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Brutal When you get to your late 20s, early 30s as virgin, you might stay that way your whole life (especially if it's not by choice).

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2006-2008 is so outdated at this rate.

The discrepancy in the % of male and female virgins must have widened considerably since then, I can pretty much assure you of that.
 
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Makes sense. I can't even imagine having sex and at some point I'll fuck a whore but I'm not sure if I'll even be able to get hard.

This is a useless expression OP because "you might stay a virgin your entire life" applies at ALL ages.

There's never any age at which this expression ever becomes untrue.

You can at best assign certain % odds at various intervals but that's more specific than a vague "might"
If you're a virgin at that age (truecel) then you're statistically more likely to actually be one rather than a temporary incel who ascends/"ascends".
 
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Currently 24. Still get looks of disgust or amusement from foids and normies whenever I'm in public. At this point I wish i could just be asexual because seeing hot foids and knowing I'll never have one is going to drive me craziER than evER before.
 
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Makes sense. I can't even imagine having sex and at some point I'll fuck a whore but I'm not sure if I'll even be able to get hard.

If you're a virgin at that age (truecel) then you're statistically more likely to actually be one rather than a temporary incel who ascends/"ascends".

There is no way to actually ascertain any of this data aside from unreliable self-reporting.

It's also a bit of a false dichotomy here.

You are basically saying "if you have not had sex, you are less likely to have sex" as far as I can discern.
 
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Keep in mind, these are numbers from more than 10 years ago, before there were dating apps such as tinder available. Nowadays there are no women past 20 who are still virgins.
 
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Keep in mind, these are numbers from more than 10 years ago, before there were dating apps such as tinder available. Nowadays there are no women past 20 who are still virgins.
did you find a hooker yet?
 
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Seriously who cares if you die a virgin. If your genuinely blackpilled you'd be picking up a hobby or something to help pass time. Again, asking Mods to ban me.
 
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I’m 24. I’m pretty certain I’m stuck a kissless virgin the rest of my life.
virginity is pretty easy to solve if you have some cas$ you ccan pay a hooker or to an escort depends what is your prefference. i escortmaxx from time to time . But getting casual sex without money getting involved is impossible as an incel
 
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No, I'm not going to hookermaxx anytime soon, if at all. Why?
you once tried to escortmaxx but got rejected by the hooker
virginity is pretty easy to solve if you have some cas$ you ccan pay a hooker or to an escort depends what is your prefference. i escortmaxx from time to time . But getting casual sex without money getting involved is impossible as an incel
hookers might have STDs half the time. and condoms don't always work. not taking a risk.
 
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If you make it to this age as an incel you've already reached the 4/5 stages of grief, depression/acceptance. Anyone else at this point has already gone through denial/anger/bargaining in their early-mid 20s meaning they either made it or roped.
 
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I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.

You probably heard that before but I would advise you to tryhard for your final exams. Even if you don't go to college later, good grades here will make your life significantly easier. Messing up during that period and procrastinating is one of my greatest regrets. To this day I still have to pay for the consequences of that mistake and my early recluse retirement plans have been delayed :fuk:
 
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You probably heard that before but I would advise you to tryhard for your final exams. Even if you don't go to college later, good grades here will make your life significantly easier. Messing up during that period and procrastinating is one of my greatest regrets. To this day I still have to pay for the consequences of that mistake and my early recluse retirement plans have been delayed :fuk:
Cope, no uni for your height
 
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I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
17 is so young tho you have time still
I will.forever alone and sexless. This will be destiny. If you are ugly like me, it is impossible to be desired by women and my face cannot change with plastic surgery, because it is too narrow.
if you really find yourself that ugly, you could always date a blind foid
although I'm sure you're not that ugly
My little brother's face is super narrow and he gets more game than me (which is easy considering I never got any)
you once tried to escortmaxx but got rejected by the hooker

hookers might have STDs half the time. and condoms don't always work. not taking a risk.
aren't there structures which require hookers to take tests before/after every job ? could be worth it to look it up
Seriously who cares if you die a virgin. If your genuinely blackpilled you'd be picking up a hobby or something to help pass time. Again, asking Mods to ban me.
yeah, you can be happy without having sex. I sorta gave up a long time ago, and I'm focusing on math and music. I got good pals, life is nice. It improved a whole lot when I realized I didn't need a foid to be happy
 
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I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
I'm 17 also and I'm pretty much in the same position as you. I realise my likely future as an incel and its pretty fucking scary. I know something needs to be done to break the self-perpetuating cycle of being non-NT and low status, but like you said it is so hard to know what to do at this point.
 
