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Blackpill “Personality matters” is a bigger blackpill than “personality doesn’t matter”

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In reality everything matters. You need a good personality, good looks and high status. Chads naturally have a good personality because of all the positive validation they receive plus they get tons of practice socializing since everyone wants to talk to them. Chads have been developing the perfect personality their entire life. You are like 10+ years behind Chad


Even if you were turned into a chad today you would still struggle. You’d have to then spend thousands of hours developing the perfect personality and then spend even more time developing the perfect social network. You would only be able to ascend after all of that.
 
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I have a bad personality
 
Personality doesn’t exist. I’ve realised when normies say personality they really mean your voice
 
Personality does matter contrary to the popular opinion of .is members, but it's at the bottom of the list. If you don't have a good face, decent height & financial prosperity, first, then it doesn't matter really.
 
cope since dark triad exists and attracts women even more
 
cope since dark triad exists and attracts women even more
Who said dark triad is a bad personality? Do you really think you can be dark triad like a chad? Chad has spent thousands of hours developing the perfect dark triad personality that makes women fall in love with him
 
Personality does matter contrary to the popular opinion of .is members, but it's at the bottom of the list. If you don't have a good face, decent height & financial prosperity, first, then it doesn't matter really.
it matters but not as a standalone trait
 
Who said dark triad is a bad personality? Do you really think you can be dark triad like a chad? Chad has spent thousands of hours developing the perfect dark triad personality that makes women fall in love with him
You are talking in useless circlejerk riddles. Women and men only care about looks. A good personality might only be a pleasant icing on the cake for some
 
Chads have been developing the perfect personality their entire life. You are like 10+ years behind Chad
Exactly. Also why they are more smart than us, too. Think of it like this.

Who would you bet is a smarter, more well rounded, generally better at being a functional individual:

1. a guy who spent his entire life in a socially productive, organically networking prospects and experiencing all the facets of the human condition first hand

2. a guy who spent that entire life span coping in a dark room, playing games and talking to people in a second hand, distant and detached manner, if at all?

You might think thats harsh and doesnt say much, but the primal ability of condensing thought into a coherent, productive and meaningful manner hell, even being able to have deep insights and eurekas (i would argue) come from how well did you processed the most fresh, uncut stimuli into an unbiased momentum of clarity you had access to.
 
Personality = NT if anything
 
Personality=face. When people say you have bad personality. İt means you have ugly face.
 
True

Having a good or bad personality is the result of how ppl treated you your entire life.

If you were treated like a god, you see the good side of human beings therefore have a more joyful and positive personality.

However if you've been treated like utter shit your whole life, you know humans are disgusting therefore you don't want to interact much with them.
 
personality = face
 
Personality does matter (after looks are taken into account), but not in the way that normies think it does. Having a good personality doesn't mean being polite, conscientious and kind. It actually means being dark triad and NT. It's also worth mentioning that a good chunk of your personality is derived from your genetics, and the parts that aren't are shaped by life experiences.

Chad became a confident extrovert because he was born with the right genes and he received positive feedback from his peers. You became a meek introvert because you were born with the wrong genes and you were ostracised all your life. You can't simply become an extroverted bad boy if you don't have the genes or life experiences to back it up. There is no faking it until you make it.
 
Yeah, it's real. Just not in the way a Redditor living in his soy fantasy world would have you imagine.
 
Personality doesn’t exist. I’ve realised when normies say personality they really mean your voice
finally someone put their finger on it
 
Looks = personality, better looks = more respect = more confidence = charisma
 
I woulndt care about being a massive aspie/schizophrenic if I were to be Chad tbh
 

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