Lv99_BixNood
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I noticed while dating I subconsciously was mean to the guys I was dating, and afterwards I would feel like shit because that’s not how I am. I’m not someone who picks fights or talks down on people, but for some reason it just happened automatically with whatever guy I was with.
I started wondering, why am I like this? Do I just dislike men? No, there are men I have liked. Then the realisation hit. I’m constantly dating men I don’t feel attraction to, all because they were treating me right.
I should have liked them, they were everything I was looking for and they were okay looking, not hideous or something. But my body was like no, stay away from him. Which caused me to act in a way I usually don’t act.
Thing is, I’m not an attractive woman and I’m overweight. So I felt like I couldn’t be picky, it’s not fair to expect a certain level of attractiveness from someone when I’m not even at that level. I know it sounds incel-like and I’m embarrassed I feel that way, but my biology just doesn’t work with societal expectations.
So she is fat and ugly but only wants chad, oofy doofys get the dead bedroom
I just wish women were more honest growing up, that if you want a good partner you have to sacrifice attraction. Or you go for attraction but then you get “douchebags.”
Straight from the whore's mouth





