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Why I don't hate women, and other older-cel perspectives

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I turned 41 recently, and I've been on here 12 months, so I've decided it's time I bit the bullet and made an inceldom discussion post. I want to lay out some of my opinions and perspectives, that are a bit different than a lot of the common orthodoxy on here, most of which is written by grieving, angry young men.

Some of this might seem inflammatory, but you will live.

The main headline points are:

1. I have never hated women

2. Wilkes McDermid vs Elliot Roger vs Christopher Swanson, and what we can learn from them.

3. Why you should never rope, and the way in which life gets better, not worse, even for an oldcel like me.


1. I have never hated women for rejecting me.

Not individual women who actually received advances from me and rejected me. And not "women" in general, either as some oppressive blanket force of nature, or as some organized conspiracy against me.

The only explanation I can give is I have always internalized and owned the failure of my attempts to seek sex or romance. I don't seem to have what women want, and that must mean there's something wrong with me, or something that's not quite enough about me.

That's a very hard thing for a teenager or a young man in his early 20s to be confronted by. It is devastating and the weight of it can be at times crushing. But it's never made me angry. An angry reaction just doesn't make sense to me. A simple thought experiment is helpful here: If someone I felt zero attraction for wanted me, and I was oblivious to that or actually said no to it, would it be fair that they were angry at me for not feeling what I don't feel?

In saying this, I was pretty shy as a young person and I don't think I was ever very competent at meeting new people and approaching the possibility of new things openly. So all of the actual rejections I can remember from my youth, were women I met, and lived or worked or studied around. And over a period of time I convinced myself she was wonderful, and I wanted her, and I loved her. This would include a lot of daydreams and fanciful imagination about what a perfect future with me and her together might look like.

And then like a fool I would tell her how I felt, hoping that she felt the same and was waiting for me to say something. Invariably she didn't feel the same way about me, and didn't want any of that.

The first one of those, took me about 6 months to get over. The second one took me about 4 years, that was the worst one. I really thought she was pretty special, and having seen she existed I didn't think I could live without her. Both of these were during my university years. Afterwards, I learned to test the waters with women but never again made that mistake of getting ahead of things and falling into unrequited love.

Prior to that time, High School gave me a bit of a premonition that sex and the attention and desire of women might not happen for me. I saw that first, around the ages of 15 or 16, one or two boys were talking about having girlfriends and/or having sex. Then quite a few were talking about it. Then a majority seemed to be having these experiences, and I was an outlier in not having them. But I had good friends at high school, and I had the crutch of supportive parental expectations that I was one of the "bright" kids and I would move away and study and some kind of bright future would happen to me.

So I was never embarrassed, humiliated, cheated or wronged by women. They were just unobtainable, and that made me sad, not angry.


2. Wilkes McDermid vs Elliot Rodger vs Christopher Swanson, and what we can learn from them.

I just straight up don't like Elliot Rodger. So there.

He was a nasty, self-obsessed, narcissistic killer. He wrote about his feelings well but i find nothing to admire in his attitude that he is owed certain things, and it is reasonable for him to hurt and kill people at random as some kind of justice for his situation. Perhaps somebody whose dog died should have punished him with a bullet? Perhaps somebody who had their BMW repossessed by the finance company should have punished him with a bullet?
He was a good looking, spoiled child. He showed precious little insight into how the world is or the reasons why. His message of blame and recrimination and random extreme violence is not helpful to anyone.

Wilkes McDermid is a much better "Saint" for inceldom. When I first read his final blog https://wilkes888.wordpress.com/2013/02/08/my-final-blog-entry-love-you-all/ it was a great moment, seeing ideas similar to my own written so well.
If you're not familiar with his thesis, the core of it is that women are genetically programmed to seek out high-quality males to mate with. He identified 3 main selection criteria, and theorized that you need at least two of the three to succeed:

1. Height

2. White (or black)

3. Wealth, or some other manifestation of power.

Personally I think his insistence on these 3 and only these 3 is a bit misguided and there is in reality a smorgasbord of desirable male traits that women will choose from. But I think he is spot on in saying that women are driven by primordial evolutionary drivers when they apply the criteria they apply in sorting males by quality and identifying them as worthy or unworthy.

He was also such a gentleman, in the way he tried to absolve his female friendzoners of any blame or guilt by explicitly saying that he understands this is just a natural behaviour that humans do. I admire that.

