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Brutal When you get to your late 20s, early 30s as virgin, you might stay that way your whole life (especially if it's not by choice).

Edmund_Kemper said:
I joined clubs I liked it didn’t work.

Yeah high school incels should leave the forum unless they have autism. It’s the easiest time to find a girlfriend
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What kind of clubs did you join?
 
7K views lmao
 
see u dont choose whether to get laid or not it all depends solely of the women and how she precieves u if u are ugly then its over but we shouId not put women our main focus
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
Yeah high school incels should leave the forum unless they have autism. It’s the easiest time to find a girlfriend
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Honestly, you should keep trying until you're young and have ways of socializing. High school and college are a breeding ground for social interactions. Even working normal jobs with other young adults creates an opportunity for establishing new contacts as at this age people in general are curious and willing to explore. Once you hit late 20s and embrace the full adulthood along with its responsibilities is the time when making friendships becomes harder and so becomes maintaining of those that you already have as they slowly become deteriorating, because everybody is shifting their focus to career and family.
 
Selbsthass said:
Honestly, you should keep trying until you're young and have ways of socializing. High school and college are a breeding ground for social interactions. Even working normal jobs with other young adults creates an opportunity for establishing new contacts as at this age people in general are curious and willing to explore. Once you hit late 20s and embrace the full adulthood along with its responsibilities is the time when making friendships becomes harder and so becomes maintaining of those that you already have as they slowly become deteriorating, because everybody is shifting their focus to career and family.
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I’m 24 but my times running out
Copexodius Maximus said:
That sounds like fun. Wish I clubmaxxed in college, but now it’s too late
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too bad I couldn’t meet people
 
Copexodius Maximus said:
Don’t you interact with club members?
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Yeah but trail clubs only have very few people on trails and many times they were much older students coming or sometimes some people walked too slow and didn’t catch up to me

rugby we played sports more than talk. I got a few numbers but often got left on delivered. I only made brief acquaintances. At other events I got numbers but left on delivered
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
Yeah but trail clubs only have very few people on trails and many times they were much older students coming or sometimes some people walked too slow and didn’t catch up to me

rugby we played sports more than talk. I got a few numbers but often got left on delivered. I only made brief acquaintances. At other events I got numbers but left on delivered
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It’s over
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
i'm a transfer student. once you're no longer a freshman, everyone has their own peer group and nobody wants new friends
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I made most my friends in 3rd and 4th year.
 
Copexodius Maximus said:
I made most my friends in 3rd and 4th year.
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yes but thats an exception not the rule. it's very very hard to make new friends once everyone has their friend group. it takes luck and you had luck.
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
yes but thats an exception not the rule. it's very very hard to make new friends once everyone has their friend group. it takes luck and you had luck.
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If you went to a normal college, many people will quit the first two years and many people will transfer in 3rd and 4th year. Maybe try finding some lonely guy sitting in class, and go talk to him. If you do that every class you can accumulate a bunch of friends and get a friend circle going.
 
Copexodius Maximus said:
If you went to a normal college, many people will quit the first two years and many people will transfer in 3rd and 4th year. Maybe try finding some lonely guy sitting in class, and go talk to him. If you do that every class you can accumulate a bunch of friends and get a friend circle going.
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I’m trying but almost everyone is busy with their own peer group
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
I’m trying but almost everyone is busy with their own peer group
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Go to the free school counsellor and tell her you don’t know how to make friends. Do everything you can to friendmax, cause without friends we are nothing as social creatures. Get every life hack you can use.
 
Copexodius Maximus said:
Go to the free school counsellor and tell her you don’t know how to make friends. Do everything you can to friendmax, cause without friends we are nothing as social creatures. Get every life hack you can use.
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what would she do?
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
what would she do?
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They might have some psychological tricks on the best ways to interact with new people and make friends, every step of the way.
 
Copexodius Maximus said:
They might have some psychological tricks on the best ways to interact with new people and make friends, every step of the way.
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my semester ends in a week. next semester i'm gonna try clubs with a lot of verbal communication
 
Giga iq post love op he’s a good user
 
FuRed said:
2nd reply and the grey cope begins :feelshaha:
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??? There are more male incels now because of social media and dating apps. I don’t think it’s 30% though like the actual copers here think. Probably like 5-8% of men are still virgins at 25 nowadays.
 
Downward spiral.
 
