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Theory Your social skills are your IQ. Personality is IQ + LOOKS

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When social skills are not looks of course. At first they are looks, but after looks it is IQ and solely IQ. But not entirely. Only SOME parts of your IQ. Quite to the contrary? Higher fluid intelligence I would say is negatively correlated with good social skills because most people do not have that high.



For a start: A witty person is socially skilled. Because they are funny or charismatic or something. They can do banter, do small talk, keep conversation fluid and natural. They don't fail to match the other person. To be socially skilled you have to be witty. Being witty is basically a combination of a good vocabulary + processing speed. Both are IQ

There is spatial IQ. Spatial IQ (Block Design + Visual Puzzles) determines how you carry yourself. It makes you have a good posture. It makes you dress well. It also makes you useful. If you have low spatial IQ, you'll always be stumbling into shit and you will have a weird gait and you will stand awkward or getting hit by shit. Low it makes you BAD at sports and BAD at activites that require fine-motor coordination. It is also correlated with whether you can drive or not. If you can't drive that's already a major sign.

Finally, scoring low in verbal IQ makes you basically retarded. A high verbal IQ is a mogger. It heavily contributes to charisma and can turn you from a mere jock into a jock-nerd or simply a chad if combined with being witty

Fluid Intelligence: It makes you nerd af. Not the cool nerd type.

Verbal Intelligence: Makes you geek and look intelligent. More correlated with verbal intelligence.

Spatial Intelligence: Posture, gait, body language.

Processing Speed: Your ability to be quick-witted.

TLDR; high SPATIAL IQ + high VERBAL IQ + high PROCESSING SPEED and you get the social skills of a chad.
 
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Well, there is IQ and there is IQ. I have somewhat high IQ, but i am unpopular nd
 
Well, there is IQ and there is IQ. I have somewhat high IQ, but i am unpopular nd
IQ isn't a single metric it is a combination of metrics

But I would say IQ is very important
 
When social skills are not looks of course. At first they are looks, but after looks it is IQ and solely IQ. But not entirely. Only SOME parts of your IQ. Quite to the contrary? Higher fluid intelligence I would say is negatively correlated with good social skills because most people do not have that high.
My brain liquefied trying to read that.
I have 130 IQ (apparently) with high values for those 3 criteria you stated but I am still KHHDV incel with no friends nor social skills
 
My brain liquefied trying to read that.
I have 130 IQ (apparently) with high values for those 3 criteria you stated but I am still KHHDV incel with no friends nor social skills
Yeah you would have to do the actual test. But it is factual proof of social skills. However since you are 130 IQ you have high fluid intelligence as well. Which I should have mentioned. But high fluid intelligence makes you weird
 
Take it from me I'm dumb as fuck
 
Yeah you would have to do the actual test. But it is factual proof of social skills. However since you are 130 IQ you have high fluid intelligence as well. Which I should have mentioned. But high fluid intelligence makes you weird
I'll eventually do it before the year ends.
 
actually kinda agree tbh. If you can't train your verbal skills because nobody wants to engage in conversation with you, you will basically have low verbal IQ by default. I've noticed as I got older that im socially inept and its not entirely my fault because i used to try to talk with people but i would pick up that they didnt want to talk to me so i eventually left them alone or they cut me off. High IQ thread.
 
I'll eventually do it before the year ends.
I'll edit the post but it's basically this:

Fluid Intelligence: It makes you nerd af. Not the cool nerd type.

Verbal Intelligence: Makes you geek and look intelligent. More correlated with verbal intelligence.

Spatial Intelligence: Posture, gait, body language.

Processing Speed: Your ability to be quick-witted.

That's social skills.

actually kinda agree tbh. If you can't train your verbal skills because nobody wants to engage in conversation with you, you will basically have low verbal IQ by default.
Exactly. Verbal IQ is partly trainable unlike the others.
 
Spatial Intelligence: Posture, gait, body language.
Bro you're conjuring up definitions that aren't real spatial awareness doesn't have anything to do with those things
 
Bro you're conjuring up definitions that aren't real spatial awareness doesn't have anything to do with those things
They actually are take it from me. I used to be really bad at sports too. It is all correlated nigga.
 
They actually are take it from me. I used to be really bad at sports too. It is all correlated nigga.
Nigga do you just expect me to take your word for it? Not how it works man.
 
I dont think it is IQ, if you think about the conversation, about who you're talking to and have useful knowledge then you should be able to perform well or at least the best you could in a conversation, even if some things slip you can always review the conversation and do better next time. :feelsLightsaber:
 
I dont think it is IQ, if you think about the conversation, about who you're talking to and have useful knowledge then you should be able to perform well or at least the best you could in a conversation, even if some things slip you can always review the conversation and do better next time. :feelsLightsaber:
Bro having Useful knowledge is literally a part of IQ. Information and Vocabulary.
 
Bro having Useful knowledge is literally a part of IQ. Information and Vocabulary.
Yes but i mean social skills doesn't have to be like youre smart or not, people can prepare topics and plan a way of being and then be socially skilled
 
Yes but i mean social skills doesn't have to be like youre smart or not, people can prepare topics and plan a way of being and then be socially skilled
But that's literally what I said dude. Plus social situations are high time pressure. If you're too slow you'll come off as socially retarded. So even if you want to plan, you need the IQ first to pull it off.
 
But that's literally what I said dude. Plus social situations are high time pressure. If you're too slow you'll come off as socially retarded. So even if you want to plan, you need the IQ first to pull it off.
Bro high IQ correlates with social isolation more than average IQ ???
 