The fact that he was a popular and liked guy, with a big social circle and successful in other fields, and yet still incel, was something more people on here should reflect on IMHO. The way that he kept his struggles largely to himself, and looked after his friendships, and had a proper sense of adult behaviour and manners, and achieved most of his goals in life, is something that I admire. The way he owned his issues like a man, is something I admire. And while I wish he hadn't jumped, I admire the resolution with which he decided to do it, and did it.

And then there is Christopher Swanson, a 40yo high school teacher oldcel whose spectacular and catastrophic downfall should serve as a warning. About what happens if you fail to learn the real lessons.
He failed to experience the devastation of missing out on young love, in the way that Elliott Rodger fully experienced it.
And he failed to learn the real lesson that Wilkes McDermid learned from his experiences and his research: that beyond a certain point your rejection is an entirely predictable, natural process, not something that should catch a 40yo grown man by surprise and spin him out of control.
So by failing to learn those lessons, he caught a bluepilled deluded oneitis for a 17yo schoolgirl in one of his classes, and that led to him being brushed off by her, and struck off as a teacher, and humiliated, and eventually to suicide.



3. Why I haven't followed any of those infamous, dead incels

Almost all incel writing has a common problem. Men don't talk, or write, about their feelings, until they're really REALLY fucked up about something. Then they pour their little hearts out in some mega grief fuelled meltdown. So a lot of incel writing, comes from the heat of the moment and it reads like inceldom is all there is. ER's manifesto is certainly like that. Swanson's website is so stricken with grief that all of his success in his career is merely a sick footnote to the real story; that this dumb teenager didn't want him.

That's a terrible role model for young virgins. Because inceldom really isn't the only thing in your life, and convincing yourself that it is, is an incredibly destructive thing to do.

I've been very fortunate for a few reasons. One, the time I attempted suicide, failed dismally because the act of doing the cutting was far too painful to persist with. But standing right on the edge of the abyss and making that decision to step off, is a moment of finality you can't understand unless you've experienced it. Living after that does show you the value of things differently.

I've also been lucky to have good family around me. I'm pretty close to my sister and I love being uncle to her little children. They make me feel like whatever may happen to me, there is some small legacy of me going into the future in them. One of them has even learned to read music because I planted the idea in them and showed them some basics.

I'm lucky teenaged oneitis didn't destroy my ability to keep performing at school and get my degree. Today I'm reasonably competent in my profession and I'm pretty good at teaching young grads the ropes. They seem to appreciate it and my employers do too. That's a real source of personal validation. If I was my age and flipping burgers I doubt I'd be as happy as I am.

I really don't know if sex drive diminishes with age, or if perspective just improves. There was a wonderful moment a few years ago, I can remember it. I woke up on a Saturday morning, and there was sun streaming in my window, and I had a bunch of things planned that I wanted to get up and do. And it really hit me: I don't feel totally crushed and miserable by my inceldom. Life just is what it is, and right now it feels ok. That was a good feeling.

Of course it's not a total panacea, and there are still suifuel moments that remind me strongly of all the things I don't have and threaten to take me back into the grief state. But you get better at coping with that stuff, and you get better at avoiding and shielding yourself from stuff you know is harder to cope with. I don't go to town on Saturday night. I don't go to dinner with couples. I don't go to weddings if I can avoid it.

That feeling of peace, is why I haven't roped and I honestly don't believe I will. There will always be a bit of sadness there, that I didn't have that whole life I imagined I wanted. But there's good stuff too in spite of that. There's enough good stuff that the sadness is tolerable.


4: a piece of unsolicited advice.

I'm old enough that my friends are fucking up their marriages and getting divorced. It is fascinating to see the divorcee dating phenomenon. There is one clear lesson from it. I'm not getting involved because little has changed except for the details of what people make small talk about. Women don't lower their standards, and they don't settle. What this means, it means two things.
The cock carousel being followed by resignation and beta burning, is cope. Women don't settle for beta bux, they are genetically programmed to seek whatever their concept of Chad is, that doesn't change.

But this also means, that if you do manage to meet someone in later life who seems into you, it's probably real and you should go for it IMHO. All the advice you get on here about betabuxx and roast beef and the cock carousel from 16yo "truecels" is terrible advice and it is ignorant advice. A bunch of my university friends lost their virginities in their 20s and they are happy today. One of my high school buddies fucked heaps of women at university, married the girl of his dreams, and that lasted 4 years. Today he's married to someone uglier but cooler and he's happy.

