Serious Oldcels, how do you even cope?

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

By oldcels i mean 30 and above members. How old are you? I'm 36.

I think about suicide multiple times every month because my life is a dog shit tier, i almost have no friends, non NT workcel, civ virgin etc. I finished high school and uni as a romantic kissless civ virgin.

My only copes are escorts, food, alcohol and movies. Religion too, but it's more of the salvation issue.

 

[BlackPilledNeet]

gymmaxxing and beer

 

[war_with_myself]

weed. waiting for soyciety to collapse

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

weed. waiting for soyciety to collapse

Now we have a new Cold War but if Russia doesn't conquer Ukraine we will only have a stagflation.

 

[calimero]

Buy a cat so you are less lonely and have something to care for. I did the same and I feel slightly better

 

[Quarantined]

maybe their testosterone levels and sex drive decrease, so they don't care as much?

 

[ugly_genius]

It takes a lot of mental effort to be honest. Youre pretty much forced into some level of a state of internal denial/dissociation just to block it out.

And staying well away from triggers.

But theres always reminders.

If you have a high sex drive it's hell on earth - im not even gonna try n lie.

Extremely extremely damaging to health.

Hence why i warn all under40cels. Do everything the fk u can. Exhaust every possible maxing chance available. Especially once you exceed the three O…

Like there is no tomorrow.

Cos u do NOT wanna end up in this shit. Believe me.

 

[happiless]

Autistic copes, alcohol and antidepressants. Mentally I'm about as mature as a 23 year old so maybe I'll rope when my mental age is 30

 

[ldargoblin]

Oldcels are 21+

 

[BlackPilledNeet]

Oldcels are 21+

bs

 

[turbosperg]

By oldcels i mean 30 and above members. How old are you? I'm 36.

37

i almost have no friends, non NT workcel,

That's me also.

My only copes are escorts, food, alcohol and movies. Religion too, but it's more of the salvation issue.

I was drinking until may. I quit.

My copes are: a cat, outdoor sports, traveling around near my town.

Thinking of buying a motorbike.

 

[verzetn]

im oldcel too in my 30s. i cant cope much any more. video games arent as good as they r used to be. no motivation to do anything. its hell. no way out.

 

[blackpillscience]

Rapemaxing

 

[Deleted member 43458]

no way out.

That does seem to be the crux of it.

So we must cope as best we can and adapt to this life less lead.

 

[Loner94]

It ain't easy I just accumulate as many copes as I can

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Now we have a new Cold War but if Russia doesn't conquer Ukraine we will only have a stagflation.

I already have one.

It takes a lot of mental effort to be honest. Youre pretty much forced into some level of a state of internal denial/dissociation just to block it out.

And staying well away from triggers.

But theres always reminders.

If you have a high sex drive it's hell on earth - im not even gonna try n lie.

Extremely extremely damaging to health.

Hence why i warn all under40cels. Do everything the fk u can. Exhaust every possible maxing chance available. Especially once you exceed the three O…

Like there is no tomorrow.

Cos u do NOT wanna end up in this shit. Believe me.

yes its hell especially in the summer seeing all those hot sluts and couples. Every day, every hour is a battle against time.

Autistic copes, alcohol and antidepressants. Mentally I'm about as mature as a 23 year old so maybe I'll rope when my mental age is 30

Many people in relationships have a maturity level of a 17 yo.

37

That's me also.

I was drinking until may. I quit.

My copes are: a cat, outdoor sports, traveling around near my town.

Thinking of buying a motorbike.

Traveling is a good cope, i sometimes enjoy going to the restaurants. Here usually they don't trat you like trash because you came alone to eat in their temple LOL.

 

[Hell]

Do whatever you can to avoid places where women/couples go.
I pretty much refuse to leave the house in the evening/weekends unless its to go to a place I know for certain they won't be, out of sight out of mind.
Masturbate regularly.

 

[OwnerOpcell]

Job I enjoy helps a lot.
Punch clock life gets depressing.

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

Autistic copes

what kind ?

im oldcel too in my 30s. i cant cope much any more. video games arent as good as they r used to be. no motivation to do anything. its hell. no way out.

