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Of course having sex would be fun but that's not the worse regarding my inceldom circumstance. I don't know if that's related to some traumas I experienced throughout my childhood, my relationship with my parents and my upbringing but the thing I crave the most is having a strong, emotional bond, someone else. The kind of connection that may allow me to be open about myself, without fears or anxiety, I want to be able to feel safe.
I was never the kind of person who enjoys big crowds of strangers and meeting new people. If I didn't need to, I'd pretty much never socialize as I don't really feel the need to. It's not a matter of numbers, actually. If I were in a house full of family members, friends and acquaintances whom I'm used to and fond of, people I actually have some connection, I'd be just fine. In fact, as weird as it seems I enjoy a crowded house when that's the case. It feels warm inside.
I don't know, maybe I romanticized the whole relationship thing, yet this is what I value way more than sex. This is going to sound cucked but, for instance, If I were one of these soys who end up in a dead bedroom, what would make me angry and disappointed is not the lack of sex per se, but rather the implications of it.
When your partner doesn't want to have intimacy with you that means she's not attracted to you, she doesn't care about you, she doesn't love you. That's the main issue for me.
If I were able to find someone who I could create this connection, I feel like apart from my family (especially my parents) I wouldn't need anyone or anything else.
I was never the kind of person who enjoys big crowds of strangers and meeting new people. If I didn't need to, I'd pretty much never socialize as I don't really feel the need to. It's not a matter of numbers, actually. If I were in a house full of family members, friends and acquaintances whom I'm used to and fond of, people I actually have some connection, I'd be just fine. In fact, as weird as it seems I enjoy a crowded house when that's the case. It feels warm inside.
I don't know, maybe I romanticized the whole relationship thing, yet this is what I value way more than sex. This is going to sound cucked but, for instance, If I were one of these soys who end up in a dead bedroom, what would make me angry and disappointed is not the lack of sex per se, but rather the implications of it.
When your partner doesn't want to have intimacy with you that means she's not attracted to you, she doesn't care about you, she doesn't love you. That's the main issue for me.
If I were able to find someone who I could create this connection, I feel like apart from my family (especially my parents) I wouldn't need anyone or anything else.
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