Unicorns exist, and you should always remain open to possibilities. While keeping your expectations firmly based in Wilkes McDermid's understanding of the blackpill, that women are generally looking for certain things, and it's no secret what those are.
 
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I HATE WOMEN THEY SHOULD BE RAPED AND MURDERED:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree: (IN MINECRAFT)
 
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Dnrd I hate women, at least the ones around my age. The older and younger ones I don’t give a shit.
I feel the same. My generation of women are just… degenerates and shitty
 
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Unicorns exist, and you should always remain open to possibilities. While keeping your expectations firmly based in Wilkes McDermid's understanding of the blackpill, that women are generally looking for certain things, and it's no secret what those are
Still Chad only so it means shit
 
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Dnrd I hate women, at least the ones around my age. The older and younger ones I don’t give a shit.
I'm sorry to hear that.

I HATE WOMEN THEY SHOULD BE RAPED AND MURDERED:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree: (IN MINECRAFT)

I'm sorry to hear that. You've been talking to my man @mentalcel1


I feel the same. My generation of women are just… degenerates and shitty
The trouble with the blame game is, it just expends your energy producing nothing.


Still Chad only so it means shit
OK.

Comment approved. He is such good dude.
 
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We don’t hate women for rejecting us, but for disrespecting us and complaining about everything while being entitled preferred
 
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I appreciate you sharing your perspective, although i find it hard to relate to #1. Idk ive just been rejected so brutally and emasculated so thoroughly by women i just want ro brutally hatefuck them with every fibre of my being. But society and the threat of imprisonment dissuade me from doing so.

I liked the part of #3 about coping and enjoying the other aspects of life. Ive also noticed if im removed from other people enough and dont encounter reminders about the sexual intimacy ive missed out on, i can really appreciate other aspects of life more. Sadly though that's difficult to do with how laden that content is in media and in the outside. That kinda shit makes me want to be a shut-in hikki.

Im pretty tired rn and not reading thoroughly but i hope to develop a similar attitude as im too lazy/pussy to rope so far, am pretty young still, and have a somewhat decent material existence, so eh. All we can do is cope.
 
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Jfl at this comment section:lul:

Tbf OP most of this site puts very little actual thought into their worldview in addition to having gen Z attention span so such comments are to be expected

That’s why I don’t really write thoughtful posts about inceldom as much lately and mostly just shitpost
 
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I don't hate foids because of dating rejections, couldn't care less. I hate them because they are very obviously privileged and entitled while also having the gall to complain about being oppressed, also for having an air of superiority over men as if they are better than us just because they happen to live in the incredibly narrow slice of human history where there is enough abundance of resources, brainwashed cucks to do their bidding and technology which allows unparalleled access to chads. Inevitably this will lead to the ruin of scumciety but foids are too busy living in the blissful ignorance of now to worry about the consequences of their actions.
 
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I hate some women, not every one of them. I just want to be able to enjoy this life even if I'm incel or ascend that's all :smonk:
 
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1. I have never hated women for rejecting me.
So what ? You think incel who hate women are in the wrong.

It’s a perfect natural reaction, born of extreme frustration .
There is no shame in that
 
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yep don't hate women as a fellow oldcel too.

merely indifferent
 
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Heh, yes the ability of people on here to read somebody's essay, and distill the essence of their own brain waves down to mashing an emoji button a few times, never ceases to amaze me.

This thread might not be right for you, and that's OK. :feelsYall:
 
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So what ? You think incel who hate women are in the wrong.

It’s a perfect natural reaction, born of extreme frustration .
There is no shame in that
People feel what they feel, I don't think anyone is wrong for that. How you act towards others is where right and wrong starts to happen.
 
