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Brutal When you get to your late 20s, early 30s as virgin, you might stay that way your whole life (especially if it's not by choice).

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yeah at 24 shit is rough eyes are all on you looking with mockery and judgement
 
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D3X said:
yeah at 24 shit is rough eyes are all on you looking with mockery and judgement
I’m 24. I’m pretty certain I’m stuck a kissless virgin the rest of my life.
 
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2006-2008 is so outdated at this rate.

The discrepancy in the % of male and female virgins must have widened considerably since then, I can pretty much assure you of that.
 
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Makes sense. I can't even imagine having sex and at some point I'll fuck a whore but I'm not sure if I'll even be able to get hard.

Wizard32 said:
This is a useless expression OP because "you might stay a virgin your entire life" applies at ALL ages.

There's never any age at which this expression ever becomes untrue.

You can at best assign certain % odds at various intervals but that's more specific than a vague "might"
If you're a virgin at that age (truecel) then you're statistically more likely to actually be one rather than a temporary incel who ascends/"ascends".
 
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Currently 24. Still get looks of disgust or amusement from foids and normies whenever I'm in public. At this point I wish i could just be asexual because seeing hot foids and knowing I'll never have one is going to drive me craziER than evER before.
 
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happiless said:
Makes sense. I can't even imagine having sex and at some point I'll fuck a whore but I'm not sure if I'll even be able to get hard.

If you're a virgin at that age (truecel) then you're statistically more likely to actually be one rather than a temporary incel who ascends/"ascends".

There is no way to actually ascertain any of this data aside from unreliable self-reporting.

It's also a bit of a false dichotomy here.

You are basically saying "if you have not had sex, you are less likely to have sex" as far as I can discern.
 
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WizardofSoda said:
Most of us will live our entire life without a girl
 
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Wizard32 said:
if you have not had sex, you are less likely to have sex
Yes
 
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Keep in mind, these are numbers from more than 10 years ago, before there were dating apps such as tinder available. Nowadays there are no women past 20 who are still virgins.
 
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RREEEEEEEEE said:
Keep in mind, these are numbers from more than 10 years ago, before there were dating apps such as tinder available. Nowadays there are no women past 20 who are still virgins.
did you find a hooker yet?
 
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Seriously who cares if you die a virgin. If your genuinely blackpilled you'd be picking up a hobby or something to help pass time. Again, asking Mods to ban me.
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
I looked at CDC data from 2006-2008 (before the average of virginity rised a little). Of men ages 25-29, 3.8% have never engaged in any sexual contact with the opposite sex, compared to 3.1% of men ages 30-34, 1.3% of men ages 35-39, and 1.2% of men ages 40-44. This means 92.3% of men who never had any sexual contact in their late 30s will remain that way in their 40s! 34.21% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by their older 20s will stay that way in their late 30s and 42% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by ages 30-34 will stay that way in their late 30s. Of the ones who stay this way in their late 30s, only 7.7% will lose it by their early 40s. Among those who had 0 sexual partners (meaning no vaginal intercourse partners), 45% of men who had 0 sex partners in their early 30s still don't in their late 30s, and only 7% of the ones in their late 30s find a sex partner by their early 40s. 36.84% of those with 0 sex partners by their older 20s won't have any partners by their late 30s.

On the other hand, among women ages 25-29 who are virgins (3.4% of them), 55.88% stay that way at age 30-34 (compared to 81.58% of male virgins in their older 20s). 47.37% of women who are virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their later 30s. But guess what? Of female virgins in their older 30s, 44.44% stay that way by their early 40s compared to almost 93% of male virgins in their older 30s. This means only 21% of female virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their early 40s and only 11.76% of female virgins in their older 20s stay that way at 40.

There's slightly more male virgins than female virgins in older 20s (3.8% vs 3.4%), whereas in early 30s, male virgins are more common (3.1% vs 1.9%) and in older 30s, 1.4% of men and 0.9% of women are virgins and 1.3% of men and 0.4% of women are virgins. Even in ages 20-24, there were more male than female virgins (12.6% of women that age and 14.4% of men that age).

And remember, the men who lost their virginity late probably were virgins by choice or waiting until marriage or maybe used hookers. Among involuntary virgins, the odds they stayed that way at 40 might be much higher because virgins by choice managed to still have seduction skills.

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Edmund_Kemper said:
did you find a hooker yet?
No, I'm not going to hookermaxx anytime soon, if at all. Why?
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
I’m 24. I’m pretty certain I’m stuck a kissless virgin the rest of my life.
virginity is pretty easy to solve if you have some cas$ you ccan pay a hooker or to an escort depends what is your prefference. i escortmaxx from time to time . But getting casual sex without money getting involved is impossible as an incel
 
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RREEEEEEEEE said:
No, I'm not going to hookermaxx anytime soon, if at all. Why?
you once tried to escortmaxx but got rejected by the hooker
D3X said:
virginity is pretty easy to solve if you have some cas$ you ccan pay a hooker or to an escort depends what is your prefference. i escortmaxx from time to time . But getting casual sex without money getting involved is impossible as an incel
hookers might have STDs half the time. and condoms don't always work. not taking a risk.
 
