I mean you got it good on every other one. Processing speed is very different from the other ones.
Also I'm old now in my 40s, I took that test last year for fun. I'm sure my processing speed was much better when I was in my teens, but I was still ostracized and couldn't think of anything to say. It's face + genetics + high sensitivity + bullying in my experience.
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Damn, I've always been absolutely dogshit at interacting with people. I'm ND, and therefore am unable to read social cues. All the jokes I've tried to make always have fallen flat and sounded cringe, I'm unable to keep a conversation going unless the other person does all of the talking and my only responses would be "okay" and "alright". Hell, I can't even start a conversation with people in most cases, I legitimately cannot find anything to discuss with them unless its only the most surface level small talk like talking about the weather or some shit. 
I don't know enough about your life to say for sure, but intelligence doesn't drop by much. So most likely even in your teens it was bad
VIQ is seperate from social intelligence.
Literally just not how it works buddy. You can be a mute enuech with a high VIQ. Spatial IQ has to do with how you can manipulate information internally whilst VIQ is how you can manipulate information externally. Jordan Peterson has a high VIQ and a low spatial IQ. Another example of someone with a high verbal IQ and low spatial IQ is Thomas Sowell.
It's a shitty theory. Even literal retards have had much more active social lives than I've had and have managed to reproduce.
You sound like you know a lot more about this than me. Am I into something atleast?
Isn't social intelligence more like your Verbal IQ + Your processing speed?
Exactly. This is a shitty theory.
Well these retards problably have had higher processing speed than you did though. I don't know for sure? If you think it's shitty that's okay. In fact I'd like to know why because I may just be saying bullshit. But how do you know for sure?
Well that's just brutal. The IQpill is brutal really. When your looks are bad, the only thing that's left is your IQ. If you don't have neither IQ nor looks. Why even live?Damn, I've always been absolutely dogshit at interacting with people. I'm ND, and therefore am unable to read social cues. All the jokes I've tried to make always have fallen flat and sounded cringe, I'm unable to keep a conversation going unless the other person does all of the talking and my only responses would be "okay" and "alright". Hell, I can't even start a conversation with people in most cases, I legitimately cannot find anything to discuss with them unless its only the most surface level small talk like talking about the weather or some shit.
Well, yeah, obviously.
Your verbal intelligence is determined by how you can extrapolate and cozen/synthesize information. Someone with high verbal intelligence can read something and be able to plasticate it and maximize the fruits from the information, whilst someone with a high nonverbal IQ e.g, high spatial IQ can just manipulate information in their head and can extrapolate from it internally. Social intelligence doesn't exist since it can't be measured and it seems that people with higher fIQ are also more socially intelligent than people with lower fIQ so even if it could be measured somehow there would be no point because of how strongly it correlates with general IQ anyway.
Then I'm losing all my intellect in others eyes when I'm seen - halo anti effect - sub3 cannot be that smart
Studies have found that high IQ correlates more with social anxiety (i.e. social isolation) than average IQ. I think high sensitivity in a lot of high IQ people is a big reason.
Verbal intelligence more correlated with verbal intelligence
It's a writing mistake. That doesn't invalidate what I said
It does. But the same things behind social anxiety are also what allow you to be socially skilled if you have an even IQ. If you witty. Social anxiety is being too tuned in. And overthinking. If you're not witty you can't really say.
And you're going to get anxious if you get too confused. That's just natural.
Yes I have high VIQ but I'm basically mute. I'm physically capable of speaking but I rarely talk and try to avoid talking (very high inhib). I was also known as "mute" in school and at work and was made fun of/bullied for it.
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In my experience and from observation of others, I think Verbal IQ is about having a good memory and reading skills. Very little to do with social skills which gets more into face/height, anxiety disorders, high sensitivity, autism, childhood bullying, etc. (And high IQ people are more likely to be highly sensitive.)
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It does yes. Social skills seems more like a combination of both Verbal IQ and High Processing Speed. So they use their vocabulary repertoire. Like a man using words to charm. Obviously can just be a dumb nigger with a bad vocabulary. If they're witty that's good enough. They just have to look good and be witty really.
Your looks = your personality.
There's no high IQ for your face.
There's no high IQ for your face.
No. It can get worse than just having bad looks. Doesn't have to stop there. Being ugly and socially non-functional and retarded is the worst.
IQ in the modern sense is trivial as you can see many retards in universities with at least 115 IQ.
Face is personality
+ IQ
If you are chad and dumb you aren't perceived as dumb.
If you are ugly and smart you are seen as an annoying nerd.
Yes
Being ugly and smart is better than being ugly and stupid. Not going to get you a girlfriend but it is better
I don't deny that, it's better in life but it doesn't help you in dating market unless you are at least average looking.
Yes. So you agree with me. If you're ugly being dumb just makes your life even worse. Just that it makes your life worse instead of just bad. And for average looking guys it matters a bunch
Exactly
Social skills can be quite separate from IQ
These low IQ, very social people aren't "witty," unless it's whatever is considered "witty" to another low IQ person.
One of the big problems with being high IQ is feeling like you can't relate socially to 90% of the population. You're not on the same mental wavelength and don't have the same interests.
As far as processing speed goes, the problem isn't that I can't keep up in an ongoing conversation or be "witty." It's not processing speed because I could have hours to think of something to say but I can't think of anything. I don't have anything to say to people in the first place (and even if I did I'm too high inhib to say it).
Normie IPhone users are the biggest retards ever but they not ugly so it's ok.
Looks are the only thing that matters, if you look alright and arent a piece of shit to everyone you talk to you will get handheld through life and achieve at least some kind of social/romantic life, its the default, it doesnt require good IQ. All it requires is low awareness and a loose mouth
Oh but I did mention a lot of times that fluid intelligence (or just reasoning in general, abstract reasoning) is correlated with interests that don't align with the general population. In fact, these predict how badly you'll fit in with normies but not your social skills, as the higher your intelligence there the weirder your interests are. As far as processing speed comes. Yes, these very social people are witty. They can do stuff we could not ever do and that's clearly IQ. We take longer to formulate thoughts and keep up with convos than the average normie. That is just the way it is.
Being polite and good looking is the bare minimum. Also no. It is better accept that social intelligence is correlated with intelligence. It is delusional to say otherwise. Just not the autistic kind
I would say it is related at the extremes, if you're around 2 standard deviations above or below the average then it will obviously affect you considering in the lower end it will just make it harder to process shit while in the higher end it'll make it difficult to relate to anyone and connect with them in any meaningful manner. However extremes of all kinds affect every aspect of your life and I would say IQ plays little to no role in social ability for the vast majority of the population. I doubt all the people here are either retarded or highly gifted xd
Maybe, who knows, its just my two cents
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