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I’m a wizard and I hate foids for rejecting me. :feelzez:
 
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People feel what they feel, I don't think anyone is wrong for that.
As long as you’re not going to say they have no reason to be angry , then ok
How you act towards others is where right and wrong starts to happen
That is dumb , sorry

[UWSL]A political party would rise wanting to enforce monogamy , punish adultery , keeping women out of the workplace [/UWSL]
[UWSL]People would say it’s wrong even though those are the very thing that would diminish inceldom massively [/UWSL]
 
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[UWSL]A political party would rise wanting to enforce monogamy , punish adultery , keeping women out of the workplace [/UWSL]
[UWSL]People would say it’s wrong even though those are the very thing that would diminish inceldom massively [/UWSL]
Political parties don't aim to enact any "greater good", they aim to take state power and be as corrupt and exploitative as possible. Also even if men and women were forced to be monogamous who's to say you wouldn't still be incel?
 
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[UWSL]A political party would rise wanting to enforce monogamy , punish adultery , keeping women out of the workplace [/UWSL]
[UWSL]People would say it’s wrong even though those are the very thing that would diminish inceldom massively [/UWSL]
You know something?

I would say that is wrong.

The government taking even more control over how people live their lives, is never the answer, it doesn't matter what the question is.

(Imagine a government that made homosexuality compulsory. You wouldn't be keen on that, right?)
 
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I think your misconception is that people here are like this just because of women rejection. That's not true overall, many here don't even have the guts to get near a woman for romantic purposes.

What people hate is the things around women: the culture, attitude and the way we (as males and surprise surprise, human beings) are always treated as less worth if we don't reach a very high standard that is simply impossible for a large portion of males.

Many of the things that make us feel less than human are supported by women and those who want female attention (and just remembering, that's natural, anyone who is not broken is willing for sex and affection, no one is denying that). Anyone who has its most basic thing (humanity) taken from you will tend to hatred and similar feelings. It's unfortunate, but it's true, that's just human nature.
 
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Political parties don't aim to enact any "greater good", they aim to take state power and be as corrupt and exploitative as possible. Also even if men and women were forced to be monogamous who's to say you wouldn't still be incel?
You wouldn’t, as a normal/ugly dude.

you’re sexless because women have entered the workplace and the mountains of privilege they got

You’ve got no leverage on them
 
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You wouldn’t, as a normal/ugly dude.

you’re sexless because women have entered the workplace and the mountains of privilege they got

You’ve got no leverage on them
I'm sexless because I'm an unattractive and a loser. Neither the foid or her father would want me :feelsrope:
 
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The government taking even more control over how people live their lives, is never the answer, it doesn't matter what the question is.
This is a childish notion , government bad.

The government is awful simply because they’re in direct opposition to your need :

-Feminism
- women in workplace
- all the gynocratic law and so on

Why would I support a government enforcing homosexuality ? Is it my interest?
Clearly no

You support the thing in your interest.
And not government bad

Women absolutely love the modern world and government, you know why ?
Simply because they support them
 
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I'm sexless because I'm an unattractive and a loser. Neither the foid or her father would want me :feelsrope:
You’re sexless because you have no leverage.

Being unattractive is a part of it , not the whole picture.

In the past , women couldn’t work , they needed someone to took care of them .
Their parents wanted them married fast.

Now they can work and much more than that the provider is the tax payer.

Stop being disingenuous by saying unattractive couldn’t reproduce in the past .

They could very easily, now you have a whole system against you

The power shifted in their favour
 
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Why would I support a government enforcing homosexuality ? Is it my interest?
Clearly no

Yo get the govt other people vote for, it doesn't matter if you want it or not.

I like smoking weed, but the govt in my country says that is illegal. Even though I smoke it in my own home, it doesn't hurt anybody, unlike all of the violence and death that fully legal alcohol causes.

The law is an ass. Govt needs to remember that "democracy" means they work for us, not the other way around.
 
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Yo get the govt other people vote for, it doesn't matter if you want it or not.

I like smoking weed, but the govt in my country says that is illegal. Even though I smoke it in my own home, it doesn't hurt anybody, unlike all of the violence and death that fully legal alcohol causes.

The law is an ass. Govt needs to remember that "democracy" means they work for us, not the other way around.
The government I have in mind is certainly not modern democracy

In Greece, the first democracy women couldn’t vote , that already change everything.
 
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Women absolutely hate you simply for existing though. Have you ever taken a fucking look at /r/TwoXChromosomes and seen what tens of millions of women have to say about 'losers' like you and about men in general?
 
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I hate women as a collective, but some individual women are fine I guess.
 
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1. Thanks to the OP for one of the better posts on here. Could relate to quite a bit of it.

