LifeFuel The common advice to "just make a friend..."

[NearlyOver]

Author & blogger Gretchen Rubin: "Keep in mind that to avoid loneliness, many people need both a social circle and
an intimate attachment. Having just one of two may still leave you feeling lonely."

 

[Therapywasaaste]

"You don't need a girlfriend" :becky:

 

[The Abyss]

Got neither.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Chad doesn't have intimate attatchment, he just pumps, dumps, and moves onto the next one.

 

[Mountainbikecel]

lifefuel when you can't blame foids for not having friends so at least once a problem isnt caused by them

 

[NearlyOver]

Chad doesn't have intimate attatchment, he just pumps, dumps, and moves onto the next one.

I get the feeling by "intimate," she means sex and the many benefits a "healthy" sex life brings. Not necessarily complex emotional attachment. Attractive-enough people most others want to be around (or don't mind being around) probably already have enough satisfying emotional attachments in their non-sexual friendships. So both bases--sexual companionship and emotional intimacy are covered for them. It's the people who only have part of their needs met--or worse, those who have neither need met--who suffer dangerously. JMTC.

lifefuel when you can't blame foids for not having friends so at least once a problem isnt caused by them

Yeah, I think you're right. We here know how important looks are to forming even non-sexual relationships. People dump all over those who're far below average-looks. So no physical intimacy AND no emotional intimacy. :/

 

[Deleted member 5712]

Got neither.

 

[AmIjustDreaming]

Got neither.

 

[JestER]

Got neither.

 

[proudweeb]

Got neither.

 

[Michinomiya Hirohit]

"You don't need a girlfriend" :becky:

 

[InvisibleCel]

Don’t need friends or a partner


Just mindless sex

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I get the feeling by "intimate," she means sex and the many benefits a "healthy" sex life brings. Not necessarily complex emotional attachment. Attractive-enough people most others want to be around (or don't mind being around) probably already have enough satisfying emotional attachments in their non-sexual friendships. So both bases--sexual companionship and emotional intimacy are covered for them. It's the people who only have part of their needs met--or worse, those who have neither need met--who suffer dangerously. JMTC.

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