all sorts of women. Women's preferences are set in stone. I don't understand why the world is like this. A world where the preferences of women worked the same way as those of men would be the ideal world, and everyone would be happier. Imagine if they worked like men do and there were women who only went after short dudes, for example. You could be born a short dude and be happy because you would know that you have a place in this world, that there is no better or worse, and that your height is just a random number and not a total detriment regardless of who you meet. You could walk around blissful, knowing that you aren't objectively, inherently and inexorably inferior to every slightly taller guy that you see. I don't understand why there has to be that difference other than to make us suffer.
How can girls have insecurities?

 

[Cryo]

Yeah real life is very gay.

 

[Firefighter]

Whoever you are, there is a man for whom you are the ideal woman for the combination of all of your traits.

Somebody here said they jerk off to the silhouette of female hands.
Every single body part and aspect of the female body is sexually appealing to someone. Not even like these body parts must be extremely exemplary compared to the average woman, they just have to have them.

There is nothing disqualifying for women. Every woman on Earth has men lining up to date them regardless of any deformity or flaw.
But if you're under 5'8 as a man, IT'S OVER!

 

[Dolls & Gor]

I generally find most women attractive, and would gladly hitch my wagon to her star and work together on improving our life.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

Somebody here said they jerk off to the silhouette of female hands.

I find hands way more attractive than feet. In fact, I find feet disgusting. But it doesnt' matter, because millions of other men are attracted to feet.

I generally find most women attractive, and would gladly hitch my wagon to her star and work together on improving our life.

Yeah me too, but here I am talking about preferences. Even if you find all women attractive, you may still have some preferences and find some women more attractive than others. Those preferences you have are not universal and some other men have the exact opposite. This adds a layer of brutality and unfairness to it, because women would be fine even if these preferences worked against them like they do for us. For women, preferences are universal.

 

[Dolls & Gor]

find some women more attractive than others.

I was lightly affirming what strikes me as your main point, namely a difference in 'looks standards' — or whatever they call it, I actually don't subscribe to the looks concept.

You provoke an interesting tangent for me. Do I have  preferences ?

Maybe in my twenties, but that was just driven by porn and random sightings.

Consider this. If   any female chose me, I do believe she would come to be the most beautiful person in the world, for me.