Brutal brutal brutal brutal aaaaaaa:feelsohgod::feelsohgod::feelsohgod::feelsohgod::feelsohgod:
 
Broly said:
I know I shouldn’t give up at 17 but I have no idea on what to even fucking do lol. It’s so easy to say “oh yea I’m gonna try to get gf” vs actually TRYING to get one. Man wish some girls would try to talk to me, not even romantically or sexually, just normal talks would be a decent sign. It’s really scary thinking about my future if I don’t change something before college.
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Women could be turned off by appearance or attitude. I stopped being a sad sack of shit a few months ago, lost weight (about 20lbs), started using acne moisturizer, and changed my style a bit and I’m always getting looks from the opposite sex. I stopped viewing women as conquests and talked to them as people- and more often than not they actively engage in conversation; and if I see it’s going nowhere, I leave. Take Ls, Appreciate the Ws, be patient with yourself and girls. You still have plenty of time.

also, as I grew more confident my standards kind of changed. Beauty is nice, but the quality of a person far outweighs any physical looks. A Stacy with a shallow personality is dirt compared to the diamond of a more modest girl with personality. I found myself falling for a modest girl and we have a meaningful connection. I wouldn’t have found her attractive a year or two ago, but rn she’s the most wonderful thing I’ve ever met.
 
if you somehow manage to make it to 35 then you're in the real dangerzone... 38, and it's close to absolute curtains.


40 and it's irrecoverably over. OVER buddy boyo, well and truly. There's no way back after that, even if you did get some gash. I mean what are you gona say (or even think to YOURSELF...) whenever the topic arises?? ..."so what age were you when you first...".

Like dipping for the finishing line in the last lap of a race that every other runner has already finished, if you haven't achieved it by then.


This is all from experience fellow incels. So that is why I advise all you young motherfuckers. Make hay while the sun is shining. Moneymaxx in your youth like there's no tomorrow, cos 1 day there won't be

At least even if you have drawn a genetic lottery card with not even 1 number on it (like me), you still can use the funds you accrued to purchasemaxx and get the odd stacy here n there in your 30s.
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
I looked at CDC data from 2006-2008 (before the average of virginity rised a little). Of men ages 25-29, 3.8% have never engaged in any sexual contact with the opposite sex, compared to 3.1% of men ages 30-34, 1.3% of men ages 35-39, and 1.2% of men ages 40-44. This means 92.3% of men who never had any sexual contact in their late 30s will remain that way in their 40s! 34.21% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by their older 20s will stay that way in their late 30s and 42% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by ages 30-34 will stay that way in their late 30s. Of the ones who stay this way in their late 30s, only 7.7% will lose it by their early 40s. Among those who had 0 sexual partners (meaning no vaginal intercourse partners), 45% of men who had 0 sex partners in their early 30s still don't in their late 30s, and only 7% of the ones in their late 30s find a sex partner by their early 40s. 36.84% of those with 0 sex partners by their older 20s won't have any partners by their late 30s.

On the other hand, among women ages 25-29 who are virgins (3.4% of them), 55.88% stay that way at age 30-34 (compared to 81.58% of male virgins in their older 20s). 47.37% of women who are virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their later 30s. But guess what? Of female virgins in their older 30s, 44.44% stay that way by their early 40s compared to almost 93% of male virgins in their older 30s. This means only 21% of female virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their early 40s and only 11.76% of female virgins in their older 20s stay that way at 40.

There's slightly more male virgins than female virgins in older 20s (3.8% vs 3.4%), whereas in early 30s, male virgins are more common (3.1% vs 1.9%) and in older 30s, 1.4% of men and 0.9% of women are virgins and 1.3% of men and 0.4% of women are virgins. Even in ages 20-24, there were more male than female virgins (12.6% of women that age and 14.4% of men that age).

And remember, the men who lost their virginity late probably were virgins by choice or waiting until marriage or maybe used hookers. Among involuntary virgins, the odds they stayed that way at 40 might be much higher because virgins by choice managed to still have seduction skills.

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@Alone75 thoughts?
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Who would stay virginity until 40!? Let alone 30!? Get an escort nigga. Damn
 
22 and KHHV, I don't see myself getting a foid anymore and have given up a while ago. I can only cope now :feelsrope:
 
:bigbrain::bigbrain: super post

I am a proof of that study, another study stated that if you don't lose virginity by 40 its essentially till death
 
If you’re still a virgin involuntarily in your early 20s then give up it never begun
 
Broly said:
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
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hop on t cycle once ur puberty over seriously its ur hope to leave us all
 
im 30 and still a virgin and im going to stay that way all foids look at me the same disgusted.
 
