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Is it normal to have suicidal fantasies JUST for not getting laid?

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I sometimes have suicidal fantasies, I fantasize about throwing myself from a high building or a bridge, or also killing myself from hanging, and I feel I want to kill myself SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I'm a 21year-old virgin and I know I'm never going to get laid.

That's it, that's the reason I feel I want to end with my life, just for being involuntary sexless in a sexualized world full of multiple kinds of sex I'll never have access to, it's not because of financial problems, problems in my family, illness, etc., it would actually be easier to experience any of those things than having to suffer this frustrating involuntary celibacy. I hate how sexhavers live in a paralel universe, they are so habituated to what I can only dream about, the difference between what they can get in life and what I can get in life is disgusting, this inequality of life experiences is just too disgusting and nauseating for me, the fact that sex is ""normal"" for them while sex for me doesn't exist... I just can't accept it.

This involuntary celibacy justifies my insecurities, it proves that all those negative thoughts that told me I was not good enough were right, I'm not good enough and all women agree on that and that's why no woman chooses me.

I'm not going to actually kill myself, I'll do my best to be happy and cope and all that, but sometimes I have these suicidal fantasies and I just wanted to vent because these fantasies are due to my sexlessness.
 
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I have suicidal fantasies frequently, and I feel I want to kill myself SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I'm a 21year-old virgin and I know I'm never going to get laid.

That's it, that's the reason I feel I want to end with my life, just for being involuntary sexless in a sexualized world full of multiple kinds of sex I'll never have access to, it's not because of financial problems, problems in my family, illness, etc., it would actually be easier to experience any of those things than having to suffer this frustrating involuntary celibacy. I hate how sexhavers live in a paralel universe, they are so habituated to what I can only dream about, the difference between what they can get in life and what I can get in life is disgusting, this inequality of life experiences is just too disgusting and nauseating for me, the fact that sex is ""normal"" for them while sex for us doesn't exist... I just can't accept it.

This involuntary celibacy justifies my insecurities, it proves that all those negative thoughts that told me I was not good enough were right, I'm not good enough and all women agree on that and that's why no woman chooses me.

I'm not going to actually kill myself, I'll do my best to be happy and cope and all that, but sometimes I have these suicidal fantasies and I just wanted to vent because these fantasies are due to my sexlessness.
depends how old you are, inceldom is most brutal when very young as you see your peak years slipping away
 
Very normal but please don't kys
 
I sometimes have suicidal fantasies, I fantasize about throwing myself from a high building or a bridge, or also killing myself from hanging, and I feel I want to kill myself SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I'm a 21year-old virgin and I know I'm never going to get laid.

That's it, that's the reason I feel I want to end with my life, just for being involuntary sexless in a sexualized world full of multiple kinds of sex I'll never have access to, it's not because of financial problems, problems in my family, illness, etc., it would actually be easier to experience any of those things than having to suffer this frustrating involuntary celibacy. I hate how sexhavers live in a paralel universe, they are so habituated to what I can only dream about, the difference between what they can get in life and what I can get in life is disgusting, this inequality of life experiences is just too disgusting and nauseating for me, the fact that sex is ""normal"" for them while sex for us doesn't exist... I just can't accept it.

This involuntary celibacy justifies my insecurities, it proves that all those negative thoughts that told me I was not good enough were right, I'm not good enough and all women agree on that and that's why no woman chooses me.

I'm not going to actually kill myself, I'll do my best to be happy and cope and all that, but sometimes I have these suicidal fantasies and I just wanted to vent because these fantasies are due to my sexlessness.

I think that 99% of men will experience this somewhat frequently in their life.

Life as a man is just utter hell. They will never understand what it's like to not be desired and to be surrounded with Sex Havers left and right.
 
inceldom is most brutal when very young as you see your peak years slipping away
This sounds true, seeing the sexual life people my age can have is humiliating for me. Pure suifuel.
 
I sometimes have suicidal fantasies, I fantasize about throwing myself from a high building or a bridge, or also killing myself from hanging, and I feel I want to kill myself SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I'm a 21year-old virgin and I know I'm never going to get laid.

That's it, that's the reason I feel I want to end with my life, just for being involuntary sexless in a sexualized world full of multiple kinds of sex I'll never have access to, it's not because of financial problems, problems in my family, illness, etc., it would actually be easier to experience any of those things than having to suffer this frustrating involuntary celibacy. I hate how sexhavers live in a paralel universe, they are so habituated to what I can only dream about, the difference between what they can get in life and what I can get in life is disgusting, this inequality of life experiences is just too disgusting and nauseating for me, the fact that sex is ""normal"" for them while sex for me doesn't exist... I just can't accept it.

This involuntary celibacy justifies my insecurities, it proves that all those negative thoughts that told me I was not good enough were right, I'm not good enough and all women agree on that and that's why no woman chooses me.

I'm not going to actually kill myself, I'll do my best to be happy and cope and all that, but sometimes I have these suicidal fantasies and I just wanted to vent because these fantasies are due to my sexlessness.
I'm the same age and lost my virginity this year. It doesn't make the pain go away but hiring a escort will at least at least net you some xp points. I don't think escortmaxxing will ever compare to the real thing(actually feeling desired and loved)
 
As long as i dont have pussy, This world will burn!
 
