Exactly. I dont enjoy chatting either. Ure not looking for friendship. Be straightforward.
- Status
Exactly. I dont enjoy chatting either. Ure not looking for friendship. Be straightforward.
I said this earlier in the thread, but you are doing the same shit every time. Trying 1000 times with the same approach doesn't prove anything other than your approaches fucking suck. Instead of just dryly asking for a number, how about you try suggesting an activity and invite her along?
U
Yeah but if she had said she had a bf (and you knew she was lying) I have no doubt you would have judged her for being dismissive of you. That means there is nothing she could’ve said to you that would make you not hate her apart from agreeing on a date with you. This is why IT mock incels and it actually gives them cause to shift focus away from the Blackpill (which is irrefutable) and instead allows them to make it look like incels only hate women because they refuse their advances, despite the real picture being much more complicated than this. If you think she’s a cunt whether she rejects you kindly or not then you only help IT in portraying us as unreasonable brats.
M
There's nothing wrong with asking for a number. Girls often do give out their number - even if they dont like the guy - as she can always put one wrong digit in the number or simply say she's busy when he calls.
I'm afraid this girl just didnt like you enough to warrant keeping in touch.
A girl finding you polite enough to convo with you, entertaining her, and then refusing to even give a number, is insulting.
It gives her a reason to stay in contact with you, which makes it more reasonable to ask for a number. It also shows if she is really interested or not, and cuts down on all the time wasted trying to run phone game.
U
Approaches 7/13/2018
Girl 1: WONDER WOMAN
I saw a girl with a T-shirt saying Wonder Woman. She was waiting for the metro.
I went to her, touched my chest and said: "Is it true?"
My goal was to suggest - is she really "wonder woman"
she said: What?
I said: Your T-shirt. Does it say the truth?
she laughed slightly and said: "It's only a T-shirt."
So, what are you up to? Hitting the gym?
(she was dressed like some sports player and had a gym bag)
No. I will travel.
Nice. What's your name, by the way?
My name is Janisha. Nice to meet you.
My name is X. I just finished work and will go buy some clothes.
Cool.
Do you have a boyfriend?
What? You are asking me that so quickly?
I guess the answer is no then.
I could have said yes?
But you didn't?
(when a foid answer this way to the bf question the answer is no. if she had a bf, she will say it right away. in this case she simply avoids lying)
How old are you?
23.
I am 29...if you care.
Look, I have to get off at the next stop. If you want we can continue this conversation on Viber? Do you have it?
No, I dont ( she smiled and maybe blushed a little)
Oh. I see. I guess you don't have anything else (i was alluding to FB...etc)
I don't.
Good for you. They are all distractions. Then I got on the train and didn't even look at her. She got on the train too.
This approach was very strong body wise. My posture was insanely good. My voice was surprisingly low. It was fucking solid.
--------------------
Girl 2: HOT AF.
She was sitting on some bench next to a stairway or some shit in front of a university.
I went to her and said.
Hello. You have the face of someone I would kiss.
She said: I am waiting for someone?
Who?
My boyfriend.
Tell him I said hi.
Looking back, I should have said - let's wait for him together and in the meantime tell me more about yourself, but it came later to my mind.
Girl 3: I only want to talk about work.
I approached some foid selling loans in the mall.
I said hi. You look sympathetic.
But she was very quick to reject me and said - "I only want to talk about work."
I had 4 more similar rejections and will not talk about them because it's pointless.
So, total of 7 rejections ( at least)
OFF TOPIC
I saw a foid that hurt me on BADOO and destroyed her.
Since I spend a fair amount at crucial metro stations I see familiar faces from time to time. Yesterday and today too. I saw a foid that I talk to on badoo and later she ghosted me like I am a POS.
She was like 6'2" and wearing heels - so a lot taller than me. I recognized her because she looked exactly like her photos.
She sat on a bench - waiting for the metro.
I was hesitant what to do - approach her or insult her or nothing. I made 10 steps in the other direction. then 1 minute later I went back and said this to her:
Hi. Your name is XXX, right?
Yes....(she was creeped the fuck out)
Do you remember me?
No. Where do you know me from?