Broly said:
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
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This is my life

We just need to make it bettER
 
I don't know if I will ever go to escort or not. I am very embarrassed about my small penis and also my general body, I have bitch hips and a fat ass. I think I am high E.
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
I looked at CDC data from 2006-2008 (before the average of virginity rised a little). Of men ages 25-29, 3.8% have never engaged in any sexual contact with the opposite sex, compared to 3.1% of men ages 30-34, 1.3% of men ages 35-39, and 1.2% of men ages 40-44. This means 92.3% of men who never had any sexual contact in their late 30s will remain that way in their 40s! 34.21% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by their older 20s will stay that way in their late 30s and 42% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by ages 30-34 will stay that way in their late 30s. Of the ones who stay this way in their late 30s, only 7.7% will lose it by their early 40s. Among those who had 0 sexual partners (meaning no vaginal intercourse partners), 45% of men who had 0 sex partners in their early 30s still don't in their late 30s, and only 7% of the ones in their late 30s find a sex partner by their early 40s. 36.84% of those with 0 sex partners by their older 20s won't have any partners by their late 30s.

On the other hand, among women ages 25-29 who are virgins (3.4% of them), 55.88% stay that way at age 30-34 (compared to 81.58% of male virgins in their older 20s). 47.37% of women who are virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their later 30s. But guess what? Of female virgins in their older 30s, 44.44% stay that way by their early 40s compared to almost 93% of male virgins in their older 30s. This means only 21% of female virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their early 40s and only 11.76% of female virgins in their older 20s stay that way at 40.

There's slightly more male virgins than female virgins in older 20s (3.8% vs 3.4%), whereas in early 30s, male virgins are more common (3.1% vs 1.9%) and in older 30s, 1.4% of men and 0.9% of women are virgins and 1.3% of men and 0.4% of women are virgins. Even in ages 20-24, there were more male than female virgins (12.6% of women that age and 14.4% of men that age).

And remember, the men who lost their virginity late probably were virgins by choice or waiting until marriage or maybe used hookers. Among involuntary virgins, the odds they stayed that way at 40 might be much higher because virgins by choice managed to still have seduction skills.

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@Alone75 thoughts?
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I'm a thirty year old virgin, and it's fine because I know how to use magick.
 
AutisticBeast said:
I don't know if I will ever go to escort or not. I am very embarrassed about my small penis and also my general body, I have bitch hips and a fat ass. I think I am high E.
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just do it
 
Edmund_Kemper said:
I looked at CDC data from 2006-2008 (before the average of virginity rised a little). Of men ages 25-29, 3.8% have never engaged in any sexual contact with the opposite sex, compared to 3.1% of men ages 30-34, 1.3% of men ages 35-39, and 1.2% of men ages 40-44. This means 92.3% of men who never had any sexual contact in their late 30s will remain that way in their 40s! 34.21% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by their older 20s will stay that way in their late 30s and 42% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by ages 30-34 will stay that way in their late 30s. Of the ones who stay this way in their late 30s, only 7.7% will lose it by their early 40s. Among those who had 0 sexual partners (meaning no vaginal intercourse partners), 45% of men who had 0 sex partners in their early 30s still don't in their late 30s, and only 7% of the ones in their late 30s find a sex partner by their early 40s. 36.84% of those with 0 sex partners by their older 20s won't have any partners by their late 30s.

On the other hand, among women ages 25-29 who are virgins (3.4% of them), 55.88% stay that way at age 30-34 (compared to 81.58% of male virgins in their older 20s). 47.37% of women who are virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their later 30s. But guess what? Of female virgins in their older 30s, 44.44% stay that way by their early 40s compared to almost 93% of male virgins in their older 30s. This means only 21% of female virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their early 40s and only 11.76% of female virgins in their older 20s stay that way at 40.

There's slightly more male virgins than female virgins in older 20s (3.8% vs 3.4%), whereas in early 30s, male virgins are more common (3.1% vs 1.9%) and in older 30s, 1.4% of men and 0.9% of women are virgins and 1.3% of men and 0.4% of women are virgins. Even in ages 20-24, there were more male than female virgins (12.6% of women that age and 14.4% of men that age).

And remember, the men who lost their virginity late probably were virgins by choice or waiting until marriage or maybe used hookers. Among involuntary virgins, the odds they stayed that way at 40 might be much higher because virgins by choice managed to still have seduction skills.

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@Alone75 thoughts?
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You should learn black magick, and send death curses to your enemies.
 
I'm 25 now, as i get older my chances of ascension begin to get dimmer and dimmer. foids don't want a ugly man like me, but also they don't want a old ugly man like me as well.
 
33, the age Jesus had when he died, you could say is the same age all of my chances for a sex life just died. Almost feels symbolic.
 
My future...
 
I'm >30. Even if I get a hole by this point... my mind is broken beyond repair.
 
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