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Discussion What do you struggle with? How do you cope?

On a side note, this sounds kind of pathetic - but I have created fake friend profiles on my social media in the past. It makes me feel good about myself when this "friend" interacts me with and my other peers see it. They see I have "friends" when that happens, even when they never really talk with me save one or two people.

I have said and done some dumb things in my group workchat. I thought I was being funny, but I'm really not. My humour just doesn't calibrate well.
ahh trying to emulate some sort of statusmaxxing? Tbh probably not a bad idea to attempt it. Always worth trying things out. Humor and how it is received often does depend on ones social status so I wouldnt worry about it too much. A hot attractive guy can say the same joke an reject can say and get laughs from it.
 
ahh trying to emulate some sort of statusmaxxing? Tbh probably not a bad idea to attempt it. Always worth trying things out. Humor and how it is received often does depend on ones social status so I wouldnt worry about it too much. A hot attractive guy can say the same joke an reject can say and get laughs from it.
For some reason, when I think about it, my colleagues are almost uniformly the same - they all have the same sense of humour, have the same parlance, act the same way (with slight variations) while the differences are scant. It's like dealing with virtually the same person in some respects. In many ways, they probably think the same way too.
 
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For some reason, when I think about it, my colleagues are almost uniformly the same - they all have the same sense of humour, have the same parlance, act the same way (with slight variations) while the differences are scant. It's like dealing with virtually the same person in some respects. In many ways, they probably think the same way too.
NPC meme tbh
 
I cope by playing video games and imagining every night that i'm dead the next day. And that i'll live another life after this one and that in a parallel universe i'm having a foursome right now with 3 hot 18 year old girls blonde brunette and redhead :cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels: I guess i cope by hopemaxxing damn it i'm such a loser :feelscomfy::feelscomfy::fuk::fuk::dafuckfeels::dafuckfeels:
 
Financial mathematics huh. Even tho I have the perfect mathematical background for it, it never drew me. Do you find the subject itself interesting or are you purely in it for the money?
i do find finance and statistics to be very interesting, but the money is a selling point too. especially where i live, the cost of living is really high, so average income jobs just won't cut it, especially since i'll be paying bills off single income. although a piece of me wishes i could get just spend my whole life on my hobbies. the problem there is that i am not lucky, and my hobbies won't pay the bills.
 
I cope by playing video games and imagining every night that i'm dead the next day. And that i'll live another life after this one and that in a parallel universe i'm having a foursome right now with 3 hot 18 year old girls blonde brunette and redhead :cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels: I guess i cope by hopemaxxing damn it i'm such a loser :feelscomfy::feelscomfy::fuk::fuk::dafuckfeels::dafuckfeels:
Probably common that tbh. Hopemaxxing I guess is fair cope
 
For some reason, when I think about it, my colleagues are almost uniformly the same - they all have the same sense of humour, have the same parlance, act the same way (with slight variations) while the differences are scant. It's like dealing with virtually the same person in some respects. In many ways, they probably think the same way too.
This goes for all normies -- they're all minor variations on the average person. It's in effect what defines them.
i do find finance and statistics to be very interesting, but the money is a selling point too. especially where i live, the cost of living is really high, so average income jobs just won't cut it, especially since i'll be paying bills off single income. although a piece of me wishes i could get just spend my whole life on my hobbies. the problem there is that i am not lucky, and my hobbies won't pay the bills.
I love statistics, but have always hated finance. Good on you for liking it tho. I too wish I could devote my life to hobbymaxxing, but alas, my hobbies ain't gonna pay no bills either. You sound like you have a pretty clear picture of your future. How old are you if I may ask? The time for me to leave the nest is slowly drawing nigh, but I have no idea how I'm gonna make it. I purposefully avoid thinking about it most of the time because I honestly cannot see myself making it on my own -- too much hassle for too little solace.
What's "hopemaxxing"?
having hope
Wouldn't "pretending there's a light at the end of the tunnel" or something be a more accurate description? Someone who's truly hopeful probably doesn't have to hopemaxx to try and fall asleep at night.
 
