Dude, I can empathize with you as I am in a very similar position like you. University is an absolute brutal place to be as an Incel because it's filled with Normies/Chads/Stacies/Beckies who just write you (and I) off as weird loners who don't talk during class or have a social life. It's a vicious feed-back loop of not being social because no one want's to talk to you which in return only wants to make them not want to talk to you and then cannot socialize.
Also in my third year at the Shithole University I am at with nothing to do but game on my laptop, browse the internet, or study/homework. All for degrees that I doubt will do much. I do cry almost daily when I am alone, tried seeing a therapist but nearly pulling the plug because it's eating what little money I have.
I'll be honest with you, there's not much we can do, we are powerless in almost every category, I think of roping or I think of leaving this Shithole of a Nation to hopefully ascend in a far away land. I am not going to fill you with some blue-pill lie saying don't rope when you have nothing (or at least it feels that way) like what Normies do (this only works for them, because they have some significant other or really good friends that care about them) but I say treat life like a game where you want to Min-Max your copes to give some reason to be alive and motivated (I struggle at this but working on it) yet refuse to be BluePilled.
I wished I had an irl Incel friend
Life would no longer seem so lonely