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Discussion What do you struggle with? How do you cope?

I shoot birds at the airport
 
Theres probably some ways. Whatever you can find really. Just something to ease things
Nothing really eases things anymore, but I guess it doesn't matter much. We are all here to suffer anyways :cryfeels: :feelsUnreal:
 
no foids duh
seeing retard dipshit chad/tyrones/etc be successful with 0 effort is very rage inducing, they just gotta exist :fuk::fuk:

i have no drive for career as a result of the above mentioned reasons

copes are not going well, before i shut off my pathetic existence though games, but jew fags are ruining those as well
 
My entire life has been one long nightmare. As a child i was painfully shy, I had few close friends all of which are no longer a part of my life. I was bullied at school, bullied in every job I’ve had. I’ve been embarrassed, humiliated and genuinely made to feel that the world would be a better place if i wasn’t in it. I have an extreme anxiety disorder, followed by a paranoid personality disorder not to mention other personality disorders and I’ve been agoraphobic for the last 11 years and am now completely terrified of human contact. I blame most of this on the girls who constantly bullied me at school.
 
no foids duh
seeing retard dipshit chad/tyrones/etc be successful with 0 effort is very rage inducing, they just gotta exist :fuk::fuk:

i have no drive for career as a result of the above mentioned reasons

copes are not going well, before i shut off my pathetic existence though games, but jew fags are ruining those as well
Yeah its always brutal to see stupid, brutish, asshole tier people, walking red flags who just happen to look good getting all the girls. And then the girls somehow feel the need to take it out on us. As if it were us that messed them around. Retarded world tbh.

Copes are getting much harder to come by and enjoy though for sure. Existing itself is tiresome and effortpilled.
 
Yeah its always brutal to see stupid, brutish, asshole tier people, walking red flags who just happen to look good getting all the girls. And then the girls somehow feel the need to take it out on us. As if it were us that messed them around. Retarded world tbh.

Copes are getting much harder to come by and enjoy though for sure. Existing itself is tiresome and effortpilled.

yup also money is no longer a smv booster it was thanks to diversity quotas and cucked government support. 0 reason for a foid to settle with some avg dude when she earns enough for herself and a broke ass chad

but i can now see the end of west, so that brings me joy.
 
My entire life has been one long nightmare. As a child i was painfully shy, I had few close friends all of which are no longer a part of my life. I was bullied at school, bullied in every job I’ve had. I’ve been embarrassed, humiliated and genuinely made to feel that the world would be a better place if i wasn’t in it. I have an extreme anxiety disorder, followed by a paranoid personality disorder not to mention other personality disorders and I’ve been agoraphobic for the last 11 years and am now completely terrified of human contact. I blame most of this on the girls who constantly bullied me at school.
If mental abuse was treated the same as physical abuse, countless people in the world would be serving time tbh. It's brutal because such mental abuse can often have many more impactful results than a punch or two. I for one would be more than happy if they bought in laws against mental abuse as well, though i've no idea how that would work, be determined or enforced jfl. However though, lots of people would end up in prison as a result of being horrible to rejects.
 
yup also money is no longer a smv booster it was thanks to diversity quotas and cucked government support. 0 reason for a foid to settle with some avg dude when she earns enough for herself and a broke ass chad

but i can now see the end of west, so that brings me joy.
Yeah money requirements for it to be any use as a sure fire way are much higher nowadays
 
My entire life has been one long nightmare. As a child i was painfully shy, I had few close friends all of which are no longer a part of my life. I was bullied at school, bullied in every job I’ve had. I’ve been embarrassed, humiliated and genuinely made to feel that the world would be a better place if i wasn’t in it. I have an extreme anxiety disorder, followed by a paranoid personality disorder not to mention other personality disorders and I’ve been agoraphobic for the last 11 years and am now completely terrified of human contact. I blame most of this on the girls who constantly bullied me at school.
Do you have any illnesses?
 
If mental abuse was treated the same as physical abuse, countless people in the world would be serving time tbh. It's brutal because such mental abuse can often have many more impactful results than a punch or two. I for one would be more than happy if they bought in laws against mental abuse as well, though i've no idea how that would work, be determined or enforced jfl. However though, lots of people would end up in prison as a result of being horrible to rejects.
As they say : "words can kill".
I once have read that when women shout at men, it kills testosterone. Maybe it's nonsense because it wasn't based on any serious source but who knows...
Maybe females know the power of their words and by insulting, mocking and abusing verbally undesirable men they kill the will to live for said men.
Of course it's impossible to prove because who will start serious research on this subject in this cucked world?
 