Well, that's your problem to figure out. You look different in real life. ( she didn't. she looked just like the photos - her legs were legit insane - i got a hard on) But apparently you don't remember me...
Do we know each other from badoo?
(she got it right, but not because she remembered me. because that was the only logical explanation)
I didn't say anything. Then said.
"LOOK. I AM HAPPY THAT WE NEVER MET. BECAUSE YOU DON'T ATTRACT ME AT ALL."
AND MADE A GESTURE WITH MY ARMS SUGGESTING THE END OF SOMETHING - I CROSSED ME ARMS AND THEN OPENED THEM.
tHEN i LEFT.
824 to go
Girl 1: WONDER WOMAN
I saw a girl with a T-shirt saying Wonder Woman. She was waiting for the metro.
I went to her, touched my chest and said: "Is it true?"
My goal was to suggest - is she really "wonder woman"
she said: What?
I said: Your T-shirt. Does it say the truth?
she laughed slightly and said: "It's only a T-shirt."
So, what are you up to? Hitting the gym?
(she was dressed like some sports player and had a gym bag)
No. I will travel.
Nice. What's your name, by the way?
My name is Janisha. Nice to meet you.
My name is X. I just finished work and will go buy some clothes.
Cool.
Do you have a boyfriend?
What? You are asking me that so quickly?
I guess the answer is no then.
I could have said yes?
But you didn't?
(when a foid answer this way to the bf question the answer is no. if she had a bf, she will say it right away. in this case she simply avoids lying)
How old are you?
23.
I am 29...if you care.
Look, I have to get off at the next stop. If you want we can continue this conversation on Viber? Do you have it?
No, I dont ( she smiled and maybe blushed a little)
Oh. I see. I guess you don't have anything else (i was alluding to FB...etc)
I don't.
Good for you. They are all distractions. Then I got on the train and didn't even look at her. She got on the train too.
This approach was very strong body wise. My posture was insanely good. My voice was surprisingly low. It was fucking solid.
--------------------
Girl 2: HOT AF.
She was sitting on some bench next to a stairway or some shit in front of a university.
I went to her and said.
Hello. You have the face of someone I would kiss.
She said: I am waiting for someone?
Who?
My boyfriend.
Tell him I said hi.
Looking back, I should have said - let's wait for him together and in the meantime tell me more about yourself, but it came later to my mind.
Girl 3: I only want to talk about work.
I approached some foid selling loans in the mall.
I said hi. You look sympathetic.
But she was very quick to reject me and said - "I only want to talk about work."
I had 4 more similar rejections and will not talk about them because it's pointless.
So, total of 7 rejections ( at least)
OFF TOPIC
I saw a foid that hurt me on BADOO and destroyed her.
Since I spend a fair amount at crucial metro stations I see familiar faces from time to time. Yesterday and today too. I saw a foid that I talk to on badoo and later she ghosted me like I am a POS.
She was like 6'2" and wearing heels - so a lot taller than me. I recognized her because she looked exactly like her photos.
She sat on a bench - waiting for the metro.
I was hesitant what to do - approach her or insult her or nothing. I made 10 steps in the other direction. then 1 minute later I went back and said this to her:
Hi. Your name is XXX, right?
Yes....(she was creeped the fuck out)
Do you remember me?
No. Where do you know me from?
Well, that's your problem to figure out. You look different in real life. ( she didn't. she looked just like the photos - her legs were legit insane - i got a hard on) But apparently you don't remember me...
Do we know each other from badoo?
(she got it right, but not because she remembered me. because that was the only logical explanation)
I didn't say anything. Then said.
"LOOK. I AM HAPPY THAT WE NEVER MET. BECAUSE YOU DON'T ATTRACT ME AT ALL."
AND MADE A GESTURE WITH MY ARMS SUGGESTING THE END OF SOMETHING - I CROSSED ME ARMS AND THEN OPENED THEM.
tHEN i LEFT.
824 to go
You were so damn close!! I honestly think she liked you and that was her version of flirting! She wanted you to keep trying to show that you were really interested in pursuing her. Yeah, it's a game and games are stupid. But if you want the prize (i.e. that sweet 25 yo pussy), then you play the game.