2. THIS:
Jfl at this comment section:lul:

Tbf OP most of this site puts very little actual thought into their worldview in addition to having gen Z attention span so such comments are to be expected

That’s why I don’t really write thoughtful posts about inceldom as much lately and mostly just shitpost
 
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Women absolutely hate you simply for existing though. Have you ever taken a fucking look at /r/TwoXChromosomes and seen what tens of millions of women have to say about 'losers' like you and about men in general?
Thanks for the tip, I definitely won't be reading that!
 
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Absolutely abhorrent post.
#1 you have no self awareness. You can't cope with being ugly so you made up this NTpill in your head, without even having been given a diagnosis.
#2 ER wasn't good looking at all, he was PSL 4, 5'9 hapa manlet with autism. If that is good looking to you, I'm sorry but you lack common sense as well.
#3 You didn't "mature", everyone starts to die mentally from 25 yo at best, your emotions just dulled. Accept that not everyone is a low T oldcel like you and don't try to give advice to people who are doing better than you.
#4 I'm not experienced enough to refute this one, BUT
#5
Thanks for the tip, I definitely won't be reading that!
JFL at you, you're the ostrich putting its head in the sand. Someone gives you a source and you just go like "Nope, that info doesn't fit into my worldview I will proceed to put my hands against my ears if you speak to me lalallalalalalalalalalalala".

We can all agree from what we have surmised that this man is a cautionary tale of being a self hating retardcel, similar to the user FrothySolutions.
 
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You didn't "mature", everyone starts to die mentally from 25 yo at best, your emotions just dulled.
Preach brotha

He just rationalized his constant path to defeat.

May god strike me down , if I reach that age and I’am an oldcel without money saying on an incel forum : I’ve got nothing against women:feelskek:

This is probably one of the type of incel I loathe the most , you experienced 40 summers of inceldom and you have nothing to show for it ,
no cash and a defeatist attitude.

The trait on them I hate the most , is this completely passive attitude, like they reach nirvana or something, even though they’ve just been hiding and submitting to their oppressors.

@BlkPillPres get a load of this guy,
you like @tulasdanslos say a worthy successor of @FrothySolutions
 
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Im reading a lot of words in this comment section which are liable to come back to truly haunt some of you if you are truecels. Just give it time...

I kind of hope for your own sakes that you're not, and that rather than having truly swallowed that :blackpill: , you've just merely attempted to, with an insufficient quantity of teardrop juice.

i.e. Despite all the talk, deep inside, you actually still do harbour some hopes that things will indeed change.

Because if, God forbid you really are incels and the inevitable takes its course. You will remember - and with bitter agony - how wrong you were.
 
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If you hate them because they were acting shallow/mean for rejecting you than it a rightful hate. But Americans/Canadians will never admit that because it undermines the concept of free will and self determination. Even those who divorced had 10X better lives than you, they lived through all the milestones while you're still paying for their benefits that goes to their bastard and legitimate children.
 
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Women absolutely hate you simply for existing though. Have you ever taken a fucking look at /r/TwoXChromosomes and seen what tens of millions of women have to say about 'losers' like you and about men in general?
Yeah that's true. If women could have their way they would have all the ugly men killed off.

Getting married is also cucked, you'll get divorced eventually and she'll take your money and your kids if you have them.
 
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Most foids will lower their expectations and settle down eventually. If you're an older and an older woman likes you I can guarantee she's settling because she finally recognized you're the best she can get. Doesn't mean she won't keep trying to get Chad, but she'll need you as a betabuxx
 
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Its an achievement to live as an incel for 40 years. Most of people in here will rope or become a betabuxx.
 
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Low t syndrome
 
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I'm in my 30s and hate women more than ever
 
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Wilkes is relateable and he blackpilled himself. ER on the other hand isnt relateable for a truecel like me. He is way to good looking, slighty above average even. He was also rich and he wanted blonde women. Ugly men cant be picky, they are beggars and beggars cant be choosers.

ER didnt even geomax with his money. He probably thought not getting blonde women in his country was enough for him to go ER. JFL. That guy isnt relateable at all.
 
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Absolutely abhorrent post.
#1 you have no self awareness. You can't cope with being ugly so you made up this NTpill in your head, without even having been given a diagnosis.
#2 ER wasn't good looking at all, he was PSL 4, 5'9 hapa manlet with autism. If that is good looking to you, I'm sorry but you lack common sense as well.
#3 You didn't "mature", everyone starts to die mentally from 25 yo at best, your emotions just dulled.
Instructions unclear. Got penis stuck in the lid. Please send help.



