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I have extremly bad social skills

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What about you?
 
I once approached a woman and stuttered so badly that she started at me like I was some sad retarded child. Next time I saw her she avoided me by walking away before I got close, so yeah they’re pretty bad. If I looked like Brad Pitt that wouldn’t happen though
 
I've been meaning to cold approach lately but I don't think it's ever happening. If I have 1 negative thing happen to me, no matter how minor, like the wind blowing my hair the opposite way after I run my fingers through it, or if I have a newly appeared pimple, I lose all confidence. It's been making me so sad recently, whenever I miss an opportunity a deep feeling of inevitable doom sets in for the rest of the day.
 
It's not our fault. How can you improve your social skills if nobody wants to do anything with you.
 
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#MeToo, I'm socially retarded as a result of social ostracization in my formative years :(
 
I once approached a woman and stuttered so badly that she started at me like I was some sad retarded child. Next time I saw her she avoided me by walking away before I got close, so yeah they’re pretty bad. If I looked like Brad Pitt that wouldn’t happen though
 
How old are u? @Sub5failure ??
 
My social skills are beyond just bad. I bet even you would laugh if you saw me irl
 
I feel nervous and intimidated by others. I have trouble looking at people and especially with maintaining eye contact. I dislike small talk and will only say something if a topic genuinely interests me.
 
I feel nervous and intimidated by others. I have trouble looking at people and especially with maintaining eye contact. I dislike small talk and will only say something if a topic genuinely interests me.
Age?
 
When I was younger I used to use alcohol to try to meet girls. Now I don't drink and so finding a partner
is just so much harder. Women always go for bad guys and are not interested in quiet nice guys.
 
same, i cant talk to other people except for my parents
 
I have write down a script anytime I have to make a phone call.
 
I'm good on the phone, but only because I did a lot of callcenter jobs when I was in college.

IRL im a wreck
 
My social skills have always been pretty bad. Strangely, I actually have always had a decent amount of social exposure through school, work and whatnot, but have never really been all that competent. Doesn't help I have always just disliked social situations as well.
 
I never had the chance to be with people because no one wanted to be my friend. As a result, I withdrew into myself. Now that I'm volunteering, I'm very awkward with people and I don't know how to relate to them.
 
I've been meaning to cold approach lately but I don't think it's ever happening. If I have 1 negative thing happen to me, no matter how minor, like the wind blowing my hair the opposite way after I run my fingers through it, or if I have a newly appeared pimple, I lose all confidence. It's been making me so sad recently, whenever I miss an opportunity a deep feeling of inevitable doom sets in for the rest of the day.
For me also minor thing can destroy my confidence completely and I withdraw.
 
I'm very nervous around people, I have strong social anxiety. I need to really know someone and them to be easy to talk to, for me to have normal conversation.
 
Yeah me too. I used to have an exaggerated level of social anxiety and paranoia. Now I just don't give a fuck but I guess it would be always in you, at least a little bit.
 
My social skills are terrible af,have zero friends and only socialising at work
 
I can talk to people but I very much prefer not to. I'm ugly so I know nobody will value my presence in any way so there's actually no point.
 
small talk might as well be rocket physics to me

if i try to make small talk i inevitably end up oversharing about my childhood or somethinig cringe
 

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