U
i can't read minds
and sensed that she was somewhat cold despite the conversation
maybe you are right, maybe not
i can't know
i am not perfect but fuck me dead - foids aren't either
Pobody's Nerfect
If you ever see her again, just say "Hey, this is me trying again - having fun yet?"
Maybe it'll work and maybe it won't, but at least you tried. That's more than 95% of this forum can say.
U
Pobody's Nerfect
If you ever see her again, just say "Hey, this is me trying again - having fun yet?"
Maybe it'll work and maybe it won't, but at least you tried. That's more than 95% of this forum can say.
i could have responded better but didn't
besides there was not time
her stop was really close - like 30 second close
Grab one by the throat and tell her to back the fuck off
I've been following this thread for a while, and something I've wondered about is when you say "You seem sympathetic", are your real-life exchanges in English, or are you translating for us and sympathetic is the best approximation (thinking about sympatheik/sympathisch in Dutch/German)? It doesn't sound right in English and it's probably hindering you if it is, I know I've got absolutely no room to criticise, I just want to see you maximising your chances.
Last edited:
If this isn't low inhib I don't know what is.
Should’ve stopped from the first rejection.
Holy fuck. I literally thought you had a chance reading that story. You got so much further than I have and will ever get.
U
Holy fuck. I literally thought you had a chance reading that story. You got so much further than I have and will ever get.
I thought so too but she was cold also so it wasn't a surprise.
Fuck it. At this point, it is pretty clear that l will reach at least 400 rejections.
So did you give up?
Numbers game only works if you're 5 to 7 / 10.
If you're sub5, it never started for you.
If you're sub5, it never started for you.
It sounds far too autistic to be effective.
It only sounds autistic in English. In other languages it sounds really good.
What is OP’s first language?
S
M
There's a Russian word - sympateechnaya
means - attractive, pretty
but the OP sounds like an english native speaker
he probably means someone who is sensitive to other people's feelings.
and if she is really sympathetic - when she dumps a rejection on him she will do it such a way as not to hurt his feelings.
German probably, I'm not sure though.
It could also be translated to "You look approachable". That's a good way to start a conversation because the girl subconsciously does not want to prove that he is wrong with this assumption so she tries to reject in a rather nice way.
My guess is he is German and didn´t translate correctly.
he didn´t literally say you look "sympathetic". He´s German and meant to say "sympatisch" which correctly translated means friendly or approachable.
He basically said something along the lines of "You seem friendly and I want to talk to you" which is not creepy at all.
Even in spanish "Simpatico" gets incorrectly translated as sympathetic all the time, but it means the same "nice and friendly"
Edit: Simpatico means the same in Italian and Portuguese as well and are also mistranslated commonly.
Edit2: Simpatic in Romanian is the same case as all the words written above.
U
Approaches 7/16/2018
I have burnout severely and couldn't force myself to approach on Sunday.
Today I did just one approach and she pretended that she can't hear me and moved away
So 1 rejection.
I will continue as before tomorrow.
I have burnout severely and couldn't force myself to approach on Sunday.
Today I did just one approach and she pretended that she can't hear me and moved away
So 1 rejection.
I will continue as before tomorrow.
We are rooting for you here brother, make them suffer!
she let your expectations rise. what a bitch
I just noticed this thread was posted on 23rd may, lol.
A
I'd actually guess Belgian, I've heard people on Flemish TV use sympathiek with the meaning 'kind', 'nice'. German is also a strong possibility. The one thing I'm sure about is that he is not in Eastern Europe, the way he writes seems to indicate that he is some kind of Germanic, most likely outside of Scandinavia.
Maybe you should take a few days off entirely. Healing your NT and reflecting on your game without extreme suifuel may improve your chances in the long run (because lets face it, the way things are looking you are in for the long haul).
Are you only counting the girls that talk to you? Or the ones that ignore you too? Good luck man.
U
Approaches 7/17/2018
This time l said to myself that l will only approach foids that are not moving and did it. The goal was to force a response rather than giving them a chance to run easily.
