Venting Personality development and looks are inextricably linked; If you have a sociable personality as a hideous freak, then you defied all odds.

[CosmicInjustice]

I know the pERsonality meme, but those people who say “you can’t find a partner because you have a bad personality” are actually right for the wrong reasons.

By good personality, I mean one that could get you well along with the average normie or neurotypical.

It’s hard to believe that most truecels have a good personality. If you have a good personality as a hideous person, then you must be very resilient.

I don’t think even normies can deny that children are brutal. If you are hideous you will be mistreated as a kid, with almost 100% certainty. This is especially magnified in the middle school years when kids are transitioning into adolescence and are really first becoming conscious of sexual attraction and beauty, and, on the other hand, sexual repulsion and ugliness. During these years, children have not yet built up the social skills to not blatantly mistreat the freaks among their peers (eventually, most grow up and mistreat freaks in an unconscious manner, while trying to maintain their self-image of being empathetic, caring, and socially proper).

When you are inevitably targeted by children during these years, primarily due to your looks, how does this not affect your personality? Do we suddenly forget that the human animal is dependent upon social acceptance and inclusion? I don’t know how you can develop a good personality under these conditions of social exclusion. You’re expecting a human to defy his own biology and live life as if ostracism is not one of the most life-denying prospects for a human to face.

I don’t have a good personality because I was not properly socialized. I was bullied as far back as pre-school. I went to a middle school with hyper-competitive hispanics and blacks who were ruthlessly sociopathic and predatory. In high school, I luckily went to a small, rural school where people generally left me alone and I barely spoke to anyone, nor did I have any friends.

There’s no doubt that my physical appearance made me an easy target for children. By the time maturity came around, I was utterly traumatized by my youth. So, no, I don’t have a good personality.

Kudos to those on this site who have actual good personalities and are able to somehow conform with social norms. I don’t know how you have managed.

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Kudos to those on this site who have actual good personalities and are able to somehow conform with social norms. I don’t know how you have managed.

They’re nt

 

[GrandWizard_137]

We were never like this in the first place. We had hopes, dreams and desires but normies and their brutal treatment of us turned us into this. We never asked for this.

 

[exposesociety]

We were never like this in the first place. We had hopes, dreams and desires but normies and their brutal treatment of us turned us into this. We never asked for this.

Yes, it's also their fault incels get bitter and angry

 

[Sub5failure]

Same goes for the notion of tallfaggots being "laid back and cool" while nanlets are "angry and short tempered". If I was a tall guy who was almost always given his way and chased by women of course I would be chill and relaxed but how can anyone blame a manlet for being angry when he spent all his life being bullied and hated from first sight they still wouldn't want to include you in their circles or give you any chance of getting laid. By good personality for ugly/framlet manlet and ethnics they mean they just want you to shut up and be a little cuck. Normies make me want to go violent in GTA San Andreas.

 

[Runt171]

Water but well put

 

[Rapistcel]

I know the pERsonality meme, but those people who say “you can’t find a partner because you have a bad personality” are actually right for the wrong reasons.

By good personality, I mean one that could get you well along with the average normie or neurotypical.

It’s hard to believe that most truecels have a good personality. If you have a good personality as a hideous person, then you must be very resilient.

I don’t think even normies can deny that children are brutal. If you are hideous you will be mistreated as a kid, with almost 100% certainty. This is especially magnified in the middle school years when kids are transitioning into adolescence and are really first becoming conscious of sexual attraction and beauty, and, on the other hand, sexual repulsion and ugliness. During these years, children have not yet built up the social skills to not blatantly mistreat the freaks among their peers (eventually, most grow up and mistreat freaks in an unconscious manner, while trying to maintain their self-image of being empathetic, caring, and socially proper).

When you are inevitably targeted by children during these years, primarily due to your looks, how does this not affect your personality? Do we suddenly forget that the human animal is dependent upon social acceptance and inclusion? I don’t know how you can develop a good personality under these conditions of social exclusion. You’re expecting a human to defy his own biology and live life as if ostracism is not one of the most life-denying prospects for a human to face.

I don’t have a good personality because I was not properly socialized. I was bullied as far back as pre-school. I went to a middle school with hyper-competitive hispanics and blacks who were ruthlessly sociopathic and predatory. In high school, I luckily went to a small, rural school where people generally left me alone and I barely spoke to anyone, nor did I have any friends.

