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Brutal When you get to your late 20s, early 30s as virgin, you might stay that way your whole life (especially if it's not by choice).

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I looked at CDC data from 2006-2008 (before the average of virginity rised a little). Of men ages 25-29, 3.8% have never engaged in any sexual contact with the opposite sex, compared to 3.1% of men ages 30-34, 1.3% of men ages 35-39, and 1.2% of men ages 40-44. This means 92.3% of men who never had any sexual contact in their late 30s will remain that way in their 40s! 34.21% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by their older 20s will stay that way in their late 30s and 42% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by ages 30-34 will stay that way in their late 30s. Of the ones who stay this way in their late 30s, only 7.7% will lose it by their early 40s. Among those who had 0 sexual partners (meaning no vaginal intercourse partners), 45% of men who had 0 sex partners in their early 30s still don't in their late 30s, and only 7% of the ones in their late 30s find a sex partner by their early 40s. 36.84% of those with 0 sex partners by their older 20s won't have any partners by their late 30s.

On the other hand, among women ages 25-29 who are virgins (3.4% of them), 55.88% stay that way at age 30-34 (compared to 81.58% of male virgins in their older 20s). 47.37% of women who are virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their later 30s. But guess what? Of female virgins in their older 30s, 44.44% stay that way by their early 40s compared to almost 93% of male virgins in their older 30s. This means only 21% of female virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their early 40s and only 11.76% of female virgins in their older 20s stay that way at 40.

There's slightly more male virgins than female virgins in older 20s (3.8% vs 3.4%), whereas in early 30s, male virgins are more common (3.1% vs 1.9%) and in older 30s, 1.4% of men and 0.9% of women are virgins and 1.3% of men and 0.4% of women are virgins. Even in ages 20-24, there were more male than female virgins (12.6% of women that age and 14.4% of men that age).

And remember, the men who lost their virginity late probably were virgins by choice or waiting until marriage or maybe used hookers. Among involuntary virgins, the odds they stayed that way at 40 might be much higher because virgins by choice managed to still have seduction skills.

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@Alone75 thoughts?
 
Definitely higher percentages nowadays. Study was done in mid 2000’s.
 
I'm now 27 and still KHHV
 
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
I’d say at 17 you still have a chance. Try finding a date right now and if you don’t just try in college. But hurry up. I’m 24 and at my age virginity is a red flag
 
Yeah, I know. I'll be 30 tomorrow, foids rejected me all my life. I am ready for war.
 
I know I shouldn’t give up at 17 but I have no idea on what to even fucking do lol. It’s so easy to say “oh yea I’m gonna try to get gf” vs actually TRYING to get one. Man wish some girls would try to talk to me, not even romantically or sexually, just normal talks would be a decent sign. It’s really scary thinking about my future if I don’t change something before college.
You’re experiencing warning signs of future inceldom but at your age many people are still trying so ask them how to do it. Look it up online too. Luckily women your age won’t mind dating virgins. In your early 20s it’s harder to lose your virginity and at mid 20s (I’m 24) it’s way worse
 
These are actually shit statistics, paid intercourses with prostitutes should be excluded. I could pay 250 euros for an hour (standard price here) and lose my virginity, but I still would be the same sufferer, but not in that statistics.
 
honestly no fucking point in worrying about this shit
just coom and whoremaxx
you have to be bluepilled nt and goodlooking to enjoy "ascension" and it only counts when you're young
take the androcentric pill
You’re experiencing warning signs of future inceldom but at your age many people are still trying so ask them how to do it. Look it up online too. Luckily women your age won’t mind dating virgins. In your early 20s it’s harder to lose your virginity and at mid 20s (I’m 24) it’s way worse
you're intp right? that sucks atleast when it comes to women
just whoremaxx already and it'll increase your chances if you still want to be a house negro
at 24 you're probably jaded beyond all hell
 
Yeah, I know. I'll be 30 tomorrow, foids rejected me all my life. I am ready for war.
I know how that feels. What are your plans for tomorrow? It will be one of your saddest days alive. If you don't go for prostitutes tomorrow. You should. You achieved wizard status, it cannot be taken away. If you have the money, go for it. Hell, even borrow, if you don't. It's important. I regret very much I did not do it on my 30. birthday. (of course should have done it at much earlier, like at 14 or 15 years old, but I had no money then.) Of course, you should do it after your birthtime. If you were born in your birthday at evening, don't go before you are actually 30!
 
Most of us will live our entire life without going on a date with a girl, without kissing a girl once.. and ya sex is way out of our league.
 
