The existence of this term called "virgin shaming" is the main problem, it's an oxymoron.
Being virgin is not a matter of shame but not being a virgin is. Not being a virgin is still a taboo in many traditional cultures (fortunately). Being virgin until marriage is a matter of pride. You are not virgin means you are an obnoxious whore who fucks randomly like animals for free. It's a matter of utter shame. I have no fucking idea how this word "virgin shaming" became a normal thing.
Liberals are on a fight against all kind of taboos. Fornication is normalized a long time ago. Homosexuality is normalized in this decade. Open/poly/cuckold relationships are also normalized. Their motive is to disrupt the basic fabric of the society called "family", which they did successfully.
Even there was a short attempt at making bestiality normalized, but did not fly because of the animal rights activists. Now they are slowly trying to push incest through introducing new terms like "Genetic Sexual Attraction (GSA)". I think their end goal is to normalize cannibalism.
The west will burn in it's own fire.