Why it's best to accept your inceldom

[R(p)apist1488]

I am still fairly young and have already come to the conclusion that I am an incel. While it is quite unpleasant I think it is best to accept this while I am still young and here is why:

Accepting your fait early on leaves you with a long long time to figure out other things to fill the void and to move on. no longer do I need to improve myself for a foid, but for myself. For me at least being an incel isn't all about self hatred, but self acceptence. Accepting the blackpill that I am undesireable and there isn't much that can be done can sometimes be the biggest white pill. Knowing it's hopeless means I no longer need to worry about the anxieties of trying to impress girls or approach or talk to them or whatever. (Been there done that, never ended well) I can be unapologetucally myself. I think we all have our momments of self loathing and lonlieness and unsatiated desire, but at least I don't have the stress of over analyzing foid behaviour, trying to say/do the right thing, etc. Looking forward to hearing your guys's thoughts.

Truly I am euphoric, not because of some foid's attention, but because I am liberated by the very chains which hold me down.

 

[Vendetta]

its over

 

[R(p)apist1488]

We never stood a chance

No, we never did, but it is what it is.

 

[R(p)apist1488]

its over

But we're also back

 

[Old Ironsides]

JoinedFeb 14


fucking over for u boyo

 

[Uninvited]

Acceptance is the way to avoid jJestermaxxing and Soymaxxing which is far worse

 

[R(p)apist1488]

JoinedFeb 14


fucking over for u boyo

Lmao, so fucking true. Did some soul searching this week and finally just knew it was time to take the pill.

 

[R(p)apist1488]

Acceptance is the way to avoid jJestermaxxing and Soymaxxing which is far worse

This

 

[Abacaxi14]

Idk man. There is something in my brain that doesnt let me give up. I am a slave of this feeling. I give up for a few months and then my brain makes me try again. I am a slave of my own mind.

 

[GhostRick02]

Cope with gym at least you can fight back if someone bullies you

 

[R(p)apist1488]

Idk man. There is something in my brain that doesnt let me give up. I am a slave of this feeling. I give up for a few months and then my brain makes me try again. I am a slave of my own mind.

I understand this. A lot of people are like this and I'll confess I struggle with it too. I think the best remedy is to avoid being around foids as much as possible and trying to fill your time with healthy hobbies like reading and gym.

 

[R(p)apist1488]

Idk man. There is something in my brain that doesnt let me give up. I am a slave of this feeling. I give up for a few months and then my brain makes me try again. I am a slave of my own mind.

Also if you watch porn you for sure want to quit, that's a big thing that holds guys back from truly moving on

 

[Abacaxi14]

Also if you watch porn you for sure want to quit, that's a big thing that holds guys back from truly moving on

Everything that I do is holding me back, listening to pop music, video games, anime, porn. All this shit is holding me back from moving on. I would like to quit and only play chess, acoustic guitar and exercise all day but old habits die hard.

I think the only solution for me truly moving on would be to live outside of society because even going outside to work (wageslaving) and seeing women makes me depressed.

 

[R(p)apist1488]

Everything that I do is holding me back, listening to pop music, video games, anime, porn. All this shit is holding me back from moving on. I would like to quit and only play chess, acoustic guitar and exercise all day but old habits die hard.

I think the only solution for me truly moving on would be to live outside of society because even going outside to work (wageslaving) and seeing women makes me depressed.

I get you man. I've been wrking on this self improvement stuff this year. Be patient with yourself and try your best. First thing I would focus on before anything else is cutting out porn and maybe try listening to some good music periodically (classical, baroque, chant) over time you can start cutting other stuff out once you start doing better with not watching porn. The most major thing is take it one step at a time, don't pile too much on yourself. If you ever need help/advice please send me a message.