Wouldn't "pretending there's a light at the end of the tunnel" or something be a more accurate description? Someone who's truly hopeful probably doesn't have to hopemaxx to try and fall asleep at night.
Kind of what hope is I guess. Just wishful thinking
 
I love statistics, but have always hated finance. Good on you for liking it tho. I too wish I could devote my life to hobbymaxxing, but alas, my hobbies ain't gonna pay no bills either. You sound like you have a pretty clear picture of your future. How old are you if I may ask? The time for me to leave the nest is slowly drawing nigh, but I have no idea how I'm gonna make it. I purposefully avoid thinking about it most of the time because I honestly cannot see myself making it on my own -- too much hassle for too little solace.
i'm 19. i get it. it feels like the juice just isn't worth the squeeze especially since the only thing moving out can really do is increase financial responsibility on your end lol. i don't really know what i want to do with my life atm, but i'm certainly glad for the blackpill. i already know what is a waste of time and what is worth my time. beh.
 
Older than I expected given that you said you were "study[ing] math at a highly reputable school". Did you mean that you are pursuing a bachelor in mathematics atm or are you still in secondary school?
it feels like the juice just isn't worth the squeeze especially since the only thing moving out can really do is increase financial responsibility on your end lol
exactamundo
 
Older than I expected given that you said you were "study[ing] math at a highly reputable school". Did you mean that you are pursuing a bachelor in mathematics atm or are you still in secondary school?
nuh i go to university a bachelors degree
 
Social anxiety sounds brutal af tbh. Where do you live? Is it a big city at all? The locationpill can be fairly brutal tbh. And understandable. Somethings are hard to cope with ngl. They drag along constantly seemingly to no end. Stressmaxxers
I live in a big Scandinavian city as a mixed-race piece of shit. I think that perfectly describes my situation. I'm forced to see women who resemble goddesses on a daily basis and I have recently started not to go out anymore. I honestly just want to return to the 3rd world shithole where my father comes from and rot there in the countryside.:feelscry:
 
nuh i go to university a bachelors degree
Nice. How are you liking it? University math is pretty different from high-school math in most countries. I'm currently a math PhD student btw, hence my interest.
 
I live in a big Scandinavian city as a mixed-race piece of shit. I think that perfectly describes my situation. I'm forced to see women who resemble goddesses on a daily basis and I have recently started not to go out anymore. I honestly just want to return to the 3rd world shithole where my father comes from and rot there in the countryside.:feelscry:
Yeah this is always brutal tbh. Painful really. You see what you can never have, you see them actively dismiss you or act hostile towards you too. When all you want to do is get along, they want you to not exist. It's brutal
 
Traumatic brain injury. How i cope idk used to cope with inceldom by LDAR with reading and learning kind of lost a lot of that capacity brutally over for me.
 
Traumatic brain injury. How i cope idk used to cope with inceldom by LDAR with reading and learning kind of lost a lot of that capacity brutally over for me.
Brutal fuck that. What happened if you don't mind me asking? To what extent will it affect you? :feelscry: life brutal tbh
 
Brutal fuck that. What happened if you don't mind me asking? To what extent will it affect you? :feelscry: life brutal tbh
rather not get into details. Sleep is kind of fucked reaction times slowed memory issues, sometimes i swear im half dyslexic and have to read sentances a few times. God knows what other cognitive issues. HBOT(hyperbaric oxygen therapy) fixed the response times and sleep to an extent memory not as much. Kind of hit a pleateau after 40 treatments and 8 grand later. Honestly joined after being stuffed in CBT(cognitive behavioural therapy) getting insult to injury from some fat roastie quota hire instead of genuine medical treatment(thats the feminist dystopia of canada for you i blame women's rights for 90% of the issue and 95% of societal issues). Was reason I joined here was long term lurker of blackpill sites. Plan to do medical tourism for a cholinsterase inhibitor and oxygen concentrator. Cant buy in canada because stupid faggots and whores make up 100% of our medical staff seems sucking 100s of cocks is a job requirement.
 
