Probably something a lot of people go through tbh
Just no artistic ability tbh. Not my thing. Very barebones and basic
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I got used to being forlorn a long time ago. At this point I mostly struggle with Weltschmerz. Since there ain't much one can do about that, I cope with escapism.
Mayhap you should pin this thread? I quite like the initiative and I doubt I'm alone in that regard.
Mayhap you should pin this thread? I quite like the initiative and I doubt I'm alone in that regard.
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ive been tasting bile in my mouth a month after that fucking endoscopy its driving me nuts. its enough being an incel now even food sickens me. fuck this life. today got bitterness whole day i cant think of anything else. im on the pc coping with video game but sometimes im not even aware of what im doing
I'm making a writeup soon about the only scientific way to cope legitimately, but here's a sneak peek because of this thread.
Essentially, relationships are the biological basis to keep on going. The only way to truly cope is substituting the relationship. I am using waifuism to substitute but there are a couple of other methods
Essentially, relationships are the biological basis to keep on going. The only way to truly cope is substituting the relationship. I am using waifuism to substitute but there are a couple of other methods
I think i'm about the same. It's not even a temporary thing, it's just life. It is my existence. It's all life will ever offer me. I lowly, steeping sadness and pointless purgatory. Escapism is all I live for.
I dont really tend to pin my own threads ngl. But I guess you could ask another mod what they think.
Brutal how come you had one of them done? Hopefully it'll pass soon. Any liquid based things you can try out that might be of use? Have they given you any information on this?
Vidya seems to be a cozy cope for a lot of people. hope the games going well
I dunno if relationships are even cope. Thats just winning jfl. but tbh, human connections are needed. Guys are definitely going to need more and more ways of coping in the coming decades as more and more are thrown to the gutters
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i did it for previous symtoms of vomiting phlegm and spitting out blood. funny it was getting under control by meds and i was recovering by the date of the scope but i made the mistake of going through anyway.
the scope is supposed to be safe. this is really fucking me up i cried some days after the scope, first time in years.
porridge makes it worse actually i cope with the same banana smoothie but all well its not enough in this hell.
funny this all happens after my diet habits went way downhill after getting blackpilled. i dont blame the blackpill spread but this is truly ironic and sad for this silly incel. anyone reading this try not to rot too hard unless you already have a hand on the rope
Life is truly a brutal thing sadly. I barely eat tbh, too much effort to make food
I struggle with the fact that i live with my hoarder mother and my living conditions are worse than some homeless dudes out there. I don't have a shower at home, the place is closed there's no ventilation, it's full of bugs and trash. To go to the bathroom i have to move a lot of shit and doing it everytime you want to go makes you nuts. I'm constantly ashamed of people looking at my house and seeing how dirty, ugly and disgusting it is. It's summer now and it's too fucking hot to live.
I hate the fact that my grandmother gave all of her money to my uncle and he's spending it on whores, drugs, alcohol. He later comes to me and shares his "advice" and i get so fucking mad about it, cause what advice you gonna give me you motherfucker? He also is really tall and a lot of women are into him just bc he's tall and remotely good looking.
I also hate my father because when my mother left him he started being mean to me and i had to go to his place every other weekend. He would go full psycho a lot of the times and was screaming at my face, sometimes pulled my ear and always was a fucking hard person to be around. Always walking on eggshells.
Now i'm 27 and broken beyond measure. Sure i can make "friends" but that's all based on lies. I resent both of my parents and my grandmother to some degree, i also care for them a bit too. But it's too fucking hard to always had to accept my shitty circumstances forced by outside factors.
But then they go "oohhhh how lazy you are, and what has that to do with you?" Nothing fucker, absolutely nothing that you did may have impacted in that nowadays i want to just stare at the ceiling watch videos and do nothing all day.
So yeah my life was always about "understanding" i have to understand that my mother is mentally-ill and that the reason she dosn't clean it's not because she dosn't want to. I have to understand that my father had a rough childhood. Same with my grandmother. And nowadays i also have to understand that i have been fucking unlucky and learned that i'm unnatractive to women cause i'm fucking short and ugly and balding.....
I don't really understand why i'm even alive
I hate the fact that my grandmother gave all of her money to my uncle and he's spending it on whores, drugs, alcohol. He later comes to me and shares his "advice" and i get so fucking mad about it, cause what advice you gonna give me you motherfucker? He also is really tall and a lot of women are into him just bc he's tall and remotely good looking.
