Discussion The importance of social skills is nuanced

[Highfield78]

Social skills are important, but their importance is inconsistent.

They can help your career, make friends, and navigate the world with greater ease.

Will they help your dating prospects? Hello no! Dating is purely an appearance based competition.

 

[SmhChan]

Nuancepilled.

 

[Highfield78]

Nuancepilled.

The number of dudes with bad social skills who get women purely because of their height and frame is obscene.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Social skills are important, but their importance is inconsistent.

They can help your career, make friends, and navigate the world with greater ease.

Will they help your dating prospects? Hello no! Dating is purely an appearance based competition.

They do if you're average or slightly below average in looks. People underestimate the importance of NT even when it comes to dating...

Tbh Being NT and not being mentally ill or having a disorder is one of the most important things EVER if you're around average or below average.

 

[SmhChan]

The number of dudes with bad social skills who get women purely because of their height and frame is obscene.

Barely anybody cares for the content of one's speech. It's the retarded PUAs who helped permeate this delusional idea, social skills = chick magnet.

 

[Highfield78]

They do if you're average or slightly below average in looks. People underestimate the importance of NT even when it comes to dating...

Tbh Being NT and not being mentally ill or having a disorder is one of the most important things EVER if you're around average or below average.

It's not a factor in the UK

Women only care about appearance.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

if you have friends in your neighborhood then you're good. it beats basically everything else.

 

[WeirdPanda]

It's not a factor in the UK

Women only care about appearance.

I rlly do doubt it.

Not denying that women only care about appearance, but attractiveness isn't only factored by appearance. Being NT can make you look hotter

 

[WeirdPanda]

I rlly do doubt it.

Not denying that women only care about appearance, but attractiveness isn't only factored by appearance. Being NT can make you look hotter

I will always stand by this tho. The NTpill is valid and true as fuck.

 

[justuseless]

Wasser

 

[Highfield78]

Barely anybody cares for the content of one's speech. It's the retarded PUAs who helped permeate this delusional idea, social skills = chick magnet.

Correct

I rlly do doubt it.

Not denying that women only care about appearance, but attractiveness isn't only factored by appearance. Being NT can make you look hotter

No

You can be awkward, arrogant, etc and still be swamped with women provided you have the right physical traits

 

[Highfield78]

if you have friends in your neighborhood then you're good. it beats basically everything else.

Male friends? Yes

Female friends? No, the friendzone is a waste of time.

 

[WeirdPanda]

You can be awkward, arrogant, etc and still be swamped with women provided you have the right physical traits

NT isn't only defined by being awkward and arrogant. Obviously I mean actual autism or AuDHD.

Not being unattractive/ugly won't save you if you have these things

Unless you're chad OFC, or an HTN

 

[Pancakecel]

No social skills for your face, when people react negatively to you just for existing there ain't no skills that can save ya.

 

[Just say NIGGER!]

Will they help your dating prospects? Hello no! Dating is purely an appearance based competition.

Ok try going as 6/10 or 7/10 guy to a woman while stuttering and talking about WH40K and then you will see how "unimportant" social skills are.

 

[Highfield78]

NT isn't only defined by being awkward and arrogant. Obviously I mean actual autism or AuDHD.

Not being unattractive/ugly won't save you if you have these things

Unless you're chad OFC, or an HTN

Autistic and 7/10 beats non-Autistic and 5/10 in the UK

 

[Highfield78]

Ok try going as 6/10 or 7/10 guy to a woman while stuttering and talking about WH40K and then you will see how "unimportant" social skills are.

Seen it happen with another dude

Women responded well.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Autistic and 7/10 beats non-Autistic and 5/10 in the UK

My man, I didn't say that? But autism is a TOTAL smv killer for sub-HTN men and even some HTN men can struggle with autism.

And most men are average, so what u get with that? NTpill.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

I'm autistic but I see other guys who are autistic/socially awkward who get girls on the regular. their lack of social skills is a "quirk" because they're not ugly. for me, it just adds to how unattractive I am.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

No social skills for your face, when people react negatively to you just for existing there ain't no skills that can save ya.

 

[WeirdPanda]

I'm autistic but I see other guys who are autistic/socially awkward who get girls on the regular.

Lol what how? I hung out with the sped kids at school and we were the ones who never pulled any

 

[DutchCel01]

I'm autistic but I see other guys who are autistic/socially awkward who get girls on the regular. their lack of social skills is a "quirk" because they're not ugly. for me, it just adds to how unattractive I am.

I know only 2 autists irl and i have never heard of seen them with a girl last i checked.

 

[WeirdPanda]

I'm autistic but I see other guys who are autistic/socially awkward who get girls on the regular. their lack of social skills is a "quirk" because they're not ugly. for me, it just adds to how unattractive I am.

Unless you just mean socially awkward men, I had a nerdy friend in middle school who ended up getting a girlfriend. If you're just nerdy I can see but autism is an smv killer.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

Unless you just mean socially awkward men, I had a nerdy friend in middle school who ended up getting a girlfriend. If you're just nerdy I can see but autism is an smv killer.

I agree with you that it usually is. but I know autistic men who are "conventionally attractive" and still pull foids. that's just my experience where I'm at though. maybe Canada is so retarded it's impossible to avoid.

 

[WeirdPanda]

I agree with you that it usually is. but I know autistic men who are "conventionally attractive" and still pull foids. that's just my experience where I'm at though. maybe Canada is so retarded it's impossible to avoid.

Every conventionally attractive person gets a girlfriend but most people are just average, conventionally attractive men are HTNs

 

[Coyote Cooch]

I know only 2 autists irl and i have never heard of seen them with a girl last i checked.

I'm part of a program for neurodivergent men so I'm pulling from a large circle. the ones who are "conventionally attractive" score girls. probably not easily, but idk, they do it. foids seem to think it's adorable if they have good looks. but maybe they're also just not as full blown retarded as me, idk.

 

[ArabAndFramecel]

Social skills = looks

I dont believe in the NTpill

 

[Just say NIGGER!]

Seen it happen with another dude

Women responded well.

Tales from the deepest slums of mumbi

 

[Highfield78]

My man, I didn't say that? But autism is a TOTAL smv killer for sub-HTN men and even some HTN men can struggle with autism.

And most men are average, so what u get with that? NTpill.

I don't autism has much influence on smv at all

 

[Highfield78]

Tales from the deepest slums of mumbi

Nope, the UK.

Appearance is all that matters over here

 

[WeirdPanda]

I don't autism has much influence on smv at all

Yeah that's like, your opinion. I have had lotta autistic friends and most of them are KHHV losers like me. And they were the aspie types yeah

Just putting out the substance, but I can affirm that it does.

 

[Highfield78]

Yeah that's like, your opinion. I have had lotta autistic friends and most of them are KHHV losers like me. And they were the aspie types yeah

Just putting out the substance, but I can affirm that it does.

I know guys with autistic traits that have women throwing themselves at them.

It's all about height, frame and facial bone structure.