This sounds true, seeing the sexual life people my age can have is humiliating for me. Pure suifuel.
oh i didn't see that you are 21. personally i would say being an incel is the worst when you are 14-18. in 14-18 age range i was in ER mode constantly, my rage started going down at 19/20 and now i am completely apathetic to everything (24 currently), i still have moments where i want to kill everyone but less frequent than as a teen.
 
I think that 99% of men will experience this somewhat frequently in their life. Life as a man is just utter hell.
There are many men who kill themselves, I wonder how many of them do it because of sexlessness, I'd like to know.

They will never understand what it's like to not be desired and to be surrounded with Sex Havers left and right.
I agree, they will NEVER understand it, their priviledge makes them blind to our suffering.
 
oh i didn't see that you are 21. personally i would say being an incel is the worst when you are 14-18. in 14-18 age range i was in ER mode constantly, my rage started going down at 19/20 and now i am completely apathetic to everything (24 currently), i still have moments where i want to kill everyone but less frequent than as a teen.
Well, at least I hope that I can get a better control on my rage, negativity and especially sadness.
 
I think that 99% of men will experience this somewhat frequently in their life.

Life as a man is just utter hell. They will never understand what it's like to not be desired and to be surrounded with Sex Havers left and right.
You are seen as cannon fodder when the childish human race goes to war. You are as seen as replaceable if you have autism. You are seen as an error if you don't look like a model. Most importantly you are seen as dirt for having a penis. They always say it is what it is without having the balls and guts to fight against it.
 
I'm the same age and lost my virginity this year. It doesn't make the pain go away but hiring a escort will at least at least net you some xp points. I don't think escortmaxxing will ever compare to the real thing(actually feeling desired and loved)
I'm not comfortable with the idea of sleeping with escorts yet, maybe when I'm much older, if I haven't gotten laid at 30yo, for example, I will focus on earning lots of money and spending that money on fucking 10/10 prostitutes who are experts on satisfying my animal instincts, I'd even organize fucking orgies if I could, and maybe that way I'll learn how to kiss and how kissing feels like :feelsrope::feelsrope:.
 
"Make sure not to be a faggot if you do have to kys"
I'm not planning on being a faggot about it, but maybe I'd make it public just to protest at society and show the world what sexlessness can do to us, kinda like going ER but only killing myself not others.
 
I'm not planning on being a faggot about it, but maybe I'd make it public just to protest at society and show the world what sexlessness can do to us, kinda like going ER but only killing myself not others.
"Unless it's like shooting yourself in front of the entire crowd at a graduation ceremony or something Killing yourself but not others is pretty gay ngl"

"It's like being a cuckhold. Society/big tech companies causes you pain to the point of death but instead of fighting back you admit defeat and fizzle out like a candle to be forgotten. They win, you lose.

Its not YOUR fault you can't get laid. It's societies fault. Most of us here have ugly ancestors but they all got laid. Ugly people got laid all the time prior to the 2000s but only now did they decide we can't have happiness"
 
Why hurt yourself when you can hurt others in Minecraft Bedwar servers.
 
I sometimes have suicidal fantasies, I fantasize about throwing myself from a high building or a bridge, or also killing myself from hanging, and I feel I want to kill myself SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I'm a 21year-old virgin and I know I'm never going to get laid.

That's it, that's the reason I feel I want to end with my life, just for being involuntary sexless in a sexualized world full of multiple kinds of sex I'll never have access to, it's not because of financial problems, problems in my family, illness, etc., it would actually be easier to experience any of those things than having to suffer this frustrating involuntary celibacy. I hate how sexhavers live in a paralel universe, they are so habituated to what I can only dream about, the difference between what they can get in life and what I can get in life is disgusting, this inequality of life experiences is just too disgusting and nauseating for me, the fact that sex is ""normal"" for them while sex for me doesn't exist... I just can't accept it.

This involuntary celibacy justifies my insecurities, it proves that all those negative thoughts that told me I was not good enough were right, I'm not good enough and all women agree on that and that's why no woman chooses me.

I'm not going to actually kill myself, I'll do my best to be happy and cope and all that, but sometimes I have these suicidal fantasies and I just wanted to vent because these fantasies are due to my sexlessness.
If you’re gonna end yourself, better to get rid of some whore ass sluts who only deserve to get shot in the head to ease your suffering
 
If you don't have anything else to cope with, then I'd say it's a normal behavior.
 
I sometimes have suicidal fantasies, I fantasize about throwing myself from a high building or a bridge, or also killing myself from hanging, and I feel I want to kill myself SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I'm a 21year-old virgin and I know I'm never going to get laid.