1. No response - said she was tired
2. Foid from Poland - boyfriend rejection - signs of lying; hot body by my standard
3. Runaway - cute bitch but bitch
Some old dude witnessed it and had some sort of inner reflection in him; could not say if it was positive or negative;
4. Runaway - very crual tbh; ran without saying anything; this rarely happens even to me; fucking foids man....
5. Very cute; reacted very well facially but was waiting for her boyfriend....this is what she told me right off the bat
He actually came 5 minute later.
Fucking foids man.
Notes: Foids are extremely looks focused.. always looking at their pocket mirrors or using their phones for that.
6. Barely looked at me. Kept texting. Had a wedding ring.
Fucking foids man...
I started to write my approach journey on my phone ( i write after every approach) so that l save time and remember better. This is why the structure is different and shorter.
817 to go
This time l said to myself that l will only approach foids that are not moving and did it. The goal was to force a response rather than giving them a chance to run easily.
1. No response - said she was tired
2. Foid from Poland - boyfriend rejection - signs of lying; hot body by my standard
3. Runaway - cute bitch but bitch
Some old dude witnessed it and had some sort of inner reflection in him; could not say if it was positive or negative;
4. Runaway - very crual tbh; ran without saying anything; this rarely happens even to me; fucking foids man....
5. Very cute; reacted very well facially but was waiting for her boyfriend....this is what she told me right off the bat
He actually came 5 minute later.
Fucking foids man.
Notes: Foids are extremely looks focused.. always looking at their pocket mirrors or using their phones for that.
6. Barely looked at me. Kept texting. Had a wedding ring.
Fucking foids man...
I started to write my approach journey on my phone ( i write after every approach) so that l save time and remember better. This is why the structure is different and shorter.
817 to go
Man, firstly, huge respect to you for doing all these approaches. The most I've ever done in a single day was 10 (all quick rejections), and it was tough going. It takes balls to do what you're doing and going back day after day, rejection after rejection.
Secondly, from my own experience, I've found it helps to vary the opener a bit. A while ago I would open with something along the lines of "can I tell you something quickly?" and they would just walk off. It wasn't effective, so I tried changing it up - now, my 'default' opener is to start as if I'm asking for directions then tell them that I actually just find them attractive. If you start by saying "Excuse me, do you know how to get to..." the vast majority of them will actually stop because they think you need directions and most people will stop to try to help you. I will say this and then literally just cut off mid sentence and say "no, to be honest I actually just thought you looked nice" - not trying to transition smoothly or anything. I've got some good reactions - some of them find it funny, and while some of them still walk off, I've found it works at least a bit better than what I was saying before.
Good luck, and I hope you get the results you want.
Secondly, from my own experience, I've found it helps to vary the opener a bit. A while ago I would open with something along the lines of "can I tell you something quickly?" and they would just walk off. It wasn't effective, so I tried changing it up - now, my 'default' opener is to start as if I'm asking for directions then tell them that I actually just find them attractive. If you start by saying "Excuse me, do you know how to get to..." the vast majority of them will actually stop because they think you need directions and most people will stop to try to help you. I will say this and then literally just cut off mid sentence and say "no, to be honest I actually just thought you looked nice" - not trying to transition smoothly or anything. I've got some good reactions - some of them find it funny, and while some of them still walk off, I've found it works at least a bit better than what I was saying before.
Good luck, and I hope you get the results you want.
U
If you're not suiciding after this, I know I am.
How tall are you? What rating would you give your face? And what country is this? Nearly 200 rejection and I hear you aren't even bad..
J
I suspect you're the ultimate larper. There's no way someone would put themselves through this much torture?
U
what i gain from larping?
am i selling my "pick up book"?
am I getting "reps"?
this forum does not have rep points
just try it for yourself and you will know that it's real
but u are right about one thing - It's fucking torture and there's definitely something wrong with me
Foids with boyfriends are almost always very nice and talkative while alone foids are very rude. I wonder why is that.
U
because foinds with bfs miss getting hit on whereas singles are waiting for the perfect one and you are not that
the first group is rich and takes pleasure in rejectting a shitty job offer
the second group is poor but still rejects the bad offer while hoping that something better will come along
I really admire your confidence, good luck for the next 817 girls!
U
Approaches 7/17/2018
1. I tried to talk to her. She looked at me and moved away.
Expected tbh but l needed this approach to start the session.