There’s no doubt that my physical appearance made me an easy target for children. By the time maturity came around, I was utterly traumatized by my youth. So, no, I don’t have a good personality.

Kudos to those on this site who have actual good personalities and are able to somehow conform with social norms. I don’t know how you have managed.

Being bullied ended my social development

 

[Feeshtu]

This is a good post.

I think that people are more influenced by their environment than we care to acknowledge.

We are merely the product of the world we live in.
Good personalities are developed through good experiences.

 

[DNRcel]

I know the pERsonality meme, but those people who say “you can’t find a partner because you have a bad personality” are actually right for the wrong reasons.

By good personality, I mean one that could get you well along with the average normie or neurotypical.

It’s hard to believe that most truecels have a good personality. If you have a good personality as a hideous person, then you must be very resilient.

I don’t think even normies can deny that children are brutal. If you are hideous you will be mistreated as a kid, with almost 100% certainty. This is especially magnified in the middle school years when kids are transitioning into adolescence and are really first becoming conscious of sexual attraction and beauty, and, on the other hand, sexual repulsion and ugliness. During these years, children have not yet built up the social skills to not blatantly mistreat the freaks among their peers (eventually, most grow up and mistreat freaks in an unconscious manner, while trying to maintain their self-image of being empathetic, caring, and socially proper).

When you are inevitably targeted by children during these years, primarily due to your looks, how does this not affect your personality? Do we suddenly forget that the human animal is dependent upon social acceptance and inclusion? I don’t know how you can develop a good personality under these conditions of social exclusion. You’re expecting a human to defy his own biology and live life as if ostracism is not one of the most life-denying prospects for a human to face.

I don’t have a good personality because I was not properly socialized. I was bullied as far back as pre-school. I went to a middle school with hyper-competitive hispanics and blacks who were ruthlessly sociopathic and predatory. In high school, I luckily went to a small, rural school where people generally left me alone and I barely spoke to anyone, nor did I have any friends.

There’s no doubt that my physical appearance made me an easy target for children. By the time maturity came around, I was utterly traumatized by my youth. So, no, I don’t have a good personality.

Kudos to those on this site who have actual good personalities and are able to somehow conform with social norms. I don’t know how you have managed.

Neurotypical people mog me to bits

 

[inferior0arabcel0]

I know the pERsonality meme, but those people who say “you can’t find a partner because you have a bad personality” are actually right for the wrong reasons.

By good personality, I mean one that could get you well along with the average normie or neurotypical.

It’s hard to believe that most truecels have a good personality. If you have a good personality as a hideous person, then you must be very resilient.

I don’t think even normies can deny that children are brutal. If you are hideous you will be mistreated as a kid, with almost 100% certainty. This is especially magnified in the middle school years when kids are transitioning into adolescence and are really first becoming conscious of sexual attraction and beauty, and, on the other hand, sexual repulsion and ugliness. During these years, children have not yet built up the social skills to not blatantly mistreat the freaks among their peers (eventually, most grow up and mistreat freaks in an unconscious manner, while trying to maintain their self-image of being empathetic, caring, and socially proper).

When you are inevitably targeted by children during these years, primarily due to your looks, how does this not affect your personality? Do we suddenly forget that the human animal is dependent upon social acceptance and inclusion? I don’t know how you can develop a good personality under these conditions of social exclusion. You’re expecting a human to defy his own biology and live life as if ostracism is not one of the most life-denying prospects for a human to face.

I don’t have a good personality because I was not properly socialized. I was bullied as far back as pre-school. I went to a middle school with hyper-competitive hispanics and blacks who were ruthlessly sociopathic and predatory. In high school, I luckily went to a small, rural school where people generally left me alone and I barely spoke to anyone, nor did I have any friends.

There’s no doubt that my physical appearance made me an easy target for children. By the time maturity came around, I was utterly traumatized by my youth. So, no, I don’t have a good personality.

Kudos to those on this site who have actual good personalities and are able to somehow conform with social norms. I don’t know how you have managed.

I had normie cousins who incelized and became ugly and fat in their early puberty hence befriended me in a way or another.
This helped me to somewhat fit in society temporarily . I was able to get some of their social experiences.
Like I can read the room , pick up on body language and hold convos a little bit.
That being said I am fairly fucked up in social skills.
BTW cousins ascended and dumped me as soon they became 16 + .