As they say : "words can kill".
I once have read that when women shout at men, it kills testosterone. Maybe it's nonsense because it wasn't based on any serious source but who knows...
Maybe females know the power of their words and by insulting, mocking and abusing verbally undesirable men they kill the will to live for said men.
Of course it's impossible to prove because who will start serious research on this subject in this cucked world?
words certainly kill tbh. It's brutal
 
As they say : "words can kill".
I once have read that when women shout at men, it kills testosterone. Maybe it's nonsense because it wasn't based on any serious source but who knows...
Maybe females know the power of their words and by insulting, mocking and abusing verbally undesirable men they kill the will to live for said men.
Of course it's impossible to prove because who will start serious research on this subject in this cucked world?
Well said, I completely agree.
 
Struggling with crippling manletism
Coping with doing LL soon
 
Waking up and feeling trapped in my own body. I get on TikTok and see people living normals lifes. Knowing I’ll never have that is a death feeling I feel everyday I wake up . Going outside , is death the stares ,laughter and gossip. I honestly can’t take it :feels::feels::feels::feels: there’s more but you get the just
same here mate and you see couples kissing each other passionately and you walk by wishing them the worst.
 
Heightpill is a very brutal pill tbh

Rotting is comfy though. I dont see prostitutes, just not for me but for those that it's a good cope for I say go for it. Dopaminemaxx. And yeah I try to avoid going out nowadays too, not just due to couples and whatnot. I just dont like all the stupid looks and dirty comments people give me. It ruins going out and is just demoralizing
Yep I know what you mean the normies are non considerate, full of shit people.
 
As they say : "words can kill".
I once have read that when women shout at men, it kills testosterone. Maybe it's nonsense because it wasn't based on any serious source but who knows...
Maybe females know the power of their words and by insulting, mocking and abusing verbally undesirable men they kill the will to live for said men.
Of course it's impossible to prove because who will start serious research on this subject in this cucked world?
yep I am living proof of this.
 
Yeah its always brutal to see stupid, brutish, asshole tier people, walking red flags who just happen to look good getting all the girls. And then the girls somehow feel the need to take it out on us. As if it were us that messed them around. Retarded world tbh.

Copes are getting much harder to come by and enjoy though for sure. Existing itself is tiresome and effortpilled.
yep I remember all the assholes, and so called friends taking crap out on me.
 
My entire life has been one long nightmare. As a child i was painfully shy, I had few close friends all of which are no longer a part of my life. I was bullied at school, bullied in every job I’ve had. I’ve been embarrassed, humiliated and genuinely made to feel that the world would be a better place if i wasn’t in it. I have an extreme anxiety disorder, followed by a paranoid personality disorder not to mention other personality disorders and I’ve been agoraphobic for the last 11 years and am now completely terrified of human contact. I blame most of this on the girls who constantly bullied me at school.
mate may I add you because we have gone through similar sort of things.
 
Just thought i'd make a thread where people can discuss things or realities they struggle with, things that bother them. How they cope. Wishful but maybe find ways to better cope, distract from or easier deal with shitty reality. Inceldom is a miserable circumstance to be afflicted with tbh but fuck, if anything can lower the burden even slightly its good.

Jfl consider it some shitty "group therapy":soy: Atleast unlike actual therapists, we understand the circumstance. Not exactly meant to be a "solutions to inceldom" thread because as we all know, there aren't really any surefire ways at all baring say surgery or someshit. Just a thread to maybe help people cope a bit easier. God knows during the festive seasons while everyone else is out having fun and being accepted by the world, we have no one, and have to suffer in this cold. So hopefully it makes someone feel somewhat better even if for a moment.
I am currently looking into spiritual practices and celibate practices that will help me cope, as the flesh is now disgusting to behold for me. My lusts are slowly fading, however I do wonder what my heaven will be like. As female nice interaction is foreign to me now, in my opinion heaven would not be a good place for me, it would feel so odd, I pray to good that my soul would be dissipated upon death. But we will see what will happen as he is in charge.
 
Struggling with crippling manletism
Coping with doing LL soon
Hopefully the LL goes well man. Based being able to afford it. Make sure you take the surgeons advice for recovery though or you could be very prone to complications. Definitely don't slack on those things. Hoping it goes well for you though
 
yep I remember all the assholes, and so called friends taking crap out on me.
"just get friends". JFL, normies are privileged if they think being valued is that simple. A lot of people tell me "oh well then they weren't really your friends then" if I say that friends I had when younger eventually screwed me over when they found partners.... How were they not really my friends though? They treated me better than literally ANYONE else. Says more about normies and how shallow they than it does my old friends.
 