I know how that feels. What are your plans for tomorrow? It will be one of your saddest days alive. If you don't go for prostitutes tomorrow. You should. You achieved wizard status, it cannot be taken away. If you have the money, go for it. Hell, even borrow, if you don't. It's important. I regret very much I did not do it on my 30. birthday. (of course should have done it at much earlier, like at 14 or 15 years old, but I had no money then.) Of course, you should do it after your birthtime. If you were born in your birthday at evening, don't go before you are actually 30!
It's alright, I don't want to pay a foid for sex. I have accepted wizard status. Tomorrow, I will go to university and take a Spanish test (I dropped back into college). My nuclear family is made up of foids, and they all hate me at this point - so I doubt there will be a cake.

I plan on finishing my memoirs, and then roping before I turn 40 (in Minecraft). Seriously, I never thought that I could be faced with becoming a 40-year-old virgin. When that movie came out, I was like, "what type of loser can't get laid by the time he is 40?!". Jokes on me. :blackpill:
 
It's alright, I don't want to pay a foid for sex. I have accepted wizard status. Tomorrow, I will go to university and take a Spanish test (I dropped back into college). My nuclear family is made up of foids, and they all hate me at this point - so I doubt there will be a cake.

I plan on finishing my memoirs, and then roping before I turn 40 (in Minecraft). Seriously, I never thought that I could be faced with becoming a 40-year-old virgin. When that movie came out, I was like, "what type of loser can't get laid by the time he is 40?!". Jokes on me. :blackpill:
You don't live alone?

You have low libido if you plan to exit without going for prostitutes... also, if you don't exit by 30, you will say that you'll do it before you are 50 when you are 40.

I saw that movie when it came out; I already had a bad feeling I might end up 40 old virgin, but without happy ending like in the movie. And already knew back then that I won't have a good career (or any career) like he in the movie.
 
It's harder for older virgin males to get sex compared to women, don't I know it!
 
There's slightly more male virgins than female virgins in older 20s (3.8% vs 3.4%)
I'm not buying it. Self reported statistics are somewhat worthless. There are no 18+ virgin foids. They all lie.
honestly no fucking point in worrying about this shit
just coom and whoremaxx
you have to be bluepilled nt and goodlooking to enjoy "ascension" and it only counts when you're young
take the androcentric pill
Terabased. There's no ascension as a sub8 male, only housenegrodom
you're intp right? that sucks atleast when it comes to women
just whoremaxx already and it'll increase your chances if you still want to be a house negro
at 24 you're probably jaded beyond all hell
This. Even if you magically ascend after the age of 20, foids won't accept you as their housenegro because you don't have any experience.
 
This. Even if you magically ascend after the age of 20, foids won't accept you as their housenegro because you don't have any experience.
no they actually could accept him as a house negro but idk if he even wants that
he should honestly just go to a third world country and fuck cheap whores raw
 
no they actually could accept him as a house negro but idk if he even wants that
he should honestly just go to a third world country and fuck cheap whores raw
True, but my point is that aspiring house negros (aka incels who want to ascend) have to fuck at least 4 hookers in order to practice for their future massa
 
These are actually shit statistics, paid intercourses with prostitutes should be excluded. I could pay 250 euros for an hour (standard price here) and lose my virginity, but I still would be the same sufferer, but not in that statistics.
When you take escortceling into account its much worse, women dont pay for sex ever.
 
It's harder for older virgin males to get sex compared to women, don't I know it!
Yeah because men are more willing to date virgins
It's alright, I don't want to pay a foid for sex. I have accepted wizard status. Tomorrow, I will go to university and take a Spanish test (I dropped back into college). My nuclear family is made up of foids, and they all hate me at this point - so I doubt there will be a cake.

I plan on finishing my memoirs, and then roping before I turn 40 (in Minecraft). Seriously, I never thought that I could be faced with becoming a 40-year-old virgin. When that movie came out, I was like, "what type of loser can't get laid by the time he is 40?!". Jokes on me. :blackpill:
because the vast majority of people my age have had sex, I’m shocked by how hard it is to get laid or date (at least for me)
 
Fuck, I really hope I luck out in college. I know right now is my best chance to ascend, I’m not waiting until marriage or any of that shit.
because the vast majority of people my age have had sex, I’m shocked by how hard it is to get laid or date (at least for me)
Aren’t you ethnic? I think that’s probably the biggest factor holding you back.
 
I'm not buying it. Self reported statistics are somewhat worthless. There are no 18+ virgin foids. They all lie.
yeah i dont get how anyone claims to be blackpilled then believes that foids can be virgins at 18+

no foid in my high school graduated a virgin
 
Fuck, I really hope I luck out in college. I know right now is my best chance to ascend, I’m not waiting until marriage or any of that shit.

