Discussion Friendhavers GTFIH

[Give Up]

For the sake of the poll I’m gonna say only count real life friends but you can state below whether or not you believe online friends are real friends and why.

Some questions for you if you wish to answer: If you have friends, what are they like? Do you spend time together regularly? Are they subhuman rotters like yourself or do they mog you? Are you close and what would you consider a “real” friend to be?

Personally I have no friends but I’m curious to see how many friendhavers we have here and what it’s like to have a friend. Tell me all about it, I’m curious…

 

[Fo4idhater]

I had two close friends back in school, but they abandoned me when they started dating, and nowadays I rarely talk to them.

 

[spergierthanyou]

Was about to vote and then I saw irl friends, it's over

 

[Rapistcel]

For the sake of the poll I’m gonna say only count real life friends but you can state below whether or not you believe online friends are real friends and why.

Some questions for you if you wish to answer: If you have friends, what are they like? Do you spend time together regularly? Are they subhuman rotters like yourself or do they mog you? Are you close and what would you consider a “real” friend to be?

Personally I have no friends but I’m curious to see how many friendhavers we have here and what it’s like to have a friend. Tell me all about it, I’m curious…

I consider a lot of people here my friends but no one in real life.

 

[Give Up]

I had two close friends back in school, but they abandoned me when they started dating, and nowadays I rarely talk to them.

How often do you speak with them

 

[Give Up]

I consider a lot of people here my friends but no one in real life.

Have you ever had a friend in real life at some point?

 

[Give Up]

I just realized that I didn't make zero an option I fucked up

 

[nouc]

why no

For the sake of the poll I’m gonna say only count real life friends but you can state below whether or not you believe online friends are real friends and why.

Some questions for you if you wish to answer: If you have friends, what are they like? Do you spend time together regularly? Are they subhuman rotters like yourself or do they mog you? Are you close and what would you consider a “real” friend to be?

Personally I have no friends but I’m curious to see how many friendhavers we have here and what it’s like to have a friend. Tell me all about it, I’m curious…

why no option for zero friends?
i dont have any friends irl

 

[Give Up]

why no

why no option for zero friends?

I meant to but forgot sorry man

 

[nouc]

I meant to but forgot sorry man

you talk like someone who has 70 friends and knows how to handle any social situation

 

[Give Up]

you talk like someone who has 70 friends and knows how to handle any social situation

I have zero

 

[Fo4idhater]

How often do you speak with them

about twice a year at most.

 

[Freixel]

I have 2-3 irl friends.

I see them every couple of months

 

[Give Up]

I have 2-3 irl friends.

I see them every couple of months

What is it like?

 

[Freixel]

What is it like?

I’m grateful to have them.

I used to have more "friends," but they turned out to be fake, and losing those relationships really hurt me. I’ve known the three friends I have now since I was a child in elementary school. It’s good to know that true friendships still exist in today’s world.

I don't mind that we rarely see each other, I'm a solitary person anyway; they are the kind of people with whom—even if years go by without meeting—it feels like we’ve known each other our whole lives when we finally get together again.

 

[Give Up]

I’ve known the three friends I have now since I was a child in elementary school. It’s good to know that true friendships still exist in today’s world.

I figured, it's hard to make close friendships like that outside of school, basically impossible after university (if you even go)

I don't mind that we rarely see each other, I'm a solitary person anyway; they are the kind of people with whom—even if years go by without meeting—it feels like we’ve known each other our whole lives when we finally get together again

Mirin

 

[Freixel]

Mirin

I recently made a few more "friends" while training in martial arts; I signed up at a dojo, met some people there, and hit it off with them.

I think a sport or physical activity is a great place to meet new people.

Sadly, most "cels" have zero interest in physical activity, but if you enjoy it, you should consider giving it a try.

Making friends at university is really hard—I know because I've been attending for three years and still haven't made any friends there; it's a lonely place.

 

[cathuluelitist]

Absolutely zero. I think I used to have some at some point years ago, can't say for sure.

 

[Cryo]

I don't need friends. Only bananas

 

[Give Up]

I recently made a few more "friends" while training in martial arts; I signed up at a dojo, met some people there, and hit it off with them.

I think a sport or physical activity is a great place to meet new people.

Sadly, most "cels" have zero interest in physical activity, but if you enjoy it, you should consider giving it a try.

Making friends at university is really hard—I know because I've been attending for three years and still haven't made any friends there; it's a lonely place.

I'm not that physically fit but I think I'll try, I've exhausted all my other options at this point

 

[Give Up]

Absolutely zero. I think I used to have some at some point years ago, can't say for sure.