Accept that not everyone is a low T oldcel like you and don't try to give advice to people who are doing better than you.
All of this alpha/high-t rage energy you've got going on... how's that working out for you?
JFL at you, you're the ostrich putting its head in the sand. Someone gives you a source and you just go like "Nope, that info doesn't fit into my worldview I will proceed to put my hands against my ears if you speak to me lalallalalalalalalalalalala".
:feelsYall: Because I'm not 5, I understand women who think that way exist. I just see no reason to spend my precious time reading their hate.
We can all agree from what we have surmised that this man is a cautionary tale of being a self hating retardcel, similar to the user FrothySolutions.
You seem angrier than me. Does that mean you're winning in some way?
 
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Preach brotha

He just rationalized his constant path to defeat.

May god strike me down , if I reach that age and I’am an oldcel without money saying on an incel forum : I’ve got nothing against women:feelskek:

This is probably one of the type of incel I loathe the most , you experienced 40 summers of inceldom and you have nothing to show for it ,
no cash and a defeatist attitude.
"No cash" is relative. My house will be paid off this time next year. Most people in my country start with 30 year mortgages if they can get started at all.
The trait on them I hate the most , is this completely passive attitude, like they reach nirvana or something, even though they’ve just been hiding and submitting to their oppressors
So... your dominant, high-t, alpha attitude you think you have.... how's that working out for you? Be honest.
@BlkPillPres get a load of this guy,
you like @tulasdanslos say a worthy successor of @FrothySolutions
:soy: Miss! He hurt my feelings!
 
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All of this alpha/high-t rage energy you've got going on... how's that working out for you?

:feelsYall: Because I'm not 5, I understand women who think that way exist. I just see no reason to spend my precious time reading their hate.

You seem angrier than me. Does that mean you're winning in some way?
Even if hating women is the right position to have there’s also no inherent value in seething and being intensely angry and emotionally distressed 24/7 over things that you have no control over

This doesn’t just apply to women and incelibacy either, on 4chan for example people have this attitude towards literally every conceivable subject matter. You can find people having neurotic breakdowns over food on /ck/ and cars on /o/

Being able to look at these things from a detached impersonal perspective saves you a lot of misery and also lets you think about them far more objectively

People whose existences are constant misery due to their hate crusade against everything are not winning at life
 
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From what i can see you have accepted your position as a loser.Have you tried some more extreme approaches like esthetic surgery, LL If you are short,geomaxxing?I mean you can't say it's over If you haven't tried all options and from what i see you maybe can try to ascend.What is your finnancial situation?You missed most of your life, but that doesn't mean it's over.I don't want to sound like a redpilled bullshit eating youtuber, but i feel sorry for you like i would've feel for myself.
 
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Women absolutely hate you simply for existing though. Have you ever taken a fucking look at /r/TwoXChromosomes and seen what tens of millions of women have to say about 'losers' like you and about men in general?
When I first encountered such terms as 'loser' as a teen from reading newspapers probably, it was some sort of a shock because I thought ( based on Christianity and world literature ) that human life has inherent value . And such dehumanization coming from supposedly 'nurturing' gender.
 
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I don’t hate woman I’m just Disappointed.
 
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So I was never embarrassed, humiliated, cheated or wronged by women. They were just unobtainable, and that made me sad, not angry.
Be sure they were saying nasty things about you behind your back.
 
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Name checks out
 
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Women absolutely hate you simply for existing though. Have you ever taken a fucking look at /r/TwoXChromosomes and seen what tens of millions of women have to say about 'losers' like you and about men in general?
 
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Jfl at this comment section:lul:

Tbf OP most of this site puts very little actual thought into their worldview in addition to having gen Z attention span so such comments are to be expected

That’s why I don’t really write thoughtful posts about inceldom as much lately and mostly just shitpost
Have you read what he’s saying

“I’m short and don’t have the genes women want so it’s all my fault!!:soy::soy: I love women guys I support them in their pursuit of gigachad it’s all their entertainment and benefit!!:soy:

I didn’t need to read more then the few sentences I did. I hope the thread gets shit on, op gets violently raped and necks himself.
 

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