I am 28 yo, and my copes give me way less dopamine than before.
I really need a dopamine hit but it's hard to find something enjoyable.

Do whatever you can to avoid places where women/couples go.

I do the same, and mom keeps nagging me "why are you all the time inside ? Why don't you go out to refresh yourself ?"
If I leave home in degenerate hours, i'll be

 

[NorthernWind]

Sometimes reading, sometimes alcohol. Also walking outside helps.

 

[BodyFat10orRope]

Religion too, but it's more of the salvation issue.

Religion helps with this if you realize that you will always exist. If you will always exist then you can just chill and not feel pressure about what you have and haven't done. You just need to take it day by day and experience life. You just accept your existence/situation. I'm only 26 though.

Add in following world events and politics to your list. Watch banned.video (alex jones).

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Religion helps with this if you realize that you will always exist. If you will always exist then you can just chill and not feel pressure about what you have and haven't done. You just need to take it day by day and experience life. You just accept your existence/situation. I'm only 26 though.

Add in following world events and politics to your list. Watch banned.video (alex jones).

Eastern religions teach that but Christian religions do not. Believe me when you are approaching 30 you'll get more angry and resentful.

 

[nice_try]

My only copes are escorts, food, alcohol and movies.

All your hobbies are hobbies where you consume, you're a consumer and that is what makes people depressed.
If you want to be fulfilled you need to find things that you enjoy which are productive.

 

[The Enforcer]

drug, internet, fap. there is nothing else tbh and even then its not sufficient. Inceldom is like a chronic illness. It doesnt go away without a miracle, causes untold amounts of extreme anguish and pain, and in many cases will lead to early death.

 

[I want to believe]

I'm 27. And I'm not sure if I even cope. And if I cope, then what way I do that. I think mostly I cope by spending time on .is and other places which are somehow related to inceldom (read-only).

 

[MMA_Cel]

As a 16 year old oldcel, I find it incredibly tough to cope.

 

[Rambocel]

As a 16 year old oldcel, I find it incredibly tough to cope.

I think you're in the wrong thread here zoomer. You still have 4 more years to experience even teen love. Oldcels not only missed that they missed the golden years of sexuality: 20s and then 30s too.

 

[MMA_Cel]

I think you're in the wrong thread here zoomer. You still have 4 more years to experience even teen love. Oldcels not only missed that they missed the golden years of sexuality: 20s and then 30s too.

I'm just meming. I'm not an oldcel.

I'll never experience teen love. Kys faggot for even suggesting that I can and putting the thought in my head.

 

[Rambocel]

I'm just meming. I'm not an oldcel.

I'll never experience teen love. Kys faggot for even suggesting that I can and putting the thought in my head.

The fact is you are a teen and you still have teen years left. Drop the fucking angst (like saying kys faggot to someone encouraging you) and focus so you don't become oldcel. Some of these guys are twice your age. Some may even be 3x your age. Imagine the hell they live and what they can't get back.

 

[MMA_Cel]

The fact is you are a teen and you still have teen years left. Drop the fucking angst (like saying kys faggot to someone encouraging you) and focus so you don't become oldcel. Some of these guys are twice your age. Some may even be 3x your age. Imagine the hell they live and what they can't get back.

The fact is you are a teen and you still have teen years left. Drop the fucking angst (like saying kys faggot to someone encouraging you) and focus so you don't become oldcel. Some of these guys are twice your age. Some may even be 3x your age. Imagine the hell they live and what they can't get back.

The fact is you are a teen and you still have teen years left. Drop the fucking angst (like saying kys faggot to someone encouraging you) and focus so you don't become oldcel. Some of these guys are twice your age. Some may even be 3x your age. Imagine the hell they live and what they can't get back.

JFL dude you have no idea how bad I have it.

 

[ilieknothing]

I watch movies

 

[BodyFat10orRope]

Eastern religions teach that but Christian religions do not.

Christianity does teach that you will always exist. Also salvation is free and permanent.

 

[Nihilistic Lowlife]

Do whatever you can to avoid places where women/couples go.