That's it, that's the reason I feel I want to end with my life, just for being involuntary sexless in a sexualized world full of multiple kinds of sex I'll never have access to, it's not because of financial problems, problems in my family, illness, etc., it would actually be easier to experience any of those things than having to suffer this frustrating involuntary celibacy. I hate how sexhavers live in a paralel universe, they are so habituated to what I can only dream about, the difference between what they can get in life and what I can get in life is disgusting, this inequality of life experiences is just too disgusting and nauseating for me, the fact that sex is ""normal"" for them while sex for me doesn't exist... I just can't accept it.

This involuntary celibacy justifies my insecurities, it proves that all those negative thoughts that told me I was not good enough were right, I'm not good enough and all women agree on that and that's why no woman chooses me.

I'm not going to actually kill myself, I'll do my best to be happy and cope and all that, but sometimes I have these suicidal fantasies and I just wanted to vent because these fantasies are due to my sexlessness.
I have lots of fantasies of me having a hot gf, slaying and being lusted for but its all cope. When the game is off, when you've jacked off, when the movie is finished, when the music has reached its last note, all thats left is utter dread and emptiness, that what you experienced was a mere fantasy then it hits you. Your life is meaningless and you shift into the void til you can preoccupy yourself with another vapid cope.
 
I sometimes have suicidal fantasies, I fantasize about throwing myself from a high building or a bridge, or also killing myself from hanging, and I feel I want to kill myself SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I'm a 21year-old virgin and I know I'm never going to get laid.

That's it, that's the reason I feel I want to end with my life, just for being involuntary sexless in a sexualized world full of multiple kinds of sex I'll never have access to, it's not because of financial problems, problems in my family, illness, etc., it would actually be easier to experience any of those things than having to suffer this frustrating involuntary celibacy. I hate how sexhavers live in a paralel universe, they are so habituated to what I can only dream about, the difference between what they can get in life and what I can get in life is disgusting, this inequality of life experiences is just too disgusting and nauseating for me, the fact that sex is ""normal"" for them while sex for me doesn't exist... I just can't accept it.

This involuntary celibacy justifies my insecurities, it proves that all those negative thoughts that told me I was not good enough were right, I'm not good enough and all women agree on that and that's why no woman chooses me.

I'm not going to actually kill myself, I'll do my best to be happy and cope and all that, but sometimes I have these suicidal fantasies and I just wanted to vent because these fantasies are due to my sexlessness.
I get similar fantasies too. I think it's very normal.
 
Don't kill yourself over a lack of pussy
 
Why not push someone else off a bridge or beat up someone at a train station don't x yourself off
 
I have lots of fantasies of me having a hot gf, slaying and being lusted for but its all cope. When the game is off, when you've jacked off, when the movie is finished, when the music has reached its last note, all thats left is utter dread and emptiness, that what you experienced was a mere fantasy then it hits you. Your life is meaningless and you shift into the void til you can preoccupy yourself with another vapid cope.
Poetic :cryfeels:.

Yeah I fantasize about being lusted over too or sometimes even raped by women, I just want a non-zero amount of people to desire me and want to rip my clothes off, but that's impossible.
 
Poetic :cryfeels:.

Yeah I fantasize about being lusted over too or sometimes even raped by women, I just want a non-zero amount of people to desire me and want to rip my clothes off, but that's impossible.
Sadly you have to be gigachad to get that type of treatment
 
Yes because inability to have sex aka procreate tells you biologically that you are a dead end and should die.
 
Women have it so ridiculously easy when it comes to sex, it's sooooo fucking unacceptable :feelsUgh:.
All we can do is jack off and pay for ugly overpriced escorts if its legal where we live, life is unfair
 
I wanna set myself on fire and burn like a phenix and hopefully be reborn with a normal life and be able to enjoy existence
:feelsrope:
 
I wanna set myself on fire and burn like a phenix and hopefully be reborn with a normal life and be able to enjoy existence
:feelsrope:
I wish I died and then I was born an attractive muscular NT Chad so I could achieve sexual abundance and enjoy life, and I wish those whores who are all the time fucking Chads and ignoring us had to be born as men like us so they were FORCED to be sexless forever and finally have empathy for our situation.

I know it's impossible, but it would satisfy me as fuck.
 
It isn't just the lack of sex incels suffer from but the total lack of female interaction in our lives. Missing out on such a fundamental part of life that literally every single normie gets to participate in will drive anyone to despair.
 
It isn't just the lack of sex incels suffer from but the total lack of female interaction in our lives. Missing out on such a fundamental part of life that literally every single normie gets to participate in will drive anyone to despair.
And it makes you feel incredibly bad about yourself, it makes you feel like you have to be an undesirable insect to have to experience this, that's what I have to suffer :feelscry:.
 
Normal honestly especially when you see younger fucks actually getting pussy easily
 
I think that 99% of men will experience this somewhat frequently in their life.

Life as a man is just utter hell. They will never understand what it's like to not be desired and to be surrounded with Sex Havers left and right.
 
yes because there isn't really an escape from this later. you can learn to live with it but at no point is there a sudden increase in value and respect for older men.
 
Sudical fantasies are for pussies.

I only have homicidal fantasies:feelsLSD:
 
Yes, suicidal, homicidal, all kinds of things happen when man is denied his birthright.
 

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