Acne (and its scars)
Height (5'5/166 cm)
Skinny
Ethnic (Latino)
 
Dont really see how my organs would last that long jfl
It mostly genetics. But i advise you to make peace with God if you're determined to do that.
 
i am so terribly sad from no love that for 6 hours after i wake up i seem to fail to eat. The two clash, food and my current suffering of sexlessness, in the morning at least, i am hungry, but i do not want the food, so I do not eat, I even get up and go do other things, passing on food. The food has a quality there is no word for, gross but with no offense to the senses, vanilla gross. The pit in my stomach clashes with the idea of eating.
The hunger is painful, for about 6 hours I often will not eat and hurt, and i cannot imagine a food i would like to have. Then I eat normally after 6 hours because it is not as much an eating problem as it is a mental problem. I drink water and juice when i wake up though.
the heartbreak of life itself. certainly relatable at times tbh. I barely eat
 
It mostly genetics. But i advise you to make peace with God if you're determined to do that.
hospital said they were concerned last time I drank myself there jfl.
 
hospital said they were concerned last time I drank myself there jfl.
I am also a lover of booze, but srs do you really want to go with a liver failure.
 
I am also a lover of booze, but srs do you really want to go with a liver failure.
I dont care what takes me out as soon as it hurries up and removes all immediate practical responsibility of doing so from myself
 
I cope with cooming/wasting my time online

But I’m very consistent with my fitness health
There’s nothing worse than being fat
 
Mfw when someone posts on a certain social media platform wishing everyone a happy new year and your comment is the only one which isn't liked wishing them one in return. In fact, liking all the ones below mine.

I hate getting treated like shit for no reason, by people who are ostensibly nice to me one day and then awful the next.
 
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Mfw when someone posts on a certain social media platform wishing everyone a happy new year and your comment is the only one which isn't liked wishing them one in return. In fact, liking all the ones below mine.

I hate getting treated like shit for no reason, by people who are ostensibly nice to me one day and then awful the next.
I've had things like that before tbh. Fucking life
 
Time for my monologue.

I'm a couple of years away from 30, I'm 5'4ft and I've been bald since I was nine. I had two childhood cancers, that stunted my growth and made me a social outcast since I was around 7 years old.

My life is pretty easy, I work in Tech and I make six figures after taxes. I have a car and I own property. I balance my full-time job with graduate school and I was lucky enough to have the capacity that makes things like programming, maths, and finance really easy. I'm not a genius, per se, but I have the processing power to handle abstract shit.

My issue is that I'm stuck in Australia, a progressive, cucked country, full of useless fucking animals, so controlled that these people can't take a piss without being told how and where. I work in a corporate environment, and as much as I want progression, you can't earn that shit as a white guy anymore. I used to play MMOs for hours a week to get that false sense of 'number get bigger' because I can't get that in my life.

I would like to have my own company and make money, that is all I want in my life ATM. I don't care about women or family, because I know I have no chance for that shit. But I have this internal conflict, any money I make, will go to taxes and then to the people I despise.

If I break 200k a year, I lose half to income tax. To get there, I would need to earn another 70k, which I would lose all of it to tax.
Business tax is 30%, Capital gains taxes are 50%, and there are regulations on fucking everything.

I'm not vaxxed, so I can't even go anywhere. Even if I did, what place isn't becoming a socialist shithole?

This has ruined almost every aspect of my life, I can't even start a hobby without thinking "How do I make money out of this?", which makes me think about how I would just get robbed, so I don't bother. I stopped playing MMOs, because I can't stand depending on other people, I hate that I'm held back because some retard can't CC a mob or can't interrupt a boss.

The other parts of my life don't exist, I don't leave the house or go anywhere.

So I don't know what to do, I finish grad school this year and I'll have even more time to think about how I much I hate this country.
 
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I struggle with my deep desire to massacre. Going ER has been a fantasy of mine for a while now and the prospect has become so sweet I can almost taste it. I saw a post here once about not being another suicide statistic and instead being remembered for something bigger.
 
Time for my monologue.