Aren’t you ethnic? I think that’s probably the biggest factor holding you back.
I look white but I’m Palestinian
 
I don't believe for a second that any foid past 20 years of age is a virgin in 2021
 
I’m hoping I don’t live to see my 30s or 40s
 
I hope I find the courage to off myself before then
 
Brutal, am 27 dying a virgin
 
I looked at CDC data from 2006-2008 (before the average of virginity rised a little). Of men ages 25-29, 3.8% have never engaged in any sexual contact with the opposite sex, compared to 3.1% of men ages 30-34, 1.3% of men ages 35-39, and 1.2% of men ages 40-44. This means 92.3% of men who never had any sexual contact in their late 30s will remain that way in their 40s! 34.21% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by their older 20s will stay that way in their late 30s and 42% of men who never engaged in any sexual contact by ages 30-34 will stay that way in their late 30s. Of the ones who stay this way in their late 30s, only 7.7% will lose it by their early 40s. Among those who had 0 sexual partners (meaning no vaginal intercourse partners), 45% of men who had 0 sex partners in their early 30s still don't in their late 30s, and only 7% of the ones in their late 30s find a sex partner by their early 40s. 36.84% of those with 0 sex partners by their older 20s won't have any partners by their late 30s.

On the other hand, among women ages 25-29 who are virgins (3.4% of them), 55.88% stay that way at age 30-34 (compared to 81.58% of male virgins in their older 20s). 47.37% of women who are virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their later 30s. But guess what? Of female virgins in their older 30s, 44.44% stay that way by their early 40s compared to almost 93% of male virgins in their older 30s. This means only 21% of female virgins in their early 30s stay that way in their early 40s and only 11.76% of female virgins in their older 20s stay that way at 40.

There's slightly more male virgins than female virgins in older 20s (3.8% vs 3.4%), whereas in early 30s, male virgins are more common (3.1% vs 1.9%) and in older 30s, 1.4% of men and 0.9% of women are virgins and 1.3% of men and 0.4% of women are virgins. Even in ages 20-24, there were more male than female virgins (12.6% of women that age and 14.4% of men that age).

And remember, the men who lost their virginity late probably were virgins by choice or waiting until marriage or maybe used hookers. Among involuntary virgins, the odds they stayed that way at 40 might be much higher because virgins by choice managed to still have seduction skills.

@SergeantIncel pin this

@Alone75 thoughts?
I will.forever alone and sexless. This will be destiny. If you are ugly like me, it is impossible to be desired by women and my face cannot change with plastic surgery, because it is too narrow.
 
i must hire an escort the first chance i get
 
I'm 26 and a virgin and I never even came close to losing my virginity...foids wouldnt know the struggle at least i know no virgin foids
 
I’d say at 17 you still have a chance. Try finding a date right now and if you don’t just try in college. But hurry up. I’m 24 and at my age virginity is a red flag
Are you really 24 ?
 
I mean, if you're a real incel, then you have shitty genetics, which means you're not attractive to women. And the older you are, the less attractive you become. So, the chances you'll lose your virginity in the future are incredibly low.
 
This data is going to start looking far far worse in the future too.
Those older guys were virgins without even living in the era of Tinder and social media worship and such. I know many good guys with brains and aren't particularly ugly that have simply been passed over by women for not being Chad and don't have much hope of that changing in the future. Doubt they'll fall for the single mother trap either.
 
I’m 17 and I’m starting to get worried ngl. Most of my peers have either lost or will lose it soon. Meanwhile I’m the guy who’s in the back of class listening to music and browsing .is saying “it’s over.” Just lol at the different realities. 1st semester of senior year ends in 1.5 months and I’ve legit got nothing going for me. Fuck man, I really didn’t think my life would be like this. Whether I like it or not I’ll have to accept my fate:fuk:. I’m ready to be gaslight by fossils:feelsEhh:.
Go to college. If you are over 22, start to worry.
 
Go to college. If you are over 22, start to worry.
^^^ This. At 17, you're about to finish high school and move on to the next thing. A change of scene can be a good thing, most of my high school bros ascended while they were university students.
 
^^^ This. At 17, you're about to finish high school and move on to the next thing. A change of scene can be a good thing, most of my high school bros ascended while they were university students.
You are just a kid in high school. I don't even think about it anymore. I just look back and think '' I was just a child who was worried about earing lunch alone lol''.
 

When you get to your late 20s, early 30s as virgin, you might stay that way your whole life​

This is a useless expression OP because "you might stay a virgin your entire life" applies at ALL ages.

There's never any age at which this expression ever becomes untrue.

You can at best assign certain % odds at various intervals but that's more specific than a vague "might"
 
I’d say at 17 you still have a chance. Try finding a date right now and if you don’t just try in college. But hurry up. I’m 24 and at my age virginity is a red flag
What Do you mean? You dont tell anyone that youre a virgin. You go to an Escort to learn. You Will Be awkward The first Time but after 5 Times you know everything vanilla you can Do in bed
 
yeah at 24 shit is rough eyes are all on you looking with mockery and judgement
 
yeah at 24 shit is rough eyes are all on you looking with mockery and judgement
I’m 24. I’m pretty certain I’m stuck a kissless virgin the rest of my life.
 

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