What do you look for in a person before you consider them as a friend?

[Deleted member 44415]

Must hang out on weekends, have an active group chat with them, talk to them everyday. By this definition, I have 0 friends only many acquaintances

 

[I want to believe]

I want to be friends with those who're similar to me.

 

[Deleted member 44415]

I want to be friends with those who're similar to me.

they would have my back if i were in a crisis, aka no1

Practically never happens, no one defended me when I was framed for petty theft

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

0 acquaintances, only other people I interact with IRL besides family are coworkers.

 

[Incelius Savage]

How would i do that? I'm in isolation 24/7...

 

[Sennacherib]

Only fakecels want ''friends'',trucels don't need any because they realize people are scum and there's no such things as ''friends'' for them,only parasites.

 

[Deleted member 44415]

0 acquaintances, only other people I interact with IRL besides family are coworkers.

Same, I used to delude myself that they are my friends but I see the truth now, no one would be friends with fat ugly non NT person

 

[Postmaxxercel50k]

I just hang out with basically anybody

 

[Deleted member 44415]

I just hang out with basically anybody

Do they ghost you when you ask them if they want to go out again? If not they are real friends

 

[Vitarius]

I believe you must have similarities with your friend, because differences tend to create emotional distance.

And you should be able to express your true self to each other.

 

[Postmaxxercel50k]

Do they ghost you when you ask them if they want to go out again? If not they are real friends

I only hang out with 2 of them outside of school

 

[Deleted member 44415]

I only hang out with 2 of them outside of school

I do hang out with this 5'1 manlet but I can tell he hates me

 

[Deleted member 40252]

Must hang out on weekends, have an active group chat with them, talk to them everyday. By this definition, I have 0 friends only many acquaintances

 

[Deleted member 44415]

LONELINESS IS KILLING ME

 

[Blighteous]

Must hang out on weekends, have an active group chat with them, talk to them everyday. By this definition, I have 0 friends only many acquaintances

That's an extremely normalfag way to define "friend". A true friend is someone who you can be your true self around, someone who you can trust to have your back. You can talk to someone everyday and even hang out every weekend yet still not be true friends with them. Having a few true friends is better than having many superficial friends that you only stick close to so you don't feel lonely.

 

[NoLooksNoLife]

LONELINESS IS KILLING ME

Hit me baby one more time!

 

[CountBleck]

aligning ideologies typically

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

I have the annoying habit that a lot of people I consider to be acquaintances consider me to be their friend and vice versa. I would say that asymmetrical relationships are very frustrating for all parties involved when they get tested.

 

[Don Vito]

Must hang out on weekends, have an active group chat with them, talk to them everyday. By this definition, I have 0 friends only many acquaintances

People like me are too unactractive to have 'friends'. Once I stop to contact them they stop to contact me.

I notice how those 'friends' share secrets between themselves but not with me.

I have "known people" instead and my only friends are my personalities. Personalities that were born due to solitude.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Must hang out on weekends, have an active group chat with them, talk to them everyday. By this definition, I have 0 friends only many acquaintances

I am too much of an anomaly for friendships at this point. Plus I've gotten too used to doing things by myself that trying to incorporate other people into my activities would be an annoyance.

If you spend too much time in a certain lifestyle, your mind adapts to it, and that becomes your new normal.

That's what's so funny about so many coping incels on this forum talking about "ascending" one day.

It's like they don't have the self awareness to realize that they no longer possess a mind that can function within and enjoy being in a relationship.

After years of inceldom your social skills are trash, your ability to read social cues is in the garbage, you are emotionally dead in some respects (if not all respects like in my case), you don't really know how to interact with a woman romantically, she's is just an "accessory" for you to finally achieve some landmark in your life.

Any relationship any of us gets into will feel "forced" unless we legit get some autistic chick to date us, so we'd atleast start of on "the same wavelength". Even then she has more social skills and is more normal than you, because women get to experience socializing and relationships regardless of their level of attraction.

Women don't play the game on easy mode, she won't be able to relate to your plight and she won't sympathize with you at all. It will be up to you to rush yourself to "catch up to her".

 

[Deleted member 44415]

consider me to be their friend

Its always the opposite for me, 6'2 bbc friend haver

 

[Fallenleaves]

Only fakecels want ''friends'',trucels don't need any because they realize people are scum and there's no such things as ''friends'' for them,only parasites.

It's good to have "friends", cuz they are effectively just acquaintances but you get to learn a lot, first hand about the way they act and think from talking to them