I'm a couple of years away from 30, I'm 5'4ft and I've been bald since I was nine. I had two childhood cancers, that stunted my growth and made me a social outcast since I was around 7 years old.
You had cancer as a child? That is brutal tbh. Another testament to the fact that many incels are a result of issues beyond their control. That is fucking brutal. Oddly enough as a kid i knew boys with cancer, and girls with cancer. Guess which of the two got sympathy, and which got treated like a diseased freak. (apart from one good looking guy who died from it that i knew. He was worshiped before and after he got it)
My life is pretty easy, I work in Tech and I make six figures after taxes. I have a car and I own property. I balance my full-time job with graduate school and I was lucky enough to have the capacity that makes things like programming, maths, and finance really easy. I'm not a genius, per se, but I have the processing power to handle abstract shit.
This is good. Even if it doesn't make people value you as a person. You still have value. You're better than most. I just do hope that the money you earn gives you the ability to cope well. I know this world is harsh. Keep your options open though if things become too stressful.


My issue is that I'm stuck in Australia, a progressive, cucked country, full of useless fucking animals, so controlled that these people can't take a piss without being told how and where. I work in a corporate environment, and as much as I want progression, you can't earn that shit as a white guy anymore. I used to play MMOs for hours a week to get that false sense of 'number get bigger' because I can't get that in my life.
This does sound brutal. I've not much understanding of Australia but I have heard enough to the point where I can deduce that it can be an odd place. Especially for a western type society.

I would like to have my own company and make money, that is all I want in my life ATM. I don't care about women or family, because I know I have no chance for that shit. But I have this internal conflict, any money I make, will go to taxes and then to the people I despise.

A company would be based. It's good that you have better goals that can serve yourself. I have heard about startup meetups and stuff? Not sure how effective they are at actually doing shit. Given that the big players in business will often just wipe out any new ideas by appropriating their models once successful.

Still perhaps worth a look though. You cant lose anything by trying there. You either get nowhere, or you get somewhere. Don't take a loss as a bad thing in that regard.

I think reject males should get reduces taxes tbh. And surprisingly enough i've spoke to some women before who agree that we should get a break. Tax is almost like paying your subscription to society. But with reject males, we get charged for a platinum subscription, and only get the experience of the bronze package. Our opportunities are very limited. We aren't given a place in society. We are simply allowed to exist among it.
If I break 200k a year, I lose half to income tax. To get there, I would need to earn another 70k, which I would lose all of it to tax.
Business tax is 30%, Capital gains taxes are 50%, and there are regulations on fucking everything.
As above. Reject tier males should get tax breaks. Couples get things cheaper, being a reject isn't a choice. We should be given a break.

I'm not vaxxed, so I can't even go anywhere. Even if I did, what place isn't becoming a socialist shithole?
I'm not vaxxed. But not due to conspiracy. I just feel it's a waste of time. I could spend the time it would take me to get vaxxed, drinking and farming dopamine. I've only been sick from pathogens twice in my entire life. 32 years... They dont affect me. And fuck other people anyway. I dont spend enough time around people nowadays anyway. It's unimportant. Plus... If covid did kill me. Fucking bonus. No responsibility on my part. I have no interest in my overall health.
This has ruined almost every aspect of my life, I can't even start a hobby without thinking "How do I make money out of this?", which makes me think about how I would just get robbed, so I don't bother. I stopped playing MMOs, because I can't stand depending on other people, I hate that I'm held back because some retard can't CC a mob or can't interrupt a boss.

The other parts of my life don't exist, I don't leave the house or go anywhere.

So I don't know what to do, I finish grad school this year and I'll have even more time to think about how I much I hate this country.
I just hope something works out for you tbh. Try to find an avenue that works for you. Easier said than done though I guess but I hope something falls into place for you ngl
 
I struggle with my deep desire to massacre. Going ER has been a fantasy of mine for a while now and the prospect has become so sweet I can almost taste it. I saw a post here once about not being another suicide statistic and instead being remembered for something bigger.
You need to get over that then. Normie tier cringe. You solve nothing by doing shit like that. As much as people think they're "sending a message". You do fuck all by doing that. Instead what you do is place the burden of the act unto people like us here who do nothing to anyone. That in itself is cruel.

Find a better way to deal with it. You're here now. We can help you. This is what this community is for. To help eachother. You're welcome to message me and many others if you need. Life is shit sure, but theres better ways of dealing with it than doing some stupid shit.

edgy thoughts are temporary. Let them pass
 
Being left behind whilst normies get to experience relationships and sex like it's nothing.
 

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