I also hate my father because when my mother left him he started being mean to me and i had to go to his place every other weekend. He would go full psycho a lot of the times and was screaming at my face, sometimes pulled my ear and always was a fucking hard person to be around. Always walking on eggshells.
Now i'm 27 and broken beyond measure. Sure i can make "friends" but that's all based on lies. I resent both of my parents and my grandmother to some degree, i also care for them a bit too. But it's too fucking hard to always had to accept my shitty circumstances forced by outside factors.
But then they go "oohhhh how lazy you are, and what has that to do with you?" Nothing fucker, absolutely nothing that you did may have impacted in that nowadays i want to just stare at the ceiling watch videos and do nothing all day.
So yeah my life was always about "understanding" i have to understand that my mother is mentally-ill and that the reason she dosn't clean it's not because she dosn't want to. I have to understand that my father had a rough childhood. Same with my grandmother. And nowadays i also have to understand that i have been fucking unlucky and learned that i'm unnatractive to women cause i'm fucking short and ugly and balding.....
I don't really understand why i'm even alive
struggling with the fact that i'll probably have to work some job idc about for rest of my life as a lonely inkwell
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The boredom that comes with life. There are so many things I want to pursue but I can’t because of my limited environment. For now though, I made a couple of friends at college surprisingly. Nothing extraordinary.
I used to be completely alone but now I have a couple of “friends” so I can’t really complain but the constant boredom is still there.
I had one close friend that I met this summer but it was after a year of no contact with anyone outside of my family. I “forgot” my place as an incel; opened up too much. Now they just think I’m a quote, “weird black dude”. Harshest wake up call I ever had regarding people.
That’s when I kinda realized friendships aren’t really all that but I need human connection even if I don’t want to admit it. I could go without it if I had a natural environment to isolate myself but I live in New York City, the worst fucking place in the world for a multitude of reasons.
I used to be completely alone but now I have a couple of “friends” so I can’t really complain but the constant boredom is still there.
I had one close friend that I met this summer but it was after a year of no contact with anyone outside of my family. I “forgot” my place as an incel; opened up too much. Now they just think I’m a quote, “weird black dude”. Harshest wake up call I ever had regarding people.
That’s when I kinda realized friendships aren’t really all that but I need human connection even if I don’t want to admit it. I could go without it if I had a natural environment to isolate myself but I live in New York City, the worst fucking place in the world for a multitude of reasons.
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I could definitely see myself being in your shoes but I got a bit luckier. It annoys me how so many life factors are based on luck. Looks, family, circumstances. Luck this, luck that. It’s basically bullshit. Fuck I hate it.
That's horrible, do you know when it will stop?
Your iq mogs mang
It's winter for me, how's it summer for you
This is what my gripe with life is, it's always down to fucking luck. You're either lucky or not, and i've proven to be waay too unlucky. At this point why try anything if the outcome will be shitty most of the time? sucks.
Geo differences, maybe you're in riceland while i'm on south americanland
Ah right, I see
Man thats brutal , for me its a fucking given to have a clean toilet / shower , proper air conditions and a relative bed to sleep in . Still it dosnt matter , if your born Ugly and your Mentally Slow " or not Neurotypical .
My Father died since i was 11 , and it dosnt help you either , having a Key Point in Raising a Child , be dead that early .
This World really is a Slot Machine at that Point , not only you have to get lucky Genetic wise , you have to be lucky enough to be Human AND have a Good Circumstance .
My Days Become Very Repetitive aswell , thanks for being Poor in a 1. World Country ,
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The way I see it, it only serves to exacerbate my predicament.
Very fair. I doubt I would in your position either.
@Fat Link I think this would be a nice thread to pin. What say you?
I suffer from lack of friends and social relationships irl (including romantic ones), thus I have to face isolation for years on end. Extreme academic pressure as well, while being peerless which is a real bitch to deal with. Family always expects me to do well in college, and it's the one thing they won't shut up about. They never give a f*** about how I'm feeling, if I really enjoy being in this nigger city, they just care about my grades and the piece of shit degree I'll take IF I graduate, otherwise I'm just worthless trash which will hurt their egos as parents since they bred a non betabuxx subhuman.