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If you make it to this age as an incel you've already reached the 4/5 stages of grief, depression/acceptance. Anyone else at this point has already gone through denial/anger/bargaining in their early-mid 20s meaning they either made it or roped.
 
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Broly said:
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.

You probably heard that before but I would advise you to tryhard for your final exams. Even if you don't go to college later, good grades here will make your life significantly easier. Messing up during that period and procrastinating is one of my greatest regrets. To this day I still have to pay for the consequences of that mistake and my early recluse retirement plans have been delayed :fuk:
 
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SoySupreme said:
You probably heard that before but I would advise you to tryhard for your final exams. Even if you don't go to college later, good grades here will make your life significantly easier. Messing up during that period and procrastinating is one of my greatest regrets. To this day I still have to pay for the consequences of that mistake and my early recluse retirement plans have been delayed :fuk:
Cope, no uni for your height
 
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Broly said:
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
17 is so young tho you have time still
Mediterraneancel said:
I will.forever alone and sexless. This will be destiny. If you are ugly like me, it is impossible to be desired by women and my face cannot change with plastic surgery, because it is too narrow.
if you really find yourself that ugly, you could always date a blind foid
although I'm sure you're not that ugly
My little brother's face is super narrow and he gets more game than me (which is easy considering I never got any)
Edmund_Kemper said:
you once tried to escortmaxx but got rejected by the hooker

hookers might have STDs half the time. and condoms don't always work. not taking a risk.
aren't there structures which require hookers to take tests before/after every job ? could be worth it to look it up
Toriku2k20 said:
Seriously who cares if you die a virgin. If your genuinely blackpilled you'd be picking up a hobby or something to help pass time. Again, asking Mods to ban me.
yeah, you can be happy without having sex. I sorta gave up a long time ago, and I'm focusing on math and music. I got good pals, life is nice. It improved a whole lot when I realized I didn't need a foid to be happy
 
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Broly said:
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
I'm 17 also and I'm pretty much in the same position as you. I realise my likely future as an incel and its pretty fucking scary. I know something needs to be done to break the self-perpetuating cycle of being non-NT and low status, but like you said it is so hard to know what to do at this point.
 
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I will fuck hookers before I let myself be a perma Virgin

In fact, it’s already planned
 
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forever virgin
 
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nice_try said:
holy shit dude it's now or never for you hurry up.
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
holy shit dude it's now or never for you hurry up.
it's over, forever
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
Wizard status tomorrow
I'm 35. It's not even so much about losing virginity, some very unattractive women (who were at the same time very slutty) or let's say women older than me may have been ready to have something with me in my mid 20s when I still lived in a bigger town and occasionally could motivate myself to go to pubs, but it's about the continual access to sex/LTR/marriage and I don't see any perspective whatsoever for me for such a thing in the western context.
 
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ConservativeCel said:
I'm 35. It's not even so much about losing virginity, some very unattractive women (who were at the same time very slutty) or let's say women older than me may have been ready to have something with me in my mid 20s when I still lived in a bigger town and occasionally could motivate myself to go to pubs, but it's about the continual access to sex/LTR/marriage and I don't see any perspective whatsoever for me for such a thing in the western context.
I’m 24. My time is ticking quick
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
I’m 24. My time is ticking quick
Do you have access to prostitution?
 
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kampman said:
Do you have access to prostitution?
Maybe buts it too costly
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
Maybe buts it too costly
It may be worth it just to finally have an experience.
 
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kampman said:
It may be worth it just to finally have an experience.
Once doesn’t make a huge difference
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
Once doesn’t make a huge difference
just the knowledge that you had it at least once (compared to none at all) does.
 
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kampman said:
just the knowledge that you had it at least once (compared to none at all) does.
doesn't matter having sex once in your lifetime and never again isn't satisfactory
 
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I still have a chance since I am a teencel . But it's likely very narrow and small.
 
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and_i_am_unfuckable said:
I still have a chance since I am a teencel . But it's likely very narrow and small.
same, how old r u?
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
I’m 24. I’m pretty certain I’m stuck a kissless virgin the rest of my life.
Did you at least make friends in college yet?
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
Did you at least make friends in college yet?
One. That was it. I put myself out there but everyone has their own friends and plans so they don’t seem eager to hang out in spare time
 
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One. That was it. I put myself out there but everyone has their own friends and plans so they don’t seem eager to hang out in spare time
Do you live on campus?
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
Did you join any clubs, fraternities, or anything else or are you just rotting in your room?
 
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Copexodius Maximus said:
Did you join any clubs, fraternities, or anything else or are you just rotting in your room?
I tried joining clubs and talking to people there and I tried talking to people on the transfer discord server. I lacked opportunities to actually put myself out there because you can only do a couple clubs at a time but I tried some clubs and it didn’t work
 
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I’m 29 this year, it’s over
 
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At this age sex is not the forefront issue at hand like it was in early 20s. Its getting worrying not having a wife and realizing there is no one in my social circle. Especially without having a family besides a few left.. Youngfags on here have no idea the grief and stress that awaits a truecel
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
I tried joining clubs and talking to people there and I tried talking to people on the transfer discord server. I lacked opportunities to actually put myself out there because you can only do a couple clubs at a time but I tried some clubs and it didn’t work
You’re supposed to join clubs you are actually interested in, not just a huge number of random bullshit clubs lol
 
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