Fluid Intelligence (AKA the autism intelligence) is the only one that is correlated with social isolation.
 
you need the IQ first to pull it off.
If people can do impossible milisecond shit on videogames then social skills are just as grindeable
 
If people can do impossible milisecond shit on videogames then social skills are just as grindeable
Unless your brain lirerally doesnt work properly
 
Fluid Intelligence (AKA the autism intelligence) is the only one that is correlated with social isolation.
I guess I should specifiy that this counts spatial intelligence as well. But some parts of it can be helpful for your social skills. Overall it being high is more detrimental.

If people can do impossible milisecond shit on videogames then social skills are just as grindeable
That's just genetics

Unless your brain lirerally doesnt work properly
Yes IQ is in the brain. And I did say Verbal IQ is trainable but that is only in theory. In practice it is just over
 
Social skills are fake. It's all about how you perceived.

There are chads with low IQ who just repeat buzzwords and get away with it and wittycells who are just perceived as clowns.
 
Social skills are fake. It's all about how you perceived.

There are chads with low IQ who just repeat buzzwords and get away with it and wittycells who are just perceived as clowns.
That's not low IQ.
 
That's just genetics
It is for the best of the best but its not like you have to be gifted genetically and talented to beat extreme demons in geometry dash or things like that. :feelstrash:
 
It is for the best of the best but its not like you have to be gifted genetically and talented to beat extreme demons in geometry dash or things like that. :feelstrash:
A bit. Geometry Dash is a game that I would say requires reaction time which has to do with processing speed. An average processing speed is good enough to beat extreme demons, but if you're low then you will have a very hard time
 
personality=face,water wet
 
While at it, I would honestly say that a lot of flaws is tied to Verbal IQ. Out of all the ones I stated, Verbal IQ is the most important one here. You can have processing speed and spatial intelligence but without atleast an average Verbal IQ you are nothing. Life is brutal.
 
Social skills are fake. It's all about how you perceived.

There are chads with low IQ who just repeat buzzwords and get away with it and wittycells who are just perceived as clowns.
:blackpill:Brutal:feelsbadman:
 
Social skills are fake. It's all about how you perceived.

There are chads with low IQ who just repeat buzzwords and get away with it and wittycells who are just perceived as clowns.
Atomic warhead bearing element 169 TRVTHIVM
 
Being witty and ugly is obviously better than being slow and ugly, it can separate the attention to your ugliness a bit and make you MORE bearable, not more attractive. Why do you think people always link ugly and stupid instead of just putting ugly
 
IQ is a huge cope. My verbal IQ is 143 according to CAIT online test which is pretty accurate as far as online tests go. Also I got a 760 out of 800 on Verbal SAT, and I was a Mensa member (top 1% IQ) in junior high. Always been socially retarded and ostracized. Haven't had a friend in 27 years. Massive social anxiety, very high inhib and very quiet, and I can't think of anything to say in social situations.
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IQ is a huge cope. My verbal IQ is 143 according to CAIT online test which is pretty accurate as far as online tests go. Also I got a 760 out of 800 on Verbal SAT, and I was a Mensa member (top 1% IQ) in junior high. Always been socially retarded and ostracized. Haven't had a friend in 27 years. Massive social anxiety, very high inhib and very quiet, and I can't think of anything to say in social situations.View attachment 1753770View attachment 1753771View attachment 1753772
What's your processing speed
 
IQ is a huge cope. My verbal IQ is 143 according to CAIT online test which is pretty accurate as far as online tests go. Also I got a 760 out of 800 on Verbal SAT, and I was a Mensa member (top 1% IQ) in junior high. Always been socially retarded and ostracized. Haven't had a friend in 27 years. Massive social anxiety, very high inhib and very quiet, and I can't think of anything to say in social situations.View attachment 1753770View attachment 1753771View attachment 1753772
moga me
 
IQ is a huge cope. My verbal IQ is 143 according to CAIT online test which is pretty accurate as far as online tests go. Also I got a 760 out of 800 on Verbal SAT, and I was a Mensa member (top 1% IQ) in junior high. Always been socially retarded and ostracized. Haven't had a friend in 27 years. Massive social anxiety, very high inhib and very quiet, and I can't think of anything to say in social situations.View attachment 1753770View attachment 1753771View attachment 1753772
Your PSI is 85. You know that is almost retarded level right? Of course your verbal IQ doesn't carry you
 
Well he just conveniently left out that his PSI is 85. You can't expect anything good from having way below average processing speed. Mine is also extremely low.
 
TLDR; high SPATIAL IQ + high VERBAL IQ + high PROCESSING SPEED and you get the social skills of a chad.
But these 3 points makes no social skills or chad looks - people still will reject constantly
 
Well he just conveniently left out that his PSI is 85. You can't expect anything good from having way below average processing speed. Mine is also extremely low.
either way even if you ascend by good social skills your foid will cheat on your with a criminal chad just because she feels like it
 
But these 3 points makes no social skills or chad looks - people still will reject constantly
a good IQ can carry you really far if you don't have looks to be fair. If we say looks is height + face, then all you have left is your brain. If your brain doesn't work then it is a wrap.
 
either way even if you ascend by good social skills your foid will cheat on your with a criminal chad just because she feels like it
That is true indeed
 
What's your processing speed
It sucks. Here's my Verbal SAT score too (800 was a perfect score) if you don't believe the online IQ test
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It sucks. Here's my Verbal SAT score too (800 was a perfect score) if you don't believe the online IQ test View attachment 1753774
No. I know the online test. It is a good one. But your processing speed is too bad. So you can't really use your verbal IQ to your full extent. That's how brutal the IQpill is
 
Well he just conveniently left out that his PSI is 85. You can't expect anything good from having way below average processing speed. Mine is also extremely low.
I dunno, I don't believe that processing speed score. I think when I took the online test I wasn't really ready for it when it started, but who knows.
 

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