I'd honestly prefer being a NEET for life than getting a gf at this point. I have 0 self interest, drive or motivation to keep going besides the usual ''don't become poor'' fearmongering that is usually thrown around by my family. How do I cope you may ask? I don't honestly, and if I do the satisfaction I get from them is very neglibible tbh. I play League and boost my ego through earning higher ranks and shit, watch anime sometimes but that's getting old too. Don't even go to the gym nowadays cuz I'm too lazy to go. Sooner or later I will reach a breaking point I'm pretty sure, already got very sick two times this semester out of pre-exam stress, when I've been healthy for most of the years beforehand. It's ovER, can't even vent my problems because my family is composed of religious retards who would rather gaslight me about a floating man in the sky than accept the blackpill and let me be.
I'd honestly prefer being a NEET for life than getting a gf at this point. I have 0 self interest, drive or motivation to keep going besides the usual ''don't become poor'' fearmongering that is usually thrown around by my family. How do I cope you may ask? I don't honestly, and if I do the satisfaction I get from them is very neglibible tbh. I play League and boost my ego through earning higher ranks and shit, watch anime sometimes but that's getting old too. Don't even go to the gym nowadays cuz I'm too lazy to go. Sooner or later I will reach a breaking point I'm pretty sure, already got very sick two times this semester out of pre-exam stress, when I've been healthy for most of the years beforehand. It's ovER, can't even vent my problems because my family is composed of religious retards who would rather gaslight me about a floating man in the sky than accept the blackpill and let me be.
is it really that bad? does it cover your entire/most of your body?
tfw I only use tiktok to jerk off to girls shaking their asses
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no clue, its a month and a half since then and no real improvement. i miss private insurance. despite being screwed over the singaporean government just want you to shut up and slave in the cuck army after dumping the same trash meds
It's fucked tbh. I'll never understand the people that just automatically assume that family are always good to you. What a nice life they must have to genuinely believe that shit. Hopefully you can get away from there sometime
The life of a "worker drone". That's all people see us as tbh. Fingers crossed you manage to find a job that you atleast likestruggling with the fact that i'll probably have to work some job idc about for rest of my life as a lonely inkwell
Many humans are just shallow as hell. No loyalty. The curse of the west, individualism. Leaves people extremely uncaring towards others. I would hate to be in new york too tbh. For a fair few reasons.
I'm sure i've read that attractive people do better academically. No doubt a big contributor towards this sort of success is life satisfaction. Attractive people will have all their friends, all their needs met, they will be much more happy and satisfied with their environment. Be able to release when they need to and take ample social breaks. Leading to increased productivity and mental calm. Whereas an ugly reject will be constantly stressed, dissatisfied and less able to focus with the constant mulling over how shit life is. Truly an unfair world.
I think many guys are going the way of just NEETing. I predicted this years ago but it turns out, a lot of articles and studies come out nowadays highlighting the amount of men who are giving up. The social contract has been broken. Many men are no longer given an incentive in society. I know for a fact that many find it much better to just exist comfortably than working themselves to the bone for next to no return. Religious gaslighting is also a load of shit.
Struggle knowing that I may never find a true sense of purpose or any real joy in life. I get scared thinking about the future because it seems like there may be nothing good for me there and that the rest of my life may just be how it is now. I've done things in my life that I thought would make me feel accomplished and proud like graduating from university and getting a job but I felt nothing actually accomplishing those things. Feels like regardless of what I do, my future remains dark and lonely. I have no drive or motivation, nothing to live for.
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You're not alone here man. There are plenty of men increasingly feeling this way. Even after all efforts are made, things are still dire. A mental break isn't bad though. Perhaps after a cooling off period you can see if theres anything out there still that you'd find fulfilling, perhaps careerwise. I think at some stage for many, this feeling gets less and less, and it just comes to a melancholic acceptance stage. It still sucks but its better than the constant stress over time ticking away
Hopefully that becomes the case. My best option is to just be patient for now and let life take its course. I'll see what happens from there.
one day at a time man. No need to rush
Stop cooming and megadose b6 you'll thank me later
Hopefully he'll see this. As for me i'll keep cooming strong aha
Have you ever tried an escort before?
Nope. Not for me tbh
Why not? It's a good cope if you're horny and want to lose your virginity.
Not for everyone. Some escortcels come away from the experience feeling worse, feeling pathetic. Also some are unable to shake the knowledge that the girl they see utterly despises them.
Can't exactly list the reasons from the top of my head.
It's just mainly not having a gf, I can cope without having friends (even though it maybe nice to hang out with a fellow bro or even incel), but having a gf just matters more. I accept the fact that I won't get a gf (tried online dating/apps for a while) and will plan to escortcel in a few years.