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I will fuck hookers before I let myself be a perma Virgin

In fact, it’s already planned
 
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forever virgin
 
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I'm 35. It's not even so much about losing virginity, some very unattractive women (who were at the same time very slutty) or let's say women older than me may have been ready to have something with me in my mid 20s when I still lived in a bigger town and occasionally could motivate myself to go to pubs, but it's about the continual access to sex/LTR/marriage and I don't see any perspective whatsoever for me for such a thing in the western context.
 
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I'm 35. It's not even so much about losing virginity, some very unattractive women (who were at the same time very slutty) or let's say women older than me may have been ready to have something with me in my mid 20s when I still lived in a bigger town and occasionally could motivate myself to go to pubs, but it's about the continual access to sex/LTR/marriage and I don't see any perspective whatsoever for me for such a thing in the western context.
I’m 24. My time is ticking quick
 
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just the knowledge that you had it at least once (compared to none at all) does.
doesn't matter having sex once in your lifetime and never again isn't satisfactory
 
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I still have a chance since I am a teencel . But it's likely very narrow and small.
 
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Did you at least make friends in college yet?
One. That was it. I put myself out there but everyone has their own friends and plans so they don’t seem eager to hang out in spare time
 
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One. That was it. I put myself out there but everyone has their own friends and plans so they don’t seem eager to hang out in spare time
Do you live on campus?
 
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Did you join any clubs, fraternities, or anything else or are you just rotting in your room?
I tried joining clubs and talking to people there and I tried talking to people on the transfer discord server. I lacked opportunities to actually put myself out there because you can only do a couple clubs at a time but I tried some clubs and it didn’t work
 
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I’m 29 this year, it’s over
 
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At this age sex is not the forefront issue at hand like it was in early 20s. Its getting worrying not having a wife and realizing there is no one in my social circle. Especially without having a family besides a few left.. Youngfags on here have no idea the grief and stress that awaits a truecel
 
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I tried joining clubs and talking to people there and I tried talking to people on the transfer discord server. I lacked opportunities to actually put myself out there because you can only do a couple clubs at a time but I tried some clubs and it didn’t work
You’re supposed to join clubs you are actually interested in, not just a huge number of random bullshit clubs lol
 
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At this age sex is not the forefront issue at hand like it was in early 20s. Its getting worrying not having a wife and realizing there is no one in my social circle. Especially without having a family besides a few left.. Youngfags on here have no idea the grief and stress that awaits a truecel
This pretty much. As you get older the feeling of wasted youth starts eating you away from inside. Youngcels here like some two guys stating that they're in their teens make me laugh, because at their age I wasn't even slightly concerned with getting laid. Even without any experiences I simply didn't care and was a relatively happy individual. Only over the years, as I realized the time that slipped through my fingers, the people around me actually having meaningful experiences, mental deterioration set in.
 
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You’re supposed to join clubs you are actually interested in, not just a huge number of random bullshit clubs lol
I joined clubs I liked it didn’t work.
This pretty much. As you get older the feeling of wasted youth starts eating you away from inside. Youngcels here like some two guys stating that they're in their teens make me laugh, because at their age I wasn't even slightly concerned with getting laid. Even without any experiences I simply didn't care and was a relatively happy individual. Only over the years, as I realized the time that slipped through my fingers, the people around me actually having meaningful experiences, mental deterioration set in.
Yeah high school incels should leave the forum unless they have autism. It’s the easiest time to find a girlfriend
 
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I appreciate your post OP
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
My experience was very similar, now im 19 on verge of rope Fuck my life
 

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