Approaches 7/5/2018
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I was tired as hell - lost my phone today, did some bench pressing, rode my bike for 1 hour and went to work.
This actually helps with approaching - when you are tired, you are less jumpy and more chill.
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Girl 1: (street)
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Stopped her on the street.
said Hi. How are you?
She removed her headphones and I said. You look sympathetic.
She LAUGHED AT ME with an instant laugh - like PFfffffff
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Girl 2: (metro)
I went to her and said:
You look sympathetic. SHE BLUSHED BOYOS.
I REPEAT SHE BLUSHED.
Since she looked very young I asked her how old she is.
She said 19 and then got on the train.
He body language and intonation said that she wanted to end the communication.
So, despite her positive reaction - blushing SHE REJECTED ME,
She had a plan face and a shitty frame (damn how I hate bitches with shitty frames)
But i have to give it to her.
I needed 100+ approaches to make some one blush.
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Girl 3: (metro)
I went to her and said:
You look sympathetic while looking in the eyes like a killer of some sort.
She received it very well actually. Here's the convo by memory:
You look sympathetic.
Thanks.
What are you up to this evening?
I am going to the airpor to [wait for it] WELCOME MY BOYFRIEND.
I guess he doesn't allow you to talk to strangers?
Haha No, I learned that as a kid.
Cool.
This is a weird place to talk to strangers.
What isn't?
A night club.
Well, I don't go to night clubs so this is your only chance (lmfao - this was alpha AF i think)
I finished by saying: say hi to your boyfriend.
She said - have a nice evening-
I would say that this was a great convo tbh.
But still nothing.
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Girl 4 (metro)
She was sitting on a bench.
I sat to her and said:
You look sympathetic.
Thanks
What are you up to this evening?
She didn't say anything so I said: "It's a secret I guess?"
Maybe.
What's your name?
My name is it doesn't matter.
Nice name. I have the same, I said and went away
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Gril 5,6,7 (metro) - the approach was basically the same a
I said hi to them and they said - do we know each other.
I said: No. Then they ended the convo by either looking at their phones or moving away
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7 rejections
But I made one girl blush so that's something I guess
I also learned the following:
APPROACHING AT THE METRO IS VERY GOOD. i got my best interactions there.
Opening with "you look sympathetic" works well - it's soft and not very intimidating - they can take it well
It works better for me than - you look cute.
Also, APPROACHING WHEN YOU ARE TIRED AF IS VERY GOOD.
Your voice is calmer and you have lower inhibition.
882 to go
I have my hopes up.
I think I can get a number out of the next 30 approaches.