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Brutal When you get to your late 20s, early 30s as virgin, you might stay that way your whole life (especially if it's not by choice).

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Copexodius Maximus said:
You’re supposed to join clubs you are actually interested in, not just a huge number of random bullshit clubs lol
I joined clubs I liked it didn’t work.
Selbsthass said:
This pretty much. As you get older the feeling of wasted youth starts eating you away from inside. Youngcels here like some two guys stating that they're in their teens make me laugh, because at their age I wasn't even slightly concerned with getting laid. Even without any experiences I simply didn't care and was a relatively happy individual. Only over the years, as I realized the time that slipped through my fingers, the people around me actually having meaningful experiences, mental deterioration set in.
Yeah high school incels should leave the forum unless they have autism. It’s the easiest time to find a girlfriend
 
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Broly said:
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
My experience was very similar, now im 19 on verge of rope Fuck my life
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
I joined clubs I liked it didn’t work.

Yeah high school incels should leave the forum unless they have autism. It’s the easiest time to find a girlfriend
What kind of clubs did you join?
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
What kind of clubs did you join?
Rugby. Trail/hiking club. Freestyle rap club.
 
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see u dont choose whether to get laid or not it all depends solely of the women and how she precieves u if u are ugly then its over but we shouId not put women our main focus
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
Yeah high school incels should leave the forum unless they have autism. It’s the easiest time to find a girlfriend
Honestly, you should keep trying until you're young and have ways of socializing. High school and college are a breeding ground for social interactions. Even working normal jobs with other young adults creates an opportunity for establishing new contacts as at this age people in general are curious and willing to explore. Once you hit late 20s and embrace the full adulthood along with its responsibilities is the time when making friendships becomes harder and so becomes maintaining of those that you already have as they slowly become deteriorating, because everybody is shifting their focus to career and family.
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
Rugby. Trail/hiking club. Freestyle rap club.
That sounds like fun. Wish I clubmaxxed in college, but now it’s too late
 
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Selbsthass said:
Honestly, you should keep trying until you're young and have ways of socializing. High school and college are a breeding ground for social interactions. Even working normal jobs with other young adults creates an opportunity for establishing new contacts as at this age people in general are curious and willing to explore. Once you hit late 20s and embrace the full adulthood along with its responsibilities is the time when making friendships becomes harder and so becomes maintaining of those that you already have as they slowly become deteriorating, because everybody is shifting their focus to career and family.
I’m 24 but my times running out
Copexodius Maximus said:
That sounds like fun. Wish I clubmaxxed in college, but now it’s too late
too bad I couldn’t meet people
 
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I’m 24 but my times running out

too bad I couldn’t meet people
Don’t you interact with club members?
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
Don’t you interact with club members?
Yeah but trail clubs only have very few people on trails and many times they were much older students coming or sometimes some people walked too slow and didn’t catch up to me

rugby we played sports more than talk. I got a few numbers but often got left on delivered. I only made brief acquaintances. At other events I got numbers but left on delivered
 
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Yeah but trail clubs only have very few people on trails and many times they were much older students coming or sometimes some people walked too slow and didn’t catch up to me

rugby we played sports more than talk. I got a few numbers but often got left on delivered. I only made brief acquaintances. At other events I got numbers but left on delivered
It’s over
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
It’s over
i'm a transfer student. once you're no longer a freshman, everyone has their own peer group and nobody wants new friends
 
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i'm a transfer student. once you're no longer a freshman, everyone has their own peer group and nobody wants new friends
I made most my friends in 3rd and 4th year.
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
I made most my friends in 3rd and 4th year.
yes but thats an exception not the rule. it's very very hard to make new friends once everyone has their friend group. it takes luck and you had luck.
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
yes but thats an exception not the rule. it's very very hard to make new friends once everyone has their friend group. it takes luck and you had luck.
If you went to a normal college, many people will quit the first two years and many people will transfer in 3rd and 4th year. Maybe try finding some lonely guy sitting in class, and go talk to him. If you do that every class you can accumulate a bunch of friends and get a friend circle going.
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
If you went to a normal college, many people will quit the first two years and many people will transfer in 3rd and 4th year. Maybe try finding some lonely guy sitting in class, and go talk to him. If you do that every class you can accumulate a bunch of friends and get a friend circle going.
I’m trying but almost everyone is busy with their own peer group
 
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I’m trying but almost everyone is busy with their own peer group
Go to the free school counsellor and tell her you don’t know how to make friends. Do everything you can to friendmax, cause without friends we are nothing as social creatures. Get every life hack you can use.
 
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Go to the free school counsellor and tell her you don’t know how to make friends. Do everything you can to friendmax, cause without friends we are nothing as social creatures. Get every life hack you can use.
what would she do?
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
what would she do?
They might have some psychological tricks on the best ways to interact with new people and make friends, every step of the way.
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
They might have some psychological tricks on the best ways to interact with new people and make friends, every step of the way.
my semester ends in a week. next semester i'm gonna try clubs with a lot of verbal communication
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
my semester ends in a week. next semester i'm gonna try clubs with a lot of verbal communication
Keep us updated
 
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BarrelStuffer said:
Definitely higher percentages nowadays. Study was done in mid 2000’s.
2nd reply and the grey cope begins :feelshaha:
 
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FuRed said:
2nd reply and the grey cope begins :feelshaha:
??? There are more male incels now because of social media and dating apps. I don’t think it’s 30% though like the actual copers here think. Probably like 5-8% of men are still virgins at 25 nowadays.
 
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Downward spiral.
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
my semester ends in a week. next semester i'm gonna try clubs with a lot of verbal communication
It ain't easy
 
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Broly said:
I know I shouldn’t give up at 17 but I have no idea on what to even fucking do lol. It’s so easy to say “oh yea I’m gonna try to get gf” vs actually TRYING to get one. Man wish some girls would try to talk to me, not even romantically or sexually, just normal talks would be a decent sign. It’s really scary thinking about my future if I don’t change something before college.

Women could be turned off by appearance or attitude. I stopped being a sad sack of shit a few months ago, lost weight (about 20lbs), started using acne moisturizer, and changed my style a bit and I’m always getting looks from the opposite sex. I stopped viewing women as conquests and talked to them as people- and more often than not they actively engage in conversation; and if I see it’s going nowhere, I leave. Take Ls, Appreciate the Ws, be patient with yourself and girls. You still have plenty of time.

also, as I grew more confident my standards kind of changed. Beauty is nice, but the quality of a person far outweighs any physical looks. A Stacy with a shallow personality is dirt compared to the diamond of a more modest girl with personality. I found myself falling for a modest girl and we have a meaningful connection. I wouldn’t have found her attractive a year or two ago, but rn she’s the most wonderful thing I’ve ever met.
 
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