Drawbacks
I will start this thread by playing devil's advocate, because escortmaxxing is not necessarily a good thing. For me, it's just something I do to live another day, for maintenance of my own body and its needs, and to not go fucking crazy from the lack of sexual release. In my life there are no good options. Let's take a look at the drawbacks:- If you are sub5, you will not get genuine attraction from them, although they might feign it for customer retention purposes. This is similar to how waitresses might "pretend-flirt" with sub5 males in an attempt to nudge them into tipping more, or coming back more often.
- This feigning might be a red flag, because it indicates business might be slow and she is low on cash. This may lead to other problems explained in "Blocking Guidelines".
- Even if it's not genuine, you can still go for the sexual release you need.
- If you have leverage to ascend via surgeries (looksmaxx, hardmaxx), that may be a better investment than escortmaxxing. However, some surgeries are quite risky, and you'd need tens of thousands of dollars. I don't think most users here have that kind of money.
- You are also paying for something others get for free. Although if you are in this forum, you're probably also paying for other things others also get for free. Also consider that betabuxxing isn't much better, you'd have to spend tons of money on dates, food, cars, vacations, etc. for someone who still doesn't like you.
- Basically you have to gauge how much you need that sexual release vs. the implications of what you're doing.
- You are giving money to a woman, thus encouraging that woman's lifestyle. Although if you pay taxes you already do this indirectly, especially in the case of single mothers.
- Same as before. You need to gauge how much you really need this.
- Might not be legal in your country, or a gray area (e.g. illegal to buy, but not to sell).
- STDs. Again, depends on your risk tolerance.
- I would not recommend it if you are above Agony level 5. You can probably get by fine by jacking off, and it's free.
- You are still an incel.
- Multiple girls in the same place - there could be drama, since they're still women. Some girls may manipulate/guilt-trip you into not trying other girls. DO NOT GET ATTACHED. Get a taste for of all different races, sizes, and body types.
- Payment methods: best to use cash instead of virtual wallets like PayPal or payment forwarders like Zelle. Ask this in advance! For the most part they prefer cash though.
- Some might not accept certain ethnicities (I'm white).
Blocking Guidelines
They're still women, so some of these things could happen:- If they ask you to lend them money, DON'T. I she asks multiple times, block her.
- If she doesn't receive you at the agreed time, block her.
- If she tries to manipulate/guilt-trip you in some way, block her.
- If she insists multiple times that you should visit her, block her. If she is low on cash, it's her problem.
- If she asks you to buy gifts, block her. You're already paying her, she can got get her own stuff.
- If she asks you to do shady shit, refuse. Then block her.
Closing
Escortmaxxing for the most part has been beneficial for me, BUT there are some nasty traps one should avoid, and I've documented at least some of them here. You 'lose' in the sense that there is no genuine attraction, but there is a small victory. If you're a sub5, society wants you to be as repressed and miserable as possible, it wants you to suffer.Perhaps this could serve as a temporary respite from that reality - when that temporary respite ends, you will of course go back to a world that is hostile to you, BUT you will feel more relaxed and focused on whatever it is you have to do. For example, I had tasks I kept procrastinating on (because I do most things alone, so little to no motivation, having to resort to trial & error, etc.) and escortmaxxing almost always nullifies that procrastination.
And overall, just relax and have a good time. No need to bring negativity to escorts; I never tell them my frustrations regarding women, even though they can 100% tell I'm unsuccessful with women. Before the main thing, ask them if they do massage - if you have anxiety, relaxing the shoulder & traps area feels really good.