Nice. How are you liking it? University math is pretty different from high-school math in most countries. I'm currently a math PhD student btw, hence my interest.
oh it's super fun, but time consuming. sometimes i wish my everyday life wasn't so full of learning math so i could have more time to do other things i care about. i just finished a second course in linear algebra and i loved it.
 
rather not get into details. Sleep is kind of fucked reaction times slowed memory issues, sometimes i swear im half dyslexic and have to read sentances a few times. God knows what other cognitive issues. HBOT(hyperbaric oxygen therapy) fixed the response times and sleep to an extent memory not as much. Kind of hit a pleateau after 40 treatments and 8 grand later. Honestly joined after being stuffed in CBT(cognitive behavioural therapy) getting insult to injury from some fat roastie quota hire instead of genuine medical treatment(thats the feminist dystopia of canada for you i blame women's rights for 90% of the issue and 95% of societal issues). Was reason I joined here was long term lurker of blackpill sites. Plan to do medical tourism for a cholinsterase inhibitor and oxygen concentrator. Cant buy in canada because stupid faggots and whores make up 100% of our medical staff seems sucking 100s of cocks is a job requirement.
Fuck life man. That's just brutal. Hopefully things can get better for you as time passes
 
This goes for all normies -- they're all minor variations on the average person. It's in effect what defines them.
There is just seemingly blobs of people who act and think in this way, they replicate the behaviour and preferences of others inside their in-group. It's kind of disturbing in a way, like Uncanny Valley disturbing.

It's a primitive and tribal away of thinking really.

I have given up on trying to befriend most people at the company and narrowed my focus down to one or two people, even if the returns on that investment are something to be desired - putting it mildly.
 
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There is just seemingly blobs of people who act and think in this way, they replicate the behaviour and preferences of others inside their in-group. It's kind of disturbing in a way, like Uncanny Valley disturbing.

It's a primitive and tribal away of thinking really.

I have given up on trying to befriend most people at the company and narrowed my focus down to one or two people, even if the returns on that investment are something to be desired - putting it mildly.
Quality over quantity I guess.
 
Traumatic brain injury. How i cope idk used to cope with inceldom by LDAR with reading and learning kind of lost a lot of that capacity brutally over for me.
Brutal. I get your username now.
oh it's super fun, but time consuming. sometimes i wish my everyday life wasn't so full of learning math so i could have more time to do other things i care about. i just finished a second course in linear algebra and i loved it.
Glad you're enjoying it. Hopefully it'll stay that way. While I still love mathematics in the abstract, throughout my studies I slowly came to dislike more and more aspects of contemporary math education and research. Only the good die young I suppose. I did through the years gain a deepened appreciation of linear algebra however -- it's quite elegant indeed.
 
I struggle with reaching my weight goal, my goal is to weigh 120 pounds
 
Went on a night walk, enjoying the cool weather and some zoomer normal fags (ofc they had that fucking faggy broccoli haircut) in a Mazda SUV taunted me as they drove past.

Fucking vile animals. Wish I could've chucked a rock into the faggot's windshield. Normies NEVER let you cope in peace.
 
Went on a night walk, enjoying the cool weather and some zoomer normal fags (ofc they had that fucking faggy broccoli haircut) in a Mazda SUV taunted me as they drove past.

Fucking vile animals. Wish I could've chucked a rock into the faggot's windshield. Normies NEVER let you cope in peace.
tbh, normies seem to enjoy bringing people down. They're cruel
 
Struggling with being cripple. All I want to do is cope with powerlifting but have made pretty shit progress this year mainly due to SHIT MOBILITY and injury I got. It is improving tho thankfully.

I am coping with this forum, whatever progress I make in the gym and collecting transformers.
 
Struggling with being cripple. All I want to do is cope with powerlifting but have made pretty shit progress this year mainly due to SHIT MOBILITY and injury I got. It is improving tho thankfully.

I am coping with this forum, whatever progress I make in the gym and collecting transformers.
Is that something that can be fixed eventually? Or is it a more permanent issue. It is brutal however though. The amount of incels that suffer from such ailments would probably surprise most people. To hate them, blame them and gaslight them in such a case is simply ableist. Hopefully the lifting goes well though, always good to have some sort of goal to strive towards. Atleast it can help with some sort of mental clarity. Definitely keep up the good work. Collectionamaxxing is based
 
Is that something that can be fixed eventually? Or is it a more permanent issue. It is brutal however though. The amount of incels that suffer from such ailments would probably surprise most people. To hate them, blame them and gaslight them in such a case is simply ableist. Hopefully the lifting goes well though, always good to have some sort of goal to strive towards. Atleast it can help with some sort of mental clarity. Definitely keep up the good work. Collectionamaxxing is based
Right now progress I have been making is good, can squat to a box and deadlift off blocks. As long as I don’t get this injury again from long term squatting I should be good, but if I do then no more powerlifting.
 
