I know the pERsonality meme, but those people who say “you can’t find a partner because you have a bad personality” are actually right for the wrong reasons.
By good personality, I mean one that could get you well along with the average normie or neurotypical.
It’s hard to believe that most truecels have a good personality. If you have a good personality as a hideous person, then you must be very resilient.
I don’t think even normies can deny that children are brutal. If you are hideous you will be mistreated as a kid, with almost 100% certainty. This is especially magnified in the middle school years when kids are transitioning into adolescence and are really first becoming conscious of sexual attraction and beauty, and, on the other hand, sexual repulsion and ugliness. During these years, children have not yet built up the social skills to not blatantly mistreat the freaks among their peers (eventually, most grow up and mistreat freaks in an unconscious manner, while trying to maintain their self-image of being empathetic, caring, and socially proper).
When you are inevitably targeted by children during these years, primarily due to your looks, how does this not affect your personality? Do we suddenly forget that the human animal is dependent upon social acceptance and inclusion? I don’t know how you can develop a good personality under these conditions of social exclusion. You’re expecting a human to defy his own biology and live life as if ostracism is not one of the most life-denying prospects for a human to face.
I don’t have a good personality because I was not properly socialized. I was bullied as far back as pre-school. I went to a middle school with hyper-competitive hispanics and blacks who were ruthlessly sociopathic and predatory. In high school, I luckily went to a small, rural school where people generally left me alone and I barely spoke to anyone, nor did I have any friends.
There’s no doubt that my physical appearance made me an easy target for children. By the time maturity came around, I was utterly traumatized by my youth. So, no, I don’t have a good personality.
Kudos to those on this site who have actual good personalities and are able to somehow conform with social norms. I don’t know how you have managed.
By good personality, I mean one that could get you well along with the average normie or neurotypical.
It’s hard to believe that most truecels have a good personality. If you have a good personality as a hideous person, then you must be very resilient.
I don’t think even normies can deny that children are brutal. If you are hideous you will be mistreated as a kid, with almost 100% certainty. This is especially magnified in the middle school years when kids are transitioning into adolescence and are really first becoming conscious of sexual attraction and beauty, and, on the other hand, sexual repulsion and ugliness. During these years, children have not yet built up the social skills to not blatantly mistreat the freaks among their peers (eventually, most grow up and mistreat freaks in an unconscious manner, while trying to maintain their self-image of being empathetic, caring, and socially proper).
When you are inevitably targeted by children during these years, primarily due to your looks, how does this not affect your personality? Do we suddenly forget that the human animal is dependent upon social acceptance and inclusion? I don’t know how you can develop a good personality under these conditions of social exclusion. You’re expecting a human to defy his own biology and live life as if ostracism is not one of the most life-denying prospects for a human to face.
I don’t have a good personality because I was not properly socialized. I was bullied as far back as pre-school. I went to a middle school with hyper-competitive hispanics and blacks who were ruthlessly sociopathic and predatory. In high school, I luckily went to a small, rural school where people generally left me alone and I barely spoke to anyone, nor did I have any friends.
There’s no doubt that my physical appearance made me an easy target for children. By the time maturity came around, I was utterly traumatized by my youth. So, no, I don’t have a good personality.
Kudos to those on this site who have actual good personalities and are able to somehow conform with social norms. I don’t know how you have managed.