They everywhere

 

[Deleted member 43314]

I'm just meming. I'm not an oldcel.

I'll never experience teen love. Kys faggot for even suggesting that I can and putting the thought in my head.

I feel like your an alt, of some rich 16 year old tallfag paki who got banned

 

[Deleted member 43314]

Why haven’t oldcels ascend in the 90s ?

 

[wei#3959]

ldar

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Christianity does teach that you will always exist. Also salvation is free and permanent.

Yes but only the minority who are saved in Christ.

 

[MMA_Cel]

I feel like your an alt, of some rich 16 year old tallfag paki who got banned

No idea what you're on about. I'm not rich at all.

 

[Emba]

waiting for soyciety to collapse

It's too slow. I'll be ded before I can goErCho!
IRL...

 

[war_with_myself]

It's too slow. I'll be ded before I can goErCho!
IRL...

do your part to accelerate it non violently of course

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

I'm oldcel enough at 28

 

[Emba]

do your part to accelerate it non violently of course

I do what I can

 

[Rambocel]

JFL dude you have no idea how bad I have it.

Explain. Unless you are horribly disfigured or paralysed then you're just being a dramatic teenager at this point. Those, or severely mentally retarded. But you're with it enough to make legible posts on here so that's not the case.

Realistically it all comes down to individual situations but for here to put a number on it I'd say by 23 if you haven't had any axe wound experience at all then it's time to to be concerned and deploy all possible means to avoid going down trucel to oldcel avenue. 40 Year Old virgin was a Hollywood movie so of course a distortion of reality with a happy ending. For a real 40 year old virgin it is OVER. The best they could ever do is moneymaxx and escortcel but at that point they'd be so naive they'd probably just blow their load at the sight of tits and vag and be laughed upon as the whore waltzes off with do-nothing cash. That or they get a severely used up landwhale hag who probably smokes two packs a day and has 5 kids with 3 different guys with a varying combination of tweaker trailer park trash or drug dealing niggers for fathers.

[UWSL]Seriously buddy, explain to us what's so bad. Don't just say I'm ugly. Even that can change at 16 since you're not done puberty quite yet and still retain boyish features. That shit can carry right into your early 20s at times. Which could be good for you too as you still have a chance to gain height at this age. I still grew after 16. [/UWSL]

[UWSL]Oldcels are in a whole other dimension than you. Their best years of youth are gone. There will be no more growth of any positive kind. A beer gut for those who alcoholmaxx and food cope is about it. At best they are the Titanic when it breaks in half and the ass half is in the air just waiting to go down.[/UWSL]

 

[RandomGuy]

Enjoy being corporate slave master.

Weed, buying banks and day travel.

Religion is bullsh8T for the masses.

 

[Deleted member 44279]

Animemaxxed

 

[tanfeo]

As a 16 year old oldcel, I find it incredibly tough to cope.

Get out. You don't belong here. This isn't a kindergarten.

 

[EternalStorm]

32 here, sometimes I definitely feel depressed and get tired of living but I tend to to keep my mind occupied with my copes/hobbies

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

41 - I've found the older I get, the more I see life holistically, instead of sex and incelibacy being the only thing that there is.

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[RuudVanNistelrooy]

32 here, sometimes I definitely feel depressed and get tired of living but I tend to to keep my mind occupied with my copes/hobbies

Copes are good, hobbies even better but seeing normies pairing up makes me rage. For example i know a normie who got a gf a week after he came to my town.

41 - I've found the older I get, the more I see life holistically, instead of sex and incelibacy being the only thing that there is.

Why I don't hate women, and other older-cel perspectives

I turned 41 recently, and I've been on here 12 months, so I've decided it's time I bit the bullet and made an inceldom discussion post. I want to lay out some of my opinions and perspectives, that are a bit different than a lot of the common orthodoxy on here, most of which is written by...

incels.is

There always will be a void inside...

 

[LesscoBlob]

maybe their testosterone levels and sex drive decrease, so they don't care as much?

I've met a lot of oldcels whose sex drives were the same as they were in their 20s.