Note: thinking of the people around and the foids as just flesh helps
Pshycomaxxing
2. She was shocked as fuck and said: I don't talk to strangers.
Fucking foids man....
3. Reacted very well facially but said: we don't know each other.
I said: just tell me your name then.
She said: l would rather not.
I said: keep it a secret then and left.
4.Hot but with fake up
I maintained decent game and will post the convocation.
Hi. You look like the cute kind.
What?
You heard me.
Do we know each other?
We will know each other after you tell me your name.
If l tell you my name....
I like my construct better...
She got somewhat
amused but kept texting.
Happy texting l said and left.
5. She was thrilled ever so slightly but showed me her engagement ring.
It was somewhat my mistake. I should have seen it from far away.
6. Didn't want to talk. Made some hand sign.
Fucking foids man. This week is worse than before
......
7. Kept texting
Wtf man.....
This shit is brutal.
Surprise: since l was approaching at the same metro station at the same time, l saw the foid that refused to give me her number a week ago. Lmfao
She gave me a nasty look and passed by me like l am nothing and went to the other end of the station and started reading a book. I thought about reapproching her but didn't because her body language was way too nasty for the womanlet she is.
She showed some aggression and disgust.
Fuck it man.
On the good side, it is taking me a lot less time to do my approaches.
I get back home an hour earlier.
This is great. I need to reduce the time even further.
The goal is to do 10 legit approaches in as little time as possible.
At this point, my heart is getting colder. I don't think l will ever experience love or whatever form of pure affection ever.
To me foids are becoming just flesh that my body is wired to find attractive.
I am not attracted to their souls anymore if l ever was to begin with.
810 to go
This week uncle uninstall will reach 200 rejections.
Honestly, l have probably reached them already since l don't count every approach.
1. I tried to talk to her. She looked at me and moved away.
Expected tbh but l needed this approach to start the session.
Note: thinking of the people around and the foids as just flesh helps
Pshycomaxxing
2. She was shocked as fuck and said: I don't talk to strangers.
Fucking foids man....
3. Reacted very well facially but said: we don't know each other.
I said: just tell me your name then.
She said: l would rather not.
I said: keep it a secret then and left.
4.Hot but with fake up
I maintained decent game and will post the convocation.
Hi. You look like the cute kind.
What?
You heard me.
Do we know each other?
We will know each other after you tell me your name.
If l tell you my name....
I like my construct better...
She got somewhat
amused but kept texting.
Happy texting l said and left.
5. She was thrilled ever so slightly but showed me her engagement ring.
It was somewhat my mistake. I should have seen it from far away.
6. Didn't want to talk. Made some hand sign.
Fucking foids man. This week is worse than before
......
7. Kept texting
Wtf man.....
This shit is brutal.
Surprise: since l was approaching at the same metro station at the same time, l saw the foid that refused to give me her number a week ago. Lmfao
She gave me a nasty look and passed by me like l am nothing and went to the other end of the station and started reading a book. I thought about reapproching her but didn't because her body language was way too nasty for the womanlet she is.
She showed some aggression and disgust.
Fuck it man.
On the good side, it is taking me a lot less time to do my approaches.
I get back home an hour earlier.
This is great. I need to reduce the time even further.
The goal is to do 10 legit approaches in as little time as possible.
At this point, my heart is getting colder. I don't think l will ever experience love or whatever form of pure affection ever.
To me foids are becoming just flesh that my body is wired to find attractive.
I am not attracted to their souls anymore if l ever was to begin with.
810 to go
This week uncle uninstall will reach 200 rejections.
Honestly, l have probably reached them already since l don't count every approach.
Last edited:
You're a fucking legend. Even if you get rejected 1000 times, you've got balls of steel for making 1000 approaches. Hopefully some foid will actually say yes and go on a date with you or some shit. You deserve it man, you deserve so much more than 1000 rejections. I really don't like talking to the foids I work with, and they've gotten used to seeing me. I can't even fathom cold approaching some random foid on the street let alone doing it multiple times in a single day, that's really impressive. I'm rooting for you.
- Status
Similar threads
Serious
Approach woman is dangerous
- Qwertyuiop99
- Inceldom Discussion
Qwertyuiop99
Users who are viewing this thread