Can't say for sure? What do you mean, can you elaborate a bit?

Otherwise I relate, I haven't had any friends in over a decade.

 

[Give Up]

I don't need friends. Only bananas

 

[TooSomething]

One if he is still alive, and he lives in the USA.

I live in Germany.

It is over.

 

[Give Up]

One if he is still alive, and he lives in the USA.

I live in Germany.

It is over.

Why would he not be alive

When's the last time you spoke?

 

[TooSomething]

Why would he not be alive

When's the last time you spoke?

Half a year ago. He had some tumors in his gut. He has also had cancer before that and had one lung removed.

I fear that he is dead.

My main goal is to find another job and save up money so I can visit him to see what's up.

 

[Give Up]

Half a year ago. He had some tumors in his gut. He has also had cancer before that and had one lung removed.

I fear that he is dead.

My main goal is to find another job and save up money so I can visit him to see what's up.

Very sad to hear brocel, I hope he is well

 

[cathuluelitist]

Can't say for sure? What do you mean, can you elaborate a bit?

Otherwise I relate, I haven't had any friends in over a decade.

Well, would your true freinds berate you all the time? No. I think I had maybe one freind but we grew apart, he was too caught up in the heat and I was too asocial and "autistic" from years of bullying and browbeating. In addendum to that, I grew to hate him in JH because of his romantic successes, I mean, we had this gorgeous Asian filler teacher and she was practically flirting with him, he was the epicenter of everything, the main guy, I secretly despised him. New science shows autism is caused by vaccine overload so that's probably what gave me midlife social retardation. I also can't produce original text, I have synthesis in my head but can't produce an original idea, I'm a heckler and a data thief, a bastard/le bedlamite always have been. Much like Trump, I'm a cheater and a liar, haha. I lost this big regional math competition and cried my eyes out then sent raging emails to the director until he just gave me the win, my teachers hated me, and rightfully so since I would send obnoxious e-messages to them where I would badger and shame them.

None of this is my fault however, my mom's bad genes forced me into this, she has literally every single genetic drivel, bad eyesight, fibrous tonsils, low IQ, I'll never forgive my dad for wrecking his genes further by choosing her and bringing me into this world. His genes also presented this imposition though, since he was in essence more prone to narcissism, he of course became a narcissist and wanted a disgusting whore he could shamelessly berate and control, I don't blame him but I won't forgive him.

 

[TooSomething]

Very sad to hear brocel, I hope he is well

I hope so to. He has an associate in the USA whom I also have in my friends list but that guy has also not heard from him in a while.

We will see.

I try my best to get an ok job to visit him soon.

 

[Give Up]

Well, would your true freinds berate you all the time? No. I think I had maybe one freind but we grew apart, he was too caught up in the heat and I was too asocial and "autistic" from years of bullying and browbeating. In addendum to that, I grew to hate him in JH because of his romantic successes, I mean, we had this gorgeous Asian filler teacher and she was practically flirting with him, he was the epicenter of everything, the main guy, I secretly despised him.

Same here, all my friends my childhood went on to be sexhavers with above average or at least normal sex lives while I continued to rot. I am not really the jealous type I suppose but I still resent them for their mistreatment of me and I think one of them also has hatred for me for reasons unknown.

New science shows autism is caused by vaccine overload so that's probably what gave me midlife social retardation. I also can't produce original text, I have synthesis in my head but can't produce an original idea, I'm a heckler and a data thief, a bastard/le bedlamite always have been. Much like Trump, I'm a cheater and a liar, haha. I lost this big regional math competition and cried my eyes out then sent raging emails to the director until he just gave me the win, my teachers hated me, and rightfully so since I would send obnoxious e-messages to them where I would badger and shame them.

As in, you were completely normal mentally beforehand? My teachers hated me too although it was moreso because I was an extreme slacker than a nuisance.

None of this is my fault however, my mom's bad genes forced me into this, she has literally every single genetic drivel, bad eyesight, fibrous tonsils, low IQ, I'll never forgive my dad for wrecking his genes further by choosing her and bringing me into this world. His genes also presented this imposition though, since he was in essence more prone to narcissism, he of course became a narcissist and wanted a disgusting whore he could shamelessly berate and control, I don't blame him but I won't forgive him.

How about looks wise? Do your parents have a big gap in terms of looks?

 

[Give Up]

I hope so to. He has an associate in the USA whom I also have in my friends list but that guy has also not heard from him in a while.

We will see.

I try my best to get an ok job to visit him soon.

Good luck

 

[TooSomething]

Good luck

Thanks man.