Anyways I mostly cope with watching porn (need to get it out of my system so I don't look at very woman when I'm outside and minimize being distracted by horny shit), lifting weights to get out the pent up emotions and to get stronger (feel that part too), watching anime, watching youtube, solve some physics equations for fun, and playing some video games (the usual stuff like most guys here).
It's just mainly not having a gf, I can cope without having friends (even though it maybe nice to hang out with a fellow bro or even incel), but having a gf just matters more. I accept the fact that I won't get a gf (tried online dating/apps for a while) and will plan to escortcel in a few years.
Anyways I mostly cope with watching porn (need to get it out of my system so I don't look at very woman when I'm outside and minimize being distracted by horny shit), lifting weights to get out the pent up emotions and to get stronger (feel that part too), watching anime, watching youtube, solve some physics equations for fun, and playing some video games (the usual stuff like most guys here).
Turbomanletism (5'4) paired with a below average face. I'm not exactly the brightest either, only earning medicore grades in school. I was garbage at math, and almost got held back for it. I was okay at everything else. You can imagine how I get treated and what my social status is.
My main goal in life is to find somewhere with a nice climate to live alone in. Don't want a big house as there's no friends or family to use the other rooms. Just something with two bedrooms, a nice yard and a sizeable garage. I'd have one bedroom for myself, and convert the other one into an office. The garage would serve as a workshop and a place to put the cars in. (I like to cope with cars so a garage is a must) I'd like to have a nice garden to sit in and enjoy the outdoor sounds. A home gym in the living room would also be a nice feature to have.
You need a two bedroom house to get anything sizeable and in a nice neighborhood. I'd prefer to live in a suburb or maybe even a rural area. Still want to be close to the city for amenities and copes.
My main goal in life is to find somewhere with a nice climate to live alone in. Don't want a big house as there's no friends or family to use the other rooms. Just something with two bedrooms, a nice yard and a sizeable garage. I'd have one bedroom for myself, and convert the other one into an office. The garage would serve as a workshop and a place to put the cars in. (I like to cope with cars so a garage is a must) I'd like to have a nice garden to sit in and enjoy the outdoor sounds. A home gym in the living room would also be a nice feature to have.
You need a two bedroom house to get anything sizeable and in a nice neighborhood. I'd prefer to live in a suburb or maybe even a rural area. Still want to be close to the city for amenities and copes.
I used to explore my nearby hills and lake its fun seeing nature
Tbh, a relationship would transform my life tbh. People dont seem to realise how important they are because they're lucky enough to have them. They dont know any different. Which is ironic because there are countless non-incels who literally cannot function without a relationship. I've seen countless of them, if they break up, they get someone else within the week because they cant bare to be alone. Privileged that theyre able to just do that tbh.
As for porn I dont really care for it. I dont watch it. I'm an imaginationcel jfl. Weights and exercise are good though. For most people they're great ways to maintain some level of mental clarity as well as just a good distraction in general from life. Plus they give you some tangible benefits aha. Keep that up for sure. I quite like puzzle based stuff too tbh. They're pretty interesting and distracting. Minesweeper is one that I sometimes rot with.
that is absolutely brutal tbh
height and lookspills combined are a recipe for disaster. Dont worry about school though. School can fuck itself, its often not geared towards stimulating peoples interests and strengths. Plenty of ways to rectify it after school. I've seen plenty of people manage that. Social statuspill is brutal though.I've actually always wanted to live somewhere with a decent climate. Some fucking island with cyan waters and stuff. Relaxing and calm type of thing. That would be an existencegasm. A place away from society in any regard would be nice so long as it wasnt run down as fuck. Just somewhere one can settle without having to deal with the hostility of others. You can definitely start building a small home gym already I guess. Just little things that can help you out.
Which country? We dont really have a whole lot of that round here unless I go to the countryside. Unfortunately I dont see much point for myself. I find it hard to enjoy things nowadays. If i've no one to share the moment with, it's just grey. I do appreciate the calm of nature though. Atleast such places are rarely filled with malicious people
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Very relatable. I view my own future bleakly and grimly as well -- I can only see it getting worse. I have also seldomly felt accomplished at the things I've achieved, but that's likely due to perfectionism and hubris.
Godspeed Johan.
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Sounds nice. Why did you quit? Have you seen all there is to see?
Im dying
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