I was watching Finland-France. They were also. I am 100 % sure of it. Not on Internet stream, but it came from Nelonen (this is important, because the Internet-streams aren't all going at the same time, the streams can differ in game time even by some minutes. They have a few minutes' delay to an actual live broadcast. On TV, it is only under 10 seconds, like 5-7 seconds. (I confirmed this in the Rio de Janeiro Olympics swimming). When the half-time started, exactly in that moment heard them moving above me. And it was the same in the summer during the European Championships, they watched most games. When the subbed in Robert Taylor (his father is British invader/colonist and the mother is native Finnish, Finland for Brits is Thailand without paying, the sex ratio of middle-aged Brits in Finland is worse than in Thailand) (there are more players like this, even Russian criminal's son with Finnish woman was in the starting line-up) made a mistake against Kylian Mbappé, who made it 0-2, they stopped watching and almost immediately went to foreplay. Long foreplay, then steps away from the bed to get the condom and back on to start the coitus. Then intensive intercourse, no holding back even from the start, it was short by their standards and very quick speed from the start. It started when I was sitting in the toilet, again, after 2-3 hours earlier also. Intel trait: I have often intestinal problems, had semi-diarrhoea the last days (maybe could even be caused by Covid-19, if I had/have that). I intentionally showered to not hear the woman's moans (she starts quiet, so she is the complete opposite of Californian professional, commercial porn (fake) moans, she only moans close to real orgasms and during them). After only a few minutes I heard steps above going to their bathroom above me and showering also. I did not even hear when it exactly ended or whether the woman got her orgasm this time etc..
SUPER BRUTAL THAT AFTER BITTER LOSS THE NEET MAN ABOVE CAN JUST COMFORT HIMSELF LIKE THAT WITH HAVING LONG KISSING, CUDDLING ETC. FOREPLAY AND THEN COITUS WITH HIS GF AND NOT WATCH THE GAME UNTIL THE END (intercourse itself started after the final whistle, so I myself did not go to the toilet before the game was over, Lloris BTW should have seen red for time wasting, but he did not even get yellow, the referee sided with France, did not give any extra time in the first half so that France would not need to play one man down and they could save one substitution occurrence). WE ARE NOT ON THE SAME BOAT. THESE ASPECTS WITH LIVING WITH SOMEBODY I ENVY SO MUCH. I AM UTTERLY FED UP WITH LIVING ALONE.
This year in my life has really linked their sex-having and many, many football games that I have (tried) to watch while they have had sex. Just the last 3 times: Finland-France, Spain-Sweden the previous time they had sex (they did not have it on Monday), they ruined my Milan derby before the international break also. Almost all Champions League nights this autumn they have ruined for me, last season they had sex on most Sundays around the kick-off time of 16 Finnish time in Serie A.
Man, you seem to be losing your sanity over this. It's not worth it.
And don't think that it's easy for me to say this.
I also have to listen to a couple living next to us having sex.
The funny thing is that they only seem to be doing it on Sunday night between 11:30 pm and midnight. I never hear them any other time, but always hear them on Sunday nights.
At least they finish it relatively quickly, the woman moans for a couple of seconds, than the man is moaning for like 30 seconds (extremely loud), then it all stops.
How can I stop losing my sanity over this (except them or me moving away from here)?
"next to us" You don't live alone?
Saturday-Sunday night you mean? You can hear only the orgasms, not the whole session, so you don't hear the foreplay or even most of the coitus(?). Next to us means not above you, so you don't hear that well. I have the couple above me and that's why I hear everything. Even from below I can not hear that well. It is the worst possible thing to have young couple in love having very frequent sex above.
Once a week only and at the same time, seems like a contract? Super clear beta[insert the right currency here]-ing. Man moaning for so long and harder than woman is rare.
Are they old?
Have you ever lived hearing proper couple in love and having non-contract-obligation sex?
To illustrate how this is taking a big toll on my health: I don't remember ever managing to fall asleep within 2 hours of when their sex has ended. I go into fight or flight mode and it is the opposite of conducting to falling asleep. And again this morning, I have an alarm waiting to go off at the morning, because I have a going that I need to go. Again I can only sleep about 4 hours like the previous 2 days. They are literally killing me.
Fight Or Flight Response
The fight or flight response is an automatic physiological reaction to an event that is perceived as stressful or frightening. The perception of threat activates the sympathetic nervous system and triggers an acute stress response that prepares the body to fight or flee. These responses are evolutionary adaptations to increase chances of survival in threatening situations. Overly frequent, intense, or inappropriate activation of the fight or flight response is implicated in a range of clinical conditions including most anxiety disorders.
Now I've approximately suffered the customary minimum of 2 hours. Now I need to go eat etc. before I can go to sleep. Maybe 2 hours still before I can start sleeping. So about 4 hours maximum of sleep for three consecutive days. Not enough for my brains, I need at least 7 hours. At least.