Right now progress I have been making is good, can squat to a box and deadlift off blocks. As long as I don’t get this injury again from long term squatting I should be good, but if I do then no more powerlifting.
Pace yourself tbh. It's not worth messing yourself up. Gains at a steady rate and you'll be just fine. Progress is always good though. Stick with it for sure. Always be happy about those next milestones
 
what meaning do incels find in life?
 
what meaning do incels find in life?
Me personally -- none. I try to amuse myself as much as possible while the good still outweighs the bad.

What about you? Do you think life has a God-given meaning? If not, have you found purpose in life?
 
Me personally -- none. I try to amuse myself as much as possible while the good still outweighs the bad.

What about you? Do you think life has a God-given meaning? If not, have you found purpose in life?
Only meaning in life for me I guess is milking my brain for every last possible drop of dopamine. I dont think life has much meaning though tbh. Aside from enjoying it, just sadly some people dont get that opportunity
 
I am ugly, very autistic, brain damaged, white in a majority black school and don't have any friends. I cope with this forum, YouTube, video games, BB guns and destroying shit
 
I am ugly, very autistic, brain damaged, white in a majority black school and don't have any friends. I cope with this forum, YouTube, video games, BB guns and destroying shit
why brain damaged? Tbh destroying shit is an underrated cope. I remember seeing articles and videos about these places you can visit with rooms full of stuff in for you to just go nuts and destroy in them. They give you bats and everything. Seems like a pretty good way to blow off some steam. I like keeping things that break and are beyond my capabilities to repair for that reason. Not only does a sledgehammer break them down nicely to dispose of easy, but it's a nice workout as well as just being fun.
 
what meaning do incels find in life?
I think it can vary from person to person. Some of us invest time in hobbies, others invest time into self-improvement, while still others come here to identify with others who feel the same way. Life does have some tangible meaning in the sense you are alive and exist.
 
why brain damaged?
I'm not 100% sure yet but most likely do to a neurological or neuromuscular disease I will be going to a neurologist in a few months
Tbh destroying shit is an underrated cope. I remember seeing articles and videos about these places you can visit with rooms full of stuff in for you to just go nuts and destroy in them. They give you bats and everything. Seems like a pretty good way to blow off some steam. I like keeping things that break and are beyond my capabilities to repair for that reason. Not only does a sledgehammer break them down nicely to dispose of easy, but it's a nice workout as well as just being fun.
My town has a place like that very fun for a good price
 
Short term memory loss. I try to forget about it.
 
I have always wanted to go paintballing or Airsoft, but I tend to think it would be infested by jaded teens and immature dorks who would ruin the experience.
 
I struggle with everything since I was born.I wish inceldom was my only problem but it's not like this.You know,after you pass a certain age you accept yourself as a failure and you just cope a little bit until the rope comes to collect.

Maybe if I had a father,if I hadn't had been bullied and beaten up by others,if I hadn't been living in poor 3rd world country in a village,if I hadn't had to take care of my family because I'm the only one they can rely on things would have been different.But I'm not here to just cry for myself,things will be better in a few years (not romantically speaking though),if my diseases or the next car on the street don't kill me.

Other people live far more miserable lives than us but never complain about anything.
 
I'm not 100% sure yet but most likely do to a neurological or neuromuscular disease I will be going to a neurologist in a few months
Any idea what caused it?
 
Wat that a pun? Based if so tbh.
I try not to think about it. I thought it would be funnier if I turned that in to 'try to forget about it'. So yeah it's a pun. I've had a lot of time to work with.
 
I have always wanted to go paintballing or Airsoft, but I tend to think it would be infested by jaded teens and immature dorks who would ruin the experience.
If south parks satirisation of it is anything to go by then it most likely is. I know there's a lot of adults who like airsoft, without a doubt. I guess it depends where you go and where you can access. But ngl, over my years alive, the biggest demographic I've ever seen interested in it heavily are teenagers.
 

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